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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?   "
You girls, it's all want want want 
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over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
Chat? You want chat? Some of these men cant even spell my name!
Methinks you want too much! |
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So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?
Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .
Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....  |
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Compared to Men, Women have a lot more options on here, You have to wade through a lot more shite before you find what you want but when you find the right one/few it doesn't mean they want you
(I'm not comparing people to shite its just a figure of speech) |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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Of course there are decent men on here, it just takes time to find them especially if you have preferences. If you weren't bothered you could most likely shag a different guy every day!!
It's good to be picky. Picky and proud here   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
Be as picky as you wish. The more picky you are, the fewer encounters you will have. If you want a certain level of encounters, there might he areas where you need to compromise and lower some expectations slightly. |
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"You're probably better off with Tinder, people join fab with sex as their main goal. At least with tinder you'll talk to a person with a face instead of a cock in your inbox"
Tbh.... I've had the opposite experience.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?
Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .
Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women ..... "
I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?
Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .
Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....
I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them "
We don't actually know that she isn't actively seeking though, maybe she is and still can't find anyone.... |
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"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?
Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .
Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....
I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them "
I just can't imagine how a guy must feel when he's put the effort in , written a nice message , attached a couple of pics , sends it and then nothing . He must question his looks , his style , and everything about himself .
Not for a second am I suggesting a lowering if standards , or a sympathy fuck , but when there's thousands of guys to choose from , and not one is up to scratch one has to question the selection criteria of the op .
Perhaps if the single guys on fab read this thread they will see what they are up against ! |
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"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?
Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .
Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....
I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them
We don't actually know that she isn't actively seeking though, maybe she is and still can't find anyone...."
Which is simply bizarre ! |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
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"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?
Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .
Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....
I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them
We don't actually know that she isn't actively seeking though, maybe she is and still can't find anyone...."
i manage to find one every six months or so, i do find them myself. |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?
Be as picky as you wish. The more picky you are, the fewer encounters you will have. If you want a certain level of encounters, there might he areas where you need to compromise and lower some expectations slightly."
I'd rather be picky even if it means fewer encounters. Quality not quantity anytime. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This sort of post annoys me. Someone posts saying "Looking for a chat" etc and so you send them a message. The suddenly it's just deleted straight away.
Happens all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a thoroughly nice guy actually, I chat to plenty of girls on here without being a sex pest. I'm sure there are plenty of others just like me. Look and you shall find. |
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"This sort of post annoys me. Someone posts saying "Looking for a chat" etc and so you send them a message. The suddenly it's just deleted straight away.
Happens all the time "
They didn't want to chat with YOU |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
There are 10 or more guys for every woman on here,the odds are seriously stacked in your favour. Try sending rainbows out instead of complaining that they are not coming to find you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?
Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .
Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....
I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them
We don't actually know that she isn't actively seeking though, maybe she is and still can't find anyone....
i manage to find one every six months or so, i do find them myself."
So if she's been here for 3 months, she has another 3 months to go.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?
Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .
Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....
I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them
I just can't imagine how a guy must feel when he's put the effort in , written a nice message , attached a couple of pics , sends it and then nothing . He must question his looks , his style , and everything about himself .
Not for a second am I suggesting a lowering if standards , or a sympathy fuck , but when there's thousands of guys to choose from , and not one is up to scratch one has to question the selection criteria of the op .
Perhaps if the single guys on fab read this thread they will see what they are up against !"
Or this is where the notion that women have it easy on here because men are the majority is slightly skewered.
I'd rather there be fewer men who tick my boxes that I have to fight for (so to speak) than have 1000's to choose from who ain't suitable.
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
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"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?
Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .
Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....
I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them
We don't actually know that she isn't actively seeking though, maybe she is and still can't find anyone....
i manage to find one every six months or so, i do find them myself.
So if she's been here for 3 months, she has another 3 months to go.... "
she might get luckier than me, i'm a weirdo so it put most people off. |
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The OP does have a huge list of conditions in her profile so it's not surprising very few guys measure up.
However there about 15 guys for every single woman on here, so she does have a large pool to choose from. Perhaps if she relaxed her requirements a little she would have more luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?
Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .
Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....
I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them
We don't actually know that she isn't actively seeking though, maybe she is and still can't find anyone....
i manage to find one every six months or so, i do find them myself.
So if she's been here for 3 months, she has another 3 months to go.... "
That's assuming the feeling is mutual when she finds what she's looking for. Us nice guys are allowed to be picky too. Not that there's anything wrong with the OP but it does work both ways |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
Depends on your standards OP. I'd say yes they are lacking in our area. Very much so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"all the women on this site are too picky in my book
Because we won't meet you?"
no i only being honest its women right to be picky but one day they look back and regret it i think. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"all the women on this site are too picky in my book
Because we won't meet you?
no i only being honest its women right to be picky but one day they look back and regret it i think. "
I won't!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there are decent men on Fab. I'm quite fussy, and it's harder for a couple than for a single lady. But we usually have a one or two regulars, and one or two more for the occasional play. That being said, we would not be able to find a single guy in an instant - it took us some time to build up the connections. The early days were quite frustrating. Give it time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?
Depends on your standards OP. I'd say yes they are lacking in our area. Very much so. "
Lacking in Manchester... 
Maybe I should move back home |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"all the women on this site are too picky in my book
Because we won't meet you?
no i only being honest its women right to be picky but one day they look back and regret it i think. "
When you say all women on this site are 'too picky', what do you mean by that? Do you mean that they only play with men they fancy, or do you feel they are rejecting men they do fancy for an obscure reason. If the former is your definition, I'm not sure why any woman would regret not playing with a man they don't fancy. If the latter is your definition, I don't think you are correct. I for one might regret not playing more, but sadly time won't allow it - it would be pointless for me to even consider being less picky because I have enough to be getting on with.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?
The holy grail"
Nah, he would be independently wealthy, and come with an off switch, so work or social life doesn't get in the way. Incredibly well groomed but not vain, perfect except the well chosen flaws so there is something to complain about...
So many requirements |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
If you was nearer I'd say 'yes you are' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No!
All the men on here are thinking with their cock.
They don't want to talk to you - and they want to fuck as many women as possible.
You are not important- you are just a vagina!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No!
All the men on here are thinking with their cock.
They don't want to talk to you - and they want to fuck as many women as possible.
You are not important- you are just a vagina!
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I sense you are a tad cynical today |
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"No!
All the men on here are thinking with their cock.
They don't want to talk to you - and they want to fuck as many women as possible.
You are not important- you are just a vagina!
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That's a bit harsh and untrue actually. Sometimes I'm a cunt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"all the women on this site are too picky in my book
Because we won't meet you?
no i only being honest its women right to be picky but one day they look back and regret it i think. "
Why would anyone regret being picky? I certainly wouldnt meet people I am not attracted to. Why would I regret meeting someone who does nothing for me? |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"You're probably better off with Tinder, people join fab with sex as their main goal. At least with tinder you'll talk to a person with a face instead of a cock in your inbox
Tbh.... I've had the opposite experience.
So have I total waste of time
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"all the women on this site are too picky in my book
Because we won't meet you?
no i only being honest its women right to be picky but one day they look back and regret it i think. "
surely its everyone's right to be as picky as they want! what are they going to regret?...not having crap sex with someone they didnt really want to have sex with?.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Eurgh. Anyone who says they are too picky really mean "I think I'm far superior to everyone. No one is good enough for me"
You either like the look of someone or you don't. If there really is no one that interests you then the site isn't for you. You need to find other outlets. But It really isn't being too picky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"all the women on this site are too picky in my book
Because we won't meet you?
no i only being honest its women right to be picky but one day they look back and regret it i think. "
Why do you think they'll look back and regret it? |
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"Eurgh. Anyone who says they are too picky really mean "I think I'm far superior to everyone. No one is good enough for me"
You either like the look of someone or you don't. If there really is no one that interests you then the site isn't for you. You need to find other outlets. But It really isn't being too picky. "
Exactly this |
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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago
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Trolling? Certainty looks that way.
Neither George Clooney nor Brad Pitt would meet the OP's requirements (too old). Also "cannot accommodate, cannot travel". And yet she has 10 meeting-verifications in 3 months.
Some sort of wind-up?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not exactly. I have never said no one is good enough for me, I'm not perfect (far from that actually) but if I like the look of somebody but have no connection I won't meet them. Simple as that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Trolling? Certainty looks that way.
Neither George Clooney nor Brad Pitt would meet the OP's requirements (too old). Also "cannot accommodate, cannot travel". And yet she has 10 meeting-verifications in 3 months.
Some sort of wind-up?
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how is her question trolling? thats a ridiculous thing to say! and her meets could all be social from one night for all you know..the ones displayed are social..and she explains very clearly why she doesnt accom or travel... as do many women with children...all she has done is comment on how difficult it is to find a suitable guy on here...which is nothing new |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not exactly. I have never said no one is good enough for me, I'm not perfect (far from that actually) but if I like the look of somebody but have no connection I won't meet them. Simple as that. "
Well like I said. If it's not working you're young enough to find other outlets. |
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over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
Tbh I think you are asking for a bit much....... Blokes can't multi task like that ..... To have a decent chat while having amazing sex is really hard to do at the same time xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Trolling? Certainty looks that way.
Neither George Clooney nor Brad Pitt would meet the OP's requirements (too old). Also "cannot accommodate, cannot travel". And yet she has 10 meeting-verifications in 3 months.
Some sort of wind-up?
how is her question trolling? thats a ridiculous thing to say! and her meets could all be social from one night for all you know..the ones displayed are social..and she explains very clearly why she doesnt accom or travel... as do many women with children...all she has done is comment on how difficult it is to find a suitable guy on here...which is nothing new"
Thank you Hun x |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?
Tbh I think you are asking for a bit much....... Blokes can't multi task like that ..... To have a decent chat while having amazing sex is really hard to do at the same time xx "
Perhaps she wants 3, one for each activity.... |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
I am a decent man. I'm here to chat and have a good time. I am bloody fantastic at sex as well.
You tell me whether any of that is true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's 32006 people on line at present, which means there's 31000 single men logged in, if ya can't find one out of that lot.....then yea you're being a bit picky "
I think you will probably find 10 are single rest are on single profiles cheating xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?
Move along now. Nothing to see."
Excuse me?! |
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over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?
Chat? You want chat? Some of these men cant even spell my name!
Methinks you want too much!"
I wonder how some of them cross the road ! |
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over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?
Move along now. Nothing to see.
Excuse me?!"
Think he is on about his profile xx Female replying xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
No, you are not
I don't have sex with people I am not attracted to or who bore me to death
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
There has to be something there for me. Quality over quantity every time OP.
I get how you feel and have felt the same way, but have found the right woman eventually comes along.
I am looking for a smart woman who has got some good banter and would actually ask my opinion on something or talk about something that might peak my interest. How do you feel about that?
Some of us men have standards too. We can all have fun at a club if we want. Something a little more intimate requires the brain engaged don't you think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
there are lots.
the rough truth is that they are picky too. |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?
Chat? You want chat? Some of these men cant even spell my name!
Methinks you want too much!
I wonder how some of them cross the road ! "
Very true!. Though good grammar seems to allude both sexes. Some replies to my messages have left me thinking why did I send the message in the first place. Seems the word thanks has become thanx. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trolling? Certainty looks that way.
Neither George Clooney nor Brad Pitt would meet the OP's requirements (too old). Also "cannot accommodate, cannot travel". And yet she has 10 meeting-verifications in 3 months.
Some sort of wind-up?
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If George Clooney or Brad Pitt didnt have a sense of humour, couldnt laugh at themselves and all that came out of their mouths was " ive got a huge cock. Ugg Ugg"
They could jog right on
Seriously, some men are just clueless |
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To be honast I think some women on here can be far to picky. (not aimed at op just a large number of woman on here in general).in real life fair enough but alot of average woman on here expect to be pulling guys way out their leauge because sites like this and the internet in general has that effect.thing is guys are different and are the oppisite and most are willing to drop their standards for a last min fuck but don't be offended if you are a 18 stone average and Paul the fireman with a 6 pack and ten incher isint a decent guy and up for chatting and only avalible at 2am when pissed lol. |
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By *arygoMan
over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ????? |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????"
You've got a gorgeous new partner, and you're having loads of fantastic sex
Why worry? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
Obviously haven't met me yet |
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"To be honast I think some women on here can be far to picky. (not aimed at op just a large number of woman on here in general).in real life fair enough but alot of average woman on here expect to be pulling guys way out their leauge because sites like this and the internet in general has that effect.thing is guys are different and are the oppisite and most are willing to drop their standards for a last min fuck but don't be offended if you are a 18 stone average and Paul the fireman with a 6 pack and ten incher isint a decent guy and up for chatting and only avalible at 2am when pissed lol."
Paul the fireman hahaha
This is true though! I get hundreds of messages from men and half of them wouldn't look sideways at me in a bar because I don't have a figure like Kim Kardashian but that's not what I'm looking for, that's why I'm so picky because I want to meet a guy who genuinely attracted to BBW's! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of the responses on this treat really tickled me
I agree with all of them, it's like guys saying that the ladies are picky, ladies need more mental stimulation lots more, yeah yeah we all know it's a sex site but you wouldn't walk up to a lady in a pub and say " hi wanna fuck? " nooooo you'd take your time to engage conversation laugh be witty find that connection and then if your lucky you'll get to kiss her lady bits!
It's exactly the same here, stimulate the mind and the rest will surely follow! 
I run our profile (fem) and weather it be a couple or single I'm speaking to, the same rule applies!
Think before you type if you think they're out of your league it'll come across that way, relax chill out be funny and articulate and don't get pissed if you don't cut the mustard xx |
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"To be honast I think some women on here can be far to picky. (not aimed at op just a large number of woman on here in general).in real life fair enough but alot of average woman on here expect to be pulling guys way out their leauge because sites like this and the internet in general has that effect.thing is guys are different and are the oppisite and most are willing to drop their standards for a last min fuck but don't be offended if you are a 18 stone average and Paul the fireman with a 6 pack and ten incher isint a decent guy and up for chatting and only avalible at 2am when pissed lol.
Paul the fireman hahaha
This is true though! I get hundreds of messages from men and half of them wouldn't look sideways at me in a bar because I don't have a figure like Kim Kardashian but that's not what I'm looking for, that's why I'm so picky because I want to meet a guy who genuinely attracted to BBW's! "
thanks for the honast reply,very refreshing on here . |
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"To be honast I think some women on here can be far to picky. (not aimed at op just a large number of woman on here in general).in real life fair enough but alot of average woman on here expect to be pulling guys way out their leauge because sites like this and the internet in general has that effect.thing is guys are different and are the oppisite and most are willing to drop their standards for a last min fuck but don't be offended if you are a 18 stone average and Paul the fireman with a 6 pack and ten incher isint a decent guy and up for chatting and only avalible at 2am when pissed lol.
Paul the fireman hahaha
This is true though! I get hundreds of messages from men and half of them wouldn't look sideways at me in a bar because I don't have a figure like Kim Kardashian but that's not what I'm looking for, that's why I'm so picky because I want to meet a guy who genuinely attracted to BBW's! thanks for the honast reply,very refreshing on here ."
It's just true! Im always suspicious when a guy with his gym pics messages me, I think they presume that I'm desperate because I'm BBW but honestly I just have a better time with a guy who appreciates my body so that's why I will not reply to so many messages, we all like different things dont we! The world would be a boring place if we didn't! |
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Totally, we're all picky in our own way.
I guess the issue is that guys like me send lots of messages as only the strongest survive so to speak, but as women like you receive lots you only scan them expecting rubbish so sometimes the diamonds are missed. |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?
Chat? You want chat? Some of these men cant even spell my name!
Methinks you want too much!
I wonder how some of them cross the road !
Very true!. Though good grammar seems to ****allude*****both sexes. Some replies to my messages have left me thinking why did I send the message in the first place. Seems the word thanks has become thanx. "
remember to proof read when criticising peoples writing... |
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Think the picky part is a bad way of saying ?
You don't feel a click with someone and would like to be mentally stimulated instead of just expected to drop everything and run for the guy !!
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It's very hard to find a guy that can offer you exactly what you want. Fairly easy to find guys that are one of the aspects you're wanting but very difficult to find a guy that fits most of your requirements. Then you think you've finally found him but then the sexual chemistry isn't right in bed or they do something that puts you off. Very, very frustrating. I think I'd have more luck on dating sites but then I can't have my face pic public like you need to with many of them.
I think perhaps we need to focus on the positive and enjoyable aspects of a person and accept that nobody can be everything we want. You might meet one guy that is good for one aspect and meet another who is great for another. That's the bonus of this lifestyle that you're not restricted to one person. However, it all sounds good in theory but then like you I probably rule people out too easily. xxx |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?
Chat? You want chat? Some of these men cant even spell my name!
Methinks you want too much!
I wonder how some of them cross the road !
Very true!. Though good grammar seems to ****allude*****both sexes. Some replies to my messages have left me thinking why did I send the message in the first place. Seems the word thanks has become thanx.
remember to proof read when criticising peoples writing..."
And he's awoken.... Afternoon A! Lol
Sits back and watches... |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?
Chat? You want chat? Some of these men cant even spell my name!
Methinks you want too much!
I wonder how some of them cross the road !
Very true!. Though good grammar seems to ****allude*****both sexes. Some replies to my messages have left me thinking why did I send the message in the first place. Seems the word thanks has become thanx.
remember to proof read when criticising peoples writing...
And he's awoken.... Afternoon A! Lol
Sits back and watches... "
actually im just off to bed :p.
my normal sleeping is 12 midday til 7:30pm :p |
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"OP, not too picky, it's just a known fact all the best men are in couples 
Some bloody woman cherry picked 'em already.... "
They are often available on a loan basis, and come with the added advantage of having a lady, to double the fun. |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
One persons decent man is another's most annoying stalker. I see many posts like this, an do wonder what a woman really wants. In some profiles it's all about sex, an then in the next update it's like they want a full blown romance. And vice Versa.
For me I've been having great conversations with a ladie that recently messaged me, an I like to think it's going great, but she took a chance an so far looks like it hasn't been a regret.
There are guys on here that can have great conversations, and others that only think about 1 thing. A persons profile I think gives it away which they are.
Hope you find what your looking for, although not entirely sure what that may be.
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"OP, not too picky, it's just a known fact all the best men are in couples
Some bloody woman cherry picked 'em already....
They are often available on a loan basis, and come with the added advantage of having a lady, to double the fun. "
Love it, same here on loan but if wanting the lady too to double the fun |
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"OP, not too picky, it's just a known fact all the best men are in couples
Some bloody woman cherry picked 'em already....
They are often available on a loan basis, and come with the added advantage of having a lady, to double the fun.
Love it, same here on loan but if wanting the lady too to double the fun "
We are always a double act (except for ff and fffff meets) |
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"There are those kind of guys on here but you have to kiss a fair few frogs before you find them...!"
I will have you know I am not a frog. Ah but then we have yet to kiss properly so I could not have been included in your statement. Climbs down off soap box and sits on my own in the corner. |
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From a woman's perspective, there's being picky and then there's being picky.
For me I'm just here to fuck guys, as long as they match up to what I want and don't act like twats then I'll invite them to meet. I'm not looking for anything more than one off fun, an I take that into account when people message giving the impression they want long term |
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Yes there are decent guys on here.
Whether they fit your criteria is another question.
But as picky as you like.
Believe it or not some men are picky so they won't sleep with anyone they are not attracted to.
Works both ways |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?
Chat? You want chat? Some of these men cant even spell my name!
Methinks you want too much!
I wonder how some of them cross the road !
Very true!. Though good grammar seems to ****allude*****both sexes. Some replies to my messages have left me thinking why did I send the message in the first place. Seems the word thanks has become thanx.
remember to proof read when criticising peoples writing...
And he's awoken.... Afternoon A! Lol
Sits back and watches...
actually im just off to bed :p.
my normal sleeping is 12 midday til 7:30pm :p"
In that case.... Good Night |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
There all on fab guys, because they get to much rejection on here. Hehe |
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"Yes there are decent guys on here.
Whether they fit your criteria is another question.
But as picky as you like.
Believe it or not some men are picky so they won't sleep with anyone they are not attracted to.
Works both ways"
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"It's very hard to find a guy that can offer you exactly what you want. Fairly easy to find guys that are one of the aspects you're wanting but very difficult to find a guy that fits most of your requirements. Then you think you've finally found him but then the sexual chemistry isn't right in bed or they do something that puts you off. Very, very frustrating. I think I'd have more luck on dating sites but then I can't have my face pic public like you need to with many of them.
I think perhaps we need to focus on the positive and enjoyable aspects of a person and accept that nobody can be everything we want. You might meet one guy that is good for one aspect and meet another who is great for another. That's the bonus of this lifestyle that you're not restricted to one person. However, it all sounds good in theory but then like you I probably rule people out too easily. xxx"
The same frustration exists for single guys too, I'm sure. Not wanting to generalise, but it seems that a lot of couples are expecting a positive response to 'Can you come over now?' messages.
I'm not claiming to be an Adonis, but I know I'm not awful to look at. However, I'm surprised by the level of abuse I get sometimes - I'm accused of being a fake profile for example - because I'm (not my words) 'too good to be true for Fab'.
Ultimately, good conversation and good, clean fun with a healthy level of personal chemistry is what I'm looking for. Looks like that's the Fab Holy Grail.
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"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?
Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .
Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....
I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them
I just can't imagine how a guy must feel when he's put the effort in , written a nice message , attached a couple of pics , sends it and then nothing . He must question his looks , his style , and everything about himself .
Not for a second am I suggesting a lowering if standards , or a sympathy fuck , but when there's thousands of guys to choose from , and not one is up to scratch one has to question the selection criteria of the op .
Perhaps if the single guys on fab read this thread they will see what they are up against !
Or this is where the notion that women have it easy on here because men are the majority is slightly skewered.
I'd rather there be fewer men who tick my boxes that I have to fight for (so to speak) than have 1000's to choose from who ain't suitable.
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
Yes.
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I'm guessing like in real life - lots of great guys with a mix of cockwombles... I'd say start an adventure right now by contacting the last person to post here - welcome him with open arms a warm heart and let the juices flow.... |
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By *arygoMan
over a year ago
Corwen |
"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????
You've got a gorgeous new partner, and you're having loads of fantastic sex
Why worry?"
That's true, before I met T and was looking, quite happy now. |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
it's a woman thing.. You say you want sex, but underneath it all you want love |
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Well, I consider myself a nice decent bloke, single for over 5 years but have had varied success on here. Don't get me wrong I have met nice people but never thought 'oh my god, this is the one!', so, i would say it's just as hard for guys as it is women. I, like other men I'm sure, like to talk to a nice girl sometimes and not just for sexual speak but rather just friendly chat. |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????
You've got a gorgeous new partner, and you're having loads of fantastic sex
Why worry?That's true, before I met T and was looking, quite happy now. "
You've had your super hot new partner for some weeks now
And yet three weeks ago you were asking how older ladies like to be approached
You know what this looks like dont you? |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? it's a woman thing.. You say you want sex, but underneath it all you want love"
Thats not what you said in your other thread
I do wish guys'd remember what comes out their moufs |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
Only you can decide if a fella is right for you and what you are looking for. Plenty of decent blokes on here for sure. |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? it's a woman thing.. You say you want sex, but underneath it all you want love
Thats not what you said in your other thread
I do wish guys'd remember what comes out their moufs"
it makes it very confusing for our tiny kitten filled brains..we know we supposed to be sexually available to anyone that asks 24/7, we got that...but don't get us all confused with your mixed messages guys.. |
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By *arygoMan
over a year ago
Corwen |
"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????
You've got a gorgeous new partner, and you're having loads of fantastic sex
Why worry?That's true, before I met T and was looking, quite happy now.
You've had your super hot new partner for some weeks now
And yet three weeks ago you were asking how older ladies like to be approached
You know what this looks like dont you?"
Yes I was asking because I really don't know how they like to be approached, it was just a question and didn't mean I was looking. |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????
You've got a gorgeous new partner, and you're having loads of fantastic sex
Why worry?That's true, before I met T and was looking, quite happy now.
You've had your super hot new partner for some weeks now
And yet three weeks ago you were asking how older ladies like to be approached
You know what this looks like dont you? Yes I was asking because I really don't know how they like to be approached, it was just a question and didn't mean I was looking."
Oh, I see. You were asking for future reference.
I understand now |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
nothing wrong with being picky and it's the same as dating why settle for someone you don't want? *Mr |
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"all the women on this site are too picky in my book
Because we won't meet you?
no i only being honest its women right to be picky but one day they look back and regret it i think.
Nope "
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If you do find them they're usually to far away |
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By *arygoMan
over a year ago
Corwen |
"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????
You've got a gorgeous new partner, and you're having loads of fantastic sex
Why worry?That's true, before I met T and was looking, quite happy now.
You've had your super hot new partner for some weeks now
And yet three weeks ago you were asking how older ladies like to be approached
You know what this looks like dont you? Yes I was asking because I really don't know how they like to be approached, it was just a question and didn't mean I was looking.
Oh, I see. You were asking for future reference.
I understand now "
No,no,no there's no harm in asking is there ???. It's just something I've wanted to know for a long time, way before I met T. Meeting someone doesn't mean I have to stop thinking about things does it. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? it's a woman thing.. You say you want sex, but underneath it all you want love"
Not true. I'm not looking for love. |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????
You've got a gorgeous new partner, and you're having loads of fantastic sex
Why worry?That's true, before I met T and was looking, quite happy now.
You've had your super hot new partner for some weeks now
And yet three weeks ago you were asking how older ladies like to be approached
You know what this looks like dont you? Yes I was asking because I really don't know how they like to be approached, it was just a question and didn't mean I was looking.
Oh, I see. You were asking for future reference.
I understand now No,no,no there's no harm in asking is there ???. It's just something I've wanted to know for a long time, way before I met T. Meeting someone doesn't mean I have to stop thinking about things does it."
I said I understood
I followed your posts on the green arrow and things didnt really make sense
But its all very clear now |
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????"
well at less you get a reply out of your 10 messages I get none  |
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As people has said already some of us guys are decent just need find one. the down side of that is that you have to find some rubbish ones before you find a good one |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
Nope! I've been here for 8/9 years and the last 3/4 have been dire!
Too many exposes in local press, just entices all the dicks and most of them are just cheats, so we're left with the bottom feeders to dredge through, harsh but true! |
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"No!
All the men on here are thinking with their cock.
They don't want to talk to you - and they want to fuck as many women as possible.
You are not important- you are just a vagina!
I sense you are a tad cynical today "
Haha nope...
I'm just a realist!
As a single woman on here- I have gone through many emotions.
All a waste of my energy!
I cant speak for anyone else - but now I just want a good time.
A laugh a drink - hopefully good sex.
I'm not going to hold my breath ..
For a lot of men on here it's about penetrating a hole
Manky! |
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By *arygoMan
over a year ago
Corwen |
"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????
You've got a gorgeous new partner, and you're having loads of fantastic sex
Why worry?That's true, before I met T and was looking, quite happy now.
You've had your super hot new partner for some weeks now
And yet three weeks ago you were asking how older ladies like to be approached
You know what this looks like dont you? Yes I was asking because I really don't know how they like to be approached, it was just a question and didn't mean I was looking.
Oh, I see. You were asking for future reference.
I understand now No,no,no there's no harm in asking is there ???. It's just something I've wanted to know for a long time, way before I met T. Meeting someone doesn't mean I have to stop thinking about things does it.
I said I understood
I followed your posts on the green arrow and things didnt really make sense
But its all very clear now"
I'm glad you followed my post, and I'm sorry it didn't make any sense to you. Glad it's all clear to you now. |
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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?
Chat? You want chat? Some of these men cant even spell my name!
Methinks you want too much!"
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
I feel your pain op but its a supply and demand problem.
You see there are only so many men like you describe on fab such guys get snapped up rather quickly by other women looking for the same as you .
That leaves only the less desirable guys who copy and paste messages send crude messages basically assume this place is a brothel and the women are here for thier use .
My advice don't compromise stick in there be more proactive possible do a bit of searching yourself and snap up rather quickly any suitable guy before someone else does .
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