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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you have it all wrong myself

I prefer the BBW they are voluptuous not sticks

Natural and plenty to play with

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're so mistaken there. I actually think big women are beautiful. A large woman REALLY turns me on. Obviously you will get a few knobs but that's just how it is. I'd say more people like you for who you are than for any other reason. Or am i just naive lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As BBW watching this with interest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me "

Message em back! You never know.. a lot of blokes prefer us curvier types

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And that should have been a smile

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Maybe it's a confidence thing x I just thing guys could find better and that I'm a last resort type of meet xx

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

You will never know if they are being sincere or not. Obly you can decide if that matters or not. If you get to play with a good looking guy and have fun you win. Dont care about his reasoning so much i would advise.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple over a year ago

Midlands

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me "

I try to not over think it.

When I was single I was never short of meets. If I fancied the guy and he said he fancied me...bingo!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My wife is a size 24 and I think she is so sexy.. I love and adore every inch of her.... she says the same thing

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By *amesB66Man over a year ago

St Peter Port

Don't put yourself down...we all have our preferences and many men very much enjoy the company of a larger lady.

Personality still rules though!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I will try not to overthink x I personally do care if they don't fancy me as I think a sexual attraction makes a meet so much better xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me "

I actually genuinely do find them sexy, if any of you find me the same then hit me up

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By *ngeluk69Woman over a year ago

Near enough

One of the reasons I run BBW events at Jaydees is because of the sexiness and confidence of a woman with curves. I often turn guys away (due to numbers) who cannot get enough of a BBW/ssbbw, I even have a few guys who want bigger all the time as they love the softness and roundness of the body.

There is always someone for everyone, and us curvy girls should embrace what we have and love ourselves just a little bit more sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It's nice to see that people genuinely do like us fuller figured women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me

Message em back! You never know.. a lot of blokes prefer us curvier types

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By *he Wandering WelshmanMan over a year ago

The Valleys

Hullo,first of all I'm not a "good looking guy" so i dont 100% qualify to answer but,I have and always will look for a BBW first,it's was one of the main reasons I joined FAB,it's just something about you ladies that turns be on!

Best w

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well, I prefer BBW as such to all shapes and sizes of women. Even off the site when in a bar or a club or meeting new women. I'm only interested in bigger women I've always been like this since a younger age. Just the way I am

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Trust me, I'm very much attracted to the fuller figure so, from my point of view, your issues are definitely not valid lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm always the one no one approaches on a night out

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"I will try not to overthink x I personally do care if they don't fancy me as I think a sexual attraction makes a meet so much better xx"

Thats undestabdable. What i mean though is if they tell you that they do then have that mindset. Some will genuinely do so. Some men will say anything to get their wicked way. You wont know for sure. Thats the same for anyone on here. Same for anyone full stop.

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By *ettyboop61Woman over a year ago

St Neots

Mmmmm if I thought there was a fittie put there for me I would welcome him woth open arms...I just lurrrrv massaging those muscles......

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Mmmmm if I thought there was a fittie put there for me I would welcome him woth open arms...I just lurrrrv massaging those muscles......

Maybe i need to think positive on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe it's a confidence thing x I just thing guys could find better and that I'm a last resort type of meet xx"

I think you should just go with your gut on what to believe from people, as they too are after your gut...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mmmmm if I thought there was a fittie put there for me I would welcome him woth open arms...I just lurrrrv massaging those muscles......

Mine are requiring a massage

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman over a year ago

middle of nowhere

OP you need to be more positive. I was surprised at how many men like big women. I now have lots of big woman loving men as friends. Love yourself and you'll be surprised how better things get. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mmmmm if I thought there was a fittie put there for me I would welcome him woth open arms...I just lurrrrv massaging those muscles......

Maybe i need to think positive on here "

My moto is never to regret anything that made me smile so if I'm going to enjoy it the why not.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"OP you need to be more positive. I was surprised at how many men like big women. I now have lots of big woman loving men as friends. Love yourself and you'll be surprised how better things get. Xx"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Please take no offence of my use of the word "Sticks" it was not meant in any derogatory terms

Just meant what is socially deemed normal sized "ladies" what ever that is

Please accept my apologies

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By *ockspur and FizzCouple over a year ago

Somewhere

We like curves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love big women love the big curvy bodies n I love a big belly just love caressing a belly , no into skinny women at all

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

Hi op,i think some men truly do like bbws/ssbbws

I think some will send messgaes out to anyone and wait for an answer.

Maybe they like your profile and pics

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love BBWs, the confidence is amazing, and generally so is the sex! All whom I've met are lovely genuine people,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I usually just assume that ripped guys haven't read my profile and aren't into bigger girls.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You should give them a try. I had a meet who I thought was only a quick one he had no intentions of meeting again and he keeps messaging hop in to meet up again. You should definitely chat to them just wait till you feel comfortable before meeting them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely prefer curves, can't beat a nice round bum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definitely prefer curves, can't beat a nice round bum

*coughs*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Genuinely love a bbw

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple over a year ago

wirral

It's probably just a confidence thing. When I was slim, I thought I was fat and ugly. Still the same now and get messages all the time. Doesn't make me feel desirable or sexy, makes me think any hole is a goal.

Especially when you say no. I was the best thing since sliced bread two mins ago and now I'm a fat ugly slag.

Whatever.

My man loves me so I'm happy x

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By *ittyskitchenWoman over a year ago

nottingham

I've met some very fit attractive men. I too felt the same- why would they be interested in me? Turns out they genuinely are. And have met some more than once and now very happily dating an Adonis. They mostly say the same -plastic barbie types look amazing but no mental connection. And they love soft womanly curves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definitely prefer curves, can't beat a nice round bum

*coughs*

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you for all the replies I'm going to give some of them a message back see how it goes xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And that should have been a smile

You have a great fuller figure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel so much more body confident since joining Fab, and meeting guys in clubs and privately.

I don't have any worries about stripping off, and being naked. And it makes me feel great being told I have a lovely body!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If your a chubby bloke, you don't even get a second looking from other women. Either that or it's just me lol I think I'll got with the latter lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

only just seen this thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But yeah curves over none. Just got an overall better figure!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can go with this x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If your a chubby bloke, you don't even get a second looking from other women. Either that or it's just me lol I think I'll got with the latter lol"

Yeah would have to kind of agree. I'm a chubby bloke too and only ever really have the curvier/chubbier women interested in me. Not that I mind though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never even get curvey women contact me lol maybe I should take the hint haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Glad I'm not the only one who feels like this xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me "

I'm a big girl/woman I've met quite a few guys from here and they have become great friends, Don't put yourself down babe big girls got it going on as much as any other.

Reply reply reply you will be surprised x

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By *urvelover39Man over a year ago

Somewhere

There are alot of bbw lovers out there you need too stop being hard on yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can go with this x "

Hey hey gorgeous long time no see xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Glad I'm not the only one who feels like this xxx"

Look at there verifications.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If your a chubby bloke, you don't even get a second looking from other women. Either that or it's just me lol I think I'll got with the latter lol"

Thats crazy big guys are sexxxxyyyy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can go with this x

Hey hey gorgeous long time no see xxxx"
hey gorgeous lady xx

I like guys but my preference is for guys who I know I'm not going to break x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thank you, I wish everyone shared your views on bigger guys lol

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By *ighland gentlemanMan over a year ago

Ardgay

I far prefer a larger lady.

Can't explain why, they just appeal Aesthetically.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me "

When I first joined this site I thought the same as you and always made excuses not to meet them. Then one day I thought did it I'm going to call their bluff and accept to meet them. And I've not looked back since and could kick myself for not doing this sooner. I've met some amazing younger/older fit good looking guys.

Don't get me wrong some guys are ticking things off their list and yeah some guys think we should be grateful of the offer and some think we are easy and desperate. But not all the fit, good looking guys think like that. Some genuinely like a plus size woman( hate the term bbw).

So go on give it a go you might be surprised

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think you have it all wrong myself

I prefer the BBW they are voluptuous not sticks

Natural and plenty to play with

Totally agree way better than a stick

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think you have it all wrong myself

I prefer the BBW they are voluptuous not sticks

Natural and plenty to play with

Totally agree way better than a stick "

Please don't berate one body type in a quest to appease the other. Slim women are not "sticks"...

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple over a year ago

Fareham

"I love big women love the big curvy bodies n I love a big belly just love caressing a belly , no into skinny women at all"

Really? My Buddha belly is my biggest hang up! I find it hard to believe ANYONE could like the look of a huge jelly belly!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If your a chubby bloke, you don't even get a second looking from other women. Either that or it's just me lol I think I'll got with the latter lol

Thats crazy big guys are sexxxxyyyy

Well as a big chubby guy ,i love bbw"s

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple over a year ago

Surrey

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple over a year ago

Surrey

"If your a chubby bloke, you don't even get a second looking from other women. Either that or it's just me lol I think I'll got with the latter lol

Thats crazy big guys are sexxxxyyyy

Well as a big chubby guy ,i love bbw"s

I love big chubby guys, but I'm not BBW... just curvy xx

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple over a year ago

Surrey

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel the same way. No one likes a puncher lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe it's a confidence thing x I just thing guys could find better and that I'm a last resort type of meet xx"

Then your problem will never go away. Personally, I'm not very attracted to BBW girls, but I can't stand sticks either. There's this middle ground that I love.

But try thinking about it this way. Good looking guys will likely get laid quite easily, and ugly guys won't. If a hot guy is willing to bump uglies, and able to, then chances are you're someone he wants to fuck, or he'd struggle. If you do sleep with a guy you think is gorgeous, and who has great stamina, chances are it's going to be a great night, and regardless of what happens in the future, you'll have had fun.

Now pick the less attractive guy, a little out of shape, low confidence, thinks he can't get the hott girls. NOW you're a last resort. If he struggles to get hard, be that due to fitness or otherwise you'll think it's about your body and the sex is likely going to be non existent or shit, especially as your basically lowering your own standards too. You're more likely to end up unsatisfied, and still going to be staring at the hot guys anyway, so just take a shot, you might surprise yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel the same tbh hun when I look for a single guy and the really good looking ones message me. I get really nervous and think would they actually talk to me on a night out or is it just a quick easy fuck for them... so I do t end up meeting them x

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By *inxy777Woman over a year ago

essex

Thank you for this thread. It's certainly made me feel better

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you all you've all made me feel much better xx glad it's helped others too xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You will never know if they are being sincere or not. Obly you can decide if that matters or not. If you get to play with a good looking guy and have fun you win. Dont care about his reasoning so much i would advise."

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By *ittyskitchenWoman over a year ago

nottingham

"I feel so much more body confident since joining Fab, and meeting guys in clubs and privately.

I don't have any worries about stripping off, and being naked. And it makes me feel great being told I have a lovely body! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love big women love the big curvy bodies n I love a big belly just love caressing a belly , no into skinny women at all

Really? My Buddha belly is my biggest hang up! I find it hard to believe ANYONE could like the look of a huge jelly belly!

Aye I love a big belly, just does it for me love holding onto it when am doing a lassie from behind. Different people like different things I suppose

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By *K430Man over a year ago

Tipperary

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By *K430Man over a year ago

Tipperary

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me "

Why would you think that , at least answer them and you will be pleasantly surprised, personally I love curvy women, and I'd imagine I'm in the majority, easy to say but have a bit more confidence in yourself, you have no reason not to have

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By *ish68Man over a year ago

Near Chirk

Curves are a sign of womanhood. Personally I love a bigger woman. In my experience the y are more passionate and 'real.' I'm sure there are men out there that aren't attracted to the bugger woman in the same way woman aren't atttracted to the bigger man. It's preference, everyone's different and have different likes. So as a Big Beautiful Woman you shouldn't feel negative about yourself, you are the fantasies of many a man.

I love that feeling of being enveloped by a woman. Best ever!

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

They like to shag us, not date us. Hate to be a Debbie Downer but how often do you see a hunk in a relationship with a big woman?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They like to shag us, not date us. Hate to be a Debbie Downer but how often do you see a hunk in a relationship with a big woman? "

Not to self proclaim being a 'hunk' but I've been with a couple of bigger girls now and both have asked the question as to why I'm with them, or you could be with a skinny bird, or people probably think whys he with her. To me the saying beauty is in the eye of the beholder applies here, everyone is different and I'm not necessarily attracted to any physical qualities quite like I am personal traits. Also I just think bigger girls like to be self conscious because of the magazine culture.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am no hunk more of a Ross Kemp look a like and I find you big beautiful stunning women extremely sexy x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you'be just got to take people at their word. If they say they fancy you, they fancy you. Am I being old fashioned in thinking nobody would sleep with someone they don't find attractive? I've certainly refused on meets before, never anything to do with the size of the lady; more often their personality and in one occasion their disgusting toilet ( I mean who has a guest round and doesnt crack out the toilet duck beforehand?).

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By *ighland gentlemanMan over a year ago

Ardgay

"They like to shag us, not date us. Hate to be a Debbie Downer but how often do you see a hunk in a relationship with a big woman? "

Well there seems to be plenty of couples where the she is a BBW so relationships do happen,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im glad youve written this thread op.

Im quite big and always struggle with confidence on a meet. Especially if the other lady is alot slimmer. When guys message and say oh your so beautiful etc i automatically think their lying and just desperate. Im starting to get over it but still not 100% certain they fancy me. I guess i will never know their full intentions.

Mrs

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By *az1Man over a year ago

Birmingham

"Im glad youve written this thread op.

Mrs"

Hey how are you? I've just had a look at your pics and trust me hun you are beautiful and have nothing to worry about xx

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By *BWandhusbandCouple over a year ago

Midlands

"They like to shag us, not date us. Hate to be a Debbie Downer but how often do you see a hunk in a relationship with a big woman?

Well there seems to be plenty of couples where the she is a BBW so relationships do happen, "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im glad youve written this thread op.

Mrs

Hey how are you? I've just had a look at your pics and trust me hun you are beautiful and have nothing to worry about xx "

thank you

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I know plenty of couples where one partner is significantly bigger than the other and they seem very happy.

Certainly it hasn't been an issue between them.

I have some friends who very much prefer bigger girls and find me (average size) a little small for their preferences.

We all like what we like, just accept that if they are messaging you and are seeming interested then they may well like you.

It may also have nothing at all to do with your weight and more to do with that they find you attractive for many other reasons.

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By *nlyfun3Woman over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I dont class myself as a bbw but im certainly not slim. But what i do have is outward confidence. Confidence is attractive and i think my pics and profile show this. If a fittie messages me thats up to him. But for me if he has no confidence and is boring i turn them down as im looking for more than just looks. Embrace who u are and u may find u get even more messages

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple over a year ago

London

"They like to shag us, not date us. Hate to be a Debbie Downer but how often do you see a hunk in a relationship with a big woman? "

Indeed. Whilst there are some men who prefer bigger women, most men prefer slim women. You can argue whether that is inherent or due to social conditioning, but it's a fact.

It's works the other way as well. Other things being equal most women prefer slim to overweight men.

Obviously on here, bigger women will be more successful than bigger men because there are far more men looking for women than women looking for men.

This year is not to disrespect or hate on anyone, but let's be realistic (and to even things up I would point out I am in my fifties and balding and will be less attractive to most women on here than younger and more hirsute men

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By *mokey_KinksMan over a year ago

Essex

it takes skills for us guys to handle the curves thats why we love them so much, would have a curves on very any other

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I absolutely adore them,that's why I married my BBW dream. She's got a fabulous figure which oozes sexiness. Whilst we are on we are looking for another couple with a BBW girly for soft swing meetings to start with if there are any guys and girls out there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me "

Totally agree. Yes get sone attention here and lots say they like bbw but when out socially at night i never get chatted up its akways the skinny or more atbletic girls so a lot if the time here i think its bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have posted the reverse to this I don't think you have anything to worry about, Us skinny girls don't get the attention you think we do, majority prefer bigger ladies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have posted the reverse to this I don't think you have anything to worry about, Us skinny girls don't get the attention you think we do, majority prefer bigger ladies

You're verifications tell a different story lol

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple over a year ago

London

"I have posted the reverse to this I don't think you have anything to worry about, Us skinny girls don't get the attention you think we do, majority prefer bigger ladies

Nonsense. I know you have a different experience but the vast majority of men prefer a non overweight woman to an overweight woman.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have posted the reverse to this I don't think you have anything to worry about, Us skinny girls don't get the attention you think we do, majority prefer bigger ladies

Nonsense. I know you have a different experience but the vast majority of men prefer a non overweight woman to an overweight woman. "

Some truth here, not one of my male pals would be that interested in fat girls or much prefer slimmer women. Most not even for just sex let alone a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have posted the reverse to this I don't think you have anything to worry about, Us skinny girls don't get the attention you think we do, majority prefer bigger ladies

You're verifications tell a different story lol"

We have verifications yes but have not actually played with them we have met those who have verified us at clubs and spoken to them, speaking and becoming friends is very different to playing with them

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple over a year ago

London

"I have posted the reverse to this I don't think you have anything to worry about, Us skinny girls don't get the attention you think we do, majority prefer bigger ladies

Nonsense. I know you have a different experience but the vast majority of men prefer a non overweight woman to an overweight woman.

Some truth here, not one of my male pals would be that interested in fat girls or much prefer slimmer women. Most not even for just sex let alone a relationship. "

I think that reality is obscured on here by the fact that single men outnumber single women by about 15 to 1, hence women of all shapes and sizes get lots of attention. However we can get some idea of what most people find attractive by the most fabbed pics.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple over a year ago

London

And I just looked at the most fabbed pics. First 15 were all of women of course and 13 could be classified as slim. The other two could be said to be curvy (not significantly overweight) but were showing massive boobs.

QED

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd deff have a relationship with a big woman I think bigger woman are pure sexy I don't just meet them to shag them if any of the ones ive shagged off here asked me out as a more serious thing I would jump at the chance cause they are pure hotties

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not read the whole thread but maybe you saw my thread the other day about big bellys and women with bouncy bits!?

I think some men may think what you wrote but if you through those people you will find people (me very much included) that absolutely adore large women and find them the sexiest things on earth xxxxx

Best wishes xx

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By *ischief ManagedCouple over a year ago

manchester

Op there are plenty of admirers

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By *ainaldoMan over a year ago

Cardiff

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me "

First thing for me is - do i think she's pretty. Ultimately if I don't think that then it doesn't matter what body you have. Conversely if I do think you're pretty then it doesn't really matter what body you have.

It turns out I do love curves, I like big butts as the song goes and I love having someone on top of me and her tits hang down in front of me on to my chest. I also love to explore and skim ladies tend to have less

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By *havedballsMan over a year ago

shrewsbury

"Maybe it's a confidence thing x I just thing guys could find better and that I'm a last resort type of meet xx"

What could be better, pity i'm not nearer! Personality and curves, theres nothing better!

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By *ne hung loMan over a year ago

gloucester

Big boobs big bum hmm yum yum slim ladies do nothing for me

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By *illowtorqueMan over a year ago

Swindon

Love big / very big girls. Big soft arms, bellies, thighs... love it all. Never too much xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love big women love the big curvy bodies n I love a big belly just love caressing a belly , no into skinny women at all

Really? My Buddha belly is my biggest hang up! I find it hard to believe ANYONE could like the look of a huge jelly belly!

I feel the same way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me

Me either!! And if i do i think their playing games

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me

Me either!! And if i do i think their playing games

Do you believe your husband finds you attractive? If so, why is it so hard to believe that other men might?

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By *he_batmanMan over a year ago

Gotham

There's nothing attractive about being a greedy bastard

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's nothing attractive about being a greedy bastard "

Or being a c**t behind a keyword

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's nothing attractive about being a greedy bastard "

In your opinion... some men pay good money to watch women stuff their faces on webcam. So yeah, some people obviously do find that attractive. Just because you don't agree with it doesn't mean it ain't so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's nothing attractive about being a greedy bastard

Or being a c**t behind a keyword

I know which I would rather have. Hint: it's not the c**t behind the keyboard!

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By *laclkguyMan over a year ago

Pontefract

"Maybe it's a confidence thing x I just thing guys could find better and that I'm a last resort type of meet xx"

your definitely the first resort (sent you a PM)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No way I am only interested in a gorgeous fuller figure women. Curves are so sexy and much much more interesting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me "

Yep. I know exactly how you feel! Always feel like the joke is on me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Adore bigger girls because they are really sexy and no other reason xxx

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By *playfulcouple OzCouple over a year ago

Perth

I have seen a slim handsome guy off here occasionally over the past three years or so. I was shy of my body and still am but was surprised to hear him say he loves the way my ass moves and I was trying to hide it all!

Really really surprised!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me "

Meet them, if their cock gets hard at the sight of you then they are attracted....it's amazing!

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By *ticky_vikkiWoman over a year ago

Herts

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me "

Yup!! I can't quite work out how hot guys want to see my xl wobbly bits

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By *infulSandyCouple over a year ago

London

"I'm always the one no one approaches on a night out

If we were st a party with you we would definitely approach you.

What parties are these that they don't appreciate a beautiful woman with curves?!

Not just throwing an empty compliment, we mean it, you're hot!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm always the one no one approaches on a night out

As long as you don't use the pegs on us you'd be fine!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me

Message em back! You never know.. a lot of blokes prefer us curvier types

As a bbw who was on last year there are gen guys out there who adore bbw but as with any internet site swinging or non swinging there will be those wanting to take advantage show them you are bbw and proud .... be confident that you are beautiful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me

Meet them, if their cock gets hard at the sight of you then they are attracted....it's amazing!

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By *inkyDragonsCouple over a year ago

Ammanford

I would try not to overthink each situation...

Granted there will be a small number that fall within your given criteria, however, the majority I have no doubt feel a genuine sexual attraction towards you. While the interest might suprise you at times, theres still a large number of guys who struggle to admit they find larger ladies attractive.!

Personally, i've had many larger GF's and find the different shapes of bodies an incredibly attractive thing..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Size 18 plus all the way baby... I so much prefer curves wobbly bits and folds of sft flesh soooo sexy my fb has slimmed from a 20 to a 12 she's still her but not as sexy...in my mind

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

No it doesn't bother me but I'm pretty happy and confident in myself and my body and out of the stereotypical hot guys that have messaged me and I've met I've not once felt like they thought I was just an easy lay or a convenient hole in a moment of desperation, they all been great guys and great experiences

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By *ne hung loMan over a year ago

gloucester

Only interested in bigger girls always have been slim ladies do nothing for me, it's big boobs big bum yum yum

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By *infulSandyCouple over a year ago

London

I spent my whole life ashamed of my shape but being with my amazing man and the interactions I've had over the last few years have shown me that there really are people who are attracted to all shapes of people and we shouldn't send ourselves down the 'nobody likes a bigger girl' train of thought. I'm learning to be proud of who I am. Admittedly I had lost weight and this has been for my health, but also I'm getting a better image of myself too which is amazing. Be proud! Work that ass!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bbw are amazing I so don't like skinny women pref older also

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like bbw and ssbbw,

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By *GJGCouple over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Apologies for bringing up a bit of an old thread but I absolutely adore larger women! There is no such thing as too much ass in my world haha!

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By *eganbabygirlWoman over a year ago

Newry

Why are all the BBW lovers so far away?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me "

Me personally I absolutely love bbw and find you really attractive and been wanting to meet you for weeks xx

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By *riztangMan over a year ago

dungannon all over uk

"Why are all the BBW lovers so far away?

I'm not far away xx

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By *eganbabygirlWoman over a year ago

Newry

"Why are all the BBW lovers so far away?

I'm not far away xx"

Good to know theres some in good ole Eire

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By *riztangMan over a year ago

dungannon all over uk

"Why are all the BBW lovers so far away?

I'm not far away xx

Good to know theres some in good ole Eire

Yeah I've actually msg u a few times got no reply xx

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By *rjpinkMan over a year ago

winterfell

I'm far more attracted to bbw types.. its just personal taste! Accept it OP!! There are exceptions to everything but given the choice bbw for me every time!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep BBW for me every time

Just find the whole curvy figure and big boobs so sexy

Only meets I have now are with BBW

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

The minute I stopped over thinking it and feeling like I wasn't worthy of being with a fitty or that I was a just a fetish was the exact moment that I started being the sexually confident super awesome strumpet i am today. Embrace your inner sex goddess and she will shine! X

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I'm far more attracted to bbw types.. its just personal taste! Accept it OP!! There are exceptions to everything but given the choice bbw for me every time!!!"

Wonder what you messaged me about 6 months ago...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I need to find a hottie local to me x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all the BBW lovers so far away?

I was literally just thinking that.,.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The minute I stopped over thinking it and feeling like I wasn't worthy of being with a fitty or that I was a just a fetish was the exact moment that I started being the sexually confident super awesome strumpet i am today. Embrace your inner sex goddess and she will shine! X"

You look amazing xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Read this thread with interest...

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By *GJGCouple over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Why are all the BBW lovers so far away?

I was literally just thinking that.,.

Nothing a journey on the train can't sort, especially when you describe yourself as having a big ass and thighs! That definitely grabs my attention

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I adore and love curvy/bbw women. They are such a turn on for me. Bigger the better I say. Just can't seem to find one. That is so frustrating

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By *ighland gentlemanMan over a year ago

Ardgay

It would seem for some reason or other I always prefer a curvaceous lady.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Every guy has there thing they love about women, some love small arsed some love big, some like big boobs some like small, I love bigger women more than I like slimmer women! Its up to you wether you reply but I don’t think it’s for them reasons why 90% message bbw’s

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By *ptimusDMan over a year ago

Birmingham

What does ssBBW mean

That's a new one on me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What does ssBBW mean

That's a new one on me!"
super sized big beautiful woman xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me "

When I was on a single profile I felt exactly the same. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I think that anyone regardless of there size can be sexy it's all down to confidence

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I think that anyone regardless of there size can be sexy it's all down to confidence"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love a larger lady. Any ladies in Leeds

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me "

I hear ya! And have felt the same from time to time..

I just take my time chatting to those guys to suss pit if they are genuine or not and always do a social! You can tell if they are into you or not by their body language!

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By *GJGCouple over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I think socials are always a good idea for any situation. Only problem is when you're too into someone and you've got to try style out the tight trousers!

"I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me

I hear ya! And have felt the same from time to time..

I just take my time chatting to those guys to suss pit if they are genuine or not and always do a social! You can tell if they are into you or not by their body language!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think socials are always a good idea for any situation. Only problem is when you're too into someone and you've got to try style out the tight trousers!

True! I always do a social to be fair

I still will never believe these good looking guys who message me are really attracted to me I just think it's for one of two reasons

1- they think I'm going to be easy

2- they just want to tick something off a bucket list

Any other bbws think the same? I don't even message back as I just think they won't really fancy me

I hear ya! And have felt the same from time to time..

I just take my time chatting to those guys to suss pit if they are genuine or not and always do a social! You can tell if they are into you or not by their body language!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm married to a big girl, but that is just how it is. I'd say that I'm just attracted to people as they are. Thin, large, tall and small- I just don't look at people in that way. When it comes to sex, I'll either like to have sex with that person or not. Perhaps those with the bodies of a Greek Adonis are just asking not to be passed over by those who may worry about their own body dismorphia. Perhaps they worry that they're being judged.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love bbws bigger the better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are all the BBW lovers so far away?

I was literally just thinking that.,.

Why are all the gorgeous bbws so far away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know none ever seem to be close

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love bbw not because there eady ect its fact there so more confident in them self and when cuddling and kissing so misses more to hold on to i love it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would never say bbw easy I just find them ten times better in bed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any bbw party's in London on friday

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This has been a very positive thread, thanks OP. I hope you have met some gorgeous fellas now who fancy you rotten!

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By *laclkguyMan over a year ago

Pontefract

i love tall and Fabulous

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By *aked_magicMan over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)

love love love bbw - skinny women do absolutely nothing for me. Curvier the better is say!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

G loves a bigger lady & I love being ‘plus size’ & although currently doing Slimming World, don’t want to drop below a 16/18.

Each to their own, but we all have a ‘type’ that we’re attracted to. The most attractive thing though is a good personality & a bit of self confidence

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m in agreement with this. I don’t generally answer messages from athletic, younger, or the typically good looking guys. I feel I’m punching above my (considerable) weight! It is down to self worth and confidence. I’m confident as a person, but would find it intimidating getting naked with a bum fit guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m in agreement with this. I don’t generally answer messages from athletic, younger, or the typically good looking guys. I feel I’m punching above my (considerable) weight! It is down to self worth and confidence. I’m confident as a person, but would find it intimidating getting naked with a bum fit guy "

Go for it if you fancy them...nothing better than feeling a hot, firm body underneath me, or on top, or behind....you get the idea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing better than a sexy BBW in exciting lingerie.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kapow!

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