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Guys any help on lasting longer
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So little bit embarrassing but when I'm super horny after giving oral or whatever, when it comes to it and I'm fucking I don't last long at alll I'm only 23 and can go multiple times but I just want to last longer.. any tips anything to help? Cheers guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look into exercising your pelvic floor muscles (kegels). It is a tedious routine but if you have the discipline for it you will see definite improvement. |
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By *ylan11Man
over a year ago
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"So little bit embarrassing but when I'm super horny after giving oral or whatever, when it comes to it and I'm fucking I don't last long at alll I'm only 23 and can go multiple times but I just want to last longer.. any tips anything to help? Cheers guys "
Just slow down , foreplay then pull out kiss for a while and then start again . If your feeling that your going to climax slow the pace down . We all have to learn self control and it comes with age ... excuse the pun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just think of Theresa May; should do the trick."
Good tip. Think about something else. Something unpleasant. Your dick will still be hard, but you won't feel that your excitement is rising higher
Also, slow down, pull out and go for oral for a while.
When inside, don't go all the length and depth in every thrust, but move only half an inch. Your woman will still feel the pleasure,but when your dick is deep inside her, the head will be in enlarged area and less encroached, less friction and sensations.
And don't worry that something is wrong with you. All young men get a bit too excited and lose control easily. When you become 30 yo, you'll feel a lot more confident.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you get a hard on put a wet flannel on the end of your cock an lift, once this becomes easy work your way up to bigger towels. The towels are weights . Lifting them will strengthen your muscles an make you go longer. Do 10 to 20 reps to start xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You said not to go all the way in, then you said move about an inch. That is all the way  "
Oh, fuck!
I forgot that only I have 20" cock. The rest a 1 Inchers
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you get a hard on put a wet flannel on the end of your cock an lift, once this becomes easy work your way up to bigger towels. The towels are weights . Lifting them will strengthen your muscles an make you go longer. Do 10 to 20 reps to start xx"
That actually work? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cheers guys, I've never met someone who's moaned about it but it's just for my self it annoys me, Theresa may ??????
She's the Prime Minister "
Yeh I added laughing faces but it changed them to ???? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thicker condoms -"extra safe"
Numbing condoms
A few co-codamol tablets 30 mins before
Or citalopam, on average studies found it increased duration of people with severe premature ejaculation by 700%
Side effects suck though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So little bit embarrassing but when I'm super horny after giving oral or whatever, when it comes to it and I'm fucking I don't last long at alll I'm only 23 and can go multiple times but I just want to last longer.. any tips anything to help? Cheers guys
Just slow down , foreplay then pull out kiss for a while and then start again . If your feeling that your going to climax slow the pace down . We all have to learn self control and it comes with age ... excuse the pun "
Weirdly i find i fun faster with slow sex.
Hard pounding cant really feel all the sensation slow long strokes and you can feel every thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm honest asking for tips is probably gonna play on your mind. Putting more pressure on trying to perform longer.
Don't worry and enjoy the moment. Once you've cum, have a drink chill for 5 mins then go again. Don't put pressure on yourself bud. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The other complaint I get from the wife is that I last too long. Early in intercourse I take it easy and pause and pull out and tease with it. This helps me to go past any thoughts of quick ejaculation and then I seem to go on too long at times.
Will have to practice more |
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When you find a hot woman, just let us know, we'll do the first hour for you, you can pop in and do the last 5 minutes. We always like to help
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Ps dont worry about it, relax, experience and time will help.
MrB |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you find a hot woman, just let us know, we'll do the first hour for you, you can pop in and do the last 5 minutes. We always like to help
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Ps dont worry about it, relax, experience and time will help.
MrB"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to do my multiplication tables in my mind starting at the 2s and working upwards but one time when I was up to the 15s she asked if it always took me this long to cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"naked Margaret Thatcher on a cold day
naked Margaret Thatcher on a cold day
naked Margaret Thatcher on a cold day
ahhhhhhhhhhh"
I was going to post the exact same mantra Austin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slip a mention of the time into your pre sex convo and then if possible reset your clock during or discreetly straight after to a later time and exclaim 'phew we were at that ages '
Obviously involves some element of multitasking so maybe a bit much to ask as you are a man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like In Your Soul has said...
Muscle tone in the pelvic area is important... kegels really work. You can incorporate it into play.
Most important I think is, breathing. You can control your orgasm indefinitely by breathing and relaxing.
Orgasm is the spasming of the pelvic muscles in particular the perineum. Learn to let go of those muscles and relax them.
Do you know about the 4 phases of orgasm?
1 is when you're hard.
2 is growing arousal.
3 is the first sensation that an orgasm is approaching.
4 is orgasm itself.
Practise taking deep breaths as soon as you're in phase 2.
Discover which positions keep you hard and which will take you into orgasm.
Changes in rhythm, depth and angle will take you either closer or further. Experiment to find what works for you. Also, changing up from mouth to pussy can provide a variety of stimulation, and give you other things to focus on.
Every time you feel yourself heading into phase 3, slow down a little, take a deep breath, and focus on your sensations.
Don't try to avoid cumming... just focus on how much you enjoy the fucking! |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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What you think is not long enough might be exactly what the lady enjoys.
It is all a matter of perspective.
Because you are a repeater you have more chances to make sure you are both fully satisfied.
I prefer the foreplay to the actual penetration personally, so long as you have that going on then I wouldn't worry too much about how long it is before you cum during penetration.
Some men can take a really long time to cum and that is not necessarily a good thing either, as one or both might get frustrated or sore.
I wouldn't worry too much about your body, just learn how it works the best you can and enjoy it. |
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