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over a year ago
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No way.The only person I do anal with is a bit to big to try it without lube so it would be to painful.It should be a enjoyable experience not screaming in pain lol x |
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over a year ago
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Talking of anal....sorry to hijack your thread OP.....
But how would someone go about douching/preparing to ensure that there isn't a risk of any 'mess'?! |
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over a year ago
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Did this in the heat of the moment back in January..
Already pretty wet because we'd been going at it in her pussy for quite a while but before it got a bit dry and I start to feel a bit of pulling and was going to stop and grab some lube.. But she has a habit of saying "don't stop, don't stop" when she's having a very good time..
I felt a sharp tear.. And pulled out to find blood pouring out from a tear in the little ligament under the tip of my cock.. The banjo string I believe it's called.
So no..I don't recommend it to anyone.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Talking of anal....sorry to hijack your thread OP.....
But how would someone go about douching/preparing to ensure that there isn't a risk of any 'mess'?! "
You can buy douches from lovehoney/ Ann summers etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Talking of anal....sorry to hijack your thread OP.....
But how would someone go about douching/preparing to ensure that there isn't a risk of any 'mess'?! "
Yes i have quite an interesting story from thailand about that topic lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As we usually only do anal following lots of play we find I'm wet enough to not use lube, and to be honest I quite like the feeling as it goes in first.
I think I'm a bit different to most others when it comes to anal as I can't abide fingers in my arse either.
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"Anyone else enjoy it with no lube? Or just a "courtesy lick"?
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I used to love it bareback with one of my previous boyfriends (we were exclusive and had both tested.) Just a little bit if saliva to ease entry (it might not have been necessary if he hadn't been circumcised) but otherwise dry.
I always use at least some for casual play to reduce the risk of condom failure. But yes, I do like it dry. A tiny bit sore, but not painful, and whole lot more direct. |
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"Talking of anal....sorry to hijack your thread OP.....
But how would someone go about douching/preparing to ensure that there isn't a risk of any 'mess'?! "
Take the head off the shower & use the hose  |
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"Did this in the heat of the moment back in January..
Already pretty wet because we'd been going at it in her pussy for quite a while but before it got a bit dry and I start to feel a bit of pulling and was going to stop and grab some lube.. But she has a habit of saying "don't stop, don't stop" when she's having a very good time..
I felt a sharp tear.. And pulled out to find blood pouring out from a tear in the little ligament under the tip of my cock.. The banjo string I believe it's called.
So no..I don't recommend it to anyone. "
Ouch you snapped your banjo string  |
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"Talking of anal....sorry to hijack your thread OP.....
But how would someone go about douching/preparing to ensure that there isn't a risk of any 'mess'?!
Yes i have quite an interesting story from thailand about that topic lol"
Pray tell? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was younger when i had a guy who just rammed his cock in. Hurt like hell. Only through past cpl yrs i hve let fingering my ass happen, i absolutely love it. I'm soooo uptight if cock enters my ass which causes Parker to pull away. I want his cock in my ass so badly , i know he'll be gentle but he keeps pulling away if i'm not open. Hate being so uptight over it. Unsure if he gets annoyed as he never comments after trying but i hve noticed him pulling away after tryn.
HELP ME OVERCOME THAT!! SUGGESTIONS PLZZZZZ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One guy I was chatting to on here thought you only needed to prep someone the first time, and then after that their arsehole was always ready and willing to accept cock. Personally I think guys who like anal should all be pegged to give them an appreciation on how careful you need to be! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was younger when i had a guy who just rammed his cock in. Hurt like hell. Only through past cpl yrs i hve let fingering my ass happen, i absolutely love it. I'm soooo uptight if cock enters my ass which causes Parker to pull away. I want his cock in my ass so badly , i know he'll be gentle but he keeps pulling away if i'm not open. Hate being so uptight over it. Unsure if he gets annoyed as he never comments after trying but i hve noticed him pulling away after tryn.
HELP ME OVERCOME THAT!! SUGGESTIONS PLZZZZZ??"
Tell him not to pull away? 
Seems a pretty simple solution |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Talking of anal....sorry to hijack your thread OP.....
But how would someone go about douching/preparing to ensure that there isn't a risk of any 'mess'?! "
Get one of the douches that attaches to your shower hose.
Way better than the bottles/bags |
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"Talking of anal....sorry to hijack your thread OP.....
But how would someone go about douching/preparing to ensure that there isn't a risk of any 'mess'?!
Get one of the douches that attaches to your shower hose.
Way better than the bottles/bags"
You've got to find the routine that works best for you. The mission is to clear out all solids and most liquids from your rectum without going any further. Sure, you can do an enema as deep as you like, but you will be pouring out brown stuff for the next half hour and won't be able to trust a fart for the next 4.
The douche bulbs squirt in just the right amount in my experience. My routine is to try to empty normally, then one bulb of warm water (cold will give you cramps, but don't go any hotter than you can comfortably hold your hand in) with a little liquid soap, try to hold it for at least two minutes while walking around and doing other things. Expel and repeat, followed by a third bulb of water only, immediately expelled. Probe with a long toy while in the shower both to release trapped liquid and to check that the toy comes away clean. Douche additional times and try the toy again if it doesn't.
After that, I'm usually good to go. Unfortunately, it isn't an exact science, but this had proven to be the most reliable method for me. |
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"One guy I was chatting to on here thought you only needed to prep someone the first time, and then after that their arsehole was always ready and willing to accept cock. Personally I think guys who like anal should all be pegged to give them an appreciation on how careful you need to be!"
You say that but my wife pegs me and is not careful in the slightest. A bit of spit and shes going for the full 8 inches straight away lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One guy I was chatting to on here thought you only needed to prep someone the first time, and then after that their arsehole was always ready and willing to accept cock. Personally I think guys who like anal should all be pegged to give them an appreciation on how careful you need to be!"
You say that but guys are far less wimpy about anal than women
Women seem to big it up as this super difficult or painful thing
Where as countless gay guys will do it in a toilet stall with only a bit of spit or a sachet of lube lol. |
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i like pain as well
