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I'm looking for advice. What am I doing wrong
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By *tranTV/TS
over a year ago
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You're not ugly.
It's just down to time and effort. There are a lot of guys on here so you have to just get involved in local forum chats, get involved in the chat room in your area, get to know people, try get an invite to a party, try and be able to meet short notice, be able to accomodate and just keep at it. |
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Hi op
Pics are finr,but profile txt need s changing
Let people know what you can offer,as there are so many single men on here.
I would get rid of the stale prv relationship bit .
Socials or clubs are a good way to get known
Good luck
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest I feel like people are on here for different reasons. You cant talk to people and expect the same reaction or a reply at all.
What I've come to learn is this site is very clicky and you have to be fully involved in parties clubs and meet people that everyone else has to gain credibility. |
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By *RL-8 OP Man
over a year ago
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"You're not ugly.
It's just down to time and effort. There are a lot of guys on here so you have to just get involved in local forum chats, get involved in the chat room in your area, get to know people, try get an invite to a party, try and be able to meet short notice, be able to accomodate and just keep at it."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's difficult to say why there is a lack of response to your messages without knowing the quality of the messages you send out.
One piece of constructive criticism I would offer is, don't start off your profile with a whinge about your ex.
can you imagine going on a date with someone who just goes on about their ex?
No one wants to hear that. Be positive.
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Yeh.
My critique would be don't mention you are out of a long relationship, it's not relevant and sounds like baggage.
Also don't mention it was stale, you may not intend it but it can sound like you are having a go at your other half and that can be a bit of a off-putting thing.
Another interpretation could be that if it was stale that you were part of that so it does not scream fun.
I'd lay off the wanting to be taught stuff too. Open to new experiences maybe a better phase as again have not met many swingers keen on giving sex ed lessons.
Pics are fairly decent. |
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By *RL-8 OP Man
over a year ago
uxbridge |
"It's difficult to say why there is a lack of response to your messages without knowing the quality of the messages you send out.
One piece of constructive criticism I would offer is, don't start off your profile with a whinge about your ex.
can you imagine going on a date with someone who just goes on about their ex?
No one wants to hear that. Be positive.
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By *RL-8 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Yeh.
My critique would be don't mention you are out of a long relationship, it's not relevant and sounds like baggage.
Also don't mention it was stale, you may not intend it but it can sound like you are having a go at your other half and that can be a bit of a off-putting thing.
Another interpretation could be that if it was stale that you were part of that so it does not scream fun.
I'd lay off the wanting to be taught stuff too. Open to new experiences maybe a better phase as again have not met many swingers keen on giving sex ed lessons.
Pics are fairly decent. "
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