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"I wonder if any swingers on here or in any members local communities, have a disability. I have come across people whose other halfs have a disability or physical condition and so seek elsewhere for their sexual needs, but I have never come across a swinger who has a disability? "Spooky you should ask, I guy I've just started talking to is in a wheelchair, and I've met a guy in a wheelchair too. Never bothered me in the past or will it in the future! I see the person not the disability, in this world or the real world!!!  | |||
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"I wonder if any swingers on here or in any members local communities, have a disability. I have come across people whose other halfs have a disability or physical condition and so seek elsewhere for their sexual needs, but I have never come across a swinger who has a disability?
Spooky you should ask, I guy I've just started talking to is in a wheelchair, and I've met a guy in a wheelchair too.
Never bothered me in the past or will it in the future!
I see the person not the disability, in this world or the real world!!! "i have to be honest the guy i knew who held the parties i coulnt have sex with him, he had no feeling from the waste down and could only get an errection by injecting himself but he had no feeling in his cock, i remember being in a room once when he was playig and a women went to give him a bj and he said....you dont have to do that i cant feel it anyway, i really dont mean it nasty but i wouldnt get anything from fucking a guy who couldnt feel iit | |||
"I suppose if you class being a dickhead as having a disability then there are loads! Z" Lol I was waiting for a comment like his (I thought that was what the thread was going to be about lol).   | |||
"I wonder if any swingers on here or in any members local communities, have a disability. I have come across people whose other halfs have a disability or physical condition and so seek elsewhere for their sexual needs, but I have never come across a swinger who has a disability?
Spooky you should ask, I guy I've just started talking to is in a wheelchair, and I've met a guy in a wheelchair too.
Never bothered me in the past or will it in the future!
I see the person not the disability, in this world or the real world!!!
i have to be honest the guy i knew who held the parties i coulnt have sex with him, he had no feeling from the waste down and could only get an errection by injecting himself but he had no feeling in his cock, i remember being in a room once when he was playig and a women went to give him a bj and he said....you dont have to do that i cant feel it anyway, i really dont mean it nasty but i wouldnt get anything from fucking a guy who couldnt feel iit"I wonder if yr on about an antipodean friend of ours ..... kinkykiwi?? If so he's gone back to his homeland and is now running a hotel with his current flame | |||
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"Mee! I've been disabled from birth and in a wheelchair for years. I've not been swinging long, but I am making up for all the time I've lost! "Good for you, enjoy yourself | |||
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"The Mrs has M.S. but it doesn't stop us having fun" I know of two ladies from A.N.Other site with MS who still play. One has it very bad but still manages to have her bit of fun, the other has the lapsing form but is more able, still drives a car and has only fairly recently given up her Harley Davidson motorbike but only because she feels her eyesight and balance isn`t good enough. | |||
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"We dont meet shallow up themselves people anyway "I think that's a little unfair. People meet for all kinds of reason: I used this site to meet my fantasy man: nothing more, nothing less, that doesn't make me shallow. Friends and partners don't come with a "check list", casual sexual partners do! | |||
"I had a mate who was epileptic, didnt cause him any problems with the ladies, just be yourself" i have that it not clased as a disability cheeky lol | |||
" Friends and partners don't come with a "check list", casual sexual partners do!" I think that was my fear, failing to meet this checklist because of it. | |||
" Friends and partners don't come with a "check list", casual sexual partners do! I think that was my fear, failing to meet this checklist because of it." i think it depends on the disability I have to admit this threads been aa bit of a eye opener for me and im not sure about my feelings now I have epilepsy and have since being a small child, i have never classed this or myself as a disability, its not something you can see, its not something that stops me doing anything, i had a rough time as a child finding the right medication to control my condition but since they did find the right medication and my condition is now controlled im fine and hardly ever have seizures, i have bought up 3 kids fine, worked all my adult life, not registered disabeled nor get any financial help, so reading thro this thread and seeing epilepsy refured to as a disability quite shocked me as i do not, nor will i ever class myself as disabeled
i never tell anyone i meet i have it as i do not feel the need to, there for i will never fail to meet anyones 'check list' as they dont know
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" Friends and partners don't come with a "check list", casual sexual partners do! I think that was my fear, failing to meet this checklist because of it. i think it depends on the disability I have to admit this threads been aa bit of a eye opener for me and im not sure about my feelings now I have epilepsy and have since being a small child, i have never classed this or myself as a disability, its not something you can see, its not something that stops me doing anything, i had a rough time as a child finding the right medication to control my condition but since they did find the right medication and my condition is now controlled im fine and hardly ever have seizures, i have bought up 3 kids fine, worked all my adult life, not registered disabeled nor get any financial help, so reading thro this thread and seeing epilepsy refured to as a disability quite shocked me as i do not, nor will i ever class myself as disabeled
i never tell anyone i meet i have it as i do not feel the need to, there for i will never fail to meet anyones 'check list' as they dont know
"Its refreshing for me to see disability being debated once more on the forums. I am blind and though I am disabled by society and peoples attitudes as opposed to having a disability, yes I have an impairment and I am completely honest and tell people straight out in my profile. What I don't do though is dwell on it, and let people think that my impairment is what they are going to focus on. No way! I'm here on fab for the same reason as anyone else, I am no different to anyone else either, so you either move on because you're not attracted to me, or you learn to block it from your mind and get on with the main course! We are a demography of an eclectic society here, I doubt however much some shallow individuals think they are perfect, they are also harbouring insecurities, we all need to remain tolerent of peoples differences, body shapes, colours of skin and so on, as long as one another accommodates then we should all get on swimmingly. If you're not attracted to someone and likewise they may not be attracted to you, what's the problem, we all have choices in life - I'd like to think that people don't want to meet me because I'm ugly and frankly not particularly adonnis looking not because I am blind - Hey! their loss as us confident types say!!! | |||
" Friends and partners don't come with a "check list", casual sexual partners do! I think that was my fear, failing to meet this checklist because of it." I believe there's somone for everyone here. Some just want sexy fun with people they can have a laugh with, some don't even want names: just cum and go whist others need a notarised copy of your driving license and three months bank statement just for a social meet! We will never appeal to everyone. All you can do is be honest on your profile and relax! | |||
" Friends and partners don't come with a "check list", casual sexual partners do! I think that was my fear, failing to meet this checklist because of it. i think it depends on the disability I have to admit this threads been aa bit of a eye opener for me and im not sure about my feelings now I have epilepsy and have since being a small child, i have never classed this or myself as a disability, its not something you can see, its not something that stops me doing anything, i had a rough time as a child finding the right medication to control my condition but since they did find the right medication and my condition is now controlled im fine and hardly ever have seizures, i have bought up 3 kids fine, worked all my adult life, not registered disabeled nor get any financial help, so reading thro this thread and seeing epilepsy refured to as a disability quite shocked me as i do not, nor will i ever class myself as disabeled
i never tell anyone i meet i have it as i do not feel the need to, there for i will never fail to meet anyones 'check list' as they dont know
Its refreshing for me to see disability being debated once more on the forums. I am blind and though I am disabled by society and peoples attitudes as opposed to having a disability, yes I have an impairment and I am completely honest and tell people straight out in my profile. What I don't do though is dwell on it, and let people think that my impairment is what they are going to focus on. No way! I'm here on fab for the same reason as anyone else, I am no different to anyone else either, so you either move on because you're not attracted to me, or you learn to block it from your mind and get on with the main course! We are a demography of an eclectic society here, I doubt however much some shallow individuals think they are perfect, they are also harbouring insecurities, we all need to remain tolerent of peoples differences, body shapes, colours of skin and so on, as long as one another accommodates then we should all get on swimmingly. If you're not attracted to someone and likewise they may not be attracted to you, what's the problem, we all have choices in life - I'd like to think that people don't want to meet me because I'm ugly and frankly not particularly adonnis looking not because I am blind - Hey! their loss as us confident types say!!!
"I wouldn't meet you because you are blind. I get aroused seeing the "fear" in my playmates eyes as they walk into my bedroom and see the goodies I have laid out for them. A blind person wouldn't enhance my pleasure so no meet. I have a 6ft dining table I've hog tied playmates to: if someone was in a wheelchair they wouldn't be able to climb up. There are men that like to throw their playmates around the bed: not possible with me. It doesn't mean we're shallow and if people were truly confident they'd recognise that without adding what I find bitter "their loss". | |||
" Friends and partners don't come with a "check list", casual sexual partners do! I think that was my fear, failing to meet this checklist because of it. i think it depends on the disability I have to admit this threads been aa bit of a eye opener for me and im not sure about my feelings now I have epilepsy and have since being a small child, i have never classed this or myself as a disability, its not something you can see, its not something that stops me doing anything, i had a rough time as a child finding the right medication to control my condition but since they did find the right medication and my condition is now controlled im fine and hardly ever have seizures, i have bought up 3 kids fine, worked all my adult life, not registered disabeled nor get any financial help, so reading thro this thread and seeing epilepsy refured to as a disability quite shocked me as i do not, nor will i ever class myself as disabeled
i never tell anyone i meet i have it as i do not feel the need to, there for i will never fail to meet anyones 'check list' as they dont know
Its refreshing for me to see disability being debated once more on the forums. I am blind and though I am disabled by society and peoples attitudes as opposed to having a disability, yes I have an impairment and I am completely honest and tell people straight out in my profile. What I don't do though is dwell on it, and let people think that my impairment is what they are going to focus on. No way! I'm here on fab for the same reason as anyone else, I am no different to anyone else either, so you either move on because you're not attracted to me, or you learn to block it from your mind and get on with the main course! We are a demography of an eclectic society here, I doubt however much some shallow individuals think they are perfect, they are also harbouring insecurities, we all need to remain tolerent of peoples differences, body shapes, colours of skin and so on, as long as one another accommodates then we should all get on swimmingly. If you're not attracted to someone and likewise they may not be attracted to you, what's the problem, we all have choices in life - I'd like to think that people don't want to meet me because I'm ugly and frankly not particularly adonnis looking not because I am blind - Hey! their loss as us confident types say!!!
I wouldn't meet you because you are blind. I get aroused seeing the "fear" in my playmates eyes as they walk into my bedroom and see the goodies I have laid out for them. A blind person wouldn't enhance my pleasure so no meet.
I have a 6ft dining table I've hog tied playmates to: if someone was in a wheelchair they wouldn't be able to climb up. There are men that like to throw their playmates around the bed: not possible with me.
It doesn't mean we're shallow and if people were truly confident they'd recognise that without adding what I find bitter "their loss". "Your choice sassymissuk similarly I wouldn't find what I perceive to be a self centred selfish personality attractive, But then I respect your choice not to find people with an impairment a tonic for you - no problem, you may not consider it shallow, and that is what makes us all different, similarly I do consider myself confident in most situations, but I'm not so crazed upon me not to see that sometimes you have to agree to not agree! :D :D | |||
"Its refreshing for me to see disability being debated once more on the forums. I am blind and though I am disabled by society and peoples attitudes as opposed to having a disability, yes I have an impairment and I am completely honest and tell people straight out in my profile. What I don't do though is dwell on it, and let people think that my impairment is what they are going to focus on. No way! I'm here on fab for the same reason as anyone else, I am no different to anyone else either, so you either move on because you're not attracted to me, or you learn to block it from your mind and get on with the main course! We are a demography of an eclectic society here, I doubt however much some shallow individuals think they are perfect, they are also harbouring insecurities, we all need to remain tolerent of peoples differences, body shapes, colours of skin and so on, as long as one another accommodates then we should all get on swimmingly. If you're not attracted to someone and likewise they may not be attracted to you, what's the problem, we all have choices in life - I'd like to think that people don't want to meet me because I'm ugly and frankly not particularly adonnis looking not because I am blind - Hey! their loss as us confident types say!!! "im sorry but i have to ask, how are you reading the forums, and indeed replying, if your blind? | |||
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"Its refreshing for me to see disability being debated once more on the forums. I am blind and though I am disabled by society and peoples attitudes as opposed to having a disability, yes I have an impairment and I am completely honest and tell people straight out in my profile. What I don't do though is dwell on it, and let people think that my impairment is what they are going to focus on. No way! I'm here on fab for the same reason as anyone else, I am no different to anyone else either, so you either move on because you're not attracted to me, or you learn to block it from your mind and get on with the main course! We are a demography of an eclectic society here, I doubt however much some shallow individuals think they are perfect, they are also harbouring insecurities, we all need to remain tolerent of peoples differences, body shapes, colours of skin and so on, as long as one another accommodates then we should all get on swimmingly. If you're not attracted to someone and likewise they may not be attracted to you, what's the problem, we all have choices in life - I'd like to think that people don't want to meet me because I'm ugly and frankly not particularly adonnis looking not because I am blind - Hey! their loss as us confident types say!!!
im sorry but i have to ask, how are you reading the forums, and indeed replying, if your blind?"With Access Technology Woman 9 h. I use a screen reader - a piece of software that reads the text on the screen to me through the audio output on my PC. The only drawback is not being able tto perve the photos, technology hasn't yet found a solution to interpreting images and graphics in a truly accessible manner. But hey ho, in the meantime we can always find a way around little problems like that would you care to know how I would manage that too? | |||
"Its refreshing for me to see disability being debated once more on the forums. I am blind and though I am disabled by society and peoples attitudes as opposed to having a disability, yes I have an impairment and I am completely honest and tell people straight out in my profile. What I don't do though is dwell on it, and let people think that my impairment is what they are going to focus on. No way! I'm here on fab for the same reason as anyone else, I am no different to anyone else either, so you either move on because you're not attracted to me, or you learn to block it from your mind and get on with the main course! We are a demography of an eclectic society here, I doubt however much some shallow individuals think they are perfect, they are also harbouring insecurities, we all need to remain tolerent of peoples differences, body shapes, colours of skin and so on, as long as one another accommodates then we should all get on swimmingly. If you're not attracted to someone and likewise they may not be attracted to you, what's the problem, we all have choices in life - I'd like to think that people don't want to meet me because I'm ugly and frankly not particularly adonnis looking not because I am blind - Hey! their loss as us confident types say!!!
im sorry but i have to ask, how are you reading the forums, and indeed replying, if your blind?
With Access Technology Woman 9 h. I use a screen reader - a piece of software that reads the text on the screen to me through the audio output on my PC. The only drawback is not being able tto perve the photos, technology hasn't yet found a solution to interpreting images and graphics in a truly accessible manner. But hey ho, in the meantime we can always find a way around little problems like that would you care to know how I would manage that too? "oh get you, how posh lol i wasnt being rude was just wondering.....ok i was being damn nosey | |||
"Its refreshing for me to see disability being debated once more on the forums. I am blind and though I am disabled by society and peoples attitudes as opposed to having a disability, yes I have an impairment and I am completely honest and tell people straight out in my profile. What I don't do though is dwell on it, and let people think that my impairment is what they are going to focus on. No way! I'm here on fab for the same reason as anyone else, I am no different to anyone else either, so you either move on because you're not attracted to me, or you learn to block it from your mind and get on with the main course! We are a demography of an eclectic society here, I doubt however much some shallow individuals think they are perfect, they are also harbouring insecurities, we all need to remain tolerent of peoples differences, body shapes, colours of skin and so on, as long as one another accommodates then we should all get on swimmingly. If you're not attracted to someone and likewise they may not be attracted to you, what's the problem, we all have choices in life - I'd like to think that people don't want to meet me because I'm ugly and frankly not particularly adonnis looking not because I am blind - Hey! their loss as us confident types say!!!
im sorry but i have to ask, how are you reading the forums, and indeed replying, if your blind?
With Access Technology Woman 9 h. I use a screen reader - a piece of software that reads the text on the screen to me through the audio output on my PC. The only drawback is not being able tto perve the photos, technology hasn't yet found a solution to interpreting images and graphics in a truly accessible manner. But hey ho, in the meantime we can always find a way around little problems like that would you care to know how I would manage that too?
oh get you, how posh lol
i wasnt being rude was just wondering.....ok i was being damn nosey "Hmmmmm I can handle noseyness, after all my curiosity got the better of me too and I glanced past your profile Naughty | |||
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" Friends and partners don't come with a "check list", casual sexual partners do! I think that was my fear, failing to meet this checklist because of it. i think it depends on the disability I have to admit this threads been aa bit of a eye opener for me and im not sure about my feelings now I have epilepsy and have since being a small child, i have never classed this or myself as a disability, its not something you can see, its not something that stops me doing anything, i had a rough time as a child finding the right medication to control my condition but since they did find the right medication and my condition is now controlled im fine and hardly ever have seizures, i have bought up 3 kids fine, worked all my adult life, not registered disabeled nor get any financial help, so reading thro this thread and seeing epilepsy refured to as a disability quite shocked me as i do not, nor will i ever class myself as disabeled
i never tell anyone i meet i have it as i do not feel the need to, there for i will never fail to meet anyones 'check list' as they dont know
Its refreshing for me to see disability being debated once more on the forums. I am blind and though I am disabled by society and peoples attitudes as opposed to having a disability, yes I have an impairment and I am completely honest and tell people straight out in my profile. What I don't do though is dwell on it, and let people think that my impairment is what they are going to focus on. No way! I'm here on fab for the same reason as anyone else, I am no different to anyone else either, so you either move on because you're not attracted to me, or you learn to block it from your mind and get on with the main course! We are a demography of an eclectic society here, I doubt however much some shallow individuals think they are perfect, they are also harbouring insecurities, we all need to remain tolerent of peoples differences, body shapes, colours of skin and so on, as long as one another accommodates then we should all get on swimmingly. If you're not attracted to someone and likewise they may not be attracted to you, what's the problem, we all have choices in life - I'd like to think that people don't want to meet me because I'm ugly and frankly not particularly adonnis looking not because I am blind - Hey! their loss as us confident types say!!!
I wouldn't meet you because you are blind. I get aroused seeing the "fear" in my playmates eyes as they walk into my bedroom and see the goodies I have laid out for them. A blind person wouldn't enhance my pleasure so no meet.
I have a 6ft dining table I've hog tied playmates to: if someone was in a wheelchair they wouldn't be able to climb up. There are men that like to throw their playmates around the bed: not possible with me.
It doesn't mean we're shallow and if people were truly confident they'd recognise that without adding what I find bitter "their loss".
Your choice sassymissuk similarly I wouldn't find what I perceive to be a self centred selfish personality attractive, But then I respect your choice not to find people with an impairment a tonic for you - no problem, you may not consider it shallow, and that is what makes us all different, similarly I do consider myself confident in most situations, but I'm not so crazed upon me not to see that sometimes you have to agree to not agree! :D :D
"I think you're misunderstanding me: partly my fault for seemingly personalising my response to you. I have friends that are short, bi, black, women...none of which I'd look for in a casual sexual playmate. Said friends probably wouldn't look for a big, black Domme to play with, it doesn't mean I take umbridge and feel slighted. I have to admit to still finding it odd that certain people are unable to accept they won't be everyone's cup of tea and accuse people of being shallow and arrogant because of it! I think Admin should offer vinegar for the chips some people carry around on their shoulders! | |||
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" Friends and partners don't come with a "check list", casual sexual partners do! I think that was my fear, failing to meet this checklist because of it. i think it depends on the disability I have to admit this threads been aa bit of a eye opener for me and im not sure about my feelings now I have epilepsy and have since being a small child, i have never classed this or myself as a disability, its not something you can see, its not something that stops me doing anything, i had a rough time as a child finding the right medication to control my condition but since they did find the right medication and my condition is now controlled im fine and hardly ever have seizures, i have bought up 3 kids fine, worked all my adult life, not registered disabeled nor get any financial help, so reading thro this thread and seeing epilepsy refured to as a disability quite shocked me as i do not, nor will i ever class myself as disabeled
i never tell anyone i meet i have it as i do not feel the need to, there for i will never fail to meet anyones 'check list' as they dont know
Its refreshing for me to see disability being debated once more on the forums. I am blind and though I am disabled by society and peoples attitudes as opposed to having a disability, yes I have an impairment and I am completely honest and tell people straight out in my profile. What I don't do though is dwell on it, and let people think that my impairment is what they are going to focus on. No way! I'm here on fab for the same reason as anyone else, I am no different to anyone else either, so you either move on because you're not attracted to me, or you learn to block it from your mind and get on with the main course! We are a demography of an eclectic society here, I doubt however much some shallow individuals think they are perfect, they are also harbouring insecurities, we all need to remain tolerent of peoples differences, body shapes, colours of skin and so on, as long as one another accommodates then we should all get on swimmingly. If you're not attracted to someone and likewise they may not be attracted to you, what's the problem, we all have choices in life - I'd like to think that people don't want to meet me because I'm ugly and frankly not particularly adonnis looking not because I am blind - Hey! their loss as us confident types say!!!
I wouldn't meet you because you are blind. I get aroused seeing the "fear" in my playmates eyes as they walk into my bedroom and see the goodies I have laid out for them. A blind person wouldn't enhance my pleasure so no meet.
I have a 6ft dining table I've hog tied playmates to: if someone was in a wheelchair they wouldn't be able to climb up. There are men that like to throw their playmates around the bed: not possible with me.
It doesn't mean we're shallow and if people were truly confident they'd recognise that without adding what I find bitter "their loss".
Your choice sassymissuk similarly I wouldn't find what I perceive to be a self centred selfish personality attractive, But then I respect your choice not to find people with an impairment a tonic for you - no problem, you may not consider it shallow, and that is what makes us all different, similarly I do consider myself confident in most situations, but I'm not so crazed upon me not to see that sometimes you have to agree to not agree! :D :D
I think you're misunderstanding me: partly my fault for seemingly personalising my response to you.
I have friends that are short, bi, black, women...none of which I'd look for in a casual sexual playmate.
Said friends probably wouldn't look for a big, black Domme to play with, it doesn't mean I take umbridge and feel slighted.
I have to admit to still finding it odd that certain people are unable to accept they won't be everyone's cup of tea and accuse people of being shallow and arrogant because of it!
I think Admin should offer vinegar for the chips some people carry around on their shoulders!"I wouldnt play with ANYONE i didnt feel sexually attracted to, end of, i dont see the problem with that | |||
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"people with a disability have the same rite to enjoy themselves as an able bodied person" With people who want to play with them! Those that don't want to play with someone with a particular disability, that is their choice too! Caring Guy got it right.. "I think it's down to personal preference, if I was attracted to the person with the disability then no problem!, I say good for you for leading a normal life!! " Same for us too.. | |||
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