FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Introducing female partner into swinging.
Introducing female partner into swinging.
Jump to: Newest in thread
| |||
| |||
| |||
| |||
 | |||
"Why not dress up as a waiter for her and pretend to be that younger guy. If she likes that, then suggest to go back to that cafe and see if he's there. See if she flirts with him again."   | |||
"When you are getting down to it, whisper in her ear to pretend that it is the waiter, get her to close her eyes and imagine its him, if she asks if it bothers you, tell her seeing her turned on by the idea turns you on. Tell her you are not jealous, you just like her to have fun. Build on it, maybe as part of the fantasy suggest that she would love to have him there with you, pleasing her, you will soon know if the idea is hot for her. Eventually you could suggest it for real, tell her the idea of seeing her with another guy would be hot. This is kinda how we started, we were very vocal about what fantasies we had, we talked a lot during sex to turn each other on, and in the process realised that we loved the idea, to the point where talking about it wasn't enough, we had to know if the reality was as good as the fantasy......... It was better! "Thanks for that, that really seems a good idea, will defo try that | |||
"The usual advice to this oft asked question would be to show her your profile on here and see how she reacts....... " Mmm I do feel bad, but she doesn't know about this site. BUT I'd never meet anyone behind her back, I was on this site way before meeting her. | |||
"Well me and the wife never swung before but were taking it up a notch. By this i dont mean full on swinging but asked her, for me, what you thinking about giving a guy a handjob? See what see says and see where you go from there. Also mention about taking her to a club. Dont have to swing just check out the scene." | |||
| |||
"Talk to her. You say you're certain she was imagining you were the waiter which is a massive assumption. It's also a massive jump from being a flirt who enjoys sex to being a swingers. Talk, talk talk then talk some more. When you've done talking try talking "Or he could try talking even lol  | |||
"Talk to her. You say you're certain she was imagining you were the waiter which is a massive assumption. It's also a massive jump from being a flirt who enjoys sex to being a swingers. Talk, talk talk then talk some more. When you've done talking try talking "Exactly this. TALK. | |||
"Talk to her. You say you're certain she was imagining you were the waiter which is a massive assumption. It's also a massive jump from being a flirt who enjoys sex to being a swingers. Talk, talk talk then talk some more. When you've done talking try talking " | |||
"Talk to her. You say you're certain she was imagining you were the waiter which is a massive assumption. It's also a massive jump from being a flirt who enjoys sex to being a swingers. Talk, talk talk then talk some more. When you've done talking try talking " also may I suggest that you talk  | |||
| |||
"When you are getting down to it, whisper in her ear to pretend that it is the waiter, get her to close her eyes and imagine its him, if she asks if it bothers you, tell her seeing her turned on by the idea turns you on. Tell her you are not jealous, you just like her to have fun. Build on it, maybe as part of the fantasy suggest that she would love to have him there with you, pleasing her, you will soon know if the idea is hot for her. Eventually you could suggest it for real, tell her the idea of seeing her with another guy would be hot. This is kinda how we started, we were very vocal about what fantasies we had, we talked a lot during sex to turn each other on, and in the process realised that we loved the idea, to the point where talking about it wasn't enough, we had to know if the reality was as good as the fantasy......... It was better! "Thanks for your advice guys. Turns out she knows more about the swinging scene than I do. Mentioned the waiter to her and see had noticed the bulge in his trousers, so it won't come as a surprise to you that we will be going back to that cafe soon. LIKE TODAY!!!!!. | |||
| |||
"Sounds great. Let is know how you get on!" | |||
| |||
"The usual advice to this oft asked question would be to show her your profile on here and see how she reacts....... Mmm I do feel bad, but she doesn't know about this site. BUT I'd never meet anyone behind her back, I was on this site way before meeting her." just be honest with her, you were here before you met her, the longer you leave it the harder it will be xx | |||
| |||
"Round 2 is happening tonight with the café worker and so looking forward "good to see one of these threads go well.good luck to all 3 of ya lol | |||
"Round 2 is happening tonight with the café worker and so looking forward "Yay! Looking forward to hearing what happens next! | |||
"Round 2 is happening tonight with the café worker and so looking forward good to see one of these threads go well.good luck to all 3 of ya lol" | |||
"Round 2 is happening tonight with the café worker and so looking forward
Yay!
Looking forward to hearing what happens next! " | |||
| |||
"Met my partner on Match.com a month ago.. we got chatting about our sexual fantasies. Within two weeks we joined fab .. " Wow, cool story | |||
"Met my partner on Match.com a month ago.. we got chatting about our sexual fantasies. Within two weeks we joined fab .. Wow, cool story "We were just open and honest with each other. She is a bigger perv than me.haha | |||
"Met my partner on Match.com a month ago.. we got chatting about our sexual fantasies. Within two weeks we joined fab .. Wow, cool story
We were just open and honest with each other. She is a bigger perv than me.haha
"Same here, my partner looks so sweet and innocent until you start turning her on, then she's like a loose cannon. I need weights to hold her down. She's taught ME a few tricks pheeeew.  | |||
| |||
| |||
| |||
| |||
"I got my other half into it by, one day blindfolding her and tying her the bed.. then said i was going downstairs to get some ice so we could have fun. But made sure she heard me open the front door to the house, as if to let some one in, then came up stairs.. put my hands on her, they was cold so they felt like some one else's.. she was breathing so heavy and getting so excited but at the same time slightly nervous, but a good nervous.. from this i could tell she would enjoy some one joining us.. I played this out for a while before revealing it was only me... and the rest is history... if she didn't like it we could of easily stopped and i would of known it wasn't for her." It's a case of whatever floats your boat isn't it. Personally Tina doesn't like being tied & blindfolded after a bad experience with her ex. | |||
| |||
"Op, how did the conversations about it go?" BRILLIANTLY | |||
"Op, how did the conversations about it go?BRILLIANTLY "Great
Have you set up couples profile? | |||
"Op, how did the conversations about it go?BRILLIANTLY
Great
Have you set up couples profile?"No, she was on here with her ex, and they used to attend clubs but unfortunately she had a bad experience in a club which put her off this site and clubs. Now she wants to meet spur of the moment. | |||
"Op, how did the conversations about it go?BRILLIANTLY
Great
Have you set up couples profile?No, she was on here with her ex, and they used to attend clubs but unfortunately she had a bad experience in a club which put her off this site and clubs. Now she wants to meet spur of the moment."It'll be tricky doing spur of the moment with no profile. | |||
"Op, how did the conversations about it go?BRILLIANTLY
Great
Have you set up couples profile?No, she was on here with her ex, and they used to attend clubs but unfortunately she had a bad experience in a club which put her off this site and clubs. Now she wants to meet spur of the moment.
It'll be tricky doing spur of the moment with no profile."I don't think so, We met Josh, and within a week or so met him twice. | |||
| |||
"Was not expecting this, Tina now would like to introduce another woman to our relationship to repay me for the two nights of pure passion we spent with Josh. Am I a lucky man or what "Wow, that's unbelievable. | |||
"Was not expecting this, Tina now would like to introduce another woman to our relationship to repay me for the two nights of pure passion we spent with Josh. Am I a lucky man or what
Wow, that's unbelievable."Unbelievable, tell me about it!!!!. Some people may think it's to good to be true, but I don't care!! Because I know the real Truth. Happy days !!!!!  | |||
| |||
| |||
"Any 30+ yrs old woman like to join me & Tina to give her the taste of bi loving ??" pillow talk is great ain't it?! Lol  | |||
"Any 30+ yrs old woman like to join me & Tina to give her the taste of bi loving ??" Without the couples profile mentioned earlier, it's going to be virtually impossible through here. Good luck. | |||
"Any 30+ yrs old woman like to join me & Tina to give her the taste of bi loving ?? Without the couples profile mentioned earlier, it's going to be virtually impossible through here. Good luck." Looking at the post it is a bit tacky. And I think your right, back to the drawing board | |||
| |||
"In the process of talking about it with my partner. Think we will be joining as a couple very soon as she has started to read some of the profiles on here and really turns her on. Well some of them anyway. " | |||
