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Don't ignore, but also won't take no for an answer?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know being ignored sucks. It's kind of the way of the internet dating/casual sex world it would seem.
BUT why are people so pissy about being ignored? If you're being ignored the people you're talking to clearly aren't interested, move on.
The few times I have thought "oh I'll be nice" and say I'm not interested, people get hostile, or demand to know why. Start saying oh well I'll do this for you, blah blah blah.
Which normally ends up in me ignoring them anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Funny thing is I find women even more irritating.
I'm the picky one, and if I don't like someone it's simply not happening. So when I say no, women get so sharp! Chill out honey, it's nothing personal  |
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I always try to answer my messages, even just to say what I think is a polite "no thanks", the shit I get from LOTS of users is unreal....enough to make me think I should probably just ignore messages from anyone I am not interested in, but then I feel I am being "forced" to abandon my manners and I don't like it...its like a catch 22...damned if you do and damned if ya don't! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do our best to be honest and reply to all messages,even if it's a polite not for us ,but if they keep messages coming afterwards just ignore they usually get the hint |
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I have no difficulty replying to messages as I get so few. However if I send a message and get no reply I assume they are not interested and don't send any more.
Although this is a swingers site nobody is entitled to fuck anybody else. If it's a no either by ignoring me or by message fair enough. |
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"I know being ignored sucks. It's kind of the way of the internet dating/casual sex world it would seem.
BUT why are people so pissy about being ignored? If you're being ignored the people you're talking to clearly aren't interested, move on.
The few times I have thought "oh I'll be nice" and say I'm not interested, people get hostile, or demand to know why. Start saying oh well I'll do this for you, blah blah blah.
Which normally ends up in me ignoring them anyway!"
In many cases I guess it's how the 'not interested' is delivered. I've certainly received some where I've read the profile, ticked the boxes and sent a bespoke message and the response has been gratuitously arsey..as though the recipient takes delight in pissing people off!
On the other hand someone who takes the time to say no thanks in a decent way invariably puts a smile on my face!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've said no thank you to hundreds of men and only had 3 become irate over it. That was partly my fault because I was a little sarcastic with them or said something humorous (to me) back. If I had blocked them they wouldn't have been able to message me back  |
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"I know being ignored sucks. It's kind of the way of the internet dating/casual sex world it would seem.
BUT why are people so pissy about being ignored? If you're being ignored the people you're talking to clearly aren't interested, move on.
The few times I have thought "oh I'll be nice" and say I'm not interested, people get hostile, or demand to know why. Start saying oh well I'll do this for you, blah blah blah.
Which normally ends up in me ignoring them anyway!"
You have a long detauked profile
About your likes etc about winks etc about nights outs .
Even a word to show you read the profile all very helpful .
Why not add an extra sentance
If we delete your message please accept our apologies but your profile isnt a match for us but happy swinging .
Think that would take care of 75 % of the people who read it , maybe even more . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know being ignored sucks. It's kind of the way of the internet dating/casual sex world it would seem.
BUT why are people so pissy about being ignored? If you're being ignored the people you're talking to clearly aren't interested, move on.
The few times I have thought "oh I'll be nice" and say I'm not interested, people get hostile, or demand to know why. Start saying oh well I'll do this for you, blah blah blah.
Which normally ends up in me ignoring them anyway!
You have a long detauked profile
About your likes etc about winks etc about nights outs .
Even a word to show you read the profile all very helpful .
Why not add an extra sentance
If we delete your message please accept our apologies but your profile isnt a match for us but happy swinging .
Think that would take care of 75 % of the people who read it , maybe even more ."
Female here problem with that is lot of men dont read the profile when i had my single females profile i never sent replies to single males i wasnt interested in to save getting into predicaments but if i had i would have simply told truth whether thats i don't find them attractive or they not my type and if they still want to take it further then their own fault if the truth hurts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually reply with a simple thank you but I'm afraid I'm not attracted, most come back with a 'no worries, thanks for letting me know' and I don't mind this, it's the ones that then try to be 'friends' and start dirty talk that annoy me 
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