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How do you get rid of a 'Nice Guy' Vibe
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"Go out and do some dumb crazy shit." You forgot ass, dumb ass crazy shit  | |||
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"There's nothing wrong with being nice. " Exactly this  | |||
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"nice guy seem not to work on here "Nice men do very well on here. Though they also have to be positive, proactive and have a mental connection with people. Not constantly whine about not getting meets | |||
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"There is a sure way but it involves kittens, binloners and rivers and i don't think you want to go down that route. Stay nice, it's the new bad " Needs couple of bricks as well. | |||
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"There is a sure way but it involves kittens, binloners and rivers and i don't think you want to go down that route. Stay nice, it's the new bad Needs couple of bricks as well. "Forgot about those. You can tell i've never done this before | |||
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"nice guy seem not to work on here
Nice men do very well on here. Though they also have to be positive, proactive and have a mental connection with people.
Not constantly whine about not getting meets "Negativity is a real sexual turn off for guys as well as bitches.....oops! A bit of 'slightly bad steve' got through!  | |||
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But seriously, don't change you to make them happy | |||
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"Shave your head, get your neck tattooed and call women bitches. " lol | |||
"Wondering why OP thinks he is a nice guy...and more what's wrong with being a nice guy... Surly it's better just to be true to who you are rather than trying to create an alter ego just to impress others whether on fab or anywhere else. " When a lot people hear "nice guy" they tend to think " whiny guy who think they're entitled to be loved by someone they find desirable, simply because they're nice enough to buy flowers, pay compliments, be treated like a taxi service, and basically be walked over by a desirable girl. | |||
"Wondering why OP thinks he is a nice guy...and more what's wrong with being a nice guy... Surly it's better just to be true to who you are rather than trying to create an alter ego just to impress others whether on fab or anywhere else. When a lot people hear "nice guy" they tend to think " whiny guy who think they're entitled to be loved by someone they find desirable, simply because they're nice enough to buy flowers, pay compliments, be treated like a taxi service, and basically be walked over by a desirable girl." eh,,yea that's true,,give me a nice bad guy anytime | |||
"Wondering why OP thinks he is a nice guy...and more what's wrong with being a nice guy... Surly it's better just to be true to who you are rather than trying to create an alter ego just to impress others whether on fab or anywhere else. When a lot people hear "nice guy" they tend to think " whiny guy who think they're entitled to be loved by someone they find desirable, simply because they're nice enough to buy flowers, pay compliments, be treated like a taxi service, and basically be walked over by a desirable girl. eh,,yea that's true,,give me a nice bad guy anytime "or is it a bad nice guy  | |||
"Wondering why OP thinks he is a nice guy...and more what's wrong with being a nice guy... Surly it's better just to be true to who you are rather than trying to create an alter ego just to impress others whether on fab or anywhere else. When a lot people hear "nice guy" they tend to think " whiny guy who think they're entitled to be loved by someone they find desirable, simply because they're nice enough to buy flowers, pay compliments, be treated like a taxi service, and basically be walked over by a desirable girl." Think your confusing nice guy with tosser | |||
"Wondering why OP thinks he is a nice guy...and more what's wrong with being a nice guy... Surly it's better just to be true to who you are rather than trying to create an alter ego just to impress others whether on fab or anywhere else. When a lot people hear "nice guy" they tend to think " whiny guy who think they're entitled to be loved by someone they find desirable, simply because they're nice enough to buy flowers, pay compliments, be treated like a taxi service, and basically be walked over by a desirable girl. Think your confusing nice guy with tosser "lol | |||
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"Don't be that guy But if you do be that guy get a cool user name like mingepillager" puts me off straight away | |||
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"Embrace that tag, I like it. With the fact I can't grow a beard and still young, people always say I look too innocent little do they know..."who wants a tic tac lol minty ones G D innocent hahahahahaha man whore he is | |||
"Embrace that tag, I like it. With the fact I can't grow a beard and still young, people always say I look too innocent little do they know...
who wants a tic tac lol minty ones G D innocent hahahahahaha man whore he is"Cheers Rasp  | |||
"This might be an odd one but how do you stop being seen as nice guy? Nothing I do seems to rid me of this vibe I seem to have. I don't particularly find myself that nice compared to anyone else but whatever this is is killing off my sex life. No woman I've been interested in in a while has found me anymore than nice, And nice certainly doesn't work on here. Any advice out there? Unless there is a nice guy fetish somebody hasn't told me about that is." I find being a nice guy works for me, you can introduce a dark side slowly, rather than go in all bad ass and spend a life time trying to make up for it. Mud sticks | |||
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"This might be an odd one but how do you stop being seen as nice guy? Nothing I do seems to rid me of this vibe I seem to have. I don't particularly find myself that nice compared to anyone else but whatever this is is killing off my sex life. No woman I've been interested in in a while has found me anymore than nice, And nice certainly doesn't work on here. Any advice out there? Unless there is a nice guy fetish somebody hasn't told me about that is." Take her by surprise. Fuck her arse. | |||
"I'm a "nice" girl,,honest,,i am "You're a bitch an ya know it | |||
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"This might be an odd one but how do you stop being seen as nice guy? Nothing I do seems to rid me of this vibe I seem to have. I don't particularly find myself that nice compared to anyone else but whatever this is is killing off my sex life. No woman I've been interested in in a while has found me anymore than nice, And nice certainly doesn't work on here. Any advice out there? Unless there is a nice guy fetish somebody hasn't told me about that is." Put up a meet request asking for married bbw bareback fun. Wont get you any sex but you will lose your nice guy tag | |||
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"Why get rid of it. Embrace it ? Why be something that you are not "Exactly this....if someone isn't nice we don't want to know them, in any walk of life. | |||
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"Embrace that tag, I like it. With the fact I can't grow a beard and still young, people always say I look too innocent little do they know..."Um.....yes! | |||
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"Male of the couple. This advice is not infallible, but it helped me be the kind of guy that got laid in my teens and early 20's, which taught me not to fear women or rejection. Take it or leave it, it worked for me. 1. Stop referring to yourself as a nice guy. Women seem to hear this and assume you have no backbone. This isn't your fault, it's the stigma of the "nice guy" label. 2. When you meet new people, you're first impression is you setting the expectation of the rest of the relationship. If you meet a girl you do like, don't try and do nice things and become her friend first, fucking flirt a little. OCCASIONAL compliments are better than constant ones. Don't be too blunt and ask if she wants to see your knob, but picking up on her outfit, hairdo, necklace, shoes suiting her, and being cheeky with a little look if she says something that could be an innuendo works wonders. Again, not every five minutes, just enough to let her know you notice. 3. Be fun. Nobody fancies someone predictible who doesn't know how to have fun. Fun doesn't mean get wasted and dance like a prat, it means enjoy yourself, mention a few interests, see if anyone shares them, engage the GROUP and not just the object of your affection. If the room is hanging on your every word, she's more likely to be too. 4. Learn to understand social queues. If a girl isn't enjoying your slightly flirty advances, and doesn't seem interested in you in general, back off and relax the tone. She may not be into you in that way, which is fine. Move on. Don't waste time on people who aren't immediately attracted to you. If you have to change for her, it's not you she wants. 5. Have a little faith in yourself. Just because one, two or ten girls you've liked don't find you attractive doesn't mean there aren't any that will. 6. Don't sleep with people you're not into because they give you attention. A lot of so called "nice guys" do this, and forget that having some girl following you around and making it obvious they like you and there is history will put other girls off. Not just because it appears you're attached, but because if you weren't able to be honest with her that it's not going to be a relationship, you might not be all that nice. 7. Stop hanging out with girls you've liked for ages who've friendzones you. You'll never look good to someone else if she thinks you're a phone call away from that girl you have an obvious crush on. 8. Stop worrying and being scared. Be a little more direct, approach women first, engage them in conversation and show that you can hold your own. You'll be amazed at how much people like people who can just talk to them. If you can't actually stop being scared inside, just try a few times, that approach anxiety will go away. " This is actually gold. I was going to post something very close to this. | |||
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"There is a time and place to be nice, then there is a time and place to not be. "
this for sure. nothing wrong with nice guys at all, i prefer them. | |||
