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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys. So some advice please I'm the female half of this couple. My partner and I have a mural friend who has been contacting us both privately and sending illicit messages and images to us as she does not think the other knows about it. We don't hide things so all open but I have a lot of thoughts about this lady she is exceptionally hot great boobs and a pussy to die for. I guess what I'm worried about is my feelings of lust for her that I don't want to share i know the Mr would love a threesome but I want her to myself. I know he's not into that I just can't stop thinking about her ? Any help x |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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You're a swinging couple yet you're tempted to go behind his back for illicit sex? How would you feel if you found out he was doing it to you?
The first thing I'd do is tell the woman that you know what she is doing. Then you can all make an informed and adult decision about what to do going forward. |
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"Hey guys. So some advice please I'm the female half of this couple. My partner and I have a mural friend who has been contacting us both privately and sending illicit messages and images to us as she does not think the other knows about it. We don't hide things so all open but I have a lot of thoughts about this lady she is exceptionally hot great boobs and a pussy to die for. I guess what I'm worried about is my feelings of lust for her that I don't want to share i know the Mr would love a threesome but I want her to myself. I know he's not into that I just can't stop thinking about her ? Any help x"
Why would you want to meet a woman alone who has already proved herself to be devious? Only do it if your husband agrees. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're a swinging couple yet you're tempted to go behind his back for illicit sex? How would you feel if you found out he was doing it to you?
The first thing I'd do is tell the woman that you know what she is doing. Then you can all make an informed and adult decision about what to do going forward."
Wasnt aware she said behind his back, she said didnt want to share  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Won't the male half see this, given you've had a couples profile?
The only advice I can give is to tell your partner how you feel or meet this lady together. It could impact your relationship if you go behind his back. Is your relationship worth risking for a hot woman? Good luck with whatever you decide OP  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"You're a swinging couple yet you're tempted to go behind his back for illicit sex? How would you feel if you found out he was doing it to you?
The first thing I'd do is tell the woman that you know what she is doing. Then you can all make an informed and adult decision about what to do going forward.
Wasnt aware she said behind his back, she said didnt want to share "
To quote the OP:
"I guess what I'm worried about is my feelings of lust for her that I don't want to share i know the Mr would love a threesome but I want her to myself. I know he's not into that I just can't stop thinking about her"
Doesn't sound like its been discussed further than them discussing a threesome that she doesn't want. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys thank you. It's not a case of going behind his back I just don't want to share and he's not sure how he feels about that. He knows I'm posting he wanted me to ask advice.
I'm not sure what kind of person she is but no sex wouldn't be worth ruining everything. It's just a very confusing time. X thank you for your advice however. Have any of you been in similar situations x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey guys thank you. It's not a case of going behind his back I just don't want to share and he's not sure how he feels about that. He knows I'm posting he wanted me to ask advice.
I'm not sure what kind of person she is but no sex wouldn't be worth ruining everything. It's just a very confusing time. X thank you for your advice however. Have any of you been in similar situations x"
I had a woman try to see my wife behind my back, but we discussed everything and she was surprised when I told her I knew her game |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Male half speaking now:
Hello all the Mr here. Think something crossed in translation I am fully aware about all that's going on with mutual friend I don't think she's devious just likes to flirt with my wife directly.
I'm fully accepting of my wife's conversations and aware of what's going on I think this was just about her asking what to do as I'm fully aware of her sexuality she just may not want to share this lady.
However she would never and has never gone behind my back we are completely open in our relationship.
I'm just not sure if ready for her to go solo.
Sadly this website hasn't helped so far in allowing my wife to explore her sexuality fully. And I don't know whether or not my greed will allow her to go solo as I want to join in to 
That being said once we establish connections. I should have no issue with her going solo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey guys thank you. It's not a case of going behind his back I just don't want to share and he's not sure how he feels about that. He knows I'm posting he wanted me to ask advice.
I'm not sure what kind of person she is but no sex wouldn't be worth ruining everything. It's just a very confusing time. X thank you for your advice however. Have any of you been in similar situations x"
Apologies then lovely. I think i read it wrong xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Male half speaking now:
Hello all the Mr here. Think something crossed in translation I am fully aware about all that's going on with mutual friend I don't think she's devious just likes to flirt with my wife directly.
I'm fully accepting of my wife's conversations and aware of what's going on I think this was just about her asking what to do as I'm fully aware of her sexuality she just may not want to share this lady.
However she would never and has never gone behind my back we are completely open in our relationship.
I'm just not sure if ready for her to go solo.
Sadly this website hasn't helped so far in allowing my wife to explore her sexuality fully. And I don't know whether or not my greed will allow her to go solo as I want to join in to
That being said once we establish connections. I should have no issue with her going solo. "
The positive from this is that you are clearly being honest with each other about what you want from the swinging scene/experience, feeling and worries, and in our opinion, that is most important.pmfor couples to enjoy this as a partnership.
Seen too many a couple fall foul of the pitfalls of swinging, and the main ones being, not having openness and honesty about it and thus causing lots of issues and skeletons bursting out the closet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The Mrs has played solo as a one off, we both agreed on this. The guy wanted to meet her again, but we declined.
This thread is a good reason why we don't or won't have a "mutual" friend, it inevitably causes problems.
The OP's should be kicking their friend into touch. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The Mrs has played solo as a one off, we both agreed on this. The guy wanted to meet her again, but we declined.
This thread is a good reason why we don't or won't have a "mutual" friend, it inevitably causes problems.
The OP's should be kicking their friend into touch."
Mr here again. I still feel people are not getting that nothing that's going on here is causing any problems. I don't mind my other half being sent messages by our friend. So Can't see any need to kick anyone into touch. She is flirting with my other half yea... and I'm fully aware. She knows I know she flirts with her just not that I know the content. So nothing is being hidden from each other on our end. |
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