What is the issue?
Why won't people meet them?
It's almost snobbery the way it's dealt with
We were fuck buddies
It's nicely evolved into more
But my god some people are like (adopting posh voice)
"Fuck buddies? Oh we couldn't possibly!!!!
Ewwwwww"
If a couple like another couple!!!!
I don't get it
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By *l4yerMan
over a year ago
Wakefield |
Its about equality.
Its about 'wife'swapping.
Its about couples in a similar position, having a similar blast out.
As a previous couple profile..we wouldn't meet fwb or fbuds as they are not in the same situation. It was on principle.
If we were to be 'unfaithful' the other couple had to be making a similar sacrifice or commitment.
As a long time married cple..we wouldn't meet those who were just having a shag and cheating. |
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We only get to meet couples every few months. We like a social first. Therefore we prefer people in stable relationships that have minimumal probability of breaking up between the social and actually getting to play with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As part of a FWB couple, I have found that if one FWB couple tries to arrange a meet with another FWB couple, it's virtually impossible to get a mutually convenient date. It's also hard to get a date when my FWB and I are both able to meet a couple. I guess it's the same for a lot of FWB couples. Also I find the couple will ask for just me and not him. I don't try to meet with him off my single profile, I hasten to add. We have a couple profile for that XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We only get to meet couples every few months. We like a social first. Therefore we prefer people in stable relationships that have minimumal probability of breaking up between the social and actually getting to play with them. "
Harder to flee a marriage than a relationship. I see your point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Purist swingers only meet other purist swingers. Alledgedly."
Well said it's very clique in here also and a lot of people are on the imaginary pedestal |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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We don't swap but I'd imagine for many couples in a long term relationship who do they'd want to do so with a couple who have a similar connection. There's something about sharing a partner you have a strong emotional bond with and doing it with another couple who don't feel the same way and are only together for sex just isn't the same. In a sense the sharing part is rather unbalanced. |
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By *l4yerMan
over a year ago
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"We don't swap but I'd imagine for many couples in a long term relationship who do they'd want to do so with a couple who have a similar connection. There's something about sharing a partner you have a strong emotional bond with and doing it with another couple who don't feel the same way and are only together for sex just isn't the same. In a sense the sharing part is rather unbalanced."
Exactly my point.  |
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