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First of all we are not trying to start a single man bashing or anything like that and we are not tarnishing all guys with the same brush as there are some good guys out there.
However there seems to be a growing market for lying about the size of their manhood.
We couldn't really care less about the size of it and if you have measured it good for you, but please don't say it's 8" and then we look at the pictures and you can clearly tell it is isnt.
Would much prefer guys to say here's my willy, take it for what you will!
Sorry for the rant on a Sunday morning but aaaaah feel better now! |
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over a year ago
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"First of all we are not trying to start a single man bashing or anything like that and we are not tarnishing all guys with the same brush as there are some good guys out there.
However there seems to be a growing market for lying about the size of their manhood.
We couldn't really care less about the size of it and if you have measured it good for you, but please don't say it's 8" and then we look at the pictures and you can clearly tell it is isnt.
Would much prefer guys to say here's my willy, take it for what you will!
Sorry for the rant on a Sunday morning but aaaaah feel better now!"
Sounds like someone let you down big time...
Few people never measured, so they don't know the exact size, if I say to a lady my cock is 8 inch, when it is only 7', she will think ok this is what 8' would look like and if she isn't happy, next time she asks for bigger size, then men had to lie saying They got 9' when it isn't actually.so ladies stop asking what size you want or prefer, then that will stop men to lie on their cock size.  or ask men to put a pic with measuring tape against their cock..  |
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Totally agree, peeps should just be honest, if i lied then rock up for a meet and they expect a huge length, then id look silly.
So im always upfront about size so they know what ive got before meeting.
Also as ive got older i dont worry about my size, its a case of this is it, it works and looks fine  |
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"First of all we are not trying to start a single man bashing or anything like that and we are not tarnishing all guys with the same brush as there are some good guys out there.
However there seems to be a growing market for lying about the size of their manhood.
We couldn't really care less about the size of it and if you have measured it good for you, but please don't say it's 8" and then we look at the pictures and you can clearly tell it is isnt.
Would much prefer guys to say here's my willy, take it for what you will!
Sorry for the rant on a Sunday morning but aaaaah feel better now!"
its not the size it is how you use it |
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"Totally agree, peeps should just be honest, if i lied then rock up for a meet and they expect a huge length, then id look silly.
So im always upfront about size so they know what ive got before meeting.
Also as ive got older i dont worry about my size, its a case of this is it, it works and looks fine "
And you have someplace to hang your towel  |
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"Totally agree, peeps should just be honest, if i lied then rock up for a meet and they expect a huge length, then id look silly.
So im always upfront about size so they know what ive got before meeting.
Also as ive got older i dont worry about my size, its a case of this is it, it works and looks fine
And you have someplace to hang your towel "
All about multi tasking, got to do it while still able to
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I've never understood this lol. I don't see what they think they'll gain by lying. If they feel like they have to lie about their size then they're probably trying to meet someone who wants a big cock. If they then go and turn up with a babydick they're hardly going to get anywhere are they?  |
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"I've never measured it and never will....what's the point....it works and that's all that matters."
We use this simple analogy , what's the point of having a Ferrari if the guy that owns it cant drive it.
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Size matters, even in a vanilla club you see ladies feeling the cock of the guys on the dance floor before deciding who to take home, I don't like running from the truth, I accept the truth and work it to my advantage and this is where sexual skills come in. The guys with the big cocks might not have learnt how to fuck or last long during sex and this is where the smaller cock guys can give them a run for their money. |
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As a bloke of average size with a wife with fantastic vaginal muscles ( yes I'm a lucky bastard ) who has had her fair share of cocks I will share what she says to me- too big is uncumfortable and can hurt if the owner is a bit too keen too soon and it's pretty difficult to suck properly and too small limits certain positions and is usually okay one on one but when there are multiple men involved they don't cut the mustard in the satisfying her in the pussy department very well although they are better to suck on. The same argument can be had about vaginas, some like them tight whereas others like them loose and yes it's way better sex if the owners know how to use them. |
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"First of all we are not trying to start a single man bashing or anything like that and we are not tarnishing all guys with the same brush as there are some good guys out there.
However there seems to be a growing market for lying about the size of their manhood.
We couldn't really care less about the size of it and if you have measured it good for you, but please don't say it's 8" and then we look at the pictures and you can clearly tell it is isnt.
Would much prefer guys to say here's my willy, take it for what you will!
Sorry for the rant on a Sunday morning but aaaaah feel better now!"
You can have any preference you want, that matters little to anyone else.
Some guys just want to get a shag if they have to lie about the size of their dick then it will be a small price to pay.
And as you say, if they have pics available then what’s the problem.
Same as when a lady says she is curvy and in her picture she is obese.
I’d have more problems with the pictures misrepresenting reality tbf |
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My ex bf had just over 5 inches and that felt fine.
My friend I'm currently seeing has just under 9 inches and even though at first it felt too big now it feels perfect so size isn't a issue just as long as you know the way to use it that suits both your needs.
If it's too big then be gentle at first as it feels painful to just go wild with it to begin with so take your time and build up to the limits.
If it's small or average then experimenting and staying confident always adds to the experience and easily makes up for any size issues and it feels as nice as a big one.
Size isn't a issue so don't put to much importance on it as a poor mind equals poor sex x |
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Guys please don't let the ladies deceive you, size is extremely important, we can be honest here, it is just like guys telling the ladies that it does not matter if their pussy is tight or not , of course it matters, however there is always something you can do in every situation to work things to your advantage but size is paramount in satisfying that pussy, period. |
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For some people size is important - men too.
However, lets address the real issue - there are good looking cocks and some very ugly cocks.
I have a good looking cock - normal size. |
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"Guys please don't let the ladies deceive you, size is extremely important, we can be honest here, it is just like guys telling the ladies that it does not matter if their pussy is tight or not , of course it matters, however there is always something you can do in every situation to work things to your advantage but size is paramount in satisfying that pussy, period."
we totally agree but you do need to know how to use that size. just slamming in doesnt hit the spot
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"Guys please don't let the ladies deceive you, size is extremely important, we can be honest here, it is just like guys telling the ladies that it does not matter if their pussy is tight or not , of course it matters, however there is always something you can do in every situation to work things to your advantage but size is paramount in satisfying that pussy, period.we totally agree but you do need to know how to use that size. just slamming in doesnt hit the spot "
For sure, but the starting point is a good size, every other thing can be learnt, using the pipe, hitting the g spot , injaculation , etc guys Ladies are very tricky, they might be with you and be smiling, it does not mean they are happy or you are fucking them well, accepting a problem is the first step on the way to the solution.
In the past I didn't know how to injaculate and last long, my girlfriend never acted like it was an issue and then I watched her fuck some other guy and she was screaming with pleasure, coming multiple times cause he lasted hours, so I had to learn how to injaculate and now I can last as long as I wish , problem solved. |
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"First of all we are not trying to start a single man bashing or anything like that and we are not tarnishing all guys with the same brush as there are some good guys out there.
However there seems to be a growing market for lying about the size of their manhood.
We couldn't really care less about the size of it and if you have measured it good for you, but please don't say it's 8" and then we look at the pictures and you can clearly tell it is isnt.
Would much prefer guys to say here's my willy, take it for what you will!
Sorry for the rant on a Sunday morning but aaaaah feel better now!"
I think I'm pretty average, not that I go round comparing, I have never measured it and am definitely of the mind that it will either be appreciated or it won't, just like all things in life, not everything is for everyone  |
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Women contribute to the bullshit size throwing around anyway. Already we have people throwing out numbers like 9 and 10 inches. Sizes which are pretty much the equivalent to being 7ft tall. How many 7ft tall people do you come across??
Had plenty of women tell me an ex was "stupendously big" only for me to realize they were really just exaggerating to seem desirable...you get that a lot on here too.
Size definitely matters...but I have found for the most part that most of the women proclaiming preferences for it are never really much to look at nor are they very good at it anyway. |
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When I was a young guy I used to think my size was all I needed. As soon as I realised I was just being an arse the better things got. Size is a bonus.....sometimes. But it's not really That important if you can rock each others world.
There's a phrase for any size. I had a smaller friend who always found a partner. His funniest size line was "it's not the size of the nail, it's the weight of the hammer banging it in!" |
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I love threads like this. They make me feel like one in a million. Size is only paramount if you're approaching this whole thing in a completely unerotic manner. Yes. If what you're offering a woman is the equivalent of a carnival ride then you'll need to be big. It seems this is what the vast majority of men on here are offering. And this, I assume, is what the women at James' parties are up to when they base their decision of who to go home with on the size of their cock. Fair enough. You lot go away and have fun with each other. I have no interest in mechanical carnival rides.
Once things start getting erotic size becomes utterly unimportant. It's all about getting in someone's mind and turning them on. They could have a 1 inch cock and it wouldn't matter. The situation itself would be orgasmic.
Don't get me wrong. This view has nothing to do with the size of my cock. I'm above average and happy with that. It's about the way my mind works |
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Never counted myself as a size queen, but I occasionally encounter guys who are too small to provide any kind of meaningful penetration. So I set my minimum at 4", which is a fair bit below average and I would say makes allowance for a good 80% of size variance. I have even encountered one that wasn't long enough to roll a condom onto.
Bear in mind that the correct measurement is fully erect, and pubic bone to tip. So you press the ruler or tape measure as firmly against the pubic bone as you can, and then measure a straight line along the top of the shaft until level with the tip. If you have a bit of fat there (as I do) this can add a good inch. I'm 5.5" if I don't press in at all, but 6.5" if I press firmly against the bone. |
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"I love threads like this. They make me feel like one in a million. Size is only paramount if you're approaching this whole thing in a completely unerotic manner. Yes. If what you're offering a woman is the equivalent of a carnival ride then you'll need to be big. It seems this is what the vast majority of men on here are offering. And this, I assume, is what the women at James' parties are up to when they base their decision of who to go home with on the size of their cock. Fair enough. You lot go away and have fun with each other. I have no interest in mechanical carnival rides.
Once things start getting erotic size becomes utterly unimportant. It's all about getting in someone's mind and turning them on. They could have a 1 inch cock and it wouldn't matter. The situation itself would be orgasmic.
Don't get me wrong. This view has nothing to do with the size of my cock. I'm above average and happy with that. It's about the way my mind works "
Great post. It's comical just how lacking in eroticism many are. |
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"Great post. It's comical just how lacking in eroticism many are."
You want to hear something unerotic?
Squirt some warm, slightly soapy water up your arse. Try to hold it there for a few minutes while it does its thing. Spray it out into the toilet bowl, often spattering brown mess everywhere. (Don't ask me how it ends up on the underside of the seat.) Repeat. And a third time. Clean up any mess you've made.
Get into the shower, lube up a toy and use it both to extract the trapped water and check that you're sufficiently clean. Go back to square 1 if you're not. Rinse off the stuff that ran down your legs while you were doing it.
That's all part of my normal preparation for a meet. It's a chore. It isn't fun.
Now imagine doing that for nothing, because the guy isn't long enough or can't stay hard.
Welcome to my world |
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over a year ago
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"Great post. It's comical just how lacking in eroticism many are.
You want to hear something unerotic?
Squirt some warm, slightly soapy water up your arse. Try to hold it there for a few minutes while it does its thing. Spray it out into the toilet bowl, often spattering brown mess everywhere. (Don't ask me how it ends up on the underside of the seat.) Repeat. And a third time. Clean up any mess you've made.
Get into the shower, lube up a toy and use it both to extract the trapped water and check that you're sufficiently clean. Go back to square 1 if you're not. Rinse off the stuff that ran down your legs while you were doing it.
That's all part of my normal preparation for a meet. It's a chore. It isn't fun.
Now imagine doing that for nothing, because the guy isn't long enough or can't stay hard.
Welcome to my world "
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"Great post. It's comical just how lacking in eroticism many are.
You want to hear something unerotic?
Squirt some warm, slightly soapy water up your arse. Try to hold it there for a few minutes while it does its thing. Spray it out into the toilet bowl, often spattering brown mess everywhere. (Don't ask me how it ends up on the underside of the seat.) Repeat. And a third time. Clean up any mess you've made.
Get into the shower, lube up a toy and use it both to extract the trapped water and check that you're sufficiently clean. Go back to square 1 if you're not. Rinse off the stuff that ran down your legs while you were doing it.
That's all part of my normal preparation for a meet. It's a chore. It isn't fun.
Now imagine doing that for nothing, because the guy isn't long enough or can't stay hard.
Welcome to my world
Ta for that "
Can't right out of nowhere
Didn't know people saw personal hygiene as a chore
Maybe I should complain about showering before a meet... |
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"Great post. It's comical just how lacking in eroticism many are.
You want to hear something unerotic?
Squirt some warm, slightly soapy water up your arse. Try to hold it there for a few minutes while it does its thing. Spray it out into the toilet bowl, often spattering brown mess everywhere. (Don't ask me how it ends up on the underside of the seat.) Repeat. And a third time. Clean up any mess you've made.
Get into the shower, lube up a toy and use it both to extract the trapped water and check that you're sufficiently clean. Go back to square 1 if you're not. Rinse off the stuff that ran down your legs while you were doing it.
That's all part of my normal preparation for a meet. It's a chore. It isn't fun.
Now imagine doing that for nothing, because the guy isn't long enough or can't stay hard.
Welcome to my world "
Then get held up to ridicule on the fab forum if you're a woman and you missed a bit, so there's mess during sex.. |
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In all honest it not the size of the man manhood its what he does with it and how he pleases the women beforehand as for men bragging how big they are you will get caught out by the ladies here anyway my manhood is too small never measured but in all honest it goes what shoe size is then you know how big your manhood is lol  |
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"I've never measured it and never will....what's the point....it works and that's all that matters.
I totally agree.
There's no point in measuring as long as it works."
Measuring it will not change it's size, but there's nothing wrong with measuring it. Shall we pass laws that make it illegal to measure one's dick?
Do whatever you wish. It's your dick after all.  |
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"Maybe I should complain about showering before a meet..."
You can if you want. I think you'd have every right to if you'd wasted your time, possibly because your meet cancelled last minute or didn't show up.
You were probably going to have that shower anyway at some point in the day, so it isn't exactly a total loss. |
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For some women size matters, for some it doesn't, I fall into the later, my ability to have fun is not dictated by a guy with a big cock pounding away at me, how tedious.....
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"Great post. It's comical just how lacking in eroticism many are.
You want to hear something unerotic?
Squirt some warm, slightly soapy water up your arse. Try to hold it there for a few minutes while it does its thing. Spray it out into the toilet bowl, often spattering brown mess everywhere. (Don't ask me how it ends up on the underside of the seat.) Repeat. And a third time. Clean up any mess you've made.
Get into the shower, lube up a toy and use it both to extract the trapped water and check that you're sufficiently clean. Go back to square 1 if you're not. Rinse off the stuff that ran down your legs while you were doing it.
That's all part of my normal preparation for a meet. It's a chore. It isn't fun.
Now imagine doing that for nothing, because the guy isn't long enough or can't stay hard.
Welcome to my world
Ta for that "
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"Just wondering what size you think is average??? I have read what size is considered average but before I say I wonder what you lot think it is?"
8" in my book  |
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"I love threads like this. They make me feel like one in a million. Size is only paramount if you're approaching this whole thing in a completely unerotic manner. Yes. If what you're offering a woman is the equivalent of a carnival ride then you'll need to be big. It seems this is what the vast majority of men on here are offering. And this, I assume, is what the women at James' parties are up to when they base their decision of who to go home with on the size of their cock. Fair enough. You lot go away and have fun with each other. I have no interest in mechanical carnival rides.
Once things start getting erotic size becomes utterly unimportant. It's all about getting in someone's mind and turning them on. They could have a 1 inch cock and it wouldn't matter. The situation itself would be orgasmic.
Don't get me wrong. This view has nothing to do with the size of my cock. I'm above average and happy with that. It's about the way my mind works "
Here we go, good response, I am a very observant person and I observe ladies a lot, in vanilla clubs when ladies are dancing with guys , their hands go straight to his cock , you might not notice but I notice them, if they move away from him that means his cock is not big enough, if they stay and go home with him , then that is a good size, sometimes the guy is not interested in them and they keep chasing him round the club.
Lets bring it to swingers, I sat with a group of ladies silently at the bar of a swingers club and all they were talking about was the size of the cocks of the different guys walking into the club and how each guy performed in bed with them at previous parties, they all made their choices there at the bar based on cock size without the guys having a clue.
I personally don't want to be emotionally involved with any lady when am swinging but I have concluded that as long as it has to do with satisfying that pussy, size is paramount. Plus once a lady has achieved everything else she wants in life she is going to go for that good sized cock,period. It is better to face the truth than run away from it. |
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Plus I like facing reality , you see all the talk about approaching things in an erotic manner is just what it is, talk.
Just take a look at the faces of the ladies before they go into the room with a big cock and the way their faces beam with smiles after they come out of the rooms with the big cock, the worst thing any guy can do to himself is not to be honest with himself, if you want a happy relationship then your lady has to be serviced regularly with the big sized cock, it doesn't necessarily have to be yours, if not you and her with be arguing all the time over the smallest things and you will not be happy. |
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Mr Average here.
We have noticed from past experience it is the guys who are above average that seem to have trouble keeping it up.
I equate it to an average car versus a performance car.
Mine is a reliable plodder and rarely lets us down.
Theirs needs permanent attention to function , you see them wanking to stay up and often failing, in our experience.
His may be better looking but who's will reliably give you that Va Va Voom smile?. |
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I often hear things like
It's what you do with it or its how you use it that matters.
Am I missing something? You put it in and pull it out (repeat long for as long as you can)
What else are people using it for?
How else can you use it?
I have never seen anyone hang their coat on it while the Mrs gets it's from someone else.
It's a cock. 2 things come out. As long as you don't get those mixed up you are doing it right. |
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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago
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"Women contribute to the bullshit size throwing around anyway. Already we have people throwing out numbers like 9 and 10 inches. Sizes which are pretty much the equivalent to being 7ft tall. How many 7ft tall people do you come across??
Had plenty of women tell me an ex was "stupendously big" only for me to realize they were really just exaggerating to seem desirable...you get that a lot on here too.
Size definitely matters...but I have found for the most part that most of the women proclaiming preferences for it are never really much to look at nor are they very good at it anyway."
Hit the nail on the head. |
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"Mr Average here.
We have noticed from past experience it is the guys who are above average that seem to have trouble keeping it up.
I equate it to an average car versus a performance car.
Mine is a reliable plodder and rarely lets us down.
Theirs needs permanent attention to function , you see them wanking to stay up and often failing, in our experience.
His may be better looking but who's will reliably give you that Va Va Voom smile?. "
I've known massive ones that you could use to knock nails in, and small ones that wouldn't stand to attention. But I think if you analysed it, the statistical probability of erectile problems does increase with size.
To date, I've had droop (when I wanted wood) twice in my life. Once when I was still straight swinging with my ex. Made the classic Inbetweeners mistake of having a wank before we went, thinking it would give me more stamina later on. The other was a prearranged sauna meet with a guy. I'd been hard and playing for the best part of two hours, we just got round to me lining up to fuck him, and it just went 'flop.' Went for a coffee, tried again in 15 minutes, and it was fine again for the duration. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Agree with OP, guys are setting themselves up to disappoint by exaggerating and then turns out to be less than you are lead to believe.
Much prefer being amazed by a grower lol
Have had disappointments on finding very small manhoods but put it down to experience as they hadn't bragged so such is life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I never talk about my cock size because it disappointing thing were i think it not good enough for women. As for guys who rave about their cock are size them self up for disappointment because women would only want the truth in life.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine is a solid 2 inch on a wind swept day
I can last 2 mins with no hands
I know 2 sexual techniques, in and out.
Thinking of writing a book actually, "My Penis and I " but it would only be 2 pages long.
as you have guessed I am bored at work lol
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