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Does people find fab boring at times and more of a challenge than anything?
For me at times it feels like drawing blood from a stone with people not replying and if they do sometimes you feel like you're stroking their ego. Whereas tinder go out have a few drinks with someone and over 50% of the time you're near guaranteed a bit of fun.
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over a year ago
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"Does people find fab boring at times and more of a challenge than anything?
For me at times it feels like drawing blood from a stone with people not replying and if they do sometimes you feel like you're stroking their ego. Whereas tinder go out have a few drinks with someone and over 50% of the time you're near guaranteed a bit of fun.
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No, I dont find that at all. I am knee deep in offers.
And then there's the hilarious forums. I piss myself every day |
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"Does people find fab boring at times and more of a challenge than anything?
For me at times it feels like drawing blood from a stone with people not replying and if they do sometimes you feel like you're stroking their ego. Whereas tinder go out have a few drinks with someone and over 50% of the time you're near guaranteed a bit of fun.
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I agree with you there, Tinder, Pof, etc are easier to get a meet. I enjoy going out with girls for a few drinks first before progressing.
As a newbie single on here I've not been arsed looking yet but on the others I have. What makes it more exciting/interesting for me on the other sites is converting Vanilla's into swingers, the look and interest they show when I tell them about this lifestyle, nearly all at least want to try it (in my experience). |
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"Does people find fab boring at times and more of a challenge than anything?
For me at times it feels like drawing blood from a stone with people not replying and if they do sometimes you feel like you're stroking their ego. Whereas tinder go out have a few drinks with someone and over 50% of the time you're near guaranteed a bit of fun.
No, I dont find that at all. I am knee deep in offers.
And then there's the hilarious forums. I piss myself every day"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can someone confirm once and for all that in order to use Tinder, you need a FaceAche account  "
You dont now. And if you do its not linked. Its purely to add pics and thats it |
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over a year ago
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"Does people find fab boring at times and more of a challenge than anything?
For me at times it feels like drawing blood from a stone with people not replying and if they do sometimes you feel like you're stroking their ego. Whereas tinder go out have a few drinks with someone and over 50% of the time you're near guaranteed a bit of fun.
No, I dont find that at all. I am knee deep in offers.
And then there's the hilarious forums. I piss myself every day"
 This..... Tinder was pretty crap if I'm honest... here is much better and the forums make it |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Seeing as your linked to a Facebook account and normally have face pics on show, and probably make a bit of an effort on your profile etc, is it really a wonder why men are more successful on there, as they think this site is like some dial a fuck so think no effort is needed.
Then reality hits them on the arse  |
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over a year ago
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The thing that makes me laugh about tinder is. Theres pics full of woman with their kids. And its like there we go, we come as a package take it or leave it. If i lime someone enough regardless of kids or not it wouldnt bother me. |
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"Does people find fab boring at times and more of a challenge than anything?
For me at times it feels like drawing blood from a stone with people not replying and if they do sometimes you feel like you're stroking their ego. Whereas tinder go out have a few drinks with someone and over 50% of the time you're near guaranteed a bit of fun.
No, I dont find that at all. I am knee deep in offers.
And then there's the hilarious forums. I piss myself every day"
But you're a female and the ratio of men to genuine women on here is astronomical |
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"Ok so, one person says you do need faceache and one person says you don't "
I was hesitant for years about it. Just register, NOTHING is shown on Facebook.
Nobody on Facebook can see you're registering with Tinder, logging on, adding a photo.
NOTHING.
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"Ok so, one person says you do need faceache and one person says you don't
I was hesitant for years about it. Just register, NOTHING is shown on Facebook.
Nobody on Facebook can see you're registering with Tinder, logging on, adding a photo.
NOTHING.
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I refuse to get faceache to have access to another app, that's what my issue is.
You couldn't pay me to be on that site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just down to ratios as with most things in life.
Most women who have made the step to go onto a dating site will not consider joining a swinging site because of the perception.
That's why women find it easier on Fab because they have less competition. I know women who really struggle on the dating sites but are inundated on here.
The other issue about dating sites is many men are willing to take advantage of some women's genuine desire to find a relationship just to have sex. |
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"Ok so, one person says you do need faceache and one person says you don't
I was hesitant for years about it. Just register, NOTHING is shown on Facebook.
Nobody on Facebook can see you're registering with Tinder, logging on, adding a photo.
NOTHING.
I refuse to get faceache to have access to another app, that's what my issue is.
You couldn't pay me to be on that site. "
Ditto, was briefly on face book years ago but would never go back on it now just to use a dating app. |
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"Does people find fab boring at times and more of a challenge than anything?
For me at times it feels like drawing blood from a stone with people not replying and if they do sometimes you feel like you're stroking their ego. Whereas tinder go out have a few drinks with someone and over 50% of the time you're near guaranteed a bit of fun.
No, I dont find that at all. I am knee deep in offers.
And then there's the hilarious forums. I piss myself every day"
I bet some would drink that piss. |
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"Does people find fab boring at times and more of a challenge than anything?
For me at times it feels like drawing blood from a stone with people not replying and if they do sometimes you feel like you're stroking their ego. Whereas tinder go out have a few drinks with someone and over 50% of the time you're near guaranteed a bit of fun.
No, I dont find that at all. I am knee deep in offers.
And then there's the hilarious forums. I piss myself every day
I bet some would drink that piss."
Yeah. I need to find someone who will. Its a real fucker having to clean the floors all day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does people find fab boring at times and more of a challenge than anything?
For me at times it feels like drawing blood from a stone with people not replying and if they do sometimes you feel like you're stroking their ego. Whereas tinder go out have a few drinks with someone and over 50% of the time you're near guaranteed a bit of fun.
No, I dont find that at all. I am knee deep in offers.
And then there's the hilarious forums. I piss myself every day
I bet some would drink that piss.
Yeah. I need to find someone who will. Its a real fucker having to clean the floors all day"
I am sure you will find that willing man or woman. |
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over a year ago
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"Excuse my ignorance but is tinder not a dating site where as fab is a swinger site
That's what I thought! "
That's not true at all. You pair don't know what you're talking about  |
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over a year ago
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Dating sites are bolox, at least people are a little more honest here.
I've met with so many weird people from dating sites posing as someone they aren't. I doubt I'll ever try one again.
Fab is completely different, lot easier to find genuines, even if you face a struggle to get noticed sometimes.
Imo people that complain on fab are the ones that don't understand the 'rules' of fab and probably have no etiquette, the straight up fuck n go mentality seems to fail here more often than not.  |
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"Does people find fab boring at times and more of a challenge than anything?
For me at times it feels like drawing blood from a stone with people not replying and if they do sometimes you feel like you're stroking their ego. Whereas tinder go out have a few drinks with someone and over 50% of the time you're near guaranteed a bit of fun.
No, I dont find that at all. I am knee deep in offers.
And then there's the hilarious forums. I piss myself every day
I bet some would drink that piss.
Yeah. I need to find someone who will. Its a real fucker having to clean the floors all day
I am sure you will find that willing man or woman. "
Do you know anyone who's got a big Addis? |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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"The only thing I get on Tinder are youngsters wanting to shag an old woman for all the dumb arse reasons we see here and Nigerians pretending to be US educated military types. "
Topsy you do have your lower limit as 23 so is younger guys really a problem? |
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"Does people find fab boring at times and more of a challenge than anything?
For me at times it feels like drawing blood from a stone with people not replying and if they do sometimes you feel like you're stroking their ego. Whereas tinder go out have a few drinks with someone and over 50% of the time you're near guaranteed a bit of fun.
No, I dont find that at all. I am knee deep in offers.
And then there's the hilarious forums. I piss myself every day
I bet some would drink that piss.
Yeah. I need to find someone who will. Its a real fucker having to clean the floors all day
I am sure you will find that willing man or woman.
Do you know anyone who's got a big Addis?"
I know a few with some big poles that may help? |
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"Does people find fab boring at times and more of a challenge than anything?
For me at times it feels like drawing blood from a stone with people not replying and if they do sometimes you feel like you're stroking their ego. Whereas tinder go out have a few drinks with someone and over 50% of the time you're near guaranteed a bit of fun.
No, I dont find that at all. I am knee deep in offers.
And then there's the hilarious forums. I piss myself every day
I bet some would drink that piss.
Yeah. I need to find someone who will. Its a real fucker having to clean the floors all day
I am sure you will find that willing man or woman.
Do you know anyone who's got a big Addis?
I know a few with some big poles that may help? "
Oooh, I like Polish men |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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No someone has already said it this is a swingers site not a dating site.
Fab is much more honest,no messing people about drumming up thier life hopes playing with them and dumping them afterwards.
Tinder is a whole different kettle of fish and not one I wish to dive into.
Fab is a total site for our community and yep the forums can be hysterically funny sometimes. |
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"The only thing I get on Tinder are youngsters wanting to shag an old woman for all the dumb arse reasons we see here and Nigerians pretending to be US educated military types. "
I see you're a victim of such advances? Both here and there?
Shagging an 'old woman' is fine for people who want that and seek it, there's definitely a market for it... but I don't get that general vibe from the real people of fab. But I don't know what these dumb ass reasons are either  |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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"Dating sites are bolox, at least people are a little more honest here.
I've met with so many weird people from dating sites posing as someone they aren't. I doubt I'll ever try one again.
Fab is completely different, lot easier to find genuines, even if you face a struggle to get noticed sometimes.
Imo people that complain on fab are the ones that don't understand the 'rules' of fab and probably have no etiquette, the straight up fuck n go mentality seems to fail here more often than not. "
You have cracked it brother bang on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dating sites are bolox, at least people are a little more honest here.
I've met with so many weird people from dating sites posing as someone they aren't. I doubt I'll ever try one again.
Fab is completely different, lot easier to find genuines, even if you face a struggle to get noticed sometimes.
Imo people that complain on fab are the ones that don't understand the 'rules' of fab and probably have no etiquette, the straight up fuck n go mentality seems to fail here more often than not.
You have cracked it brother bang on!"
Yeah cheers, just an opinion but it basically concurs with what you said as I agree people don't string you along here so much.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go through Tinder a few times a week . Do my right swiping then look later . I sometimes have a few matches and then I think 'shit was I d*unk the last time I looked at this app ' |
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My opinion... for what it's worth. If you're looking to actually date ... use the dating site. It's not fair to go on a dating site... only to be looking for casual sex (unless you specify that! ) you can state via a drop down what your intentions are.
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Never been on Tinder. The concept sounds a bit shit to me. I'll stick with fab, as I love the forums. I don't need to toggle between two different sites like that . |
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"Excuse my ignorance but is tinder not a dating site where as fab is a swinger site "
You are a couple so want swing with other couples. I am single and like sex but hate twats. Same amount of guys online in general |
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"My opinion... for what it's worth. If you're looking to actually date ... use the dating site. It's not fair to go on a dating site... only to be looking for casual sex (unless you specify that! ) you can state via a drop down what your intentions are.
Xx"
Honestly read my profile. I had guys after ffm, mmf, cross dressers on match.
I have guys here only wanting one n one |
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"Dating sites are bolox, at least people are a little more honest here.
I've met with so many weird people from dating sites posing as someone they aren't. I doubt I'll ever try one again.
Quite!
Fab is completely different, lot easier to find genuines, even if you face a struggle to get noticed sometimes.
Imo people that complain on fab are the ones that don't understand the 'rules' of fab and probably have no etiquette, the straight up fuck n go mentality seems to fail here more often than not. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both are good, but there is a social media platform that everybody is overlooking and highly underated..
wait for it.....
Twitter 
I've had a fair share of both NSA fun and dating on there
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I were single looking for one-to-one NSA sex I would use Tinder. However I not single and it's swinging we want so we use Fab. Never really understood why people compare swinging sites to dating sites.
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"I find there are sooo many fakes on tinder & also people who just want to see how many likes they get "
Agreed. Although have had a little success the fakes and wannabes abound. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so, one person says you do need faceache and one person says you don't
Just so you know... I just joined it 5 mins ago without a facearse account "
...and just so you know I just left it 5 mins ago Only wanted to see if it was possible and it is |
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"If I were single looking for one-to-one NSA sex I would use Tinder. However I not single and it's swinging we want so we use Fab. Never really understood why people compare swinging sites to dating sites.
Mrs"
Because you are a couple not single. Please 'before self absorbed |
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"The only thing I get on Tinder are youngsters wanting to shag an old woman for all the dumb arse reasons we see here and Nigerians pretending to be US educated military types.
Topsy you do have your lower limit as 23 so is younger guys really a problem?"
Any man that wants to fuck me because of how old I am wont even be getting a conversation.
More experienced, know what they want, no drama etc etc are all reasons given by some men who fetishise me because of how long I've been on the planet.
Finding me attractive because of who I am and not what I am is incredibly desirable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very informative when you compare a guys pof or tinder profile to their fab profile.
I for one think it's rather important to know if the straight guy your dating and might one day marry is fucking men!
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"Never been on Tinder. The concept sounds a bit shit to me. I'll stick with fab, as I love the forums. I don't need to toggle between two different sites like that . "
This
Fab has everything so no need for me to join any other site. |
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Pof and tinder wipe the floor with here for good looking women not looking for relationship commitment. So many women on here are very difficult to get chatting to. Its far easier to get a date / meet on pof or tinder these days. More now im just on here to browse the pics lol. I have never had an initial Hello message from any woman on here, but regularly get that on they other two. Just my experience and opinion. Each to their own. |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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"The only thing I get on Tinder are youngsters wanting to shag an old woman for all the dumb arse reasons we see here and Nigerians pretending to be US educated military types.
Topsy you do have your lower limit as 23 so is younger guys really a problem?
Any man that wants to fuck me because of how old I am wont even be getting a conversation.
More experienced, know what they want, no drama etc etc are all reasons given by some men who fetishise me because of how long I've been on the planet.
Finding me attractive because of who I am and not what I am is incredibly desirable."
My appologies for daubting you. Could not have explained it better myself. Yep I agree totally. And actually have similar experiences with some younger (not all by any means) people on here. |
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"The only thing I get on Tinder are youngsters wanting to shag an old woman for all the dumb arse reasons we see here and Nigerians pretending to be US educated military types.
Topsy you do have your lower limit as 23 so is younger guys really a problem?
Any man that wants to fuck me because of how old I am wont even be getting a conversation.
More experienced, know what they want, no drama etc etc are all reasons given by some men who fetishise me because of how long I've been on the planet.
Finding me attractive because of who I am and not what I am is incredibly desirable."
This is fair, a very reasonable preference and I would generally think the same.
However this is your preference and if you like it or not isn't shared by many others in my past experience, from the days of when I used to go night clubs every week sometimes twice I'd find it incredible the amount of 40/50 something women on these nights who wanted to take me home and would diligently work their tongue around like a bee collecting nectar from a flower.
Not saying I'm some sort of stud but I found they flocked to me so easily and can only relate that phenomenon down to my age or cute looks etc. |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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"The only thing I get on Tinder are youngsters wanting to shag an old woman for all the dumb arse reasons we see here and Nigerians pretending to be US educated military types.
Topsy you do have your lower limit as 23 so is younger guys really a problem?
Any man that wants to fuck me because of how old I am wont even be getting a conversation.
More experienced, know what they want, no drama etc etc are all reasons given by some men who fetishise me because of how long I've been on the planet.
Finding me attractive because of who I am and not what I am is incredibly desirable.
This is fair, a very reasonable preference and I would generally think the same.
However this is your preference and if you like it or not isn't shared by many others in my past experience, from the days of when I used to go night clubs every week sometimes twice I'd find it incredible the amount of 40/50 something women on these nights who wanted to take me home and would diligently work their tongue around like a bee collecting nectar from a flower.
Not saying I'm some sort of stud but I found they flocked to me so easily and can only relate that phenomenon down to my age or cute looks etc."
Well will have to take your word for it as no public photos. |
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"Pof and tinder wipe the floor with here for good looking women not looking for relationship commitment. So many women on here are very difficult to get chatting to. Its far easier to get a date / meet on pof or tinder these days. More now im just on here to browse the pics lol. I have never had an initial Hello message from any woman on here, but regularly get that on they other two. Just my experience and opinion. Each to their own."
Precisely my thoughts |
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"Pof and tinder wipe the floor with here for good looking women not looking for relationship commitment. So many women on here are very difficult to get chatting to. Its far easier to get a date / meet on pof or tinder these days. More now im just on here to browse the pics lol. I have never had an initial Hello message from any woman on here, but regularly get that on they other two. Just my experience and opinion. Each to their own.
Precisely my thoughts "
Because women know that the men here just want to fuck and they think that men on POF or Tinder want a relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found Tinder to be great for casual hook-ups with single lasses and the odd hotwife or two it's much more difficult to get a meet on here due to the ratio of men/couples/lasses,although meets from here are far less vanilla when they happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tinder is great for one night stands. Fab is a swinging site and is different, there are fantasies to be fulfilled on here and considering all the forums and socials it is evidently a little more to it than an easy fuck. If people knew the difference maybe there would be a few more responses coming their way. I guess fab is what you make it, yes it can be slow at times but I do enjoy sex and enjoy it being a little more fulfilling than sticking the little guy in any place he will fit. |
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"Excuse my ignorance but is tinder not a dating site where as fab is a swinger site "
I explained this to a lady who was messaging me saying that she had "doubts about this site being for her..."
I asked her what she was looking for on a swingers site and that Fabs is not Plenty of Fish.... the next reply was full of abuse about me showing my true colours and just being after a quick fuck.... and of course she blocked me 
Now, I thought I was just being honest.... if you want a relationship... there's tons of Vanilla dating sites out there! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Excuse my ignorance but is tinder not a dating site where as fab is a swinger site
I explained this to a lady who was messaging me saying that she had "doubts about this site being for her..."
I asked her what she was looking for on a swingers site and that Fabs is not Plenty of Fish.... the next reply was full of abuse about me showing my true colours and just being after a quick fuck.... and of course she blocked me
Now, I thought I was just being honest.... if you want a relationship... there's tons of Vanilla dating sites out there! "
I don't think I would have liked your reply either tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think I would have liked your reply either tbh "
I didn't think it would of been taken as an insult but as an honest question as to why are you on fabs? We all know that this is a swingers site.... you don't go into B&Q to buy a pint of milk. If you get where I'm coming from. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think I would have liked your reply either tbh
I didn't think it would of been taken as an insult but as an honest question as to why are you on fabs? We all know that this is a swingers site.... you don't go into B&Q to buy a pint of milk. If you get where I'm coming from. "
Because as you say, this is a swingers site, where the social side is just as important, if I just wanted a fuck with just anybody, there are other sites for that, and if you don't get that, then that is your problem and not mine! |
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I don't think I would have liked your reply either tbh
I didn't think it would of been taken as an insult but as an honest question as to why are you on fabs? We all know that this is a swingers site.... you don't go into B&Q to buy a pint of milk. If you get where I'm coming from. "
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