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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.
However we seem to be really struggling with this as I'm (female) straight and most couples seem to want bi females for group fun. Does anyone else find this? Are straight couples just in the minority so we need to look harder?
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There's bi females and real bi females.
We find that a lot say Bi and they only do it for rgeir fella, or they are happy to receive but not give in turn.
I am bi very bi, but am always happy to play straight with another couple.
My advice to you is to over look any lable, and discover the person rather than a lable. |
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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"There's bi females and real bi females.
We find that a lot say Bi and they only do it for rgeir fella, or they are happy to receive but not give in turn.
I am bi very bi, but am always happy to play straight with another couple.
My advice to you is to over look any lable, and discover the person rather than a lable. "
Yeah I'm happy to discover the person than just look at the label. It's good to know that some bi females are happy to play straight at times too. |
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over a year ago
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Yes we definitely find this. J tried a bit of bi-curious and now definitely just wants straight couples. But a bi or bi-curious fem seem almost to be the norm - from our experience. |
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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Hi guys, I wouldn't be too put off by the profile write up of the bi lady couples, their are many like us that are really happy to play straight, I am bi, but it's not a deal breaker or set in stone, we play often without bi play, and most genuine lovely couples will respect your boundries, good luck with your search and don't forget just ask the question, if they are happy to play straight then all is good 
Mrs blue eyes "
Oh this is good to know. Thanks for the advice |
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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Yes we definitely find this. J tried a bit of bi-curious and now definitely just wants straight couples. But a bi or bi-curious fem seem almost to be the norm - from our experience."
Yeah this is what we have found so far, there definitely seems to be less straight couples wanting to play |
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over a year ago
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"Hi guys, I wouldn't be too put off by the profile write up of the bi lady couples, their are many like us that are really happy to play straight, I am bi, but it's not a deal breaker or set in stone, we play often without bi play, and most genuine lovely couples will respect your boundries, good luck with your search and don't forget just ask the question, if they are happy to play straight then all is good
Mrs blue eyes "
Agree with this definitely, we mostly play without any bi play involved. Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On our couple profile it states I'm Bi curious, which I am.
It's something I'd like to explore, however doesn't mean I won't play straight with the right couple.
So always worth asking if the female is happy to play straight if you see a profile that catches your eye.
Good luck x |
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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"A lot of bi fem couples aren't what I'd call bi. By that I mean they don't mind another woman being assertive and playing with her. Though play in return is often limited or non existent. "
Yeah I think you're right. It seems the norm to put at least bi curious on most couples profiles |
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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"On our couple profile it states I'm Bi curious, which I am.
It's something I'd like to explore, however doesn't mean I won't play straight with the right couple.
So always worth asking if the female is happy to play straight if you see a profile that catches your eye.
Good luck x "
This makes sense and I should ask the question more than just presuming couples won't be interested in us.
Thanks.x |
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"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.
However we seem to be really struggling with this as I'm (female) straight and most couples seem to want bi females for group fun. Does anyone else find this? Are straight couples just in the minority so we need to look harder?
Red x"
We're both straight and find this as well, there seems to be very few straight couples about |
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"Yes we definitely find this. J tried a bit of bi-curious and now definitely just wants straight couples. But a bi or bi-curious fem seem almost to be the norm - from our experience.
Yeah this is what we have found so far, there definitely seems to be less straight couples wanting to play"
Of course there are , simply because the dynamic in straight play is so limiting .
We would class ourselves as bi playful , so neither of us would want a same sex relationship , but in the play situation are more than happy with same sex touching , kissing etc.......
We have found lots of similar couples in the lifestyle , and we love the variety of options open to us since we became more flexible . |
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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Yes we definitely find this. J tried a bit of bi-curious and now definitely just wants straight couples. But a bi or bi-curious fem seem almost to be the norm - from our experience.
Yeah this is what we have found so far, there definitely seems to be less straight couples wanting to play
Of course there are , simply because the dynamic in straight play is so limiting .
We would class ourselves as bi playful , so neither of us would want a same sex relationship , but in the play situation are more than happy with same sex touching , kissing etc.......
We have found lots of similar couples in the lifestyle , and we love the variety of options open to us since we became more flexible ."
I like the phrase bi playful! I might steal that.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On our couple profile it states I'm Bi curious, which I am.
It's something I'd like to explore, however doesn't mean I won't play straight with the right couple.
So always worth asking if the female is happy to play straight if you see a profile that catches your eye.
Good luck x
This makes sense and I should ask the question more than just presuming couples won't be interested in us.
Thanks.x"
as we arent playing currently mine is set to straight as I will only play with a woman in a play situation... and certainly not looking for girl on girl play unless it just happens as part of it. And there are plenty of ladies that are quite happy to leave out the girl play. |
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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"On our couple profile it states I'm Bi curious, which I am.
It's something I'd like to explore, however doesn't mean I won't play straight with the right couple.
So always worth asking if the female is happy to play straight if you see a profile that catches your eye.
Good luck x
This makes sense and I should ask the question more than just presuming couples won't be interested in us.
Thanks.x as we arent playing currently mine is set to straight as I will only play with a woman in a play situation... and certainly not looking for girl on girl play unless it just happens as part of it. And there are plenty of ladies that are quite happy to leave out the girl play. "
I think we made the mistake of presuming that for anyone who has bi curious on their profile it's an important part of the play for them, turns out it's not always the case. |
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We're both straight. There do seem to be a lot of couples with bi or bi curious women, if they're genuinely happy to play straight we'll meet them. Just because someone like baked beans doesn't mean they need them at every meal to enjoy food. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On our couple profile it states I'm Bi curious, which I am.
It's something I'd like to explore, however doesn't mean I won't play straight with the right couple.
So always worth asking if the female is happy to play straight if you see a profile that catches your eye.
Good luck x
This makes sense and I should ask the question more than just presuming couples won't be interested in us.
Thanks.x as we arent playing currently mine is set to straight as I will only play with a woman in a play situation... and certainly not looking for girl on girl play unless it just happens as part of it. And there are plenty of ladies that are quite happy to leave out the girl play.
I think we made the mistake of presuming that for anyone who has bi curious on their profile it's an important part of the play for them, turns out it's not always the case."
Well...... we have, on ocassion, found that the bi-curious fem is more than a bit curious. And that puts unwanted pressure on J. |
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By *UCKY_13Couple
over a year ago
southwest |
"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.
However we seem to be really struggling with this as I'm (female) straight and most couples seem to want bi females for group fun. Does anyone else find this? Are straight couples just in the minority so we need to look harder?
Red x"
We thought the same at the start thought we were the odd ones out but in reality a lot of the couples say bi to help attract other couples and others are like me strait but have no issue in a group situation a woman touching them but don't actively look to please other woman xx |
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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.
However we seem to be really struggling with this as I'm (female) straight and most couples seem to want bi females for group fun. Does anyone else find this? Are straight couples just in the minority so we need to look harder?
Red x
We thought the same at the start thought we were the odd ones out but in reality a lot of the couples say bi to help attract other couples and others are like me strait but have no issue in a group situation a woman touching them but don't actively look to please other woman xx"
Thanks, yeah this we are starting to realise! |
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"We're both straight. There do seem to be a lot of couples with bi or bi curious women, if they're genuinely happy to play straight we'll meet them. Just because someone like baked beans doesn't mean they need them at every meal to enjoy food. "
I like that analogy! Might steal that lol! N definitely prefers straight play, she just occasionally gets the urge to play with women too!
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"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.
However we seem to be really struggling with this as I'm (female) straight and most couples seem to want bi females for group fun. Does anyone else find this? Are straight couples just in the minority so we need to look harder?
Red x"
We are a straight couple and have found this also. though they are couple profiles out there stating the fem is bi or bi-curious but they will or can play straight as there has to be some kind of attraction for fem play just the same as f & m play. So dont be put off by bi fem couples. communication in messages prior to meeting will help xx good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Straight couple here - Mrs has received oral, kissed and touched another woman but isn't really looking for more, nor is she ruling it out if it happens, so neither of the three profile options fit? Open to exploration in the right circumstances perhaps? |
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"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.
However we seem to be really struggling with this as I'm (female) straight and most couples seem to want bi females for group fun. Does anyone else find this? Are straight couples just in the minority so we need to look harder?
Red x"
We have the same trouble Red, finding a couple that we get one with where the fem is actually not Bi and isn't looking for girl on girl is so hard x
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"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.
However we seem to be really struggling with this as I'm (female) straight and most couples seem to want bi females for group fun. Does anyone else find this? Are straight couples just in the minority so we need to look harder?
Red x"
We are both straight not even a little curious but every couple that seem like we may play with then back track when they find out that Jill will not play with the lady . |
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"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.
However we seem to be really struggling with this as I'm (female) straight and most couples seem to want bi females for group fun. Does anyone else find this? Are straight couples just in the minority so we need to look harder?
Red xWe are both straight not even a little curious but every couple that seem like we may play with then back track when they find out that Jill will not play with the lady ."
Don't see the reasoning for that. Unless the lady is very, very bi. Nothing wrong with variety! |
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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.
However we seem to be really struggling with this as I'm (female) straight and most couples seem to want bi females for group fun. Does anyone else find this? Are straight couples just in the minority so we need to look harder?
Red x
We have the same trouble Red, finding a couple that we get one with where the fem is actually not Bi and isn't looking for girl on girl is so hard x
MrsK"
I will keep looking. This thread has given me hope and made me realise that I shouldn't make assumptions about bi females not wanting to play straight |
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By *ascals10Couple
over a year ago
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We are both straight and very proud of it! We are always extremely honest with other couples to manage expectations. Personally (and this is from 13 yrs experience) we have found a bit of pressure on one side of the partnership to be 'accommodating' to the other. Mrs R may occasionally recieve but never give oral.
We are straight and traditional and proud to be so! |
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"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.
However we seem to be really struggling with this as I'm (female) straight and most couples seem to want bi females for group fun. Does anyone else find this? Are straight couples just in the minority so we need to look harder?
Red x"
Wiggles is Bi, but thats never stopped us playing with straight couples. Only thing thats ever stopped us playing with a straight couple, is if wiggles dosnt fancy the guy, or if we think the lady is only there so her bloke can get laid. |
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"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.
However we seem to be really struggling with this as I'm (female) straight and most couples seem to want bi females for group fun. Does anyone else find this? Are straight couples just in the minority so we need to look harder?
Red x"
For a lot of couples like us it's only part of the fun the lady being Bi or curious. Stefe mainly prefers men but if there is a connection and it feels right she is more than happy to play but only if everyone is happy.
Don't let the lady being bi put you off as like us a lot of couples are happy to straight swap.
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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.
However we seem to be really struggling with this as I'm (female) straight and most couples seem to want bi females for group fun. Does anyone else find this? Are straight couples just in the minority so we need to look harder?
Red x
For a lot of couples like us it's only part of the fun the lady being Bi or curious. Stefe mainly prefers men but if there is a connection and it feels right she is more than happy to play but only if everyone is happy.
Don't let the lady being bi put you off as like us a lot of couples are happy to straight swap.
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Thanks, this is good to know |
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We would answer it from the other perspective.
Bun is definitely bi, not doing it for a show or to please me. Ff play is normally part of a meet for us and we would link up with bi fem couples. But lots of couples who say that on their profile aren't really and the ff is just a bit of a thing on the profile to increase meets.
I think you'll have the same luck as any other couple once their preferences are taken into account.
Have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Rather play with a couple where the lady was honest and said she was straight rather than a "bi curious" lady who is not bi at all but doing it to please there partner, really off putting
Lots of couples will play straight but maybe not there first choice, personally the girly play for me is awesome
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just ask them
I'm sure most bi ladies would be more than happy to play straight.
I am bi but most of my sexual time is with hubby. It wouldn't bother me one bit to leave that bit out nor would I feel offended.
Go for it you two! You're lovely people  |
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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Just ask them
I'm sure most bi ladies would be more than happy to play straight.
I am bi but most of my sexual time is with hubby. It wouldn't bother me one bit to leave that bit out nor would I feel offended.
Go for it you two! You're lovely people "
Thanks PNG
I think we previously felt that bi fem play was important to most bi fem couples and so we'd not send messages as we didn't think we were what they were looking for.
This thread has shown us we should just ask the question! |
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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"My husband is straight, I'm Bi but have played straight many times
Just need to read through profiles and message couples if you need any other information
Good luck with your search OP
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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Rather play with a couple where the lady was honest and said she was straight rather than a "bi curious" lady who is not bi at all but doing it to please there partner, really off putting
Lots of couples will play straight but maybe not there first choice, personally the girly play for me is awesome
Coco"
Yes I agree, I think for some it wouldn't be their first choice but like you say I'd rather be honest about my preferences |
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Having had a couple of experiences where bi but willing to play straight ladies have made quite aggressive passes at me I prefer not to meet couples where the woman is bi now.
I don't mean to suggest that all bi women are predatory though, this is just my experience. |
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