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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you suggest I make things up to the best thing that ever happened to me on here! I've blew it"
Depends on your crime really
And whether you think the lady is likely to give you another chance, or whether you've burnt your bridges
All credit to you for admitting your failings though. Alot of people would struggle to do that
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you suggest I make things up to the best thing that ever happened to me on here! I've blew it
Depends on your crime really
And whether you think the lady is likely to give you another chance, or whether you've burnt your bridges
All credit to you for admitting your failings though. Alot of people would struggle to do that
Especially publicly"
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"How do you suggest I make things up to the best thing that ever happened to me on here! I've blew it"
It's a swingers site not mills and boon, man up and get over it.
Offer her a sincere apology but if she doesn't accept it don't follow her around begging as life's to short.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Someone did this to me and I nearly relented, then he just kept digging a deeper and deeper hole, then I realised what a true arse he actually was!
So if you have done the same then she probably means it, unless your waiting for the actual 'fuck off and leave me alone c**t' message.....it's up to you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good luck with that OP.
Not sarcasm....it happens.
But it kind of depends on the girl...it is a girl?...how badly you screwed up ...
And if they are even prepared to give you a second chance.
But don't hold your breath...it can be very unforgiving here...
I wish you luck ....and the chance to follow your dream ..
If you get the chance.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you've simply slipped into the wrong hole by mistake it's easily done and she might forgive you once the pains gone  "
This. Just wipe the bogeys off the tip and aim for the mouth again  |
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Think all you can do is sincerly appologise to her for whatever it is you've done & tell her how you feel & then its realy up to her to decide what she wants to do,but i do admire you for being upfront & honest about being an absolute C... as most men wouldn't & wouldn't care how much they hurt someone,hope it works out for you . |
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"I hate half a story,what have you done exactly?
Mystic naughty predicts we'll never find out."
I hope Mystic naughty is wrong on this occasion,we can't give advise if we don't know what the problem is can we! |
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public, self-flagellation isn't the way to go and is usually in my experience a last resort. If the lady in question has cut contact with you there isn't a lot you can do. If she hasn't sort it out in private between the two of you. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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No offence and certainly not directed at the OP but there are soo many cunts on here and I certainly never use that word lightly!
But deep down they think us ladies are here to be used until it doesn't go their way!
Then and only then do they repent and they never really know what the reason is but they pretend they do, but they don't! They just say what they think we want to hear, and 9/10 it's wrong! That's just my experience of course |
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"public, self-flagellation isn't the way to go and is usually in my experience a last resort. If the lady in question has cut contact with you there isn't a lot you can do. If she hasn't sort it out in private between the two of you. "
She's probably blocked him so he can't contact her thinks he can pull on her heart strings by posting in here
He's hurt her and knows he's lost her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you suggest I make things up to the best thing that ever happened to me on here! I've blew it"
That would depend what you did or didn't do, how can we advise if we have no idea what happened  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok what I did was....
i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok what I did was....
i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me "
You're on a swinging site, does it matter if you see someone else? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area?
Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else?
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"Ok what I did was....
i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me "
FFS, that's 10 minutes of my life I'm not getting back! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area?
Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else?
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Exactly this. Seems a bit lame. If someone I met off here acted like that I'd be off. Don't need drama like that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area?
Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else?
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Sounds like an excuse to say Goodbye |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area?
Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else?
Sounds like an excuse to say Goodbye"
Sounds like a storm in a D cup |
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"Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area?
Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else?
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Jealousy rearing it's ugly head,I'd let her stew for a while. You don't seem to have done an awful lot wrong,I'm sure she will unblock you at some stage. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area?
Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else?
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We were exclusive and I was just being an awkward cunt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area?
Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else?
We were exclusive and I was just being an awkward cunt"
Well that's you own fault! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area?
Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else?
Sounds like an excuse to say Goodbye
Sounds like a storm in a D cup "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area?
Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else?
We were exclusive and I was just being an awkward cunt"
And now she is. Chill. It'll sort itself out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a drama queen myself who doesn't like sharing my cock i'll give you the following advice.
Send her a polite message explaining what occurred, as you did above.
Tell her she has two choices. Either she believes you or she doesn't, but as you haven't given her any reason to doubt you previously, then you find her behaviour unnattractive and unreasonable, and you have no wish to continue seeing someone with these qualities.
In other words...like it or lump it.
And get rid of that status, it makes you look like a doirmat |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"As a drama queen myself who doesn't like sharing my cock i'll give you the following advice.
Send her a polite message explaining what occurred, as you did above.
Tell her she has two choices. Either she believes you or she doesn't, but as you haven't given her any reason to doubt you previously, then you find her behaviour unnattractive and unreasonable, and you have no wish to continue seeing someone with these qualities.
In other words...like it or lump it.
And get rid of that status, it makes you look like a doirmat "
agreed with the status, but she may have OP blocked hence thread and status? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Ok what I did was....
i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me "
Send a text or message to apologise, then leave it. When you are next in the area get in touch again to see whether she still wants to meet up.
I personally think she is over reacting (or you are) and a two week breather may be all that's needed. If not then she obviously had stronger feelings about the arrangement than you both thought so you might want to discuss your relationship parameters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My advice op is as said drop the status as already said.. asap. I don't know if admin will end the thread for you but ask them anyhow...if you have any other way of contacting her...use that rather then here is publicly posting this will not make it any easier for you. Some thinks heal easier giving time and not everyone knowing about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wtf its a swingers site.. i cant be the only one thinking this if you both wanted a relationship with out other people then you should talk about that and both remove you profile. Obvs i dont know the whole story and how long youve been meeting but if its only been a 1 or 2 months then youve had a lucky escape and should move on |
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"Ok what I did was....
i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me "
What a joke, I was expecting you to have at least shagged her sister
If she's unhappy with that I'd say you've a lifetime of grief if you actually marry her or move in with her at any time.
You..Sorry darling I'm 5 minutes late coming home from the pub
Her.. You bastard, who is she, fuck off I hate you etc etc etc
Run my friend run |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This happened not so long ago with my mate. I told him to leave it and thats she's probably met someone else. He kept messaging and messaging. Yep then she got nasty. Thakfully, he's finally he's moved on phewwww! To many depressing pints ive had with him! |
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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago
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"Ok what I did was....
i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me "
just a little tiff time will heal it. |
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"Ok what I did was....
i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me "
Your status says 'I'm a horrible fucking man who has hurt the most caring loving lady on here by being the biggest cunt ever! My loss I know but her heart is breaking'
That's way OTT for what happened, especially for two singles on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wtf its a swingers site.. i cant be the only one thinking this if you both wanted a relationship with out other people then you should talk about that and both remove you profile. Obvs i dont know the whole story and how long youve been meeting but if its only been a 1 or 2 months then youve had a lucky escape and should move on"
it's been a year
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"Wtf its a swingers site.. i cant be the only one thinking this if you both wanted a relationship with out other people then you should talk about that and both remove you profile. Obvs i dont know the whole story and how long youve been meeting but if its only been a 1 or 2 months then youve had a lucky escape and should move on it's been a year "
You've only been on 2 months. I'm confused. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok what I did was....
i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me "
Fuck her off then if that's the whole story. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok what I did was....
i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me "
Take a mate round and fuck her in both holes. She will soon forgive you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok what I did was....
i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me
Your status says 'I'm a horrible fucking man who has hurt the most caring loving lady on here by being the biggest cunt ever! My loss I know but her heart is breaking'
That's way OTT for what happened, especially for two singles on here."
I'm offended by your status. I'm actually the most caring, loving lady on here I'll have you know   |
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"Ok what I did was....
i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me
Your status says 'I'm a horrible fucking man who has hurt the most caring loving lady on here by being the biggest cunt ever! My loss I know but her heart is breaking'
That's way OTT for what happened, especially for two singles on here.
I'm offended by your status. I'm actually the most caring, loving lady on here I'll have you know "
Me too. I'm actually the biggest cunt ever.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok what I did was....
i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me
Your status says 'I'm a horrible fucking man who has hurt the most caring loving lady on here by being the biggest cunt ever! My loss I know but her heart is breaking'
That's way OTT for what happened, especially for two singles on here.
I'm offended by your status. I'm actually the most caring, loving lady on here I'll have you know
Me too. I'm actually the biggest cunt ever.
MrB"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wtf its a swingers site.. i cant be the only one thinking this if you both wanted a relationship with out other people then you should talk about that and both remove you profile. Obvs i dont know the whole story and how long youve been meeting but if its only been a 1 or 2 months then youve had a lucky escape and should move on it's been a year
I joined again without her knowledge
You've only been on 2 months. I'm confused."
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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"Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area?
Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else?
We were exclusive and I was just being an awkward cunt"
Exclusive? On a swinger site? You're both doing something wrong there.
Adopt a kitten together or something since you seem as good as married now |
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"Wtf its a swingers site.. i cant be the only one thinking this if you both wanted a relationship with out other people then you should talk about that and both remove you profile. Obvs i dont know the whole story and how long youve been meeting but if its only been a 1 or 2 months then youve had a lucky escape and should move on it's been a year
You've only been on 2 months. I'm confused.
I joined again without her knowledge
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But you said she's the best thing that happened to you on here i.e you know each other from here. I don't get it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you suggest I make things up to the best thing that ever happened to me on here! I've blew it"
We all fuck up
Apologise let the person breath and calm down
Move on learn lesson.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who needs Emmerdale ?
FFS the pair of you
Grow up
Set boundaries that work for you both
Get on with it
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BTW OP your status sounds like grovelly shit that is just words rather than anything with meaning |
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By *ibullMan
over a year ago
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"Have a pair of bollocks about you and move on! "
True, grow a pair and don't waste any more time over it, it's a swing site not a romantic dating site with view to marriage. If you were exclusive, then why did you join this site again, curiosity? You know what that did to the cat.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have a pair of bollocks about you and move on!
True, grow a pair and don't waste any more time over it, it's a swing site not a romantic dating site with view to marriage. If you were exclusive, then why did you join this site again, curiosity? You know what that did to the cat.. "
Good point. You said you were exclusive then said you joined here again without her knowledge. I'd be pissed off if it was me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you've simply slipped into the wrong hole by mistake it's easily done and she might forgive you once the pains gone
This. Just wipe the bogeys off the tip and aim for the mouth again "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok what I did was....
i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me "
Mental case. Better off without her |
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