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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Going from a passion fueled relationship to nothing is so dispiriting. It makes you question everything about yourself. A vicious inward spiral starts and it is replaced by avoidance through longer hours at work.
Perhaps because the person you love with all your heart has lost their libido. And what makes it worse they are tormented by it.
We permit each to explore the notion that it is a loss of attraction and seek to restore passion with others. It just makes the loss of what we had feel worse.
Medication can work on physical aspects. Finding libido is way more difficult, there doesn't seem to be pill for that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go through phases, from none for years, to loads for a few years on the trot.
I've had so much great/satiating sex that if I died tomorrow I'd feel blessed. Like 3sum Queen I only want to have great sex from hereon out, I've lost the ability to tolerate below par sexual interactions... lol, tbh I have tolerated a lot of them over the years and I hope, I've helped some get a bit more proactive about being sexually proactive?!... though I have no clue if they've become better shags because of our interaction lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been married for 19 years,no sex for the last 13.Just had to accept it and get on with life.If wanking was an Olympic sport,I'd be buried under a ton of gold medals.Then I discovered fab,hoping to meet a sexy chick for some discreet fun,who can re-educate my cock.Still looking,still hoping. |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"If you had to, could you live without sex in your life?"
If i had to I would have no choice..
Have been without close contact before, must say I much prefer to be able to have the close contact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just don't understand how it happens, I know plenty of couples that started with well matched sex drives, even couples who met on fab, once they are married sex gets less and less frequent until non-existant. I mean I get how life can get in the way, tired from working, housekeeping, raising kids etc... but to end up with no sex at all? I just don't get it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just don't understand how it happens, I know plenty of couples that started with well matched sex drives, even couples who met on fab, once they are married sex gets less and less frequent until non-existant. I mean I get how life can get in the way, tired from working, housekeeping, raising kids etc... but to end up with no sex at all? I just don't get it"
I think modern western lifestyle are bad for your sex life generally... stress is a passion/dream/creativity/life force killer imo lol |
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"I just don't understand how it happens, I know plenty of couples that started with well matched sex drives, even couples who met on fab, once they are married sex gets less and less frequent until non-existant. I mean I get how life can get in the way, tired from working, housekeeping, raising kids etc... but to end up with no sex at all? I just don't get it"
Illness physical and mental, injury, resentment, one partner expects sex but makes no personal effort, menopause, impotence, physical disability, the list goes on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems like OP couldn't do that! 
Lol I actually thought the opposite and that maybe that's exactly what he's doing?! Lol
Hehe I trully hope that's the reason for for him to abandon his post!!!  "
Lol ... I should imagine hanging out with sex fiends when you're definitely not having sex would become a distraction eventually?!! lol |
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"Seems like OP couldn't do that!
Lol I actually thought the opposite and that maybe that's exactly what he's doing?! Lol
Hehe I trully hope that's the reason for for him to abandon his post!!!
Lol ... I should imagine hanging out with sex fiends when you're definitely not having sex would become a distraction eventually?!! lol"
LoL he was living on the edge all the time he was hanging around among all of us LOL  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As for my-self, i'm pretty sure that eventually at some point i'd end up dead having sex really, not the worst way to go!  "
A great way for you to go for sure... not so much for whoever you're having sex with tho lol.
A friend's dad left planet earth f'king a woman half his age... She didn't realise for some time... = not something I ever hope to experience for sure!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems like OP couldn't do that!
Lol I actually thought the opposite and that maybe that's exactly what he's doing?! Lol
Hehe I trully hope that's the reason for for him to abandon his post!!!
Lol ... I should imagine hanging out with sex fiends when you're definitely not having sex would become a distraction eventually?!! lol
LoL he was living on the edge all the time he was hanging around among all of us LOL "
Dark dude!!! Lol.. I'm exonerating myself from any responsibility as I've only just joined the site and I've only properly fab friended once so far lol... S'all y'all's faults!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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... Did you know the main cause for all human deaths is living!... and that living a healthy life is the slowest and least fun way of incrementally dying you can participate in lol |
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"... Did you know the main cause for all human deaths is living!... and that living a healthy life is the slowest and least fun way of incrementally dying you can participate in lol"
;D In that, case following your analogy, the very basic things human needs to survive for a period of time (air and water) are the main causes of death initially! lols  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... Did you know the main cause for all human deaths is living!... and that living a healthy life is the slowest and least fun way of incrementally dying you can participate in lol
;D In that, case following your analogy, the very basic things human needs to survive for a period of time (air and water) are the main causes of death initially! lols "
Lol yes and sex is just a luxury and not a necessity like some might insist it is in here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This is my 11th month without sex. This is the longest I've ever gone without sex. Definitely masturbate regularly. A massive void in my life. I've decided that I'd rather like to meet someone who does it for me both mind and body than settle for mediocre and boring. I believe in miracles and it feels good to stick to what I feel is right for me now even though I feel a bit unbalanced not having physical contact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is my 11th month without sex. This is the longest I've ever gone without sex. Definitely masturbate regularly. A massive void in my life. I've decided that I'd rather like to meet someone who does it for me both mind and body than settle for mediocre and boring. I believe in miracles and it feels good to stick to what I feel is right for me now even though I feel a bit unbalanced not having physical contact. "
I recently bought a yoni egg, it's changed my orgasms and feels soo good... not sure it's be your thing but it has transformed my self loving rituals for the better, plus it's said change is as good as a rest ... Hope you get the perfect for you partner when the tine's right for you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes .. not by choice but have been living life that way for a few years now . Miss it? of course!
Now if the question was could you live without having an orgasm? that would be different .. answer would be very much ' No!' even though bein honest I probably wank too much nowadays .
Sometimes masturbation can be a bit 'mechanical' substitute for emotional and physical feelings ,It is I think very necessary too of course . Does anyone else think that ? is it just me having an excuse for enjoying a knuckle shuffle too often every day ?  |
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"... Did you know the main cause for all human deaths is living!... and that living a healthy life is the slowest and least fun way of incrementally dying you can participate in lol
;D In that, case following your analogy, the very basic things human needs to survive for a period of time (air and water) are the main causes of death initially! lols
Lol yes and sex is just a luxury and not a necessity like some might insist it is in here "
Hehe and sex also is a great Physical exercise which gives us Huge amounts of pleasure throughout the 'work out' process, dont forget about that! In other words you may call Sex - a Luxurious way of working out even lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes .. not by choice but have been living life that way for a few years now . Miss it? of course!
Now if the question was could you live without having an orgasm? that would be different .. answer would be very much ' No!' even though bein honest I probably wank too much nowadays .
Sometimes masturbation can be a bit 'mechanical' substitute for emotional and physical feelings ,It is I think very necessary too of course . Does anyone else think that ? is it just me having an excuse for enjoying a knuckle shuffle too often every day ? "
There have been times during some of my abstinence periods where I've longed for another's human touch... and then I've had crappy rushed sex with someone not skilled in the way I'd like them to be... which is the moment I realise know how to make yourself cum is a beautiful thing never to be sniffed at! lol |
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"... Did you know the main cause for all human deaths is living!... and that living a healthy life is the slowest and least fun way of incrementally dying you can participate in lol
;D In that, case following your analogy, the very basic things human needs to survive for a period of time (air and water) are the main causes of death initially! lols
Lol yes and sex is just a luxury and not a necessity like some might insist it is in here
Hehe and sex also is a great Physical exercise which gives us Huge amounts of pleasure throughout the 'work out' process, dont forget about that! In other words you may call Sex - a Luxurious way of working out even lol "
I advertised for a sex workout friend once lol, it didn't work out tho so I got my rear in gear instead |
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"... Did you know the main cause for all human deaths is living!... and that living a healthy life is the slowest and least fun way of incrementally dying you can participate in lol
;D In that, case following your analogy, the very basic things human needs to survive for a period of time (air and water) are the main causes of death initially! lols
Lol yes and sex is just a luxury and not a necessity like some might insist it is in here
Hehe and sex also is a great Physical exercise which gives us Huge amounts of pleasure throughout the 'work out' process, dont forget about that! In other words you may call Sex - a Luxurious way of working out even lol
I advertised for a sex workout friend once lol, it didn't work out tho so I got my rear in gear instead "
LMAO!!! i guess it just wasn't the right time for you.. |
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