"I'm curious as to why people swing.
Is it the sex?
Is it the social side of meets?
Or a combination?"
Why don't you say why you have?
It seems you have been here six months and you are yet to meet someone, but what brings you here? Free sex?? |
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Sex, then the social aspects. Love being greedy and that's not something I could do in the vanilla world. Love being taken hard and used which is something I can't ask hubby to do on a nightly basis.  Different blokes, different strokes, sizes and techniques. It's all fun  |
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over a year ago
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We see it as healthy conversation.
Surely you don't restrict your verbal communication with only the one person, sex to us is a conversation. The words are the touches, the breaths, the eyes, the moans, the arching of backs, and all the other bits in between.
Having those conversations with the people we choose to at the time makes us better communicators with each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I just went to a spiritual gathering and, for all the different goings on there, I saw no mention of sex. It feels like I'm just on the other side of a big divide now. It just felt like, for all the supposed spiritual liberation, the lack of any sexual expression and liberation made the whole thing a charade. For all the debaseness of swinging, you lot are the only people truly comfortable with who you are in your fullness... and that, quite frankly, is a type of spiritual enlightenment and self acceptance.
Sex, to me, is quite clearly the most powerful spiritual practice there is. And I see no reason why one shouldn't engage in that practice with a wide range of beautiful souls. After all your life is so short and so delicious. I think the world would be a better place if we all freed ourselves to truly revel in that with lovers, friends, and people we meet along the path.
This isn't a comment on anyone other than me... it's my attempt to describe my mindset and quite how much of the cool aid I've d*unk around here 
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me, as a single male, it's partly about the sex. Swingers tend to be more opened minded, willing to experiment and know how to have a good time
The other aspect For me is that it's less complicated than dating and usually (unfortunately not always) less drama than the vanilla world.
I've give got a crazy lifestyle, I work hard and play hard which makes its difficult to hold down a relationship, swinging tends to fit in the fun around my lifestyle |
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By *stonMTMan
over a year ago
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For me it was trying some thing different and seeing if could go through with it then after that it was start of life changing journey and meeting a wide range of people an eye opener for sure |
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