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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So... it clearly states in our profile that we are looking for bisexual men. We've had a lot of messages that say something like, if you let me fuck the Mrs, I wouldn't mind putting your cock in my mouth.

Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining?

Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it?

I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It's crazy what some straight men will do isn't it,I'm thinking they're not as straight as they seem to think they are

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So... it clearly states in our profile that we are looking for bisexual men. We've had a lot of messages that say something like, if you let me fuck the Mrs, I wouldn't mind putting your cock in my mouth.

Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining?

Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it?

I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring!

It's incredibly frustrating for us men that are actually bi and will happily play with both men and women if the attraction is there!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol... Looking at your profile pics im not surprised that str8 men offer or go bi for you. .... have to say though his cock looks delicious too. ... id be the one wanting to suckyour juices off him. ....

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By *unboytoyMan over a year ago

scotland

Is that not known as fabswingers "straight " lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find it hard to believe that guys just wade in feet first with MF couples.

I can only assume it is ignorance (of the situation) rather than arrogance

As someone who seeks a variety of meet styles, you have to adapt your approach accordingly.

Getting meets with guys is easy. Send a few messages, 'right see you in an hour', job done.

This approach works with some, albeit a few, women.

With a bi couple though, you really need to work at it, set your boundaries, get it all out there upfront.

Most of the time, 1 or all 3 of you will find a reason not to meet, even if you get past the initial attraction thing.

You have to remember that, often, you are entering into an arena based on a mutual love and a bond between two of the three people and you are there so that they can tighten that bond whilst still enjoying the thrill of sex with others.

It's not easy. It's not easy to relax when you meet either, knowing that they know which buttons to press with each other and know where their respective comfort zones are. You're new to all this, with them at least.

The reason I mention effort is that, personally, I'd love a cock in my mouth warm with pussy juices, but fully respect that, for some, it is a step way too far.

By the same token, I wouldn't bareback a meet, so wouldn't expect my condom covered cock to be gulped on straight after pulling out.

So you do have to work at finding the right couple for you and vice versa.

Whoever thinks swinging is a walk in the park still has a fair bit of walking to do before it works out for them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The men who have straight on their profile but then say they will suck cock in return for s fuck sound a bit desperate tbh - bi is bi isn't it?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We both have straight on our profile as we are attracted to the opposite sex and not the same sex. That said we both enjoy play with the same sex and like to play all together so i would say we are bi comfortable but there is no box for that

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By *carletcoupleCouple over a year ago

manchester

"The men who have straight on their profile but then say they will suck cock in return for s fuck sound a bit desperate tbh - bi is bi isn't it?!"

That's what we thought, but the amount of "offers" we get, more on the "you can suck my cock if I get a go on your wife" side of the arrangement is staggering. Almost like they are doing me a favour letting me have a suck once they have finished with the wife. Now, that is a scenario we might like to act out in role play but it's not a starting point for a 3 way relationship for us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I consider myself bi playful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd love a strap on up my ass as I suck your cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not easy. It's not easy to relax when you meet either, knowing that they know which buttons to press with each other and know where their respective comfort zones are. You're new to all this, with them at least."

I think you put it very well. Meeting a bi/bi-curious couple can be very difficult. As a bi guy, I have no issue with going all the way with a single guy. A couple though have so many more dynamics that need working out and there is the potential for so many more restrictions from either side of the couple.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"It's crazy what some men will do isn't it?"

Any port in a Storm.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"I'd love a strap on up my ass as I suck your cock"

More tea vicar?

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By *ussiesCouple over a year ago

gwent

We just direct them to fabguys, they can have as much cock as they want, hehe

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"We just direct them to fabguys, they can have as much cock as they want, hehe"

Fabguys is full of just as many straight cock suckers as this place.

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By *ussiesCouple over a year ago

gwent

"We just direct them to fabguys, they can have as much cock as they want, hehe

Fabguys is full of just as many straight cock suckers as this place."

I bet they joined fabguys first haha

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"We just direct them to fabguys, they can have as much cock as they want, hehe

Fabguys is full of just as many straight cock suckers as this place.

I bet they joined fabguys first haha"

I doubt it.

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By *arkside2698Man over a year ago

luton

They do exist OP but if they don't state Bi on their profile then maybe give them a swerve. Can you filter straight accounts? It would stop you getting the "I'll let him suck after I've fucked her" messages from the desperate ones...

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"They do exist OP but if they don't state Bi on their profile then maybe give them a swerve. Can you filter straight accounts? It would stop you getting the "I'll let him suck after I've fucked her" messages from the desperate ones..."

Unfortunately not. Lots have asked.

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By *arkside2698Man over a year ago

luton

Unfortunately not. Lots have asked. "

That's a shame. If a guy is too ashamed to state Bi on profile, it's likely they'll be too ashamed to meet anyway imo! Far too many fantasists on here

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

Unfortunately not. Lots have asked.

That's a shame. If a guy is too ashamed to state Bi on profile, it's likely they'll be too ashamed to meet anyway imo! Far too many fantasists on here"

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The things men will do for a fanny eh

I would say they have to be fucked by my partner first. Then they can have me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The amount of straight guys asking to suck my cock outnumbers the bi guys

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By *arrasicMan over a year ago

birmingham

"The amount of straight guys asking to suck my cock outnumbers the bi guys

Very true

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I welcome all your thoughts. People don't pay enough attention to couple dynamics. I guess we all have our own reasons for swinging, for us, we prefer sharing rather than swapping. You can't do that with straight guys. Xx

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By *hips n FursMan over a year ago

Huddersfield

Ones that get me are the ones that won't put bi on their profile incase they get recognised. Errr you've no profile pics.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A classic is being contacted by a 'straight' couple. But the guy is interested in trying cock. Wife doesn't know about it...bloody idiot is risking ruining marriage and family over not telling the truth!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A classic is being contacted by a 'straight' couple. But the guy is interested in trying cock. Wife doesn't know about it...bloody idiot is risking ruining marriage and family over not telling the truth!"

I had one 'straight' guy try and climb my yard wall to get to my door because I was in the shower when he arrived and I didn't answer his call

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We just direct them to fabguys, they can have as much cock as they want, hehe

Fabguys is full of just as many straight cock suckers as this place."

Probably more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Straight" guys messaging Bi guys/couples? Whatever next, I'm shocked! Does this really go on?! *

* I get them all the time

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By *ed wineMan over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

BiMMF. Great acronym!!!

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By *ast_jjMan over a year ago

Dublin and London

Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining?

Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it?

I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring!

"
I'm surprised you respond in the first place..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have had chated with guy from couple, and when I ask on women every evening she was out with fridends or with her mother...

one time I has ask when he will be with her - answer was at friday evening was Tuesday that day....

at friday I was ask on her and answer was she is out with her friends...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can understand your frustration OP myself if I saw your blokes cock I would be drooling to get my mouth and hands around it.I completely shake with sexual lust when I see a stiff cock like that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining?

Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it?

I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring!

We get it all the time...

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By *istressdandsubtCouple over a year ago

caterham

We once told a guy too suck hubby and when he said know we both just said get dressed and go its not happening, he left appologised with his tall between his legs

Very blunt and straight

It normally works

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By *i de BiCouple over a year ago

Leicester

We only meet fully bisexual guys or bisexual ladies .

The standard message from straight guys , is this

" i know my profile says straight , but i am bi . Just dont want to get bombarded with messages from other bi guys !"

Or "i am only orally bi"

Best is "i`m bi curious , and looking for a couple to introduce me to bisex, as my wife doesnt understand my needs"

We just delete and welcome the genuine messages from bisexual people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining?

Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it?

I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Omg your body! Sigh x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We only meet fully bisexual guys or bisexual ladies .

The standard message from straight guys , is this

" i know my profile says straight , but i am bi . Just dont want to get bombarded with messages from other bi guys !"

Or "i am only orally bi"

Best is "i`m bi curious , and looking for a couple to introduce me to bisex, as my wife doesnt understand my needs"

We just delete and welcome the genuine messages from bisexual people.

Orally bi is a thing though

I am not really interested in fucking guys I meet

I won't say I never have as that would be a lie, but it isn't something I'd put on the menu up front.

I very, very, very rarely take it up the arse myself.

Again, I have done but only when I have been in a relationship with the guy.

So, whilst I am truly bi in that I have full blown relationships with guys & women, for the purposes of Fab, I am, essentially, orally bi.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd love a strap on up my ass as I suck your cock"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know exactly. Well I will suck and fuck Mr if she will watch. That bi enought lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I know exactly. Well I will suck and fuck Mr if she will watch. That bi enought lol"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I couldn't written this! Bi curious is no good to us either we only play with fully bi guys!

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By *reokinkMan over a year ago

London

"I welcome all your thoughts. People don't pay enough attention to couple dynamics. I guess we all have our own reasons for swinging, for us, we prefer sharing rather than swapping. You can't do that with straight guys. Xx"

I totally hear you. Although its not essential with couples. An MMF with a straight guy gets boring very quickly from my perspective.

Danny

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By *ealfunCouple over a year ago

darleston

"We both have straight on our profile as we are attracted to the opposite sex and not the same sex. That said we both enjoy play with the same sex and like to play all together so i would say we are bi comfortable but there is no box for that "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now if any bi couples fancy a Ross Kemp look a like for some nice bi fun ,

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By *xoticloverMan over a year ago

newcastle

Comes down to 'different degrees'of bisexuality which can be a new forum on its own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Comes down to 'different degrees'of bisexuality which can be a new forum on its own."

We've just been chatting about this...bi sexual, bi selfish, bi curious, orally bi, bi(if you give me a go of your bird), pansexual.

We just like, if you find us both attractive that you want to snog us both, we're happy with that.

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By *xoticloverMan over a year ago

newcastle

"Comes down to 'different degrees'of bisexuality which can be a new forum on its own.

We've just been chatting about this...bi sexual, bi selfish, bi curious, orally bi, bi(if you give me a go of your bird), pansexual.

We just like, if you find us both attractive that you want to snog us both, we're happy with that. "

I will tell you about how I feel. I don't get attracted to guys face as I can do with a girl so getting attracted to a guy over a meal never happens with me.

But In a 3 sum situation I might still play bi even if there is no massive attraction.

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I get this a lot on my profile when guys see I am playing as a couple, they then ask my couplesprofile name

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Comes down to 'different degrees'of bisexuality which can be a new forum on its own.

We've just been chatting about this...bi sexual, bi selfish, bi curious, orally bi, bi(if you give me a go of your bird), pansexual.

We just like, if you find us both attractive that you want to snog us both, we're happy with that. "

Genuine question...

What is the difference between bi-sexual and bi-curious?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Comes down to 'different degrees'of bisexuality which can be a new forum on its own.

We've just been chatting about this...bi sexual, bi selfish, bi curious, orally bi, bi(if you give me a go of your bird), pansexual.

We just like, if you find us both attractive that you want to snog us both, we're happy with that.

Genuine question...

What is the difference between bi-sexual and bi-curious?"

You know when you were young and your mother made you try food over and over again to see of you liked it...and then you did! - bisexual. Hahaha!!

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By *xoticloverMan over a year ago

newcastle

"Comes down to 'different degrees'of bisexuality which can be a new forum on its own.

We've just been chatting about this...bi sexual, bi selfish, bi curious, orally bi, bi(if you give me a go of your bird), pansexual.

We just like, if you find us both attractive that you want to snog us both, we're happy with that.

Genuine question...

What is the difference between bi-sexual and bi-curious?

You know when you were young and your mother made you try food over and over again to see of you liked it...and then you did! - bisexual. Hahaha!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Comes down to 'different degrees'of bisexuality which can be a new forum on its own.

We've just been chatting about this...bi sexual, bi selfish, bi curious, orally bi, bi(if you give me a go of your bird), pansexual.

We just like, if you find us both attractive that you want to snog us both, we're happy with that.

Genuine question...

What is the difference between bi-sexual and bi-curious?

You know when you were young and your mother made you try food over and over again to see of you liked it...and then you did! - bisexual. Hahaha!!

Ha ha so bi-curious is a bi-sexual virgin?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm orally bi as just not done anal yet, but looking to try. Also Jane and I want to suck a cock together. Still describe myself as bi-curious but as I haver sucked a few cocks I think I'm past that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have had a few guys suck my cock ,would love to try anal myself too ,need to try it at least once

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By *anchester_gentMan over a year ago

Manchester/ Cheshire border

Wouldn't it make sense if it were possible to block messages from people by stated sexual orientation as well as by age and gender?

I know people can change what the profile says, but it might be a start.... (maybe the profile could state if the sexual orientation has been changed during the past 24 hours - to help out people who are not wanted.)

I try to avoid replying if I know a couple are only looking for bi guys, but it's not always 100% possible.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Through our couples profile we prefer to meet bi guys as the wife likes to watch and gets off on DVP play but the amount of guys who have 100% straight on their profile then contact us saying they will play bi is crazy.

So when we arrange to meet up the first thing we say is right lets see you sucking cock before any other play goes on they suddenly remember they couldn't suck a cock if their life depended on it lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm in that box too ,, getting bit lonely in here lol!

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By *ireblade211Man over a year ago

halifax

Have been trying for ages to join a couple for mmf fun, without success i must add! Would consider myself to be bi-playfull and something i would really like to try out with the right couple. Any advice on how to approach couples would be appreciated.

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By *andemanMan over a year ago

bedforshire

Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining?

Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it?

I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring!

It's incredibly frustrating for us men that are actually bi and will happily play with both men and women if the attraction is there!"

Agreed.

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By *andemanMan over a year ago

bedforshire

Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining?

Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it?

I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring!

Not helpful to be honest that your filters are set for site supporters only. Check my Vris for credentials. Thanks.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

we had something similar with a straight couple when we were stating out in this aspect, pre fab..

she was less than pleased to come back into the room and find him and Mrs Surrey sharing my cock..

all got a tad awkward to say the least..

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By *andemanMan over a year ago

bedforshire

we had something similar with a straight couple when we were stating out in this aspect, pre fab..

she was less than pleased to come back into the room and find him and Mrs Surrey sharing my cock..

all got a tad awkward to say the least.."

Opps! Had he not told her he liked sausage? Poor you two how embarissing.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

we had something similar with a straight couple when we were stating out in this aspect, pre fab..

she was less than pleased to come back into the room and find him and Mrs Surrey sharing my cock..

all got a tad awkward to say the least..

Opps! Had he not told her he liked sausage? Poor you two how embarissing."

nope..

think he thought as she had had a little too much to drink she was going to take a break and he thought now's the chance..

staggeringly stupid..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

(Hi guys and girls, this is the Dom half of the couple. My sexy little submissive has being having all the fun and I wanted to add my views or ideas. I'm not judgemental whatsoever so please don't be offended).

I guess they are more questions too.

I'm not sure how all the sexual labels work. I thought if you would play with the other sex in anyway that makes you bi in some capacity. Personally I have to be reasonably attracted to someone to play. That being said in the moment I'll probably still go for it even if I'm not attracted.

I find mainly women and some men attractive. I'm not sure a fully MM relationship would work for me but it's fun to explore your sexuality a little, it's exciting.

I wonder if the not wanting to put bi on your profile as guys or cpls is to do with the stigma of homosexuality? If so how does that balance with play.

Hopefully we are all getting more open and in the future won't feel the need as much for labels.

Pretty rambling I know but it's such an interesting topic to chat about.

Enjoy your day sexy people xxx

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By *andemanMan over a year ago

bedforshire

There are many threads on this topic. For me I suppose i am actually "Metrosexual" (bullshit word I know) i just like to play. Sometimes a guy will interest me and sometime a woman will not. Often its the otherway round.

Occationally I get to play with both. Sometimes each sepretly and on those wonderful occations all together.

Do i fancy woman more then men? In a general sence yes but somtimes only a guy on my cock will do. Could i have a committed long term loving sexual relationship with a guy? No. Sorry i have guys i am very fond of and guys who are ,"family" and love but thats not the same thing.

Ultimatly I enjoy sex and meeting interesting people and playing with them. To only fish in a section of the pond seams silly to me when the whole pond has such beautyful fish.

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By *laytimenowMan over a year ago

Essex

As a Bi Male looking for couples females & ts

I block males .

That way i get far fewer messages but they are messages that will spark my interest .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wondering how many people are thinking of coming out and being open with partner but still dare not be ruin it as it could wreck the marriage it's like the advert when 2 woman having a coffee morning are chatting when the guy walks in she says me and Anne have been discussing 3 somes this morning the guy has beaming smile on face and says yes please the wife then says how disgusting it is oh oh still lots of guys won't broach the subject swinging 3 some etc in case of exactly that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We get countless messages from fantasists..

Straight guys on their profile but wanting "apparently" to fuck Mr and have their cock sucked. Mostly just disappear the next day.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like the term "Hetero Flexible"

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By *wcwCouple over a year ago

cheshire

Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining?

Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it?

I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring!

"
some guys need to take a look at what they put. And have a look at there profiles they make up. And the pics they put on. Some. Not all. But most think. That women are a easy fuck. And the women just want one thing. Some even make out that its a privilage for you to have them to fuck you. How wrong can they be.

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple over a year ago

Preston

Always amazed by all the straight men on here that suddenly turn bi in the messages :-/

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Haha. If you read our profile you may get a sense of how fed up we are with straight guys faking bi. Or trying it on regardless

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It doesn't bother me. I can understand why some men identify as straight on here though. They tell me they get more meets as straight. Really? Strange their meets don't bother to leave a verification.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining?

Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it?

I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring!

How about he fucks me as I go down on you then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm finding this discussion really interesting.

I have only just started admitting how bi I actually am (yeah OK, to myself mainly and within Fab - stilladies liberating enough) I'm also I am state of constant arousal, but that's another story

I guess my question is for the bi couples, how bi does one have to be and crucially how do I prove I'm that bi?

(I know it depends out the individe also... but)

Longest FaF?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fuck and suck Mr whilst she watches or joins in normally proves it

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By *unk_of_loveMan over a year ago

Hanley

I'm fully bi and have no problem sucking or being fucked by a guy when playing with him and his partner.

In fact I quite enjoy it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining?

Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it?

I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring!

Sad

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm finding this discussion really interesting.

I have only just started admitting how bi I actually am (yeah OK, to myself mainly and within Fab - stilladies liberating enough) I'm also I am state of constant arousal, but that's another story

I guess my question is for the bi couples, how bi does one have to be and crucially how do I prove I'm that bi?

(I know it depends out the individe also... but)

Longest FaF?

I'm not sure if anyone needs to prove they are bi. For us, we get a feel for people. We both like to be seduced and flirted with so If we don't both feel like that from the other person, then it probably won't work out for us. I like your profile, quite funny! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm finding this discussion really interesting.

I have only just started admitting how bi I actually am (yeah OK, to myself mainly and within Fab - stilladies liberating enough) I'm also I am state of constant arousal, but that's another story

I guess my question is for the bi couples, how bi does one have to be and crucially how do I prove I'm that bi?

(I know it depends out the individe also... but)

Longest FaF?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a shame but there will always be few who spoil it for others

Genuine fully bisexual guy here, very comfortable with myself and happy playing with guys as much as ladies.

The best meets for me are bisexual MMF but they are becoming more and more difficult.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We get just the same but we can't decide whether that is the most annoying thing or the guys who put bi on their profile when they clearly aren't. What is daftest about it is that we prefer bi men but don't mind straight - we just change from MMF to MFM and get stuck in.

Good bi men are hard to find sometimes.

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By *ighteningstrikesCouple over a year ago

chesterfield

We have the same problem....guys will say anything to get at Daisy lol

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By *utecontradictionMan over a year ago

Malvern

"We have the same problem....guys will say anything to get at Daisy lol"

Looking at Daisy that's no surprise. Hehe.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We have the same problem....guys will say anything to get at Daisy lol"

Understandable, if deplorable. Bloody hell though I can understand them bending the truth. Hell, I'm on the verge of saying I misyped my age and am actually 41 not a decade older than that but I can't see you buying it. Lass could get away with it but not this old fart.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We have the same problem....guys will say anything to get at Daisy lol"

I have too agree, it's understandable looking at daisy!

But don't worry I'm fully bi

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Interesting trend I posted comments in swingers chat and chatroom about ST8 Chancers i call them at clubs and on here who suddenly become Bi to meet with couples.

Does my head in.

Been on scene for a few years now and reminded of chat had on another site with a guy who was looking for bi encounter but his profile said he was st8 when i asked him why he said he was meeting 2 women on that site and he didn't want them to know he was Bi and he didn't want to ruin his chances with couples.

Guess that`s the reason,used to get loads of invites from ST8 guys that`s why changed my profile to no males.

Makes me smile when read some couples meet request or profiles that say wont meet Bi guys,with this thread and others wonder whether they actually have!

So if there is a couple out there that is looking for a Bi Not curious Guy get in touch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have found in the past that a lot of the guys only want to get to the missus. Some give it the big speech of what they've done in the past but as soon as you get near their cock or bring the subject up in play, if they're lucky enough to meet you, they very quickly bullshit their way out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are many threads on this topic. For me I suppose i am actually "Metrosexual" (bullshit word I know) i just like to play. Sometimes a guy will interest me and sometime a woman will not. Often its the otherway round.

Occationally I get to play with both. Sometimes each sepretly and on those wonderful occations all together.

Ultimatly I enjoy sex and meeting interesting people and playing with them. To only fish in a section of the pond seams silly to me when the whole pond has such beautyful fish.

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By *andemanMan over a year ago

bedforshire

I have learned years ago to respect the wishes of the people i play with.

Some dont want bi play at all some a little and some full on.

If i want to be there than i accept the rules of the house.

But I have to say if its 3 in a bed seams a whaste if its not all in for pleasure.

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