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Cant get a meet no matter how hard I try

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Im good looking does not make sense

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I can guess why.

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple over a year ago

London

"I can guess why."

Me too

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple over a year ago

London

Who said you are good looking?

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

Ask for profile advice......

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By *rueone71Man over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes

"I can guess why.

Me too

I cant... explain

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple over a year ago

London

"I can guess why.

Me too

I cant... explain"

See what Bun said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your profile is well, let's be honest a tad rubbish. No pics, no write up, no humour, sell yourself, no wonder you haven't had meets x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're 6.3. Thought all women on fab wanted tall.

Sell yourself

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By *corpio67Man over a year ago

hillingdon

The harder you try.the more difficult it is.

Like quicksand

You have to stop struggling and lie flat and still!!!

Patience is the answer!

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

"I can guess why.

Me too

I cant... explain

See what Bun said

Buck, if you don't mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I had a massive right up but took it off to make it more interesting .. and I may mot be good looking im just a average guy

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Im good looking does not make sense"

I not sure about the first part of your assertation but I truly believe the second part is accurate.

A whole year and no veris? What the hell have you been doing?

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple over a year ago

London

"I can guess why.

Me too

I cant... explain

See what Bun said

Buck, if you don't mind

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I've changed my profile a million times still nothing too many guys on here spamming all the females

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The irony is you probably try to hard fella.

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple over a year ago

London

I want to know if he's good looking

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By *ungBlackTopMan over a year ago

salford

"The irony is you probably try to hard fella. "

what he said

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple over a year ago

London

"I've changed my profile a million times still nothing too many guys on here spamming all the females "

Now now, if there are a million spamming guys on here, and you are a decent guy, then you should stand out

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Anyway, OP how good looking are you then?

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

See what Bun said

Buck, if you don't mind

Sorry

It's ok KinkyJoe

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By *requent_FerryersCouple over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth

"Your profile is well, let's be honest a tad rubbish. No pics, no write up, no humour, sell yourself, no wonder you haven't had meets x"

I couldn't agree more!! It is so sparse!

And as for "I am good looking" well, you had me rolling on the floor laughing at that moment!!

Polly (Just an average looking redhead)

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By *ozartCouple over a year ago

newbury

Well you got attention now add some pics

Everyone likes pics

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple over a year ago

London

See what Bun said

Buck, if you don't mind

Sorry

It's ok KinkyJoe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm bit worried now if he is good looking might be potential competition nicking the women of me in the future.

And you know what the pride male will do to the competition in the wild.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"Im good looking does not make sense"

Try harder

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hope you don't mind a bit of advice,maybe you could change your site name, it might be perceived as being a bit, let's say "self confident", also as others have said try and put more in your profile,I don't know what you're putting into your messages, but be polite,check your spelling and try a bit of humour. You think it's hard, I'm 50,didn't get much attention but just kept trying with messages,and treat each person/persons with respect, also I took a lady's advice and put more revealing pics on public display,I'm now chatting with a few women and couples, and had a proposition that might bear fruit,good luck and don't lose heart, and if I haven't had a meet and verification in the next 6 months, buy me a pint to cry in!

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By *andomfodCouple over a year ago

walsall

Looking at your profile, part of your title is a bit misleading.

What constitutes trying hard to you, OP?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I've changed my profile a million times still nothing too many guys on here spamming all the females "

Phew! Nothing to do with you then. You can relax mate - no pressure and live a life of ease! If only all the other blokes would fuck off, eh? You'd be knee deep in clunge

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By *ptonguy2015Man over a year ago

market Harborough

I was on here as a couple now a single guy I bet it's been two or three years with different accounts leaving and coming back. Never had any meets or veri''s. Not a thing

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It starts with a decent profile OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Agreed

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By *landfordfabbersCouple over a year ago

Blandford ish

My 2 tuppence worth...

You seem cocky from the outset, that doesn't sit well with most women, confidence yes cocky no.

The next thing to remember is couples and women ( much more so) have a huge choice of guys. It's just the way it is, so imagine your in the sweets isle in Tesco and fancy a sugar hit, you look up and down do you pick the plain white box that says "great sweets" on it? No if your there looking there's going to be a couple of influential things, recommends from friends (veris) but you need to get people to atleast try them first... so it's down to adverts ( sending messages) and free samples ( going to socials/clubs)

My advice pics and profile, what you like! Don't say anyone! Have a type if I see a profile that says 18-99 men woman couples tv etc I pass it by, get your self out to socials or clubs chat expect nothing use it as friend gaining exercise and you will most likely get a veto or two and if it goes further great if not your better than you were! And sadly it's a numbers game the more you message the more likely a response!

I hope my random analogy makes sense and good luck

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

He's not trying that hard as he won't send a face pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Advise on profile now updated still need photos there coming soon ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a buyers market

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im good looking does not make sense"

That's partly your answer there

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

"Advise on profile now updated still need photos there coming soon ? "

OP...I will happily give you some profile advice, if you wish.

I am blunt and straight-talking. It may sound harsh, but it ia kindly meant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes thats fine I dont have a veri for a year has I set this up a year ago and hardly used it but now im using the site fully

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

"Yes thats fine I dont have a veri for a year has I set this up a year ago and hardly used it but now im using the site fully"

In the forum, or via pm?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Either

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

"Either"

Are you sure?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

"Yes"

I see that you have already changed your profile tonight, anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yeah I said I had updated it to make it better wanting opinions now its updated

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By *requent_FerryersCouple over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth

Well, a vast improvement!

However, you really need to re-read it as it still sounds as though you believe you are God's gift to women!

And the correct use of "whether" would be an improvement. lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think your profile is ok but there are no pics for public to see and entice others to want to know more about you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" respect and dignity" I'd lose that bit.

Sounds like an ad for a funeral directors

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd keep on moving past a profile that had been on here for more than a year with no veris. Also using Romance in the username is outputting, one thing we're definitely not on here for.

Self proclaiming things like being honest and genuine are meaningless, that's the sort of thing I'll decide for myself getting to know someone. I get no sense of what sort of play you enjoy, beyond there being passion , which is something I want to know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Will make changed again thanks for the advise

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By *mokey_KinksMan over a year ago

Essex

sorry if this is wrong place but what is OP i keep seeing it ?

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By *requent_FerryersCouple over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth

"sorry if this is wrong place but what is OP i keep seeing it ?"

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