"How do I go about telling me wife I want to watch her get fucked?? "
You know her better than us so how you approach her will very much be down to your usual way of interacting. Aside from that you need to talk to her and listen to what she's saying to you. There isn't a magical formula or series of phrases that will make her agree or make her react how you want her to.
So sit down with her and have a conversation. |
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By *htcMan
over a year ago
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tell her you were talking with some mates and they had a fantasy about watching there wife with another guy, and now you got it on your mind, what do you think hun?, is that something you would do if ever it happened in the future? |
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"I told Sara's I'd like to see her with another guy. Took a while to set up but this Year I've seen 2 guys fuck her and yes it's the horniest experience ever. "
I'd love to fuck sara in front of you. Happy to have pics / vids taken & be directed fucking her by you |
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"Tell her your on here for starters 
I would be divorced if I told her I was on here ha "
That's genuinely sad  .
I don't mean this in an aggressive or unkind way but how on earth can you expect to establish the kind of trust required to swing if you're keeping part of your life hidden from her?
Remove your account and start to establish a more open communication around sex with your partner. It might not lead to swinging but it might open up myriad other opportunities. |
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"How do I go about telling me wife I want to watch her get fucked?? "
DONT! just take her to the woods, arrange for some folk to be strategically positioned to see it all, and fuck her there. she may never be any the wiser. |
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By *arygoMan
over a year ago
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"How do I go about telling me wife I want to watch her get fucked?? "
I had the experience of watching my partner being fucked by another man on Friday night, I posted "Introducing female partner into swinging" and got a lot of good advice. Good luck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hard one that.It all depends if you think you will eventually want to be with another woman if the answers no then you need to make sure she knows that you mean it. other wise all shes gonna think it is cheating |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It was quite easy for me as my ex was a flirt so I encouraged her to stand at a bar in a busy pub dressed up in her sexy attire and wait to be chatted up while I watched.she loved the attention so I encouraged her all the more, she'd text me from the bar to say the guy wants to take her home and so our swinging began. So shower her with compliments get a couple of g&t's down her, get her dressed up, get down a busy city pub and see if she's up for flirting and take it from there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not being funny but if you are in a good honest fun filled marriage you shouldn't be asking how to ask your wife if she would try out one of your fantasies. Because it may be yours but if it is not hers end of chat . |
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"im amazed at how many men dont know what there wives like / want ?? dont people talk ?? "
I'm not referring to the op here. I think that a lot of people just concentrate on fulfilling their own sexual fantasies, When if they established a relationship where both partners felt their fatasies could be heard and accepted without judgement (not necessarily acted on) their sex lives would be more fulfilling. |
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I think you should just start the convo with her and ask her how she would feel about trying new things to spice up your sex life?
If that's received Well, ask her how she thinks this can be done....and slowly bring the subject of having someone else involved maybe playing with both of or one of You?
Ask her if she would be comfortable if you tried another man or woman interacting with both of you.
Then if it's still going well say you'll look into it and then take it from there |
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I used to talk to her during sex and she always fantasised about having another guy so I set it up without telling her and we met the guy on the pretence of he had some PC stuff for me. We met in a pub in Manchester and had a few drinks then he invited us back to his. More wine then he put a blue movie on, I started running my hand up her thigh and started playing with her pussy, I gave him the nod and he done the same, to my surprise she got his cock out and that was it, we undressed her and both fucked her. That was the start of our swinging.  |
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You could try just telling her.
Start a conversation about fantasies ask her if she has any, hopefully she'll tell you and ask you.
Tell her the Idea of watching her with another guy turns you on.
Then leave it there let it cultivate.
Then maybe in a few weeks discuss it further.
If she is open to the discussion that is.
Sew the seed and gradually add to the fantasy.
At the end of the day what maybe is your fantasy may not be hers.
If that's the case, respect her and leave it be.
You can't do this without trust and honesty and being honest having a secret account is not a good start.
Personally I would delete it.
But that's your choice, don't be surprised if she goes mental at you if she ever finds out.
Bottom line if she doesn't want to leave it,but unless you ask you are never going to find out. |
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"I used to talk to her during sex and she always fantasised about having another guy so I set it up without telling her and we met the guy on the pretence of he had some PC stuff for me. We met in a pub in Manchester and had a few drinks then he invited us back to his. More wine then he put a blue movie on, I started running my hand up her thigh and started playing with her pussy, I gave him the nod and he done the same, to my surprise she got his cock out and that was it, we undressed her and both fucked her. That was the start of our swinging. "
Was she ok with you two setting her up like that? |
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"She wasn't aware, she just thought it was a chance happening and judging by her response on the night enabled us to meet him again and she knew what was going to happen. "
Well I guess she knows now |
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"Tell her your on here for starters
I would be divorced if I told her I was on here ha
That's genuinely sad .
I don't mean this in an aggressive or unkind way but how on earth can you expect to establish the kind of trust required to swing if you're keeping part of your life hidden from her?
Remove your account and start to establish a more open communication around sex with your partner. It might not lead to swinging but it might open up myriad other opportunities."
Or she may surprise you  An open honest relationship though, is an absolute must (as the advice the advice given above says).
Then try to explain to her as to why you feel it to be a massive turn on for you?.. try to understand why you feel that way yourself first. What dynamic of a wife fucking another man would you want to try? Ie Hotwife or Cuckhold etc
Good luck OP! |
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"Indeed she does Don't get me wrong if at any time she showed disapproval then it would have stopped. "
It's not my business . I would be beyond angry but you know her better than me and that's what its all about. |
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