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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Okay typical single guy scenario here I expect... ?
I've had one meet that was good if course... But now it's a feeling I've been cock blocked. When I contact I don't do copy and paste mail's, one liner, I write a decent paragraph or two? (Before Xmas cards had been the limit of my literature ambitions).
But my response rate etc is so low.... Yet being vain here? I've seen other single men and they seem very busy !!!
What's wrong with me?! ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We'll try to look at it another way, guys on sites like these hell even vanilla dating sites are a dime a dozen you got to get use to rejections might be worth it trying the club's as in person socialising is easier? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay typical single guy scenario here I expect... ?
I've had one meet that was good if course... But now it's a feeling I've been cock blocked. When I contact I don't do copy and paste mail's, one liner, I write a decent paragraph or two? (Before Xmas cards had been the limit of my literature ambitions).
But my response rate etc is so low.... Yet being vain here? I've seen other single men and they seem very busy !!!
What's wrong with me?! ??"
Your update would immediately put us off.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just pure numbers mate but...
Try using chat or going on the socials, once people start to know you that helps. Always use humour, it's amazing how humour breaks down barriers
Good luck |
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"Okay typical single guy scenario here I expect... ?
I've had one meet that was good if course... But now it's a feeling I've been cock blocked. When I contact I don't do copy and paste mail's, one liner, I write a decent paragraph or two? (Before Xmas cards had been the limit of my literature ambitions).
But my response rate etc is so low.... Yet being vain here? I've seen other single men and they seem very busy !!!
What's wrong with me?! ??"
You have been here 2 weeks and one verification already I'd say your doing well! Status updates can put people off. Personally I only meet in clubs due to being let down. But I also find them a great place for single guys. The social side for me is just as important at the sex. And clubs are great for socialising. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you only joined 2 frickin' weeks ago!
and you have had a meet, which is better than most newbies!
advice would be 'suck it up, buttercup'
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I didn't notice that yea FFS only 2 weeks man.. |
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over a year ago
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I've had a profile this morning message me back saying "You are not suitable as you look a slimey Foreigner" ... Why do people think they are so special to act like that ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had a profile this morning message me back saying "You are not suitable as you look a slimey Foreigner" ... Why do people think they are so special to act like that ??? "
Oh ive had some doozies when it comes to reasons why im not suitable. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Confidence guys CONFIDENCE!!
Confidence is attractive apparently. Bitching whining and moaning isn't Going to help your cause.
-Put yourself out there.
-Don't get disheartened if a message or two gets deleted or goes without reply.
-Sell yourself, big up what you have to offer and don't mention the bad bits that may turn some off. Some things are better unsaid.
- Stand out from the crowd. We are out numbered so play to your strengths. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're doing well if they reply to tell you no! Most of us it's just a deleted message, even if we've met all the criteria, please add a face photo, be suitable to what we want yaddie yaddie yadda |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To much choice for lady's on here ,if you had 100 women wanting you wouldn't you go for the best tits ,pussy face etc ,slug it out and drop your standards a bit , |
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"You're doing well if they reply to tell you no! Most of us it's just a deleted message, even if we've met all the criteria, please add a face photo, be suitable to what we want yaddie yaddie yadda "
I had a couple on here, I messaged and she liked what she saw... I couldn't reply back (next day) as I was too busy working to be online. I then had a message saying I was rude with no manners for not replying... Yet this same profile says basically if your not the right criteria your message is not answered... Now I'm blocked... Well maybe it's a good thing  |
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