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Lots and lots of lube, when you think you've used enough, you haven't! Use your fingers first gently and make sure she is not worried, if she is, she won't open up |
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"My wife would so like,to try anal,but it is so tight.How can we solve this,as she would like to try dp"
buy some durex lube from chemist,asda,tesco all sell it. make sure you use plenty and use fingers first to open her arse a little. be gentle when you enter her dont rush. try spoons position first doesnt go as deep |
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Also ,i can find anal too difficult due to tensing but as long as i have clit stimulation at same time it makes a massive difference-i rub my own clit while lying on my back during anal,or have done it while lying on my front and magic wand vibe under my clit xx |
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lube lots off on her side knees up as far as she can get then towards her chest this will make her back bassage as straight as it can be ,and lots of well lubed fingers before ,push your cock in a little at a time puling almost all the way out then in again a little deeper,,get her to bare down as having a poo this opens up the spincer then slip in |
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"lube lots off on her side knees up as far as she can get then towards her chest this will make her back bassage as straight as it can be ,and lots of well lubed fingers before ,push your cock in a little at a time puling almost all the way out then in again a little deeper,,get her to bare down as having a poo this opens up the spincer then slip in"
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Endorse the don't rush principle, and don't set a target of penis pentration for first night of play. Let her get used to it, and listen to feed back from partner.
A small butt plug may make the experience easier to control, i.e. more tapered than the end of a finger. |
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i find that lots of rimming and clit rubbing will relax her. Too much lube will allow too quick an entry if she's not ready, take plenty of time, even after your in. Last thing you want is to make it painful. She will lose intrest and wont want to try it again. Not always like porn. Have fun.  |
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very slowly, lots and lots of lube starts small a finger wet with lube whilst your having sex then small vibrators and work up. also don't start with anal get wet and hot together get her off first then go for anal. it is so much easier if she is exited already |
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