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over a year ago
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Why oh why do a minority of guys take time to chat to me, sometimes all evening, they compliment you, offer you their number their private photos etc. Then they send a friend request ..without asking. I choose not to accept as I have known them all but 2mins and then they go offline. I do not hear anything from them for days or weeks sometimes.
Yes, they wish to view my private pics.. but is that the only reason?
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Many just want to look at your friends only pics.
As a general rule I don't add anyone as a friend unless we have met in person. I do add them if they ask first and we are planning to meet but if they don't ask and just send a friend request I ignore it.
One thing I have noticed is I get fewer unsolicited friend requests when my face pictures are on public display. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Many just want to look at your friends only pics.
As a general rule I don't add anyone as a friend unless we have met in person. I do add them if they ask first and we are planning to meet but if they don't ask and just send a friend request I ignore it.
One thing I have noticed is I get fewer unsolicited friend requests when my face pictures are on public display. "
How strange. I wouldnt show my face, I like to be discreet but wish I could and I might also find less unsolicited friend requests are sent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why oh why do a minority of guys take time to chat to me, sometimes all evening, they compliment you, offer you their number their private photos etc. Then they send a friend request ..without asking. I choose not to accept as I have known them all but 2mins and then they go offline. I do not hear anything from them for days or weeks sometimes.
Yes, they wish to view my private pics.. but is that the only reason?
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I don't accept friends requests unless it's someone I might possibly meet at some point or someone I chatting to regularly. Mostly they want to look at pics as you say, and also want to make themselves look good by having lots of friends XXX |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why oh why do a minority of guys take time to chat to me, sometimes all evening, they compliment you, offer you their number their private photos etc. Then they send a friend request ..without asking. I choose not to accept as I have known them all but 2mins and then they go offline. I do not hear anything from them for days or weeks sometimes.
Yes, they wish to view my private pics.. but is that the only reason?
I don't accept friends requests unless it's someone I might possibly meet at some point or someone I chatting to regularly. Mostly they want to look at pics as you say, and also want to make themselves look good by having lots of friends XXX"
This is what i do now... have done for months.
If a guy is really interested, he will meet me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't accept friend requests unless I have met them already. Some guys get stroppy about it but that instantly tells me they are not guys I would want to meet. X |
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"Put all your friend pics private then accept the request  "
Haha .. ive done that before and you may as well be strangers once you have accepted them.  |
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Everyone uses the friend request feature in different ways, cannot see any problem with if you are chatting with somebody for a few hours they send a friend request, they've spent time engaging with you and maybe want to add you as a friend so when they do reacquaint themselves with you at a later date you remember them, what's wrong with that? If you are on there friends list you are easier to find a vice versa x |
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Yea iv had a few that just send me friends invite out of the blue I don't except, other that I have been chatting to for a while friends invite I accept but then they ask do I have any more, you get what you get and no more x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've removed all my friend pics as I got loads of requests from people I've never spoken to. I just leave them there as they cannot send another for 30 days unless you delete it. I only have people I've met or plan to meet as friends. |
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"Everyone uses the friend request feature in different ways, cannot see any problem with if you are chatting with somebody for a few hours they send a friend request, they've spent time engaging with you and maybe want to add you as a friend so when they do reacquaint themselves with you at a later date you remember them, what's wrong with that? If you are on there friends list you are easier to find a vice versa x"
Its because they are only after the view of your private pics. The reason I say that is because when i do not accept their request and state why, thats the last i hear from them. |
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