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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do any other single guys suffer these sad fools or just me ? It's happened now at least 4 times to me a pretty girl chat everyday all day build a relationship and intensity to meet.... then turns out they don't turn up or ignore messages then close the accounts!! It freaks me that I turn up we're I say and some Pervy sick guy is watching me getting off on the fact I'm oblivious it's weird and fucked up has happened 1 time too many now I beleieve fab should make people photo verified before they can send there first message! Sorry but it ruins this lifestyle for genuine people! Thoughts/comments anybody ? I'm strictly thinking meet couples only now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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why would you have not spoken to them on the phone? surely that would be the quickest,simplest way to verify before actually going to meet them?...i don't think that ruins things for anyone but you if you haven't done a very basic check yourself? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a guy near me that pretends to be part of a couple.he states in his profile that if you meet him and get a bj off him then you can meet him and his partner at a later date.have reported him a few times but he keeps coming back |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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Four times and you still don't do your homework yet?! Dude, every guy I've met has asked for a video call or a phone call before we've actually turned up in real life at the same place. I don't take it personally, it makes sense. Trust but verify, my old man, trust but verify! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the replies guys of course I ask for numbers to speak on the phone video chat etc the last girl gave me numbers address etc but each time I called I got no answer plus endless excuses thing is I like to give people the benefit of the doubt I even tell them my concerns at the end of the day it's nice to be nice I'm not as ruthless as some on here but now I think it's time to be that way probs too trusting you live and learn I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thing is they can be very convincing aswell makes my mad do you think I should expose this person on my newsfeed as a fake ?? "
no because that breaks site rules...i'm sorry but i really don't think it is 'ruthless' to insist on speaking to someone on the phone...and for it to happen several times, well, im afraid after the first couple of times i really don't think you are using a single grain of common sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thing is they can be very convincing aswell makes my mad do you think I should expose this person on my newsfeed as a fake ??
no because that breaks site rules...i'm sorry but i really don't think it is 'ruthless' to insist on speaking to someone on the phone...and for it to happen several times, well, im afraid after the first couple of times i really don't think you are using a single grain of common sense"
I think its not so much lack of common sense, more of a 'myballsarefullofcumandneedemptied'- never mind the fact of who's actually at the other end if they've convinced you they are 'genuine'. Even in the cam rooms, if I'm wanking and I'm private messaged by a fem/couple with no cam..I usually tend to not engage with them too much..regardless of whether they are are verified or not. Same goes for meets..I'll never fully agree unless I know the female half has engaged me somehow. All appears to have worked for me over the years. |
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"Four times and you still don't do your homework yet?! Dude, every guy I've met has asked for a video call or a phone call before we've actually turned up in real life at the same place. I don't take it personally, it makes sense. Trust but verify, my old man, trust but verify!"
now i have a thing about phone calls or videos- hate hate hate it and I have lost one meet due to that. but you can always still exchange pictures which are very unusual etc. .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Way too many of them now .. fake profiles are pretty easy to spot timewaster idiots getting a kick out of winding people up not so ..
' I am a woman and I sm looking for a man' sort of ones are particularly dodgy and more than likely either automated profile by the site or some sadsack getting his fun
may the fleas of a thousand camels infest their nether regions ..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thing is they can be very convincing aswell makes my mad do you think I should expose this person on my newsfeed as a fake ??
no because that breaks site rules...i'm sorry but i really don't think it is 'ruthless' to insist on speaking to someone on the phone...and for it to happen several times, well, im afraid after the first couple of times i really don't think you are using a single grain of common sense
I think its not so much lack of common sense, more of a 'myballsarefullofcumandneedemptied'- never mind the fact of who's actually at the other end if they've convinced you they are 'genuine'. Even in the cam rooms, if I'm wanking and I'm private messaged by a fem/couple with no cam..I usually tend to not engage with them too much..regardless of whether they are are verified or not. Same goes for meets..I'll never fully agree unless I know the female half has engaged me somehow. All appears to have worked for me over the years."
i'm sure youre right..i think male brains, well some..do get a bit clouded with the promise of a potential shag! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thing is they can be very convincing aswell makes my mad do you think I should expose this person on my newsfeed as a fake ??
no because that breaks site rules...i'm sorry but i really don't think it is 'ruthless' to insist on speaking to someone on the phone...and for it to happen several times, well, im afraid after the first couple of times i really don't think you are using a single grain of common sense
I think its not so much lack of common sense, more of a 'myballsarefullofcumandneedemptied'- never mind the fact of who's actually at the other end if they've convinced you they are 'genuine'. Even in the cam rooms, if I'm wanking and I'm private messaged by a fem/couple with no cam..I usually tend to not engage with them too much..regardless of whether they are are verified or not. Same goes for meets..I'll never fully agree unless I know the female half has engaged me somehow. All appears to have worked for me over the years.
i'm sure youre right..i think male brains, well some..do get a bit clouded with the promise of a potential shag!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thing is they can be very convincing aswell makes my mad do you think I should expose this person on my newsfeed as a fake ??
no because that breaks site rules...i'm sorry but i really don't think it is 'ruthless' to insist on speaking to someone on the phone...and for it to happen several times, well, im afraid after the first couple of times i really don't think you are using a single grain of common sense.
I think its not so much lack of common sense, more of a 'myballsarefullofcumandneedemptied'- never mind the fact of who's actually at the other end if they've convinced you they are 'genuine'. Even in the cam rooms, if I'm wanking and I'm private messaged by a fem/couple with no cam..I usually tend to not engage with them too much..regardless of whether they are are verified or not. Same goes for meets..I'll never fully agree unless I know the female half has engaged me somehow. All appears to have worked for me over the years.
i'm sure youre right..i think male brains, well some..do get a bit clouded with the promise of a potential shag!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I use common sense as I ask to chat on phone exchange numbers etc Iv then been sent a number and address so straightaway it's genuine in mindset!! Iv been on here on/off 6 years and can spot fakes a mile off but there so convincing upto the point of a meet then it's a no show!! I just don't get the method in this why not advertise as a man/tv looking to meet guys... there's a market for it!! Why fuck with a single guy it's crazy tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thing is they can be very convincing aswell makes my mad do you think I should expose this person on my newsfeed as a fake ??
no because that breaks site rules...i'm sorry but i really don't think it is 'ruthless' to insist on speaking to someone on the phone...and for it to happen several times, well, im afraid after the first couple of times i really don't think you are using a single grain of common sense
I think its not so much lack of common sense, more of a 'myballsarefullofcumandneedemptied'- never mind the fact of who's actually at the other end if they've convinced you they are 'genuine'. Even in the cam rooms, if I'm wanking and I'm private messaged by a fem/couple with no cam..I usually tend to not engage with them too much..regardless of whether they are are verified or not. Same goes for meets..I'll never fully agree unless I know the female half has engaged me somehow. All appears to have worked for me over the years.
i'm sure youre right..i think male brains, well some..do get a bit clouded with the promise of a potential shag!"
I can count on my 11 fingers the amount of women and couples too that fall for single fems/couples...then express the sites fulla fakes. I remember one guy really turning on a woman with his 9inch cock pic...while chatting in cam room(his cam wasnt on), just outta interest I tineyed his cock pic...and it turned out to be an entirely different persons cock(from possibly the usa)...she was ready to give him private chat etc etc...
some things are too good to be true...thats when you use your head instead of cock or fanny
anyway..I got the meet in the end lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use common sense as I ask to chat on phone exchange numbers etc Iv then been sent a number and address so straightaway it's genuine in mindset!! Iv been on here on/off 6 years and can spot fakes a mile off but there so convincing upto the point of a meet then it's a no show!! I just don't get the method in this why not advertise as a man/tv looking to meet guys... there's a market for it!! Why fuck with a single guy it's crazy tbh "
online perversion...surely you know some people just have no interest in meeting but are willing to just get all they need from cyber...I VERY rarely go into any cyber, unless its via fab...no kik, no whatsapp, snapchat are needed to make me think a meet is on the cards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I use common sense as I ask to chat on phone exchange numbers etc Iv then been sent a number and address so straightaway it's genuine in mindset!! Iv been on here on/off 6 years and can spot fakes a mile off but there so convincing upto the point of a meet then it's a no show!! I just don't get the method in this why not advertise as a man/tv looking to meet guys... there's a market for it!! Why fuck with a single guy it's crazy tbh "
it happens all the time..they are not on here to meet other guys clearly, they are getting off on the wind up! but no, im afraid you aren't using common sense if you are asking for a number but not using it... just haring of to some address with no confirmation whatsoever of who you are meeting..its a daft thing to do just from the point of your own safety as much as anything! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i agree photo veri should be a must
which can be faked...a womans voice in a live phone call is a lot harder to fake..surely its just plain sense?"
or both |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm only ever concerned if a new profile gets verified very soon and hides it...then again thats their choice...but I know certain men who will give a verify...hoping they'll get one in return probably...I do my research very well. And the profiles that are verified by them usually dont last that long...for some 'weird' reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"shouldn't rely on the site for proof someone is who they are.
google about ewhoring. it's about guys pretending to be women for various reasons but still would give you hints."
There was one on here last night
About a dozen guys replied before it went unlos
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"shouldn't rely on the site for proof someone is who they are.
google about ewhoring. it's about guys pretending to be women for various reasons but still would give you hints.
There was one on here last night
About a dozen guys replied before it went unlos
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lol..I missed that one but seen the thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some 'bi woman' with very convincing pics, several not in the least revealing, was messaging me the other night,it was very very obvious from the language that it was a guy..i cant say ive had that before, fake couples yes, but not a fake woman..i would imagine 'she' would have had some men fooled for quite a while, not sure some would have spotted the glaringly obvious male terminology...but i still think ,if youre actually going to a meet, not having a quick phone chat is plain silly! |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
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"shouldn't rely on the site for proof someone is who they are.
google about ewhoring. it's about guys pretending to be women for various reasons but still would give you hints.
There was one on here last night
About a dozen guys replied before it went unlos
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i know who you mean, they was selling knickers apparently? and that is exactly what ewhoring is.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some 'bi woman' with very convincing pics, several not in the least revealing, was messaging me the other night,it was very very obvious from the language that it was a guy..i cant say ive had that before, fake couples yes, but not a fake woman..i would imagine 'she' would have had some men fooled for quite a while, not sure some would have spotted the glaringly obvious male terminology...but i still think ,if youre actually going to a meet, not having a quick phone chat is plain silly!"
That was exactly what screamed at me with this one
That there is no way on earth, a woman would speak like that or use that terminology
At least a dozen people went with it though, clearly having no idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"some 'bi woman' with very convincing pics, several not in the least revealing, was messaging me the other night,it was very very obvious from the language that it was a guy..i cant say ive had that before, fake couples yes, but not a fake woman..i would imagine 'she' would have had some men fooled for quite a while, not sure some would have spotted the glaringly obvious male terminology...but i still think ,if youre actually going to a meet, not having a quick phone chat is plain silly!"
my ex gets them on facebook...the woman with no family and either just guys or camgirls as friends...they message her and ask her stupid stuff like what is she wearing etc.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"some 'bi woman' with very convincing pics, several not in the least revealing, was messaging me the other night,it was very very obvious from the language that it was a guy..i cant say ive had that before, fake couples yes, but not a fake woman..i would imagine 'she' would have had some men fooled for quite a while, not sure some would have spotted the glaringly obvious male terminology...but i still think ,if youre actually going to a meet, not having a quick phone chat is plain silly!
That was exactly what screamed at me with this one
That there is no way on earth, a woman would speak like that or use that terminology
At least a dozen people went with it though, clearly having no idea"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"shouldn't rely on the site for proof someone is who they are.
google about ewhoring. it's about guys pretending to be women for various reasons but still would give you hints.
There was one on here last night
About a dozen guys replied before it went unlos
i know who you mean, they was selling knickers apparently? and that is exactly what ewhoring is. "
No 'she' had a picture of 'herself' and posted to say she wanted guys to cum all over her.
Or some rubbish like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do any other single guys suffer these sad fools or just me ? It's happened now at least 4 times to me a pretty girl chat everyday all day build a relationship and intensity to meet.... then turns out they don't turn up or ignore messages then close the accounts!! It freaks me that I turn up we're I say and some Pervy sick guy is watching me getting off on the fact I'm oblivious it's weird and fucked up has happened 1 time too many now I beleieve fab should make people photo verified before they can send there first message! Sorry but it ruins this lifestyle for genuine people! Thoughts/comments anybody ? I'm strictly thinking meet couples only now "
Bit how do you know it's a man or fake profile if nobody has turned up?
Maybe they didn't like you. Maybe they got freaked out as it actually got real instead of fantasy and bolted.
Or maybe they're a dick?
Either way, from the above it's impossible to say it's a mans profile. |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
•+• Silicon valley. •+• |
"shouldn't rely on the site for proof someone is who they are.
google about ewhoring. it's about guys pretending to be women for various reasons but still would give you hints.
There was one on here last night
About a dozen guys replied before it went unlos
i know who you mean, they was selling knickers apparently? and that is exactly what ewhoring is.
No 'she' had a picture of 'herself' and posted to say she wanted guys to cum all over her.
Or some rubbish like that"
oh right, i missed that one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I use common sense as I ask to chat on phone exchange numbers etc Iv then been sent a number and address so straightaway it's genuine in mindset!! Iv been on here on/off 6 years and can spot fakes a mile off but there so convincing upto the point of a meet then it's a no show!! I just don't get the method in this why not advertise as a man/tv looking to meet guys... there's a market for it!! Why fuck with a single guy it's crazy tbh
online perversion...surely you know some people just have no interest in meeting but are willing to just get all they need from cyber...I VERY rarely go into any cyber, unless its via fab...no kik, no whatsapp, snapchat are needed to make me think a meet is on the cards."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"shouldn't rely on the site for proof someone is who they are.
google about ewhoring. it's about guys pretending to be women for various reasons but still would give you hints."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm intrested to know there reasons why ? I'd love somebody to post on here and say they do it and explain the reasons behind it! I'd not give them abuse I'd appciate the reasons why to try grasp an understanding it's like being catfished!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm only ever concerned if a new profile gets verified very soon and hides it...then again thats their choice...but I know certain men who will give a verify...hoping they'll get one in return probably...I do my research very well. And the profiles that are verified by them usually dont last that long...for some 'weird' reason"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do any other single guys suffer these sad fools or just me ? It's happened now at least 4 times to me a pretty girl chat everyday all day build a relationship and intensity to meet.... then turns out they don't turn up or ignore messages then close the accounts!! It freaks me that I turn up we're I say and some Pervy sick guy is watching me getting off on the fact I'm oblivious it's weird and fucked up has happened 1 time too many now I beleieve fab should make people photo verified before they can send there first message! Sorry but it ruins this lifestyle for genuine people! Thoughts/comments anybody ? I'm strictly thinking meet couples only now
Bit how do you know it's a man or fake profile if nobody has turned up?
Maybe they didn't like you. Maybe they got freaked out as it actually got real instead of fantasy and bolted.
Or maybe they're a dick?
Either way, from the above it's impossible to say it's a mans profile. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't know this existed.
I used to be an ewhore (not the pooh bear kind) then. I used to sell my knickers.
Apparently it's illegal as men use pictures of women to obtain money. So identity theft.
Well it is according to google. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally agree I never use chat rooms cam kik only "
I said I rarely use KIK! etc....and for alot of meets I have they never cam anyway...I think the moral of your escapade is to take a little more time and not be drawn into sex chat.
you really need to learn how to respond in the quote and reply bit lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thing is it's hard enough for a single guy to get a meet we have to send probs 10 messages to get 1 reply unlike fems with a 1099 full inbox I'd love that I'm sure guys on here will back me on this statement!! Hahha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agree needs to happen fab admin s out the fakes "
i agree, but i also think people have to take some responsibility for themselves as well. unless you think admin should screen every single person with a one to one phone call, there is little else they can do on an internet site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree needs to happen fab admin s out the fakes
i agree, but i also think people have to take some responsibility for themselves as well. unless you think admin should screen every single person with a one to one phone call, there is little else they can do on an internet site."
upgrade to the diamond supporter and you get a big red button that says "INSTANT SHAG 4 FREE NOW"... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree needs to happen fab admin s out the fakes
i agree, but i also think people have to take some responsibility for themselves as well. unless you think admin should screen every single person with a one to one phone call, there is little else they can do on an internet site.
upgrade to the diamond supporter and you get a big red button that says "INSTANT SHAG 4 FREE NOW"..."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree needs to happen fab admin s out the fakes
i agree, but i also think people have to take some responsibility for themselves as well. unless you think admin should screen every single person with a one to one phone call, there is little else they can do on an internet site.
upgrade to the diamond supporter and you get a big red button that says "INSTANT SHAG 4 FREE NOW"...
*or your money back "
ah yes,, of course, id forgotten that option..i do wonder sometimes where this site is advertised... |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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"Thing is it's hard enough for a single guy to get a meet we have to send probs 10 messages to get 1 reply unlike fems with a 1099 full inbox I'd love that I'm sure guys on here will back me on this statement!! Hahha "
It's not easy getting decent meets on here, even for a woman (you think drought is bad, try drowning). But drought would make me more suspicious, not less. Just learn the lesson, and refuse to meet unless you've spoken to them over the phone. There may be girls who refuse to do that because they don't like it, but for those who agree, a five minute phone call is a piece of cake. There's no excuse not to, (unless they're married, cheating and lying to you about it, in which case they are probably more likely to bottle it when the meet comes around anyway).
This site works really, really well if you're pragmatic about things. Not so well if you're not. Still, I'm sorry you keep getting caught out like this - myst be darned frustrating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I myself had the pleasure of a fake profile. Straight from the offset their profile didn't look right. The one profile picture looked old & there was no verifications of any kind. The profile was short but very well written. They winked so I took a careful gamble & sent them a message. The reply back was short but it was nothing like how they come across in the description (email was full of text speak) & they wanted a picture. I replied saying that I always like to chat a bit more before sending a picture, to which they deleted straight away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the message system, you can take a live photo and send it. Just ask her/them that when they're ready, she/them can take a body shot holding a specific object(s) or wording on her tits in lipstick and send it within 2 minutes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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after the first brief exchanges, I ask the 'female' to go on webcam (just to prove they are real)....no excuses - I walk if they start coming up with an excuse (just about every body had access to a webcam nowadays...& if you are on a swinger website without one, you must pretty fucking clueless & not worth wasting time over!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think its the same everywhere TBH, in Coventry there's the same "newbie" "female" who pops up every single day then disappears after "he" has been reported lol |
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