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Confidence matters
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I recently attended a sex party at a private residence in Sacramento. There were a couple of private rooms-which seemed to be the most popular, a semi private room, and one large public room. I felt bad about using the private rooms for too long so I decided to play in the semi private room. I had fun with a woman who was was excited to feel my size and test my stamina. We played for about an hour and a half, drawing a crowed receiving cheers, directions, and compliments. I thought it odd no one joined us though, until I was told other men said they couldn't compete with me. I instantly felt bad. I wasn't out to make others feel self-conscious or inadequate- as a hetero male I can't understand being in competition with other males at a sex party. The goal is to please and be pleased to the best of your ability and perhaps sometimes with help. This is not a sexy rant, I know, but I am frustrated that I sort of became the bad guy for having a great sexual experience at a sex party, a place where I thought size, shape, and to a degree appearance shouldn't matter much. Am I completely off base? I am a bit new to the lifestyle so I'd really like to know how those not so new see and approach such a situation. My apology for being so long winded too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And the point of this post is what? |
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The problem was theirs not yours. People often say things like "oh she was so slim she made me feel bad". The truth is that the person saying it made themselves feel bad by comparing themselves unfavourably.
Carry on enjoying yourself you can't change your size or stamina and why should you? |
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As you have an identical thread running I'll shut this one |
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