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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago
tralee |
"Seems confusing as you've got a single male profile and only mentions a gf."
Yes single profile is for the reason we had couple profile but couldn't handle all the nagging lol so we use single profile.?if that's ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your concerned about it affecting your friendship/relationship then why not look at a "stranger" or someone from here?
Or is that what you are "pitching" for? |
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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago
tralee |
"If your concerned about it affecting your friendship/relationship then why not look at a "stranger" or someone from here?
Or is that what you are "pitching" for?"
No asking because there is a sexual tension between them and could be very hot to follow through so just asking ppl taughts |
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"Did it for a while. It was ok, until he started to think he could turn up whenever he wanted to.
Oh really and did it affect yer relationship do you think?
With him or my wife?
Both I guess"
Wife - no
Him - a bit.
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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago
tralee |
"Did it for a while. It was ok, until he started to think he could turn up whenever he wanted to.
Oh really and did it affect yer relationship do you think?
With him or my wife?
Both I guess
Wife - no
Him - a bit.
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I see interesting.was it hot to see or what did you think |
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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago
tralee |
"I would say it's too close to home. Does your best friend have a partner?
Just wondering how you'd cope socialising in vanilla life outside of the fun. "
No he is single at the mo recently single tho.
So you think would be too awkward after is it? |
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"Did it for a while. It was ok, until he started to think he could turn up whenever he wanted to.
Oh really and did it affect yer relationship do you think?
With him or my wife?
Both I guess
Wife - no
Him - a bit.
I see interesting.was it hot to see or what did you think "
At first yes. But after a few months he was taking liberties. |
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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago
tralee |
"Did it for a while. It was ok, until he started to think he could turn up whenever he wanted to.
Oh really and did it affect yer relationship do you think?
With him or my wife?
Both I guess
Wife - no
Him - a bit.
I see interesting.was it hot to see or what did you think
At first yes. But after a few months he was taking liberties. "
What you mean if don't mind asking |
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"I would say it's too close to home. Does your best friend have a partner?
Just wondering how you'd cope socialising in vanilla life outside of the fun.
No he is single at the mo recently single tho.
So you think would be too awkward after is it?"
Yeah it would take your relationship to a whole new level that could be uncomfortable in the future. Do you think you could all act properly in future in public? Or might there be looks between the pair of them, maybe touching that goes beyond the friend stage. Other people might pick up on that. Would be difficult for a future partner for him. |
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"Did it for a while. It was ok, until he started to think he could turn up whenever he wanted to.
Oh really and did it affect yer relationship do you think?
With him or my wife?
Both I guess
Wife - no
Him - a bit.
I see interesting.was it hot to see or what did you think
At first yes. But after a few months he was taking liberties.
What you mean if don't mind asking "
Turning up unannounced expecting a bj etc. |
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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago
tralee |
"I would say it's too close to home. Does your best friend have a partner?
Just wondering how you'd cope socialising in vanilla life outside of the fun.
No he is single at the mo recently single tho.
So you think would be too awkward after is it?
Yeah it would take your relationship to a whole new level that could be uncomfortable in the future. Do you think you could all act properly in future in public? Or might there be looks between the pair of them, maybe touching that goes beyond the friend stage. Other people might pick up on that. Would be difficult for a future partner for him. "
That could be true too so you think best avoid situation is it |
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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago
tralee |
"Did it for a while. It was ok, until he started to think he could turn up whenever he wanted to.
Oh really and did it affect yer relationship do you think?
With him or my wife?
Both I guess
Wife - no
Him - a bit.
I see interesting.was it hot to see or what did you think
At first yes. But after a few months he was taking liberties.
What you mean if don't mind asking
Turning up unannounced expecting a bj etc."
That's desperate |
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"I would say it's too close to home. Does your best friend have a partner?
Just wondering how you'd cope socialising in vanilla life outside of the fun.
No he is single at the mo recently single tho.
So you think would be too awkward after is it?
Yeah it would take your relationship to a whole new level that could be uncomfortable in the future. Do you think you could all act properly in future in public? Or might there be looks between the pair of them, maybe touching that goes beyond the friend stage. Other people might pick up on that. Would be difficult for a future partner for him.
That could be true too so you think best avoid situation is it"
Yes I do. The other risk of course is that they get too close. |
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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago
tralee |
"I would say it's too close to home. Does your best friend have a partner?
Just wondering how you'd cope socialising in vanilla life outside of the fun.
No he is single at the mo recently single tho.
So you think would be too awkward after is it?
Yeah it would take your relationship to a whole new level that could be uncomfortable in the future. Do you think you could all act properly in future in public? Or might there be looks between the pair of them, maybe touching that goes beyond the friend stage. Other people might pick up on that. Would be difficult for a future partner for him.
That could be true too so you think best avoid situation is it
Yes I do. The other risk of course is that they get too close."
That's true too I guess there is so much to think about it.but I feel I could trust him after it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does your friend even know what you're thinking about?
What friend? 
- Mrs. J -"
Why do you assume he's lying? You can see on this thread that it happens. I know others who have done the same too.
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"Look to the future what if your wife decides she prefers him to you and she wants to spend her life with him. Of course it could be the best thing ever,who knows  "
Isn't that the risk with any kind of swinging though? |
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"Look to the future what if your wife decides she prefers him to you and she wants to spend her life with him. Of course it could be the best thing ever,who knows
Isn't that the risk with any kind of swinging though? "
Suppose so yeah,never really thought about it as I'm single |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are your taughts on this is it something we should go ahead with or is it playing too close to home?
Thanks for opinions  "
If you have to ask.. you're not ready. Sorry.. only an opinion. |
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"Does your friend even know what you're thinking about?
Is that any of his business "
I just don't want him getting a shock when the wife pounces on him. He may flirt with her,but would never dream of crossing that line. It spells trouble to me. |
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"Does your friend even know what you're thinking about?
What friend?
- Mrs. J -
Why do you assume he's lying? You can see on this thread that it happens. I know others who have done the same too.
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Because this has all the hallmarks of a wanking material post. Single bloke profile where said "single" bloke has an unknowing post whom he fantasies about having sex with a neighbour. He wants stories from other people to fuel said fantasy.
That, in my view, is most likely. |
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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago
tralee |
"Look to the future what if your wife decides she prefers him to you and she wants to spend her life with him. Of course it could be the best thing ever,who knows "
lol what do you think personally |
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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago
tralee |
"Does your friend even know what you're thinking about?
What friend?
- Mrs. J -
Why do you assume he's lying? You can see on this thread that it happens. I know others who have done the same too.
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Thanks some ppl like to be rude nothing we can do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did this with my closest female friend, didn't affect our friendship in the slightest but it depends on how close friends are you, and are you going to feel jealous about any of it during or afterwards....
If you are then don't do it |
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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago
tralee |
"Does your friend even know what you're thinking about?
What friend?
- Mrs. J -
Why do you assume he's lying? You can see on this thread that it happens. I know others who have done the same too.
Because this has all the hallmarks of a wanking material post. Single bloke profile where said "single" bloke has an unknowing post whom he fantasies about having sex with a neighbour. He wants stories from other people to fuel said fantasy.
That, in my view, is most likely. "
. Have you seen me ask for other stories from ppl no clearly I have not so don't judge me on other ppl clearly asking opinions on the subject of nothing respectful to say about the matter don't comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does your friend even know what you're thinking about?
What friend?
- Mrs. J -
Why do you assume he's lying? You can see on this thread that it happens. I know others who have done the same too.
Because this has all the hallmarks of a wanking material post. Single bloke profile where said "single" bloke has an unknowing post whom he fantasies about having sex with a neighbour. He wants stories from other people to fuel said fantasy.
That, in my view, is most likely. . Have you seen me ask for other stories from ppl no clearly I have not so don't judge me on other ppl clearly asking opinions on the subject of nothing respectful to say about the matter don't comment "
It is a public forum. If you ask a question, which looks suspect, then people will comment on it
Your profile looks very suspicious. You have a 'girlfriend' you swing with yet there is no link to her profile from yours
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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago
tralee |
"Did this with my closest female friend, didn't affect our friendship in the slightest but it depends on how close friends are you, and are you going to feel jealous about any of it during or afterwards....
If you are then don't do it "
Thanks he is my best mate too we are v good mates so think it could be ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's sexual tension between them"
That part is the worrying part for me, I'd be extremely cautious, we've had friends in the past who have tried it on with me and it's a complete no go, a bit of banter yes but it's just too close to home. Can be friends for years but friends can still fuck you over! My husbands friends of 10 years out of the blue decided he would start flirting then blatantly asked me to cheat on my husband with him, never seen it coming but it goes to show trust no one not even your closest friends! Stick with guys on this site. The ones we have met are purely here for the fun and there's no strings attached with it! Some are really nice guys too and completely respect boundaries.
Just my opinion but I'm sure I'm not the only one to experience something like this x |
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"Does your friend even know what you're thinking about?
What friend?
- Mrs. J -
Why do you assume he's lying? You can see on this thread that it happens. I know others who have done the same too.
Because this has all the hallmarks of a wanking material post. Single bloke profile where said "single" bloke has an unknowing post whom he fantasies about having sex with a neighbour. He wants stories from other people to fuel said fantasy.
That, in my view, is most likely. . Have you seen me ask for other stories from ppl no clearly I have not so don't judge me on other ppl clearly asking opinions on the subject of nothing respectful to say about the matter don't comment "
Your story about being a couple but not having a couples profile makes no sense whatsoever. Hence the suspicion.
Of course I could be wrong and you could be completely genuine, but if I had to bet my life one way or the other, I would have no hesitation coming down on the fake side. |
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"Does your friend even know what you're thinking about?
What friend?
- Mrs. J -
Why do you assume he's lying? You can see on this thread that it happens. I know others who have done the same too.
Because this has all the hallmarks of a wanking material post. Single bloke profile where said "single" bloke has an unknowing post whom he fantasies about having sex with a neighbour. He wants stories from other people to fuel said fantasy.
That, in my view, is most likely. . Have you seen me ask for other stories from ppl no clearly I have not so don't judge me on other ppl clearly asking opinions on the subject of nothing respectful to say about the matter don't comment
It is a public forum. If you ask a question, which looks suspect, then people will comment on it
Your profile looks very suspicious. You have a 'girlfriend' you swing with yet there is no link to her profile from yours
- Mrs. J -"
Indeed. If you really had a partner you swing with you would have a couples profile as no one will believe you otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are your taughts on this is it something we should go ahead with or is it playing too close to home?
Thanks for opinions "
I think it will only end in trouble  worst case scenario she runs away with your best mate! & knowing you helped orchestrate it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on here with hubby and he has a separate profile we don't have each others names on our profile but if anyone needed to know or ask something we would give our partners profile name happily x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are your taughts on this is it something we should go ahead with or is it playing too close to home?
Thanks for opinions
I think it will only end in trouble worst case scenario she runs away with your best mate! & knowing you helped orchestrate it"
?? Spot on |
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"Look to the future what if your wife decides she prefers him to you and she wants to spend her life with him. Of course it could be the best thing ever,who knows
lol what do you think personally "
I probably wouldn't I don't know though I haven't been in that position. Seems safer to find someone that's not connected to you both. |
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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago
tralee |
""There's sexual tension between them"
That part is the worrying part for me, I'd be extremely cautious, we've had friends in the past who have tried it on with me and it's a complete no go, a bit of banter yes but it's just too close to home. Can be friends for years but friends can still fuck you over! My husbands friends of 10 years out of the blue decided he would start flirting then blatantly asked me to cheat on my husband with him, never seen it coming but it goes to show trust no one not even your closest friends! Stick with guys on this site. The ones we have met are purely here for the fun and there's no strings attached with it! Some are really nice guys too and completely respect boundaries.
Just my opinion but I'm sure I'm not the only one to experience something like this x"
Thanks very much v honest will def take it on board |
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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago
tralee |
"Does your friend even know what you're thinking about?
What friend?
- Mrs. J -
Why do you assume he's lying? You can see on this thread that it happens. I know others who have done the same too.
Because this has all the hallmarks of a wanking material post. Single bloke profile where said "single" bloke has an unknowing post whom he fantasies about having sex with a neighbour. He wants stories from other people to fuel said fantasy.
That, in my view, is most likely. . Have you seen me ask for other stories from ppl no clearly I have not so don't judge me on other ppl clearly asking opinions on the subject of nothing respectful to say about the matter don't comment
Your story about being a couple but not having a couples profile makes no sense whatsoever. Hence the suspicion.
Of course I could be wrong and you could be completely genuine, but if I had to bet my life one way or the other, I would have no hesitation coming down on the fake side. "
Again your opinion.but honest genuine couple here if you don't believe us I can't change your mind |
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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm on here with hubby and he has a separate profile we don't have each others names on our profile but if anyone needed to know or ask something we would give our partners profile name happily x"
Sounds like good idea thanks |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Did it for a while. It was ok, until he started to think he could turn up whenever he wanted to."
For this reason, I would think a definite no. It may give them a sense of entitlement, too messy.  |
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"I'm on here with hubby and he has a separate profile we don't have each others names on our profile but if anyone needed to know or ask something we would give our partners profile name happily x"
Ditto. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I did this with my mates wife.we had talked and joked about it for a while and then one night after a few drinks we thought it was a good idea. It was a good evening and no awkwardness either. Was never repeated though we have joked about it since. |
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Its something that can work out well, as I know from my experience many years ago. My friend his wife and myself for well over 10 years use to indulge most Friday evenings. during that time we only ever meet with my friend being there as well. It came to an end when my friends wife had major surgery. we still meet on a Friday, and have done for 15 years.
But I am sure there are cases where other people have regretted it and caused a breakdown of the marriage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The majority of guys I've been acquainted with have at some point fucked my wife. Some I've been there and joined in. Another occasion after a night out, he stayed over and I got up in the early hours and he was going for it on the sofa with her. I left them to it. One evening out in London, we'd missed the last train, I went round the corner to look for any shop etc still open and when I came back my mate had her skirt up and leg up and fucking her. I never had a problem with it. |
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"The majority of guys I've been acquainted with have at some point fucked my wife. Some I've been there and joined in. Another occasion after a night out, he stayed over and I got up in the early hours and he was going for it on the sofa with her. I left them to it. One evening out in London, we'd missed the last train, I went round the corner to look for any shop etc still open and when I came back my mate had her skirt up and leg up and fucking her. I never had a problem with it. "
Horny  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was doing my best mate and his wife for about 6 months...... Was absolutely fine. ... their relationship got much stronger and they are now much closer. ...... We decided to revert back to friends only, when they wanted to meet with more people, and do clubs and gang bang's etc.... It just wasn't my scene so I wished them good luck with their journey and that was that. ...... Things are now pretty much back to normal aside from the odd shared naughty giggle, knowing look, and occasional inappropriate touch in the hot tub. .. ..... Going round to theirs for a bbq tomorrow in fact. |
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