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over a year ago
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It was me, Mrs, who first brought it up while we were under the influence and he agreed.
It was then discussed in depth, sober, and we decided to give it a go.
We've changed a few things along the way, but it works for us.
And yes I remember our first meet, we have met the couple more than once  x |
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A joint decision. Both of us had had threesomes, group sex etc before we met. We were monogamous for 12 years though we had considered swinging the old fashioned way (adverts in magazines etc) before the explosion of the internet. One night we chatted, decided we liked the idea of an extra guy but decided to start with couples.
Our first met was a nightmare and nearly put us off the idea for good, but we decided to give it one more go, got involved in an orgy and have never looked back. |
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Mrs' idea here. 6 months of dropping subtle hints later.... then another month of dropping not-at-all-subtle-statements - and then the penny dropped.
First social meets were great. First swinging meet was great. If we'd had a bad first experience, we probably wouldn't have continued. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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MrP idea, hadn't been together long but we were always adventurous. He showed me some fetish sites and sdc. Not saying I took it well....I didn't at first with the usual "why am I not enough" and don't you find me attractive anymore" questions. How ever we attended Fclub in London a few times and I really enjoyed dressing up and flirting. Our first meet was at hell fire and I arranged it with a lovely female Dr...so yes I gave MrP his first MFF meet at her hotel after the club....first he knew was when I told him to get out of the taxi   |
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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago
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We stumbled along a threesome... I thought he would think I was bit easy..... he actually thanked me for trusting him to do this... bit of dogging... then me confessing I miss fem fem play and him saying don't let me stop you... fantasies about lots of interactive play .... love to watch..... sex life getting better... kids getting old and boom he joined us on here as a surprise x |
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It was Mr.S in our case who suggested it a few years ago, he never thought I would be up for it. He came home one night after work and I was sitting there with a big smile on my face!! I used my iniative and joined fabs, best decision ever. We have met lots of lovely people and made wonderful friends. Could never go back to vanilla!! Lol!! Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mark found fab tbh...we were messing about whilst out one day and a guy started watching and then followed us...we found it such a turn on and initially came on fab to look for a voyeur....but it never stopped at him jist watching  |
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over a year ago
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both of us decided to give it a go and were very nervous on our first meet and quite nieve about an actual meet.
Arranged to meet a couple via the old contact books about 45 miles from us met and the services and followed them back to their house ... had a coffee and a yap then the wife of the other couple invited my wife for a look around the house (women apparently love being nosey) so I was left with the husband talking general stuff almost an hour later im there thinking this house must be enormous ! he says its ok give them another 10 mins and we'll go find them, 15 mins later and we go on the hunt for the ladies only to open a bedroom in darkness to see my wife laid on the bed naked being eaten by the other lady by the light from the hallway ..... just got better ever since then lol |
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I first raised the idea whilst having Sex, something along the lines of "god I would love to see another man do this to you"
She giggled and we carried in. Then the next time we were at it she mentioned it by saying "imagine somebody doing this to me"
A few days later and we chatted about it, both nervously about why we wanted sex with other people and whatbwe would do ( our no no list back then was huge lol) so we signed up for a swingers page on Facebook with a couple of saucy pics and some text.
What followed almost put us off, she loads of "I wanna bang you missus" and "wanna fuck" messages. In the end she left the group after posting about what a rude bunch they all were.
I got a message from somebody there saying sorry you had a bad experience, have you tried fab swingers so I looked it up and registered.
Get home that night and tell her about fan tonwhich she replies "yes I found that and registered too"
Hence why we have 2 accounts, both couples, one for her and one for me.
Our first meet was a social and did not lead to anything, our second a social then we played at the 3rd.
In the meantime she chatted with a guy 150 miles away who drove down just for a social (we insist on that first) then he came back a week later, booked a hotel and they went off to play for a few hours. That felt odd to me but erotic at the same time. |
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We had a very d*unken MMF at 19/20 with my best mate. It was a 'I'd like to see that' dare - that I didn't imagine for a single second would happen but it did and wow.
He's still my best mate and squash partner too! |
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