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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't think anyone would prefer protected sex over Bareback, especially males, am sure a female could coment and let us know if it makes any difference to them sensation wise. "
definitely better
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think anyone would prefer protected sex over Bareback, especially males, am sure a female could coment and let us know if it makes any difference to them sensation wise. "
its a bit crap with a condom and as i won't let a guy cum inside me even with a condom on... it always makes full sex a bit of a downer.. hence i mostly suck cock.
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"I don't think anyone would prefer protected sex over Bareback, especially males, am sure a female could coment and let us know if it makes any difference to them sensation wise. its a bit crap with a condom and as i won't let a guy cum inside me even with a condom on... it always makes full sex a bit of a downer.. hence i mostly suck cock. "
Do you let him cum in your mouth |
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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago
Cap d’Agde, France |
When we first started swinging we mixed it, bareback and condoms.
Then we got in quick succession a couple of doses of genital warts ( HPV-virus)
Not much fun having them burnt of your cock, so now, with others, it's always condoms! |
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By *tranTV/TS
over a year ago
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I prefer safe. It's a real turn off when they try bareback, cause I know if they tried it with me they tried it with everyone.
It's an absolute 100% moodkiller for me when they just think they can try give me an std. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unprotected sex with my hubby, only, ever
I treat everyone else as if they were infected with horrible STIs, so no oral sex either. Sex with condoms only with them
- Mrs. J - |
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We both prefer bb, but will only do that together. When with others it is condom except oral - recognise the risks, but main concern is pregnancy - as one of us is very fecund, the other one snipped!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which do you prefer safe or bareback sex ? "
To me the clue fr any rationally minded person active on the casual sex scene is in the thread title....
I avoid barebackers like the plague....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which do you prefer safe or bareback sex ?
To me the clue fr any rationally minded person active on the casual sex scene is in the thread title....
I avoid barebackers like the plague.... "
put a binbag over yaself and will be ok  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which do you prefer safe or bareback sex ?
To me the clue fr any rationally minded person active on the casual sex scene is in the thread title....
I avoid barebackers like the plague....
put a binbag over yaself and will be ok "
I often get that request before safe sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which do you prefer safe or bareback sex ?
To me the clue fr any rationally minded person active on the casual sex scene is in the thread title....
I avoid barebackers like the plague....
put a binbag over yaself and will be ok
I often get that request before safe sex "
now you know where you are going wrong
no need to thank me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which do you prefer safe or bareback sex ?
To me the clue fr any rationally minded person active on the casual sex scene is in the thread title....
I avoid barebackers like the plague....
put a binbag over yaself and will be ok
I often get that request before safe sex now you know where you are going wrong
no need to thank me "
They usually request a sack or some kind of shroud that obscures all but entry points .....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think anyone would prefer protected sex over Bareback, especially males, am sure a female could coment and let us know if it makes any difference to them sensation wise. its a bit crap with a condom and as i won't let a guy cum inside me even with a condom on... it always makes full sex a bit of a downer.. hence i mostly suck cock.
Do you let him cum in your mouth"
mostly not but even if you do its not the same risk as bareback sex.
Had this arguement with many a guy that seems to think if you will do oral bare that the risk is the same... and it's really not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When we first started swinging we mixed it, bareback and condoms.
Then we got in quick succession a couple of doses of genital warts ( HPV-virus)
Not much fun having them burnt of your cock, so now, with others, it's always condoms!"
The most honest reply I've ever seen..fair play to you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think anyone would prefer protected sex over Bareback, especially males, am sure a female could coment and let us know if it makes any difference to them sensation wise. its a bit crap with a condom and as i won't let a guy cum inside me even with a condom on... it always makes full sex a bit of a downer.. hence i mostly suck cock.
Do you let him cum in your mouth mostly not but even if you do its not the same risk as bareback sex.
Had this arguement with many a guy that seems to think if you will do oral bare that the risk is the same... and it's really not."
It's thanks to unprotected oral we have the rise of super gonorrhea which is multi drug resistant thanks to mixing it with bacteria found in... the throat, such as MRSA, something many people carry with no ill effect. So all those who thought I'm doing fine cos oral is way safer- thanks, you've created a monster!
I recently started thinking bout this more though. I was going to meet a new member on here and had agreed upfront bare is best in chat. Day of meet she gets a veri from a guy. Okay, c'est la vie. Then I look at this guys veris. Only 2, incl one from person I was going to meet. Then I looked at who the other was off.
I won't name names but it was from some kind of mobile seed bank. Daily bb gangbangs. Sometime 2 collections daily. Hundreds of veris - including recent one from the guy who just got in there before me, and as a result, tainted by association a lovely pretty housewife.
Now I don't tick safe sex as I don't want to create false impressions, but this bit of due diligence put me right off, make no mistake. Im thinking I might from now on....
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"Unprotected sex. As if I wear a condom I dick will itch for a week and won't get fully soild nor will I be able to cum. But only If I trust"
Sounds like a latex or Lube allergy, try latex free condoms. Skyns are the best latex free ones imo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know its naughty, butI really love the feel of bareback and spunky creampie fun. If there are any couples or females that love to get sticky too, let me know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love bareback sex it's the feeling and having him inside me not a piece of rubber but I will only do bareback with my fun friend James and I will never do that with anyone else I meet.Its just way to risky x |
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We always do safe sex with meets but I have caught one up two twatty guys slipping their condoms off and trying to slip it in the misses , I always do Jonny patrol if we meet a guy and watch to make sure they have one on , can't trust most single guys, a few of them have turned up and and not bought any condoms even thoo it says on our profile safe sex, saying that I don't think most guys read profiles , just send wink and friend invite and a message "do you meet " small brains. Guess that's why they are single , but we do have our reliable honest regulars we can trust |
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"We always do safe sex with meets but I have caught one up two twatty guys slipping their condoms off and trying to slip it in the misses , I always do Jonny patrol if we meet a guy and watch to make sure they have one on , can't trust most single guys, a few of them have turned up and and not bought any condoms even thoo it says on our profile safe sex, saying that I don't think most guys read profiles , just send wink and friend invite and a message "do you meet " small brains. Guess that's why they are single , but we do have our reliable honest regulars we can trust "
Now this is something I don't like, this bashing of the single guys, why could you not qualify it to the guys you picked , why try to damage the reputation of the entire single guy swingers group, if you picked guys who have given up on themselves that much, that they are willing to fuck the mrs raw and you have to keep watching them , then you did not pick the right guys for you? Please let us stop this bashing of our single guy swingers category, I love this category and enjoy it , we single guys do not bash any other category. I understand most of the guys of today don't have a spine because they did not grow up around players like the older men did, so they do not understand the joy of having many many women who know that their guy has other lovers and accept it.
It is only the single guys swingers group that gives us the opportunity to enjoy this and that is why I love it. |
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"We always do safe sex with meets but I have caught one up two twatty guys slipping their condoms off and trying to slip it in the misses , I always do Jonny patrol if we meet a guy and watch to make sure they have one on , can't trust most single guys, a few of them have turned up and and not bought any condoms even thoo it says on our profile safe sex, saying that I don't think most guys read profiles , just send wink and friend invite and a message "do you meet " small brains. Guess that's why they are single , but we do have our reliable honest regulars we can trust
Now this is something I don't like, this bashing of the single guys, why could you not qualify it to the guys you picked , why try to damage the reputation of the entire single guy swingers group, if you picked guys who have given up on themselves that much, that they are willing to fuck the mrs raw and you have to keep watching them , then you did not pick the right guys for you? Please let us stop this bashing of our single guy swingers category, I love this category and enjoy it , we single guys do not bash any other category. I understand most of the guys of today don't have a spine because they did not grow up around players like the older men did, so they do not understand the joy of having many many women who know that their guy has other lovers and accept it.
It is only the single guys swingers group that gives us the opportunity to enjoy this and that is why I love it."
It also happened to me. I stipulated safe sex, nothing worse than a twatty single guy trying to spoil things. |
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Well I don't know who to blame for guys being like this but most of the guys of today have no spine, the guys don't know how to stand up when it comes to ladies, they do not know how to catch ladies or hunt, so they give up on themselves, become clingy and display such attitude, they run away from the single guy category, what is more important to have? the knowledge and the ability to catch many ladies or having only one lady by your side? I would choose the knowledge , a true player who can catch many ladies will not risk his health with any one of the ladies. |
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"Well I don't know who to blame for guys being like this but most of the guys of today have no spine, the guys don't know how to stand up when it comes to ladies, they do not know how to catch ladies or hunt, so they give up on themselves, become clingy and display such attitude, they run away from the single guy category, what is more important to have? the knowledge and the ability to catch many ladies or having only one lady by your side? I would choose the knowledge , a true player who can catch many ladies will not risk his health with any one of the ladies."
Hunting and catching ladies? What is this notion? Is this how you see us? Prey? |
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"Well I don't know who to blame for guys being like this but most of the guys of today have no spine, the guys don't know how to stand up when it comes to ladies, they do not know how to catch ladies or hunt, so they give up on themselves, become clingy and display such attitude, they run away from the single guy category, what is more important to have? the knowledge and the ability to catch many ladies or having only one lady by your side? I would choose the knowledge , a true player who can catch many ladies will not risk his health with any one of the ladies.
Hunting and catching ladies? What is this notion? Is this how you see us? Prey? "
The swinging world is fantasy and there is nothing serious about it,niether should it be taken literally like a vanilla person interprets things, every category in the swinging world is hunting for something, the hotwives , cuckolds , couples, single ladies are all hunting for single guys , when I say hunting, all it means is getting what you set out to achieve in this fantasy world. It should not be interpreted the way a vanilla person will interprete things because it is just for fun and recreation. |
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"Prefer bareback personally but you need trust. But im amazed how many guys at clubs just try going for bare back without the condom question."
These guys are selfish and disrespectful.
The key is to find a respectful nice guy who considers what the lady wants. I'll not meet random single guys now because of this. |
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I personally believe in safe sex with condoms but of course bareback is better, I have not found a chic I can trust for bareback for so many reasons but I think the ladies should stop taking things in our swinging world too seriously.
I understand that the ladies I fuck in our swingers world are not like that when they are not swinging, it's just fun and recreation, it's like a second life where they can be the way they want to be without being judged,a lady can walk in naked into a swingers club or house party no problem or suck 10 cocks at the same time, I accept that is just a personality or character she is playing, most ladies on the other hand, take the guys so seriously when they are swinging and judge them, which I don't agree is right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely prefer bareback but need to be careful in the first instance until a level of trust is built. I also agree with the guy above about giving creampies, I love cumming deep inside a woman, amazing feeling. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Prefer bareback personally but you need trust. But im amazed how many guys at clubs just try going for bare back without the condom question.
These guys are selfish and disrespectful.
The key is to find a respectful nice guy who considers what the lady wants. I'll not meet random single guys now because of this. "
This is why my profile states I'm only meeting mutually verified on there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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everyone says bareback with partner
how long have they been your partner before you bareback with them and how do you know they are not carrying something |
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