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How many of you consider yourselves swingers!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just curious how many people actually consider themselves as swingers?? I consider myself as one as I enjoy the social side as well as the naughty side!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I class myself as promiscuous and use a swingers site to satisfy my social and sexual desires from time to time. I wouldn't really refer to myself as a swinger.
As an aside OP, you have a magnificent penis  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, I don't like the term Swinger, but then I'm not a fan of labels generally. Our sexual antics/exploits/adventures are simply a part of who we are, not a hobby or extra marital activity.
I guess the term is useful as a one word explanation for the fact we involve other people in our sex life, and I'm sure some people will happily identify as Swingers (all power to their whatsits), but for me, it conjures up images of men tossing their car keys in a bowl at a party in the 70s, and that somehow devalues the liberated/hedonistic lifestyle that we enjoy.
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Just curious how many people actually consider themselves as swingers?? I consider myself as one as I enjoy the social side as well as the naughty side!!"
Being sociable isnt part of swinging. It just means your nice and friendly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just curious how many people actually consider themselves as swingers?? I consider myself as one as I enjoy the social side as well as the naughty side!!
Being sociable isnt part of swinging. It just means your nice and friendly."
Oh gee shucks!! Wow that's such a nice thing for you to say thank you!! I am a swinger and I'm quite happy with that label to be honest!! We are all individuals on this site and thats why I ask the question!! Everyone has there own reason to be on this site but it's great place to express ourselves sexually without being overly criticised for it. |
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I am not sure whether a single guy/female can actually be "swingers"...even having a 3some or moresome, and playing with more than one of the group doesnt involve any "swinging" as such...surely you must have a partner to "swop" "swing" with? That or I misunderstand the whole fekin thing! lol. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"I am not sure whether a single guy/female can actually be "swingers"...even having a 3some or moresome, and playing with more than one of the group doesnt involve any "swinging" as such...surely you must have a partner to "swop" "swing" with? That or I misunderstand the whole fekin thing! lol. "
Strictly speaking your correct. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"I am not sure whether a single guy/female can actually be "swingers"...even having a 3some or moresome, and playing with more than one of the group doesnt involve any "swinging" as such...surely you must have a partner to "swop" "swing" with? That or I misunderstand the whole fekin thing! lol. "
What if you go swinging with a fuck buddy? Is that still classed as swinging? Do you actually have to be married and swapping wives? |
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"I am not sure whether a single guy/female can actually be "swingers"...even having a 3some or moresome, and playing with more than one of the group doesnt involve any "swinging" as such...surely you must have a partner to "swop" "swing" with? That or I misunderstand the whole fekin thing! lol.
To me that would count, no need to be married or oot like that!
What if you go swinging with a fuck buddy? Is that still classed as swinging? Do you actually have to be married and swapping wives? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In theory we're swingers... we swap partners with others. In practice, however, we've found that 99 swingers out of 100 tend to swing in quite a specific way that isn't really a way we like. As such, we're either fringe swingers or lost hippies who've wandered into the wrong scene |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As much as I a single female so I'm always the extra, I have done this as a couple and I loved watching he just wasn't the right one.
I love sharing, sharing is caring lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally, I don't like the term Swinger, but then I'm not a fan of labels generally. Our sexual antics/exploits/adventures are simply a part of who we are, not a hobby or extra marital activity.
I guess the term is useful as a one word explanation for the fact we involve other people in our sex life, and I'm sure some people will happily identify as Swingers (all power to their whatsits), but for me, it conjures up images of men tossing their car keys in a bowl at a party in the 70s, and that somehow devalues the liberated/hedonistic lifestyle that we enjoy.
V x"
This is exactly it for me too. Why label it, it's my sex life, that's the only label it needs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't consider us swingers, as only I play for hubby's pleasure.
I like to call it "fulfilling his fantasy" rather than swinging "
Sounds a bit shit to be honest  |
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"Just curious how many people actually consider themselves as swingers?? I consider myself as one as I enjoy the social side as well as the naughty side!!"
So does a swinger have to enjoy the social side?
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"Just curious how many people actually consider themselves as swingers?? I consider myself as one as I enjoy the social side as well as the naughty side!!
So does a swinger have to enjoy the social side?
Sally"
Nope! We see this as a bit of a bubble, we have a small number of people we engage with but this is for sex, not for chatting! On here, yep we will chat, but we meet at clubs because we want to fool around  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't consider us swingers, as only I play for hubby's pleasure.
I like to call it "fulfilling his fantasy" rather than swinging
Sounds a bit shit to be honest "
Not from where I'm fucking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't consider us swingers, as only I play for hubby's pleasure.
I like to call it "fulfilling his fantasy" rather than swinging
Sounds a bit shit to be honest
Not from where I'm fucking "
Oh good 
Sorry it sounded like you were only doing it for his pleasure - I misunderstood 
Glad to be wrong  |
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