Only been to a club once with a female friend. It was more about supporting her and allowing her to fulfil her fantasy of a gangbang. I accept that was cheating and there is no excuse but it's easy for others to judge without knowing all the facts.

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By *anfiona2Couple over a year ago

ramsgate

Absolutely we do, it's fantastic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm genuinely curious, what's the thrill? What is the excitement? I understand enjoying having sex with someone else but

I just don't understand the pleasure in seeing your partner with someone else. I'm not married but I think I'd hate the idea of some other man touching that which I hold most dear.

Not a criticism of others choices, just wanting to understand.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm genuinely curious, what's the thrill? What is the excitement? I understand enjoying having sex with someone else but

I just don't understand the pleasure in seeing your partner with someone else. I'm not married but I think I'd hate the idea of some other man touching that which I hold most dear.

Not a criticism of others choices, just wanting to understand."

Yet you're on a swinging site and happy to fuck other men's wives. That spells double standards to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would love to. Trying to find a way to ask my wife to do this. Any sensible/constructive suggestions ?

Send us your wife's phone number and we will let her know what she's missing out on.

Can I just ask...? What do you tell her about your whereabouts when you visit clubs?

I wouldn't even bother explaining yourself. Some people will never understand.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm genuinely curious, what's the thrill? What is the excitement? I understand enjoying having sex with someone else but

I just don't understand the pleasure in seeing your partner with someone else. I'm not married but I think I'd hate the idea of some other man touching that which I hold most dear.

Not a criticism of others choices, just wanting to understand.

Yet you're on a swinging site and happy to fuck other men's wives. That spells double standards to me."

I'm not sure it does constitute double standards, I wouldn't claim to be a swinger. I'm a single man who is happy to have fun with any lady, I'm not part of a couple unwilling to share. If I was part of a couple I wouldn't be here, as monogamy is important to me within relationships. I appreciate that other people have different desires within relationships and I respect that, as I hope they'd respect my preferences.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm genuinely curious, what's the thrill? What is the excitement? I understand enjoying having sex with someone else but

I just don't understand the pleasure in seeing your partner with someone else. I'm not married but I think I'd hate the idea of some other man touching that which I hold most dear.

Not a criticism of others choices, just wanting to understand.

Yet you're on a swinging site and happy to fuck other men's wives. That spells double standards to me.

So you're not a swinger yet you joined a swingers site. Interesting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm genuinely curious, what's the thrill? What is the excitement? I understand enjoying having sex with someone else but

I just don't understand the pleasure in seeing your partner with someone else. I'm not married but I think I'd hate the idea of some other man touching that which I hold most dear.

Not a criticism of others choices, just wanting to understand.

Yet you're on a swinging site and happy to fuck other men's wives. That spells double standards to me.

So you're not a swinger yet you joined a swingers site. Interesting."

Isn't a swinger someone who swaps partners? Or is my definition wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm genuinely curious, what's the thrill? What is the excitement? I understand enjoying having sex with someone else but

I just don't understand the pleasure in seeing your partner with someone else. I'm not married but I think I'd hate the idea of some other man touching that which I hold most dear.

Not a criticism of others choices, just wanting to understand.

Yet you're on a swinging site and happy to fuck other men's wives. That spells double standards to me."

Yup. It sure does

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By *xotic indianCouple over a year ago

leicester

I'm lovin it !!!!!!! Watching each other fucking with other people That's What swinging is all about right ????

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By *aveandSue1Couple over a year ago

Doncaster

Love it and can't get enough of it.

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By *wcwCouple over a year ago

cheshire

"I'm genuinely curious, what's the thrill? What is the excitement? I understand enjoying having sex with someone else but

I just don't understand the pleasure in seeing your partner with someone else. I'm not married but I think I'd hate the idea of some other man touching that which I hold most dear.

Not a criticism of others choices, just wanting to understand."
I love watching my wife with other guy. From having a drink and flirt. To the sex and afterwards. Turns me on so much to watch the two of them. The kissing. The sucking and the sex. I can describe how it feels. But Carnt tell you why , when I was younger I wouldn't have dreamt of some guy touching my wife. But now not a problem. I'm older. Wiser. And lived and Learnt. I'm into it more than wife is. I Carnt get enough of it. Watching her face close up and kissing her as other guy is about to enter her. Love it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My ex wife and I were on another site years ago and I used to love watching her with other guys... such a turn on!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm genuinely curious, what's the thrill? What is the excitement? I understand enjoying having sex with someone else but

I just don't understand the pleasure in seeing your partner with someone else. I'm not married but I think I'd hate the idea of some other man touching that which I hold most dear.

Not a criticism of others choices, just wanting to understand. I love watching my wife with other guy. From having a drink and flirt. To the sex and afterwards. Turns me on so much to watch the two of them. The kissing. The sucking and the sex. I can describe how it feels. But Carnt tell you why , when I was younger I wouldn't have dreamt of some guy touching my wife. But now not a problem. I'm older. Wiser. And lived and Learnt. I'm into it more than wife is. I Carnt get enough of it. Watching her face close up and kissing her as other guy is about to enter her. Love it. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm genuinely curious, what's the thrill? What is the excitement? I understand enjoying having sex with someone else but

I just don't understand the pleasure in seeing your partner with someone else. I'm not married but I think I'd hate the idea of some other man touching that which I hold most dear.

Cheers, thanks for explaining your view of it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How old

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mrs can play with whoever she likes,i do love to see her with other guys but also like to receive pics if im not there

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By *ants_Nerdy_CoupleCouple over a year ago

Havant

Yep, absolutely, that's a big part of why we started going to clubs and joined here.

As to why, I couldn't explain without the input of an army of psychologists, but it's a common enough link that there's a name for it "hotwife". The name is a bit misleading, it doesn't just mean you have hot wife, it means you enjoy the experience of sharing your wife with others and watching them enjoy themselves.

Personally watching my wife getting vigorously nailed by another guy is a huuuge turn on for me. I hope to see her get involved in a full on gangbang some time soon.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If only i had a wife

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By *imandHerNottsCouple over a year ago

North Notts

We both get extremely turned on watching each other.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan over a year ago

Luton

Why would I not get immense pleasure from watching a woman I am in love with have a wonderful, sexy, erotic time?

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By *cunnylassCouple over a year ago

Exeter

I love watching Mandy being fucked by a well endowed guy...

Mike

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