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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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It's good to know that a profile is verified, then we like to know how ie cam or social or play meet.
A veri from mutual friends makes us read and take notice.
It's nice to try before one buys! |
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Verification should mean only that a profile holder is the person in the pics and the person sending the messages.
Cliched backslapping FuckAdvisor style documentation of every in and out is not required. Or sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There a little misleading to be fare, we have 18 or 19 veries met them in person but not played with any of them, depending how you read into them, I wouldn't go for someone with 300 odd veries but they have played with all of them bit of a turn off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like reading them for various reasons & the veri trail can be enlightening at times.
I've never not met someone because of what I've read but I have met someone because on one.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All of my female friends suggest that half the veris are bollocks, but it gives you an idea of the calibre of people the prospective swinger that is chatting you up is sleeping with! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Luckily we have the requisite number of verifications to avoid the timewasters, dreamers, club socialites, the judgemental, the rude, the fakes, the talkers and the ignorant. So that gets rid of around 100,000 members, makes it so much easier to find play mates ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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I always distrust when all verifications are hidden. It just makes me suspect they could be fake.
When they're visible, I love reading through them and checking out the profiles who wrote them to have an idea of the type of person they meet. It gives more context as to weather or not there's potential for a good meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verifications are good to establish the type of person youre interested in meeting.
I neither need or want a blow by blow account, so suggestion and innuendo are good in my book. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"I always distrust when all verifications are hidden. It just makes me suspect they could be fake.
When they're visible, I love reading through them and checking out the profiles who wrote them to have an idea of the type of person they meet. It gives more context as to weather or not there's potential for a good meet."
i just don't want anyone to know who i've met or cammed with. there's some right freaks on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verification should mean only that a profile holder is the person in the pics and the person sending the messages.
Cliched backslapping FuckAdvisor style documentation of every in and out is not required. Or sexy. "
This! ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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A bit of both
Tbf rarely actually read them as most of the time they are hyped up BS ... either the person writing is self promoting their own sexual prowess or trying to warn others off because no one is ever going to be as amazing as them
Only ones worth reading are social ones .. they give a true image of how that person is
I just see who they are from and that normally I'd evough to judge if I want to go there or not ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More than 5 verifications and they are clearly a fuck anything type. "
Not at all...depends on how long the person has been on here (we've been on here for 3 yrs on a different account) and a couple of our veris are from people we've met on our old account |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More than 5 verifications and they are clearly a fuck anything type.
Phew! I'm safe. ..for now
We are proper fucked I guess
I won't mention the ones I'm hiding. ..or the ones on my old profile. ..or the ones on my couple profile. They don't count, right? "
Your hubby should verify you every time you fuck.
I had sex with someone not on this site. And this isn't my first profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can put me off or intrigue me, depending on the content. But we are all looking for different things. Something that I don't like may make someone else think 'oh yes' . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a fair number. Many are socials. I won't meet anyone without at least two or three recent written ones-which indicate play as well. It is important to me and I don't mind if there are a reasonable number displayed. I will read them. |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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I hide mine because who I slept with and what I did with him/her/them is my business. I don't look at the content of other people's veris I'm only interested in knowing they've had a sex meet - which means they aren't just into the fantasy of it all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do verifications put you off, or does reading through what others have said make you more intrigued?"
They bore me. Every woman is the best cock sucker ever. |
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"Do verifications put you off, or does reading through what others have said make you more intrigued?"
I never read them. Just because one guy thinks some woman or couple is great doesn't mean other poeple will think the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It can put me off or intrigue me, depending on the content. But we are all looking for different things. Something that I don't like may make someone else think 'oh yes' ."
I agree to be honest, I am not looking for mr fuck them all or mr virgin. Like someone who give me their time, quality over quantity |
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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago
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Keen to understand how people would react to ours, we have a lot, none of that is hidden on our profile. Read into them and you see we are regular club goers and the vast majority are social veris. But does it still put people off seeing so many? Would like to think it just shows we are nice, friendly and sociable ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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We actively avoid those who judge us for having too much fun on here .
To us it's all about a quantity of quality , each and every meet we've had was because we all wanted it . We fulfill fantasies and get off on that , both ours and those we meet .
We meet first timers and the more hardened , enjoying every minute of it .
The haters will hate , and that's cool .
The players will play , and that's cool too .
We have as much fun together as we do with others , and never tire of the thrill we get both with each other as well as during meets .
So how many veris we have , or how many anyone else has is always good . They can serve as a great filter too . We show our summary because we stopped giving a shit what the haters think a long time ago .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We actively avoid those who judge us for having too much fun on here .
To us it's all about a quantity of quality , each and every meet we've had was because we all wanted it . We fulfill fantasies and get off on that , both ours and those we meet .
We meet first timers and the more hardened , enjoying every minute of it .
The haters will hate , and that's cool .
The players will play , and that's cool too .
We have as much fun together as we do with others , and never tire of the thrill we get both with each other as well as during meets .
So how many veris we have , or how many anyone else has is always good . They can serve as a great filter too . We show our summary because we stopped giving a shit what the haters think a long time ago .
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And quite right too. We have only just joined but will be hoping to add quite a few Verifications in next few months. And yep, they will be displayed as I will expect to read others |
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"More than 5 verifications and they are clearly a fuck anything type.
Phew! I'm safe. ..for now
We are proper fucked I guess
I won't mention the ones I'm hiding. ..or the ones on my old profile. ..or the ones on my couple profile. They don't count, right? "
Wrong lol ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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"Keen to understand how people would react to ours, we have a lot, none of that is hidden on our profile. Read into them and you see we are regular club goers and the vast majority are social veris. But does it still put people off seeing so many? Would like to think it just shows we are nice, friendly and sociable "
Think it depends who they're from really |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More than 5 verifications and they are clearly a fuck anything type.
Phew! I'm safe. ..for now
We are proper fucked I guess
I won't mention the ones I'm hiding. ..or the ones on my old profile. ..or the ones on my couple profile. They don't count, right?
Wrong lol "
Ah well. I'm not keen on meeting those put off by that anyway ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We read them to out those that have no intention of ever 'swinging'. I just don't understand why couples on here for 12 months or more only have a few social veri's or not even those. We don't mind contacting the new members with non at all because I remember how we felt at first. A high proportion on here are just for the keyboard socialising which is not for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More than 5 verifications and they are clearly a fuck anything type.
Phew! I'm safe. ..for now
We are proper fucked I guess
I won't mention the ones I'm hiding. ..or the ones on my old profile. ..or the ones on my couple profile. They don't count, right?
Wrong lol
Ah well. I'm not keen on meeting those put off by that anyway "
4.. I approve... ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to laugh at some veris - "we fucked all night" "sweet tasting pussy" (really??) etc. Then there's the ones who veri every woman he meets with "best oral skills I've ever known" - what? All 19 of them? And you've played with someone and read their veris and wondered if it was the same person. But the all time favourite is 'treat with respect and you will be rewarded" ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A bit of both
Tbf rarely actually read them as most of the time they are hyped up BS ... either the person writing is self promoting their own sexual prowess or trying to warn others off because no one is ever going to be as amazing as them
Only ones worth reading are social ones .. they give a true image of how that person is
I just see who they are from and that normally I'd evough to judge if I want to go there or not "
I hear you on that one! ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do verifications put you off, or does reading through what others have said make you more intrigued?"
we like to look through the Veris to see if any of our swinging friends have played with them - normally a quick call to our friends to make sure we're not seeing axe murderers can help if there is any doubt ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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