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Just Encountered Our First Time Waster

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By *onnie And Clyde9070 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Leeds

And we're sure there'll be plenty more to come. The sad thing is plenty of guy's messaged us when we put up our status regarding wanting a meet, and we turned them down because of an idiot.

Oh well, his loss.

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By *l4yerMan  over a year ago

Wakefield

Welcome to fabswingers.

You'll get used to it. Or better still, have a back up plan.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

we had one last year got chatting online for a while exchanged numbers kept in touch come the night of the meet rang an said they were on the way "20mins away" 2hrs passed an still nothing not picking up phone answering texts or even online what pissed us off was that it took bloody ages to get a sitter by 11pm we had enough an went out hate to say it but there out there be warned

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I never thought It'd be so hard to get laid until we came on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We'd love to tell you it never happens but .....

That said ..... plenty of proper guys out there

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By *ud and BryanCouple  over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

It's due to Muppets like that we won't make an effort to meet single men anymore, we now say they come to us or we meet socially first.

Try not to let this fool put you off, there are lots of nice guys on here - as well as a few idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And we're sure there'll be plenty more to come. The sad thing is plenty of guy's messaged us when we put up our status regarding wanting a meet, and we turned them down because of an idiot.

Oh well, his loss. "

Sadly he suffered no loss as he almost certainly never intended to go anyway. 75% who agree to a meet simply don't turn up.

I would recommend you organise 3 or 4 reserves when you have a meet. Tell them they are reserves and get them to agree that you can call them last minute. At least you will get a meet that way.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sorry to say but this site is getting worse for timewasters think the way round it is meeting at a club so if they don't turn up you can find another hottie to play with

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By *onnie And Clyde9070 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Leeds

Thanks for the replies guys. Thankfully we'd arranged to meet at our home so there was no loss to us regarding expense/travel etc. Best not to dwell and look back though, better to look forward to all our future FAB meets!

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By *onnyJohnMan  over a year ago

Doncaster


"Welcome to fabswingers.

You'll get used to it. Or better still, have a back up plan."

It not just fab... it appear there is a timewaster epidemic on all sites...

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By *onnyJohnMan  over a year ago

Doncaster


"And we're sure there'll be plenty more to come. The sad thing is plenty of guy's messaged us when we put up our status regarding wanting a meet, and we turned them down because of an idiot.

Oh well, his loss.

Sadly he suffered no loss as he almost certainly never intended to go anyway. 75% who agree to a meet simply don't turn up.

I would recommend you organise 3 or 4 reserves when you have a meet. Tell them they are reserves and get them to agree that you can call them last minute. At least you will get a meet that way. "

I struggle to even make the reserve lists...

But seriously though.. good plan.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It happens unfortunately. The best thing to do is block and move on. Looking at your pics, it is definitely his loss. Good luck with your next potential meet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks for the replies guys. Thankfully we'd arranged to meet at our home so there was no loss to us regarding expense/travel etc. Best not to dwell and look back though, better to look forward to all our future FAB meets! "
This is why i only meet verified xx Female replying x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks for the replies guys. Thankfully we'd arranged to meet at our home so there was no loss to us regarding expense/travel etc. Best not to dwell and look back though, better to look forward to all our future FAB meets! This is why i only meet verified xx Female replying x"

I used to stick to that rule but recently I encountered a verified time waster! They're everywhere and I thought I had got great at avoiding them lol

Best thing is just swiftly delete/block and move along xx

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By *abcouple11Couple  over a year ago

Truro


"I never thought It'd be so hard to get laid until we came on here"

Exactly - the reality immediately exposed bears no perceivable relationship to what you would have been given to understand before by the "universal message" of most talk and "rules" in society.

We've met great people in swinging and found a "happy place". It's worth overcoming this "bump in the road" which you were going to meet anyway

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By *abcouple11Couple  over a year ago

Truro

BTW - look at threads here (and on other "lifestyle" sites) about the difficulties of organising a gangbang. !!!

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By *onnie And Clyde9070 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Leeds


"Thanks for the replies guys. Thankfully we'd arranged to meet at our home so there was no loss to us regarding expense/travel etc. Best not to dwell and look back though, better to look forward to all our future FAB meets! This is why i only meet verified xx Female replying x"

This guy was verified, that's the problem. Anyway, best not to dwell on the issue. He was the one sat at home having a wank while we were fucking each others brains out.

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester

Timewasters are rife , and we adopt a simple rule . No second chances . We block them .

However , as last night shows , it really is their loss . Three guys promised they would attend an organised outdoor meet and not one turned up . We won't block them yet , they can see from the veris what they missed . Then come the usual apologies and excuses , ( my gran died , my car broke down etc...) will come , and then we will block them .

There's nothing anyone can do about it apart from being pro active . Have a back up plan , expect nothing , and as you have each other it's never a complete let down .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's only happened to me once, when I was first on here and naive. Accepted on face value that a couple was a couple, got five mins from their place to get a messaging saying The female has had to go out, but the male half would 'look after me' ....... obviously now I realise that most couples are blokes! Lesson learned

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By *unandbuckCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield

You'll learn the signs.

Handy to meet at a club, it puts the timewasters off and then you can still find your own real fun, while the timewaster is sat at home wanking....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I never thought It'd be so hard to get laid until we came on here"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I never thought It'd be so hard to get laid until we came on here"
At least couples have eachother lol.

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By *thwalescplCouple  over a year ago

brecon

Arrange to meet at an organised social, and then if they don't show the night is not a total loss.

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By *unandbuckCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield


"I never thought It'd be so hard to get laid until we came on hereAt least couples have eachother lol."

That is one advantage, but there's still loads of effort goes into planning the night, often babysitters etc.

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By *D835Man  over a year ago

London


"I never thought It'd be so hard to get laid until we came on hereAt least couples have eachother lol."

This

I was going to say the same thing. When couples have no shows, it's disappointing for them , but at least they can ease up some of the disappointment by comforting and playing with each other.

Single men / women end up having to suck it up all on their own.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I thought socials helped eliminate this....

Could be wrong but I guess most no shows are due to cold feet. Randiness can make one brazen and bold. Once wanked out then the bold and the brave become something insipid altogether.

Nothing wrong with that in principle, but at the very least they should let the people they're letting down know. Sadly a reflection on society morals and the way some of us treat each other.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It happens I guess, however much you try to do to avoid it, some will always slip through the net. I was staying in a hotel a few weeks ago, got chatting to a nice guy who was local, exchanged numbers and text for a bit, spoke on the phone then got silence on the morning of the meet. I then left a message saying as I hadn't heard from him I'll assume he cannot make it and wished him well. I met someone else by the way

People can and do change their minds, things come up but it would be nice if people were mature enough just to let you know.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks for the replies guys. Thankfully we'd arranged to meet at our home so there was no loss to us regarding expense/travel etc. Best not to dwell and look back though, better to look forward to all our future FAB meets! This is why i only meet verified xx Female replying x

This guy was verified, that's the problem. Anyway, best not to dwell on the issue. He was the one sat at home having a wank while we were fucking each others brains out. "

Men sometimes think they can be worse than wemon to try figure out but his loss and as others said use clubs me and my other half do but we have yet to meet another couple or single lady maybe one day our luck will change xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sorry to say but this site is getting worse for timewasters think the way round it is meeting at a club so if they don't turn up you can find another hottie to play with "

Shame you only meet females NN8 near me

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple  over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I never thought It'd be so hard to get laid until we came on hereAt least couples have eachother lol.

That is one advantage, but there's still loads of effort goes into planning the night, often babysitters etc."

Yep and we meet at home a lot, so I spend time making the house nice for our guests, not that my house is dirty before you ask!

Preparation time for ladies getting ready isn't funny when you get let down. Think I might change tonight's meet to a club instead

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By *onnie And Clyde9070 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Leeds

Tried to send you a PM double pleasure 69, but can't as we're not sight supporters.

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By *icoleAndLisaTransTV/TS  over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"And we're sure there'll be plenty more to come. The sad thing is plenty of guy's messaged us when we put up our status regarding wanting a meet, and we turned them down because of an idiot.

Oh well, his loss. "

Always annoying when you turn down another meet for someone who cancels or doesn't turn up. Still, the other one might not have turned up either.

One option, if you're meeting at yours, is to accept both and see who turns up. All the more fun if both do. Obviously they need to be up for that scenario too, but a lot seem to be.

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