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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure if many men will admit, but are there men on here who don't enjoy blowjobs? Ladies, have you met any men who don't enjoy blowjobs?"
There's been a similar thread a while ago and I was astounded to read that there are men out there who don't like blowjobs!! I'm certainly not one of them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure if many men will admit, but are there men on here who don't enjoy blowjobs? Ladies, have you met any men who don't enjoy blowjobs?"
There was a similar thread on here a white ago and I was astounded to read that there are guys who don't like blowjobs!! I'm certainly not one of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had the occasional guy that doesn't like how I suck them off. ..been told it's too intense and sensitive.  "
Oh my life how is that possible ? Sounds great to me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had guys in the past that have said they don't like them...doesn't take me long to change their minds 
But I love giving a BJ, love taking a guy to the edge a couple of times before fucking..it's one of my faves
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had guys in the past that have said they don't like them...doesn't take me long to change their minds
But I love giving a BJ, love taking a guy to the edge a couple of times before fucking..it's one of my faves
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I don't like them lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't enjoy bad blowjobs, many I had in my younger years wer terrible n sometimes painful lol. Nothing better than a good one though  "
Some of them younger day blow jobs were torture  |
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"I've had guys in the past that have said they don't like them...doesn't take me long to change their minds
But I love giving a BJ, love taking a guy to the edge a couple of times before fucking..it's one of my faves
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You being serious? Guys have said to you, they don't like blowjobs? |
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Depends on the circumstances. I struggle to cum from a bj and some women have found that frustrating in the past. I love them, great feeling, Just struggle to get over the edge. As a result sometimes don't suggest them or encourage them in case the female feels they've let me down or I've let them down. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Depends on the circumstances. I struggle to cum from a bj and some women have found that frustrating in the past. I love them, great feeling, Just struggle to get over the edge. As a result sometimes don't suggest them or encourage them in case the female feels they've let me down or I've let them down. "
Just enjoy the sensation. I couldnt care less if i cum or not. I prefer to cum during sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had guys in the past that have said they don't like them...doesn't take me long to change their minds
But I love giving a BJ, love taking a guy to the edge a couple of times before fucking..it's one of my faves
I don't like them lol"
I'm sad for you that's a shame |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think they're ok, they don't make me come so I'm not all that bothered about whether I receive one or not.
I think it's more to do with the fact I've had far more worse blow jobs than good ones, so now my mind automatically defaults to it going to be bad. When I do get a good one, it's a nice surprise, but as I said, it's not exciting enough to get me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had guys in the past that have said they don't like them...doesn't take me long to change their minds
But I love giving a BJ, love taking a guy to the edge a couple of times before fucking..it's one of my faves
I don't like them lol
I'm sad for you that's a shame "
Can't imagine life without them! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Live a blow job or two . I love them over and over again. (Short break in between of course)
Each to their own I guess.
Personally I'd love to move from one lady to another so I can compare .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me. They do very little in the way of stimulation.
I take ages to cum(only ever a couple of times by BJ) so it's a bit pointless as most women get tired or question their abilities.
It's fun visually but never makes me climax.
So I can take or leave them. Happy to let a woman do it but really not that bothered |
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Teeth... a bad blow job being caught by teeth is bad... but nowhere near as bad as it's going to feel tomorrow.
I had to drop a FWB a few years ago because she insisted on blow jobs but being petite her mouth just wasn't big enough. It was a real shame because otherwise she was everything you'd want from a FWB but I was always in agony for days after ! |
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"Not sure if many men will admit, but are there men on here who don't enjoy blowjobs? Ladies, have you met any men who don't enjoy blowjobs?"
Interestingly, I always feel it is a really intimate and sexually submissive thing to do for your partner .. and as such really erotic and pleasurable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I Jez enjoy blow jobs but it's not a deal breaker. It wouldn't stop me wanting to meet a female. Interestingly though I wouldn't be keen on meeting a female who didn't like receiving oral as it's one of my favourite things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not really fussed on blowjobs,
I've only ever cum from one blowjob in my life,
2-3 minutes of a blowjob aren't bad but after that I get bored and just want to fuck lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had the occasional guy that doesn't like how I suck them off. ..been told it's too intense and sensitive.
Bah!!! No such thing!."
No such thing as what? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never met a guy who didn't like blowjobs, but I've seen plenty of men say it on the forums. Personally I love giving blowjobs. It wouldn't be a dealbreaker of a guy didn't like them, but it would be a bit disappointing.
I get where they're coming from, though, as I'm not particularly fond of receiving oral either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never met a guy who didn't like blowjobs, but I've seen plenty of men say it on the forums. Personally I love giving blowjobs. It wouldn't be a dealbreaker of a guy didn't like them, but it would be a bit disappointing.
I get where they're coming from, though, as I'm not particularly fond of receiving oral either. "
What is true is that not all women give good BJs so maybe some of the guys have been unlucky! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never met a guy who didn't like blowjobs, but I've seen plenty of men say it on the forums. Personally I love giving blowjobs. It wouldn't be a dealbreaker of a guy didn't like them, but it would be a bit disappointing.
I get where they're coming from, though, as I'm not particularly fond of receiving oral either.
What is true is that not all women give good BJs so maybe some of the guys have been unlucky! "
guys give better ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys that dont like blowjobs have never had it done how they like it because theyre too scared to tell the girl in case she takes it personal. All it takes is " thats great darling but try doing this or that" and hey presto, Vesuvius has erupted. Lol. Every guy has his own personal "way". And us girls are the same. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it impossible to see how a guy could dislike getting his dick sucked "
Well haven't you been a lucky boy consistently getting amazing head 
Some of us haven't had that privilege. I, like a few others can take or leave it. Simply because it doesn't feel amazing for us.
I've even stopped a woman from doing it because she liked to bite it, and not softly either |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never met a guy who didn't like blowjobs, but I've seen plenty of men say it on the forums. Personally I love giving blowjobs. It wouldn't be a dealbreaker of a guy didn't like them, but it would be a bit disappointing.
I get where they're coming from, though, as I'm not particularly fond of receiving oral either.
What is true is that not all women give good BJs so maybe some of the guys have been unlucky! "
I guess. But it could also be that they just aren't as into it. I've had some really good oral on myself but it still isn't on the top of my to-do list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never met a guy who didn't like blowjobs, but I've seen plenty of men say it on the forums. Personally I love giving blowjobs. It wouldn't be a dealbreaker of a guy didn't like them, but it would be a bit disappointing.
I get where they're coming from, though, as I'm not particularly fond of receiving oral either.
What is true is that not all women give good BJs so maybe some of the guys have been unlucky!
I guess. But it could also be that they just aren't as into it. I've had some really good oral on myself but it still isn't on the top of my to-do list."
There aren't standard men and women, we are all different, like different things, and have different skills. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its all about teeth!
Some mouths are equivalent to putting your cock in a cheese grater.
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I agree, even when you explain that it hurts, it makes very little difference. They always say that they have no complaints in the past. I think most guys are too afraid of offending! Have had blood drawn on several occasions! |
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"Its all about teeth!
Some mouths are equivalent to putting your cock in a cheese grater.
I agree, even when you explain that it hurts, it makes very little difference. They always say that they have no complaints in the past. I think most guys are too afraid of offending! Have had blood drawn on several occasions! "
I always say the same whether it's a man or a woman if someone is doing something you don't like and when you ask them to stop they don't bring the meet to an end. It's never ok to continue. |
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Might need a few more women to treat me to a blow job and I can tell if it's for me. At the moment I need to take more data and if two women were to do it at once I could reach a conclusion quicker |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not too fond of them as my clock head is really sensitive and I find most people are too rough so it hurts too much.
However, I have had a few fabulous ones from people who really knew what they were doing. |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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Yes and no. Do enjoy oral but it depends on technique. I am cut so no foreskin really and any teeth or strong tugging whilst erect ajd being pleasured actually hurts and kills the erection.
However when given with a bit of patience and hands used gently i do enjoy it but it is a rareity  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's definitely good ones and not so good ones but for a guy to say he doesn't like any BJ's I find amazing.
Would you like a bj off a guy?
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Not my thing, however good he was |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's definitely good ones and not so good ones but for a guy to say he doesn't like any BJ's I find amazing.
Would you like a bj off a guy?
Not my thing, however good he was "
You just said it. Not that amazing then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's definitely good ones and not so good ones but for a guy to say he doesn't like any BJ's I find amazing.
Would you like a bj off a guy?
Not my thing, however good he was
You just said it. Not that amazing then "
Not really, I didn't say I don't like any BJ's, just ones from guys. |
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"I don't dislike them I find it very difficult to cum by them. so I'm not bothered if I receive them or not. I prefer to give oral then to receive "
I've never really had a good intense bj and I have never cum from one, Maybe when I have I might change my mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't dislike them I find it very difficult to cum by them. so I'm not bothered if I receive them or not. I prefer to give oral then to receive
I've never really had a good intense bj and I have never cum from one, Maybe when I have I might change my mine "
Cumming from one is amazing! |
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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago
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My first blow job , 40 years ago was fantastic.
Sadly few since have matched that intensity.
In swing most ladies feel obliged to give you one.
It doesn't do it for me anymore and my erectoin often fades.
Invariably now, when they try, I just grab the lady and enter her hard.
Now this does do it for me and strangely, I find, the ladies usually prefers it too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love them. I mean really, really love them.
The last painful one was caused by the gimp mask that the person was wearing. The zipper catching me.
She thought I was letting out yelps of ecstasy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once had to call an ambulance for a college friend who was getting a bj by a girl he picked up who wore braces... You can guess what happened... He had to have a centimetre of foreskin surgically removed. He never lived it down. And doesn't particularly like bjs anymore.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have too admit as a bi sexual man i hate bjs from both male and female. i dont mind touching me wanking that sort of thing but you aint sucking me its something that i never was into. i find it kinda painful maybe not painful but uncomfortable. so bjs are a no no for me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm surprised at how many men dislike bj's, some of us ladies love giving them tho x "
We had imagined that all men like receiving them and all women like giving them! |
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I have to admit that generally they don't do a great deal for me. I was married for 14 years and she didn't like oral of any kind so it all just dropped off the table as it were.
There days I much prefer to give than receive.
Each to their own I guess |
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My ex didn't like blowjobs when we first got together as he'd had some bad experiences. I love giving them so made it my mission to convince him they could be amazing.
The main issue was he had a very wide and quite long cock. But with some creative positioning to make it comfortable for us both in the end I was able to have him moaning with pleasure and he was definitely a convert.
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"My ex didn't like blowjobs when we first got together as he'd had some bad experiences. I love giving them so made it my mission to convince him they could be amazing.
The main issue was he had a very wide and quite long cock. But with some creative positioning to make it comfortable for us both in the end I was able to have him moaning with pleasure and he was definitely a convert.
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It is good that you took the time to find pleasure for you both  |
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"I've had the occasional guy that doesn't like how I suck them off. ..been told it's too intense and sensitive. "
You sound like your technique is perhaps a little rough there for some guys.
I enjoy blowjobs, but, have only ever ejaculated once from having had one. I often get over sensitive from having it sucked and have to momentarily pull away and resist.
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"Guys that dont like blowjobs have never had it done how they like it because theyre too scared to tell the girl in case she takes it personal. All it takes is " thats great darling but try doing this or that" and hey presto, Vesuvius has erupted. Lol. Every guy has his own personal "way". And us girls are the same. X"
That's not strictly true.
I've always mentioned how I like it and what I do to myself, but, when a lady is following those tips, whilst it feels good, my cock just isn't getting stimulated enough for me to climax.
It's still enjoyable, love the visual aspect, but, as I said above, I've only ever ejaculated once before, from having had a blowjob. |
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"My ex didn't like blowjobs when we first got together as he'd had some bad experiences. I love giving them so made it my mission to convince him they could be amazing.
The main issue was he had a very wide and quite long cock. But with some creative positioning to make it comfortable for us both in the end I was able to have him moaning with pleasure and he was definitely a convert.
It is good that you took the time to find pleasure for you both "
Thank you and yes we ladies should never forget there is a lot of trust involved in a man putting his sensitive body part in an opening armed with teeth. lol x |
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"Guys that dont like blowjobs have never had it done how they like it because theyre too scared to tell the girl in case she takes it personal. All it takes is " thats great darling but try doing this or that" and hey presto, Vesuvius has erupted. Lol. Every guy has his own personal "way". And us girls are the same. X
That's not strictly true.
I've always mentioned how I like it and what I do to myself, but, when a lady is following those tips, whilst it feels good, my cock just isn't getting stimulated enough for me to climax.
It's still enjoyable, love the visual aspect, but, as I said above, I've only ever ejaculated once before, from having had a blowjob. "
I prefer administering cunnilingus... this is an absolute prerequisite when getting intimate with a woman. If she's hairy, I'm in heaven. |
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"My ex didn't like blowjobs when we first got together as he'd had some bad experiences. I love giving them so made it my mission to convince him they could be amazing.
The main issue was he had a very wide and quite long cock. But with some creative positioning to make it comfortable for us both in the end I was able to have him moaning with pleasure and he was definitely a convert.
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I think it has a lot to do with self appreciation.
I like bjs, but don't value my experience above that of the lady. So I want to get to them before too long.
I love to give oral, to feel the tension build, experiment with what movement and where turns her on, edge her a few times and then let her orgasm.
I love it so much that my selflessness in giving sometimes blocks the lady from giving too. Something we have seen from above...lots love to do.
So, for me, soixante neuf is the answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because of my cock-girth it has been difficult to find a woman who was happy to manage it (am sure it was excuses sometimes), and so just having the end sucked left me indifferent and i had never cum from a blowjob.
Then i met a few ladies who were able to take my entire girth and length and give me deep throat and that changed the entire ball game.
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"I think it has a lot to do with self appreciation.
I like bjs, but don't value my experience above that of the lady. So I want to get to them before too long.
I love to give oral, to feel the tension build, experiment with what movement and where turns her on, edge her a few times and then let her orgasm.
I love it so much that my selflessness in giving sometimes blocks the lady from giving too. Something we have seen from above...lots love to do.
So, for me, soixante neuf is the answer. "
Soixante neuf ('dinner for two') - yum, yum!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never personally had a guy say he doesn't want me to do it or wants me to stop, actually that's a lie- once I was asked to give the poor fella a break as I was ready to go again, he wasn't.
My ex had bad blow jobs from others we met, one caught him with her teeth.
I love it when you can suck a guy to completion and swallow the lot especially if the guy himself says he rarely comes from a bj, feels like a achievement then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its shameful but ivenever ejaculated from frin one ever abd ive probably had about 50 seperate ppl do it. I was told it because i wank too much! Even today i still wank daily! Im addicted |
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