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By *odramafun OP Couple
over a year ago
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Just gauging people's thoughts on matching underwear... just made pic black and white before uploaded as underwear not matching... in fact very little of mine does but is it a deal breaker? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just gauging people's thoughts on matching underwear... just made pic black and white before uploaded as underwear not matching... in fact very little of mine does but is it a deal breaker? "
It doesn't matter but I do like the idea of white for innocent red for naughty etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just gauging people's thoughts on matching underwear... just made pic black and white before uploaded as underwear not matching... in fact very little of mine does but is it a deal breaker? "
I will not wear mismatched underwear and if we met someone that didnt have matching underwear id assume they hadn't made an effort
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By *assybitchWoman
over a year ago
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"Just gauging people's thoughts on matching underwear... just made pic black and white before uploaded as underwear not matching... in fact very little of mine does but is it a deal breaker? I will not wear mismatched underwear and if we met someone that didnt have matching underwear id assume they hadn't made an effort "
Same here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of my stuff is matching but i think its personal choice...i just feel sexier when ive dressed up as my job usually calls for sports bras rather than lacey ones! |
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for some reason I hear my mum breaking into her rant... what happens if you get hit by a bus...etc
my reply was if I do I hope the last thing they think about whilst trying to say my life is wear or not my underwear matches |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to mismatch underwear, I find it incredibly dull stuck in the mindset that underwear has to match, shoes and handbags have to match, colours in clothes have to compliment each other etc etc.
I have always liked clashing colours and patterns. In relation to underwear, I like good quality pretty underwear but it doesn't have to match. I would rather have beautiful quality underwear which doesn't match than a cheap matching set from Asda.
There are no set rules in relation to clothes, we each have our own style. Some of us play it safe, some of us prefer a more unique dress style. |
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"Just gauging people's thoughts on matching underwear... just made pic black and white before uploaded as underwear not matching... in fact very little of mine does but is it a deal breaker? "
I couldn't care less if a woman's underwear matched your not. TBH I don't think I would even notice because I would be more concerned with taking it off |
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"Just gauging people's thoughts on matching underwear... just made pic black and white before uploaded as underwear not matching... in fact very little of mine does but is it a deal breaker? I will not wear mismatched underwear and if we met someone that didnt have matching underwear id assume they hadn't made an effort "
was looking for a way to say just this but u beat me to it, wouldn't make me leave but I definitely would have trouble ignoring it if I'd made the effort
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a deal breaker but sooo much sexier when it all matches! Sets that don't match are the equivalent of male boxers with cartoons on or cheesy gimmick like "powertool"! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have matching underwear ...but don't always wear matching underwear 
But what about the firemen!!??"
Where do the firemen come into this I don't need to be rescued |
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By *odramafun OP Couple
over a year ago
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My partner has asked me to clarify that although not always matching underwear I certainly do ensure for nice nights or meets I always plan my underwear perfectly and don't just grab anything .... think he is worrying I have presented as wearing dodgy pants and old bra and reduced our chances of future meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't understand matching underwear. What if I'm wearing black trousers and a white top for instance? I'm beginning to think I'm too pragmatic to be sexy! I wear what's sensible according to the outfit I have on. I never buy matching underwear. I don't care a less if yours matchs or not. Do what suits you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My hubby recently just spoke about this ... apparently if I wear matching underwear I'm feeling horny and looking to be f***ed ..
More I thought about it he might be right lol
As I normally just mix and match but if I'm going out somewhere special i wear something nice and sexy, I always make effort to wear matching sexy underwear to match my outfit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"omg rose surley u cant go without a bra with those jugs"
Lol I did mean thong .But I have went with no bra with a nice fitted top or dress with bra fitted in it for a bit of support .Just too hide the hard nipples poking through really . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love matching undies and wear them 99% of the time.
It's something that makes me feel good, even if it's primark or supermarket stuff. Personal preference |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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Think of it this way - if it doesn't match at least you get to take off that which you like best or least like best.
If it's all matching, we can be spoilt for choice and not know which end to start. Hoorah, and thanks for mixed undies making it easier and to the women who wear them (by choice or default)!  |
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"I must be a rebel, never owned a matching set of smalls and have no interest  "
I'll join you in the rebel club!
I have one set and only because the pants actually fit. Tescos, and I only wear the set in clubs.
I wear black knickers and a bra according to what its going on underneath.
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I don't think for photos or every day life it's truly that important.
In every day life I have a job and work hard and frankly if people are seeing my underwear then something is wrong.
If I am going to meet someone I do like to make an effort and I feel more comfortable if I have chosen something that matches. I do like to chose an outfit specifically for that eventuality too. I might chose an outfit that is red if I know the person particularly likes red. I might go with a specific fabric if it's something I know they like. I tend to match my underwear to the person I am meeting, it excites me to think about their expression when they know I have gone to this effort for them. Usually my meets are planned in advance so I like it to be a part of the build up and will send them a sneaky message to say "I'm going underwear shopping today" I won't tell them what I've bought because I want them to think about it, I want them to want it.
If I turned up and a guy was wearing Spider-Man boxers I would think that was fairly careless and they clearly hadn't put a lot of effort into their appearance for me, so if I'm putting in effort I expect it back.
Ultimately the idea is to take off the underwear sure but isn't the best part of opening a present the unwrapping of the surprise?
It makes me feel more confident and sexier on a meet if I know I've put in that little extra bit of effort. I wouldn't necessarily rule out meeting someone if they didn't wear matching underwear (or at least not novelty underwear) however I would secretly hope that they would wear something that matched.
I've never been to a club but if I went I would expect everyone to be wearing matching underwear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just gauging people's thoughts on matching underwear... just made pic black and white before uploaded as underwear not matching... in fact very little of mine does but is it a deal breaker? "
Doesn't matter at all !!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Matching looks nice but it's just set dressing for a person.
That's what we're interested in.
(Might make sure for the next 3 meets to wear odd socks and see if anyone even notices  ) |
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(Might make sure for the next 3 meets to wear odd socks and see if anyone even notices )"
I wouldn't .
I think I'm reasonably clever. Some might even say sophisticated in certain respects...
...but I do basically spend most of my imaginative energy looking past the clothes/underwear to the naked person beneath. I am, in fact, a creature of base desires and a big fan of nakedness.
With apologies to all of the ladies who have gone through so much effort to look stunningly sexy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For Me it's about class ..
Some women oooose class and would always wear matching underwear.
These are the types i like to meet ..
It's personal choice and budgets I suppose.."
My underwear always matches. I'm far from classy |
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By *odramafun OP Couple
over a year ago
Derbyshire/staffordshire |
"For Me it's about class ..
Some women oooose class and would always wear matching underwear.
These are the types i like to meet ..
It's personal choice and budgets I suppose..
My underwear always matches. I'm far from classy "
Mine doesn't always match but I can be classy if I choose.... so not sure this theory is right x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can honestly say I don't own a matching set...I have way more knickers than bras for starters...I do however have a bra and knickers that look exactly like they're a set but they're not...even bought from different shops |
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