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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I always find it strange when people send messages which include that they are disease free. I mean, are people with STI's sending similar messages but then at the end adding what they have?!
Plus, you saying you are disease free means pretty much nothing to me. You will still be wearing protection if we were to meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hopefully it means they've actually been to a clinic and been tested.
Doesn't cover any sex they had in the last three months though. Many people seem to forget that. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I guess it's just a way of getting across that they 'believe' they are clean and free of STI's - thing is though unless that was posted immediately after getting the results from a test and they've not been sexually active for three months before the test and since taking it, the claim has no validity whatsoever.
Also remember that safe sex doesn't mean you can't contract an STI - some can be transmitted even if safe sex is practiced. |
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Yeah doesn't mean much to me,the other person could have had sex the previous day and picked something up. I'll believe it if I have them locked up for 3 months with constant checks,then they can tell me they're disease free. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's pretentious, disingenuous and misleading... especially when said in a casual sex setting where the person saying it is not prepared to show you clinical proof of their disease free status by backing it up with recent clinical evidence ... These some days clinics don't give people written proof, or text proof...
Claude Nicole in Brighton sometimes don't even give you a follow up phone call, which saves them money as it's a free service... but that no new means good news!... which then all boils down to the fact that a complete stranger who practices casual "safe sex" (kinda an oxymoron dontcha think?!) is asking you to believe they are sexually trustworthy?!... maybe if that person also backed the claim up with a consent form opening them up to being sued for any potential negligence you might suffer from should they be bare face lying then it's be more valid a claim... sex being a risk in and off itself I don't think it's a valid claim to make in the first place...
Consensual sex is a bit like skydiving... You're definitely taking a risk, and not having a parachute to land would be very idiotic lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah doesn't mean much to me,the other person could have had sex the previous day and picked something up. I'll believe it if I have them locked up for 3 months with constant checks,then they can tell me they're disease free."
You had me at locked up for 3 months  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah doesn't mean much to me,the other person could have had sex the previous day and picked something up. I'll believe it if I have them locked up for 3 months with constant checks,then they can tell me they're disease free."
Yup. Means bugger all. I wouldnt entertain people that say they are disease free. It shows a frightening level of naivety |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anybody can say that though. I never take somebody's word for it. Also as previously mentioned, it doesn't cover their more recent activities even if they had been tested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah doesn't mean much to me,the other person could have had sex the previous day and picked something up. I'll believe it if I have them locked up for 3 months with constant checks,then they can tell me they're disease free.
You had me at locked up for 3 months "
You're a sub yeah? Lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yeah doesn't mean much to me,the other person could have had sex the previous day and picked something up. I'll believe it if I have them locked up for 3 months with constant checks,then they can tell me they're disease free.
You had me at locked up for 3 months
You're a sub yeah? Lol x"
Lol, a bit too obvious. I am actually a switch but i do like dominant women. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I also think being submissive makes people think you will automatically be happy to play with no protection.
Again people like that get no attention from me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also think being submissive makes people think you will automatically be happy to play with no protection.
Again people like that get no attention from me. "
Good for you! x, and yes people like putting people in boxes when really I don't know many who aren't multidimensional... The great thing about being human is being able to play with possibilities imo.
I love freedom and being able to explore life, my fantasises and being open to new ideas... which is why since joining fab I've decided to tentatively explore the potentiality of a TV encounter... it's mostly the photo feed on here that's opened my mind up to the possibility... I really like the sense of freedom I've seen some TV's display... A kinda sensitive, "I'm me I don't give a fuck what y'all think!" attitude with dashing a of "I'm (seemingly) enjoying my life!!" Lol.. Hope this doesn't come across rude to anyone it's just my curiosity has been piqued now so I'm going to be mentally entertaining the idea at the very least as well as fabbing photos lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What it generally means to me, when we get a message like this, is that the sender has a very different attitude to this lifestyle, and is unlikely to be someone we'd get along with as a consequence.
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