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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was looking at having my first swinging experience at chams sometime this month, obviously im pretty nervous about it, ive had offers from other men to go with them but cant decide on whether going with someone or going on my own obviously if i went with someone id prefer someone i know and get on with well. Also any advice or good tips for my first swinging experience would be greatful would love as much info and your personal experiences as possible  Thanks xxx |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I was looking at having my first swinging experience at chams sometime this month, obviously im pretty nervous about it, ive had offers from other men to go with them but cant decide on whether going with someone or going on my own obviously if i went with someone id prefer someone i know and get on with well. Also any advice or good tips for my first swinging experience would be greatful would love as much info and your personal experiences as possible Thanks xxx"
I would go on your own, you will be fine as there will be lots of great people who will make you feel welcome.
and you have no obligation to play... x
good luck and enjoy x |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Thank you, i understand what your saying i just dont wanna feel out of place and look silly and unsure what to do lol if that makes sense xx"
go in head held high, grab a drink at the bar and people will welcome you. They have all been there.. their first time and will respect yours.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sometimes its easier to go with another person to help with nerves that other person doesn't necessarily mean a guy.maybe contacting the club's site and checking out the re_iews you could contact the people who go regularly,maybe another couple or a single fem.most clubs take very good care of newbie's and you will have no pressure to play....take the plunge trust me you will love it! Hope you have fun x |
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I went with a couple 1st time. Purely on a no pressure no expectation basis. They showed me around, gave me a few hints and tips and when I was ready I went for a wander on my own and met up with them again later just to have someone to touch base with.
We didn't play and I didnt play that day. I just walked around smirking as I felt so free but naughty lol
Only you know how you feel in new / different surroundings.
Now I have been lots I happily go alone but its still always nice to know you'll see someone you know there.
You'll have a great time once you have over come the 1st time nerves. Am going next Monday evening hopefully, if your going I don't mind showing you around. |
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