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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Morning people .....
Timewasters I don't get this one bit ......I have never been stood up for a date at the last minute nor have I never not turned up for a date .....but there is a small difference between me and other people i'm married for one and I do not engage in any dirty talk or picture swaping before the first date ....strange I know but in my case all the first date is ....is the chance to meet a like minded soul in the flesh to see if we like each other enough to move on to the next level ....because we have only flirted around the sexual nature of what our relationship may or may not be there is no extra pressure on the date than two strangers meeting...with a view to seeing if they like each other enough to sleep together. A lot like going on a blind date really .....
I was just wondering is it the swaping of a few dirty conversations plus pictures that puts to much pressure on a person so they get cold feet at the last minute ....after all if you make a promise before the first meeting to perform or do something with a person you hardy know then surely your leaving yourself open to being a little bit more upset over a no show than if you were to just say fancy a friendly chat other a coffee or drink and work you way up to the sex after the person has shown there committed enough to meet.   |
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By *TUNNAWoman
over a year ago
glasgow |
i had my time wasted last week
by a guy who kept asking 2 meet
so we aranged 2 meet up an right
up to the ngt before we were due 2 meet
he spoke then on the day of the meet
nothing couldnt even txt or email 2
cancel or say he couldnt make it
an he wouldnt answer a simple txt or an
email on here..he read the mail then
deleted it..but i didnt get upset as
it was his lose an a thing of the past
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont get this timewasting thing, i havent been on here long and i'm still finding my way around, but im finding it very hard/impossible to get a meet of any kind. Then i hear these people not turning up for meets, i just think you knobs, your lucky enough to get a meet and just throw it away. Think there should be away of banning them from the site. I think if they cant handle the pressure of all the talk of whats going to happen to who and how they shouldent engage in that type of message swapping.  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Morning people .....
Timewasters I don't get this one bit ......I have never been stood up for a date at the last minute nor have I never not turned up for a date .....but there is a small difference between me and other people i'm married for one and I do not engage in any dirty talk or picture swaping before the first date ....strange I know but in my case all the first date is ....is the chance to meet a like minded soul in the flesh to see if we like each other enough to move on to the next level ....because we have only flirted around the sexual nature of what our relationship may or may not be there is no extra pressure on the date than two strangers meeting...with a view to seeing if they like each other enough to sleep together. A lot like going on a blind date really .....
I was just wondering is it the swaping of a few dirty conversations plus pictures that puts to much pressure on a person so they get cold feet at the last minute ....after all if you make a promise before the first meeting to perform or do something with a person you hardy know then surely your leaving yourself open to being a little bit more upset over a no show than if you were to just say fancy a friendly chat other a coffee or drink and work you way up to the sex after the person has shown there committed enough to meet. "
not at all... I probably do things the opposite to you, where I normally do like to get to know people a bit before I even consider meeting... whether that is a private meet, or just talking to people in clubs.... and I can count the "timewasters" I have had on one hand in the 6-7 years I have been doing this...
I think it is more a case of doing whatever what due diligence you do that you feel comfortable enough to meet that person.... so if that takes 2 minutes, 2 hrs, 2 days, 2 weeks, 2 months or 2 years... then it takes as long as it takes.... |
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