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By *umdumppig OP Woman
over a year ago
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When I was told about this site I thought to my self I bet not every one is a swinger I bet a lot are just married guys looking fora bit of quick fun behind there partners back. Which I am ok with as its what I am doing but I was shocked hiw many other ladys seem to be doing the same. So 1 is this a swingers site or just a site to meet people for sex. 2 I have noticed if you have no verifications you must be fake and if you have loads then your a slut so whats the right amount. A very confussed newbie xx x |
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over a year ago
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No such thing as the right amount. Simply give zero fucks about others opinions on how many people you choose to meet.
Opinions meet pretty much nothing on an Internet forum anyway. It's just a bunch of screen pixels all jumbled up to make words. |
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"When I was told about this site I thought to my self I bet not every one is a swinger I bet a lot are just married guys looking fora bit of quick fun behind there partners back. Which I am ok with as its what I am doing but I was shocked hiw many other ladys seem to be doing the same. So 1 is this a swingers site or just a site to meet people for sex. 2 I have noticed if you have no verifications you must be fake and if you have loads then your a slut so whats the right amount. A very confussed newbie xx x"
I would say it is a site built with swingers in mind. But as there is no such thing as a defined finite position on what a swinger is and no policing method to enforce it, then the site works equally well for other sexual encounters.
You could set up a profile and treat it as a standard dating site.
Some people use it as an escorting site.
All I would say is that whilst anyone can use it for any purpose it will have a bias towards those with a swingers mind set.
Same as swingers using ashley madison or ehamony, they could set up a profile and get meets but those sites will have a very different mix of people looking for things other than swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I was told about this site I thought to my self I bet not every one is a swinger I bet a lot are just married guys looking fora bit of quick fun behind there partners back. Which I am ok with as its what I am doing but I was shocked hiw many other ladys seem to be doing the same. So 1 is this a swingers site or just a site to meet people for sex. 2 I have noticed if you have no verifications you must be fake and if you have loads then your a slut so whats the right amount. A very confussed newbie xx x"
The only people who'd think you're a slut, are silly little jealous cunts that probably aren't getting any meets themselves. Take no notice and have as much fun as you want to. It's nobody's business but yours who you do and don't play with.
Alternatively, if you are one of these people who does worry about people's opinions? Then you can always hide your verification summary and only display one or two actual veri's to prove you do meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The site can be whatever you need it to be.
Have clear expectations in your own mind, what you what to achieve from being on here and go from there.
Don't over think it, it's really not confusing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site can be whatever you need it to be.
Have clear expectations in your own mind, what you what to achieve from being on here and go from there.
Don't over think it, it's really not confusing "
perfectly stated do.....what feels right for you don't worry about what others think about your preferences and equally don't judge others. ........
personaly I chose not to meet people with many veries....... as I'm more interested in serial Polly-amorous relationships than swinging.... my choice, I don't judge people who are here for 'pure' swinging and have many meets....
Although I do think those who insist on bareback and have loads of meets are idiots. .. so guess I'm judgemental too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The site can be whatever you need it to be.
Have clear expectations in your own mind, what you what to achieve from being on here and go from there.
Don't over think it, it's really not confusing "
perfectly stated do.....what feels right for you don't worry about what others think about your preferences and equally don't judge others. ........
personaly I chose not to meet people with many veries....... as I'm more interested in serial Polly-amorous relationships than swinging.... my choice, I don't judge people who are here for 'pure' swinging and have many meets....
Although I do think those who insist on bareback and have loads of meets are idiots. .. so guess I'm judgemental too lol |
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"The site can be whatever you need it to be.
Have clear expectations in your own mind, what you what to achieve from being on here and go from there.
Don't over think it, it's really not confusing
perfectly stated do.....what feels right for you don't worry about what others think about your preferences and equally don't judge others. ........
personaly I chose not to meet people with many veries....... as I'm more interested in serial Polly-amorous relationships than swinging.... my choice, I don't judge people who are here for 'pure' swinging and have many meets....
Although I do think those who insist on bareback and have loads of meets are idiots. .. so guess I'm judgemental too lol"
And repetitive...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We think if anyone if it be couples, men or females then so what. Some of those veris may be social meets and some may be from meets. Why shouldn't anyone on here enjoy the site. Not our place to judge anyone . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just use this site as it works for you. People will judge but so what, all that matters is that you are doing what makes you happy. Ignore any negative comments and don't take them to heart. Good luck and have fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't judge everyone by the number of verifications, there are a lot of profiles who have a lot of verifications from social meets
Fab is what you want it to be. There are a lot of dreamers, time wasters, fakes and a few strange people who request the weird and wonderful (there are forum posts about these requests)
Stick with it, there are plenty of good people to find. Don't be afraid to set message filters and use the block button. Good luck |
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