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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The urge to be dominant comes naturally to me but having recently had a meet with a master and his slave to use i was impressed but felt like ive alot to learn!
The basics of control, spanking etc are easy and self evident but the world goes far beyond that.
Feel like i should get myself on a know tieing course lol!
The plan is just to continue to find subs to practice on... but would be good to hear advice or hints, tips tricks... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you are either a Dom or not. I have no problem with spanking,torture,CP,bondage, etc and administering punishment but I am naturally Dom so it's easy. I have a few female friends who would be upset at having to spank someone in case they hurt them! |
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The most important thing is to work out your own comfort levels and what turns you on. Then you just have to ignore the idea of being a Dom a la Christian Grey and go with what feels natural. A bdsm experience will only ever be as good as you let it be, so being upfront and honest with any potential sub is vital. This goes both ways, of course. If you really want to ramp up intensity, mental dominance can be far more arousing than rope. And that pause between each landing of the cane or thrust is delicious  |
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The important thing is not what you actually do but to make someone else feel completely safe, allow them to enjoy the sexual release from relinquishing control. Take things steady, only act according to their reactions. You might find that a lot of the time you actually have to do very little apart from enjoy watching them enjoy themselves.. |
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