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over a year ago
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"Does anyone ever feel a bit jealous when seeing their partner with someone else ?
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As long as you both communicate properly before and after, it shouldn't be a problem.
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As a couple that play together and away separately I've come to enjoy the pit of the stomach feeling I get knowing what he's up to, but counter that with how horny it makes me for him when he comes home...and I vice versa I know hubby feels that way with me too x
I guess it is jealousy covered with excitement  |
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over a year ago
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We see swinging as a hobby, we don't fancy the people we have sex with, nor are we in love with them.
We don't have regular partners.
We just meet people who have the same fantastic hobby as us. |
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"Ok thank you for the replies but if you were with someone you have really strong feelings for how do you seperate sexy with them and others ?
He says it's just sex is that a bloke thing ?"
Are you saying you have strong feelings for the person you play with or your partner/hubby?
Obviously I have strong feelings for my hubby....but sex and love are very very different! And yes I do fancy other men but that doesn't make my love or attraction for hubby any less x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok thank you for the replies but if you were with someone you have really strong feelings for how do you seperate sexy with them and others ?
He says it's just sex is that a bloke thing ?
Are you saying you have strong feelings for the person you play with or your partner/hubby?
Obviously I have strong feelings for my hubby....but sex and love are very very different! And yes I do fancy other men but that doesn't make my love or attraction for hubby any less x"
Sex and love are different things. As a couple we share sex with others, but not love. |
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"Ok thank you for the replies but if you were with someone you have really strong feelings for how do you seperate sexy with them and others ?
He says it's just sex is that a bloke thing ?
Are you saying you have strong feelings for the person you play with or your partner/hubby?
Obviously I have strong feelings for my hubby....but sex and love are very very different! And yes I do fancy other men but that doesn't make my love or attraction for hubby any less x
Sex and love are different things. As a couple we share sex with others, but not love."
Ahhh I get you! You've feelings for your FWB...ahh babe that tough I never caught feelings for my long term FWB but I did get a bit jealous when he told me if his other conquests  |
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We don't have any jealousy at all .
Neither of us has anything other than lustful feelings for those we play with .
If you let more than lust enter into a meet up with someone other than your partner , you're fucked . Either your relationship wasn't what you thought it was , or you're playing with fire .
Swinging shouldn't be any more than nsa sex as a couple .
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No jealousy what so ever just incredible feelings of horniness as I see another woman pleasure him. To hear him just about to cum is exhilarating. That alone drives me wild as I know the signals.
We have met couples who have issues during a meet and it just makes things awkward and never to be repeated.
It is just play at the end of the day...... |
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"We see swinging as a hobby, we don't fancy the people we have sex with, nor are we in love with them.
We don't have regular partners.
We just meet people who have the same fantastic hobby as us."
You don't fancy the ppl you play with ? |
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Neither of us have felt jealousy since swinging, sex with others is simply that there is much more to our relationship than sex.
I have always fantasised about Fred with another woman, when we first met just talking about made me have a huge knot of jealousy in my stomach but would also arouse me.
As time went on and I became more confident and secure in myself and not just in our relationship I could separate love from sex and was hapy to explore swinging.
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Yeah when we first started we would get jealous of each other but the when we sat down to talk about it we found we we more turned on the jealous but nearly 8 years on and sometimes we play separate jealous doesn't even come in it no more xx |
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