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By *eppo OP Man
over a year ago
London Colney |
"Was a yey till I'd arranged it all you know babysitters taxis etc paid for it (stupid in hindsight) and the person was a no show.. So it's now a nay "
Surely that's the gentlemans department ... Arranging / booking the hotel ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was a yey till I'd arranged it all you know babysitters taxis etc paid for it (stupid in hindsight) and the person was a no show.. So it's now a nay "
With you on that one...arranged it one, got let down, never again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hotel meets for me. I usually arrange them to coincide with a work trip. "
Me too - I'm in skelmersdale, Leeds and Leicester this week, and hoping for a bit of fun.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was a yey till I'd arranged it all you know babysitters taxis etc paid for it (stupid in hindsight) and the person was a no show.. So it's now a nay
Surely that's the gentlemans department ... Arranging / booking the hotel !"
I've always been the one to book and make all the arrangements...maybe it's because I'm too organised  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was a yey till I'd arranged it all you know babysitters taxis etc paid for it (stupid in hindsight) and the person was a no show.. So it's now a nay
Surely that's the gentlemans department ... Arranging / booking the hotel !
I've always been the one to book and make all the arrangements...maybe it's because I'm too organised "
just let me know the date and time   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was a yey till I'd arranged it all you know babysitters taxis etc paid for it (stupid in hindsight) and the person was a no show.. So it's now a nay
Surely that's the gentlemans department ... Arranging / booking the hotel !
I've always been the one to book and make all the arrangements...maybe it's because I'm too organised
just let me know the date and time "
Ha...I most certainly will  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was a yey till I'd arranged it all you know babysitters taxis etc paid for it (stupid in hindsight) and the person was a no show.. So it's now a nay "
I wouldn't pay for zit till I got half the cash. Nah. 
Otherwise they serve their purpose  |
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It's never really worked for me the way I hoped that it would.
I stay in hotels a couple of times a week throughout the year and thought it would be great to have a hotel bar social and maybe fun on the same night if we clicked or on the next visit.
But it's not worked out yet, live in hope though so it's a yay from me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love hotel meets. If we're booking one specifically for a meet we would only book one somewhere we could do something else instead if we were let down.
As a suggestion look for ones that will let you cancel for free until 2pm that day. We've never been stood up but have had guys go very quiet in the days before a meet and it not go ahead and had they been hotel meets we would have saved the money if we decided not to bother. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's one o preferences, I like to meet at a hotel bar, if she / they are what they made out to be then I get a room. It's a good way to meet especially if it's a first meet
Yay and yay  |
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Hotel meets are great. Anonymity. Mystery. No cleaning up. Easier to get to straight from work. Quick, filthy lunchtime fuckery..... love it!
Dayuse is an excellent resource... in London at least.
Speaking of which..... anyone in London who can get out for an hour or so over lunchtimes? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once went to a meet at hotel, I had chatted to the couple quite a lot. They wanted me to knock and pull my hard cock out so she could suck me at door and hopefully get caught and add to fun.
I was a bit reluctant but agreed, they gave me room number I knocked, cock out.
A guy answered who obviously wasn't expecting me , the amount off times I said sorry was unbelievable.
He wanted the full story off what was supposed to happen, then he wanted me to sign him up on fab on his computer , it was crazy we started watching cams and had a wank. So not a complete right off. But I love the thrill of the hotel. |
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"I once went to a meet at hotel, I had chatted to the couple quite a lot. They wanted me to knock and pull my hard cock out so she could suck me at door and hopefully get caught and add to fun.
I was a bit reluctant but agreed, they gave me room number I knocked, cock out.
A guy answered who obviously wasn't expecting me , the amount off times I said sorry was unbelievable.
He wanted the full story off what was supposed to happen, then he wanted me to sign him up on fab on his computer , it was crazy we started watching cams and had a wank. So not a complete right off. But I love the thrill of the hotel."
What was you thinking, seriously standing there you didn't wonder if it might be a wind up!?!
True what they say, a standing winkle has no conscious.....
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We love the anonymity of it all
See our true accounts on the story board Hotel adventures 1 & 2.
Yet to write 3, 4 and 5 these three are different as they are with couples.
Result was the same extra buzz from being naughty in a totally
Neutral ground and semi public.
We now have another hotel booked see if we can arrange a naughty group for that one too!
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
maidenhead |
I normally meet at a local coffee shop from where they live and if they are happy to go back to there's all good if not we go our separate ways. That's only happened once as they where new to it. |
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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago
Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire. |
I have enjoyed several hospital meets which were very enjoyable.
Fortunately the rooms had alrwady been prebooked by the business men I have been with.I just turned up for fun ??
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It's a yes for me. As a guy I'd expect to pay for the room and meal beforehand if we have one. I do love hotel meets. Although twice I was served at the bar by a female student of mine, different women, quite awkward! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like hotel meets as it's more discreet. Safest is when the hotel already booked for business as no worry about no show. Even better if the other party books it.
There are some nice hotels too so can feel a bit more classy. |
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No for me.. only due to past experience
Arranged meet with single guy after coffee social & message chat. After arriving had some some amazing naughty fun; when leaving hotel found out guy hadnt paid for room which he said he had done & agreed to do prior and left me to pay for room over £100.  |
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"Was a yey till I'd arranged it all you know babysitters taxis etc paid for it (stupid in hindsight) and the person was a no show.. So it's now a nay
With you on that one...arranged it one, got let down, never again!"
Use Booking dot com. Often can cancel without charge up to 4pm on the day. Still inconvenient but the cost would be saved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No for me.. only due to past experience
Arranged meet with single guy after coffee social & message chat. After arriving had some some amazing naughty fun; when leaving hotel found out guy hadnt paid for room which he said he had done & agreed to do prior and left me to pay for room over £100. "
Absolutely disgusting behaviour!!! |
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"No for me.. only due to past experience
Arranged meet with single guy after coffee social & message chat. After arriving had some some amazing naughty fun; when leaving hotel found out guy hadnt paid for room which he said he had done & agreed to do prior and left me to pay for room over £100.
Absolutely disgusting behaviour!!!"
Can't see how he managed it even. They normally take a card at check-in so people cant just leave without paying.
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"No for me.. only due to past experience
Arranged meet with single guy after coffee social & message chat. After arriving had some some amazing naughty fun; when leaving hotel found out guy hadnt paid for room which he said he had done & agreed to do prior and left me to pay for room over £100.
Absolutely disgusting behaviour!!!
Can't see how he managed it even. They normally take a card at check-in so people cant just leave without paying.
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thats what i thought! He didnt say anything about checking when he left. Of course when i left handed in key; payment was brought up. Card details collected were declined no available funds. Tried contacting & calling; number was blocked & profile was hidden. |
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"No for me.. only due to past experience
Arranged meet with single guy after coffee social & message chat. After arriving had some some amazing naughty fun; when leaving hotel found out guy hadnt paid for room which he said he had done & agreed to do prior and left me to pay for room over £100.
Absolutely disgusting behaviour!!!
Can't see how he managed it even. They normally take a card at check-in so people cant just leave without paying.
thats what i thought! He didnt say anything about checking when he left. Of course when i left handed in key; payment was brought up. Card details collected were declined no available funds. Tried contacting & calling; number was blocked & profile was hidden. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love Hotel meets... I travel the length and breadth of the country and use them a lot.
It's not easy to arrange meets but when it does happen always good fun! |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
"Hotel meets work for us x
As a couple, if you are meeting a single male or female who pays for what? Just interested to know what others do "
Pretty sure some people won't agree with this but if we are meeting a couple we ideally split the bill. If meeting a single girl we pay the bill. If we are meeting a single guy(s) then he/they pay the bill.
Only exceptions are if we are visiting an area anyway and will be staying in a hotel anyway, then we get the bill as we are sleeping there! |
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We like hotel meets as we combine them with a mini break away, and don't have the kids to think about.
As we are having a break aay then we pay for our hotel, and if someone in the area is interested in meeting then we are happy to oblige. |
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"Hotel meets work for us x
As a couple, if you are meeting a single male or female who pays for what? Just interested to know what others do
Pretty sure some people won't agree with this but if we are meeting a couple we ideally split the bill. If meeting a single girl we pay the bill. If we are meeting a single guy(s) then he/they pay the bill.
Only exceptions are if we are visiting an area anyway and will be staying in a hotel anyway, then we get the bill as we are sleeping there!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hotel meets work for us x
As a couple, if you are meeting a single male or female who pays for what? Just interested to know what others do "
If we're in the area anyway we wouldn't dream of asking for a contribution. If we are booking it specifically for a meet it would depend on the location, who would be staying after play and so on. If it was within striking distance of home and we didn't need to be staying over we'd suggest sharing the cost. If it meant we turned it into a little break away and we were staying over we'd be happy to pay. If it was a day room we'd share (or for a regular friend take it in turns to book) If they were in the area for some other reason we wouldn't expect to contribute. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Had a couple, both were amazing. But one was not a first meet, and I trusted the other completely so didn't fret about "no shows".
Being let down when it's all arranged is a complete stinker. |
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"Had a couple, both were amazing. But one was not a first meet, and I trusted the other completely so didn't fret about "no shows".
Being let down when it's all arranged is a complete stinker. "
I'm hoping to arrange hotel meets as I stay away through work,
I'm sure I'll be frustrated at any no shows but at least I'll be in the hotel anyway. |
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By *bwitchedWoman
over a year ago
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If someone is in a hotel for work anyway then great. But if not, then it's not really something i'm comfortable with. I can't really afford to contribute but don't feel it's right for the other person to pay the whole lot either, just as I wouldn't expect to have my share of drinks or meals paid for. So would rather just avoid the issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually not really a fan, but I think someone may be about to change my mind
He's a lucky guy 
We'll see if he feels lucky after he's met me "
Well no need for the lottery as he's already come up trumps |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Usually not really a fan, but I think someone may be about to change my mind
He's a lucky guy
We'll see if he feels lucky after he's met me
Well no need for the lottery as he's already come up trumps "
ah thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hotels are not a bad thing you know not all are sleazy bed and breakfasts I often treat myself to a night or 2 away to relax and if there's a nice friendly couple or a woman wants to join I'm all for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it a yah or nah for you ?"
I would, neutral and most are clean and safe. Last thing I want is to be accosted in someone's house or have it happen at mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exactly lol great minds eh?
Indeed
Finger has gone numb hahs x
Hahaha are you still whingeing about that? x"
I wouldnt laugh at if your finger was sore... hha |
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Hotels for us.
If it a meet further away we combine a meet in a hotel one night and the other for us.
If it a local meet, it's a night away from the teenagers, and a nice meal for us after a meet. That is if T can walk |
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Always a hotel meet if it's the first time. Nice spa hotel and arrange to meet in the jacuzzi or the bar. Any 'Gentleman' should at least offer to pay half or seeing as most guys are professionals or businessmen (cough) then put it on their business account. |
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"Always a hotel meet if it's the first time. Nice spa hotel and arrange to meet in the jacuzzi or the bar. Any 'Gentleman' should at least offer to pay half or seeing as most guys are professionals or businessmen (cough) then put it on their business account. "
I always suggest I pay. Usually because I'm going to travel further to meet and I will need somewhere to stay over night.
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"Always a hotel meet if it's the first time. Nice spa hotel and arrange to meet in the jacuzzi or the bar. Any 'Gentleman' should at least offer to pay half or seeing as most guys are professionals or businessmen (cough) then put it on their business account.
I always suggest I pay. Usually because I'm going to travel further to meet and I will need somewhere to stay over night.
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Yes, love hotel meets, something naughty comes out in me when in a hotel room, helps add to the fun I think.
As a gentleman I will always pay, unless a lady is offended by me not accepting a 50/50 split. Some ladies feel better if it is split and I can understand that but I would always be happy to pick up the whole bill.
Day use is a great way to book a hotel for fun, I think you can cancel your booking upto 1hr before you are due to check in and receive a full refund, so would certainly take some of the financial pain away from a no show. That said by the time a hotel meet is on the cards I would hope to have a pretty good understanding of the lady I'm meeting and know if there is a risk of a no show.
So now all I need is a lady for some fun ....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to live in hotels Mon-Fri (I work away from home) so they are my preference by default.
In addition to that, they add an additional layer of safety, security and discretion for each person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have played in hotels, but more likely as an after party following an organised social. For private meets we normally invite the guy to our house. We find that more relaxing and intimate to be in our home. It also saves the dilemma of who who books the hotel and how the cost is shared.
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"I tend to live in hotels Mon-Fri (I work away from home) so they are my preference by default.
In addition to that, they add an additional layer of safety, security and discretion for each person."
I agree with the security element. |
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"Cardiff that's the chance you take though if you sort a hotel just for a meet off here "
...just means inviting 5 for 2 to show though it does mean one day there is the potential for J to have a helluva night.... |
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