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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys this coming from what puts you off post .. im a non smoker and when i look at profiles and says smoking it does make me think twice about messaging... iv been with lots of people who do smoke and always asked then to come with a fresh breath or do there teeth before anything happens .. but want know what you lot think? |
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We don't meet with smokers as it's a personal choice especially being non-smokers we can still smell it no matter how clean someone says they will be
420 I think you mean and it's amazing how many non-smokers have this on their profile.
We either delete or block as it makes our local updates less cluttered and saves them wasting their time on us if the message.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We don't meet with smokers as it's a personal choice especially being non-smokers we can still smell it no matter how clean someone says they will be
420 I think you mean and it's amazing how many non-smokers have this on their profile.
We either delete or block as it makes our local updates less cluttered and saves them wasting their time on us if the message. "
Aw yeah that's it ... yeah i hate smoking good to know you do as well  xx |
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"....Aw yeah that's it ... yeah i hate smoking good to know you do as well xx "
If people want to smoke that's their choice, there's hundreds of smokers & people who don't mind meeting smokers on here so I don't think it stops them getting meets but it's often missed when looking at profiles as we get many messages a week from smokers. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"....Aw yeah that's it ... yeah i hate smoking good to know you do as well xx
If people want to smoke that's their choice, there's hundreds of smokers & people who don't mind meeting smokers on here so I don't think it stops them getting meets but it's often missed when looking at profiles as we get many messages a week from smokers."
Yeah i prefer not to meet people who smoke but if we have a big sexual connection and get on then i ask them ot smoke when meeting me ect ... lovely profile btw x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"....Aw yeah that's it ... yeah i hate smoking good to know you do as well xx
If people want to smoke that's their choice, there's hundreds of smokers & people who don't mind meeting smokers on here so I don't think it stops them getting meets but it's often missed when looking at profiles as we get many messages a week from smokers."
Yeah i prefer not to meet people who smoke but if we have a big sexual connection and get on then i ask them ot smoke when meeting me ect ... lovely profile btw x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Smokers and 420 is a no from us. Will not even chat to people with it on profiles"
Yeah im like that to with 420 as never do drugs or want be near it ... smoking yeah puts me right of but i still chat .. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am an ex smoker myself but I will meet considerate smokers as long as they don’t light up anywhere near me"
Yeah that's what i ask for iv never smoked... i hate smell and taste |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a smoker I will tolerate non smokers as long as they are considerate.
Don't meet anyone who drugs ever or people who are d*unk
I've got to say some of the best areas for meeting people at clubs is the smoking area |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey guys this coming from what puts you off post .. im a non smoker and when i look at profiles and says smoking it does make me think twice about messaging... iv been with lots of people who do smoke and always asked then to come with a fresh breath or do there teeth before anything happens .. but want know what you lot think?"
I'd hope they'd come with fresh breath regardless |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a smoker I will tolerate non smokers as long as they are considerate.
Don't meet anyone who drugs ever or people who are d*unk
I've got to say some of the best areas for meeting people at clubs is the smoking area "
Yes this is very true ... I don't smoke but do go with people who do but need gym ect as i love kissing and that puts me off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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meeting smokers isnt an issue for me - its when they smell of stale smoke and it clings to everything which is awful if they meet at your own place - have to say all smokers have been very considerate - go outside to have a smoke without any bother etc - |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind meeting smokers, each to there own. as long as they don't smoke while we meet and have the courtesy to clean there teeth/freshen breath before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a smoker I will never approach non smokers, but I do get messages from people who say they won't meet smokers ?
Whilst I'm at it I've seen profiles where people say they won't meet smokers but read a bit further and it states that they smoke ... eh ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont want too meet smokers now im a non smoker and my first meet off here was a smoker and i kid u not when we got down to it she tasted like nicotine and i swear i felt like i ended up with nicotine poisoning for like 3 days couldnt get the taste out my mouth no matter how much i brushed my teeth and mouthwashed felt really sick too was a great meet but afterwards not so much lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they are a smoker, then I'm a cougher.
Although, my long term partner smokes as I suck him off and it doesn't affect me. Maybe it's what he smokes. He never smells of cigarettes and I can't usually taste it on him.
I can, however, taste on someone's mouth.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally put me off as I am a non smoker and like others have mentioned the smell of smoke no matter how much people can cover it up to a non smoker u can still smell or taste it if kissing  so as a preference I don't meet smokers.
As for 420 club what people do is their business but again I wouldn't choose to meet someone who does this as I feel it wouldn't be right to meet someone for a sexual encounter and them having impaired judgement whilst in my company and to safe guard myself really. Similar to people who have had too much to drink really  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a friendly couple for a pub social and we got along fine.
During our conversation, they'd individually nipped out (2 or 3 times) for a smoke and come back reeking.
The smell put me right off any idea of playing with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a smoker. I always point that out to people who message me that say they won't meet smokers!
I'll begrudgingly meet a non smoker if they're exceptionally hot or I'm desperate 
I'm considerate, I have a smoke just before I'm due to meet, make sure I stink to high heaven. I pop outside every 5 minutes for a smoke especially if they are boring the crap out of me.
It really is simple, if you don't like it then don't meet smokers.
I've blocked all non smokers as I find the stench of too much Lynx makes me gag!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a smoker but don't smoke prior to a meet or during .....
I don't like to inflict my habit on others...
I don't smoke in my house and certainly never dream of smoking in someone else home ....
I do state I'm a smoker on my profile so if a non smoker contacts me they have made a conscious choice to contact a smoker .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It isnt always black and white. I met a different couple, who were considerate smokers (unlike so many of the arrogant pro-smoke posters, above).
Neither they, nor their home, smelled of smoke and they didn't smoke during our meet.
Attitude can make a difference but to be on the safe side, my profile states 'wont meet smokers' and I mean exactly that. |
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We enjoy smoking during meets , and if people don't like it they can do one .
All this about smokers having foul tasting cum is complete nonsense too . Just as many non smokers have foul tasting cum as smokers . And we both love the taste of my cum , as do those we meet . So much so that I'm thinking of bottling it and selling it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let's be honest I think you would meet a smoker, So your telling me if a man or women that ticks all of your boxes in every way with all things you look for you won't meet them because they smoke? As a lady as already said she smokes and people who don't won't to meet smokers still try it with her |
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"We don't meet with smokers as it's a personal choice especially being non-smokers we can still smell it no matter how clean someone says they will be
420 I think you mean and it's amazing how many non-smokers have this on their profile.
We either delete or block as it makes our local updates less cluttered and saves them wasting their time on us if the message. "
We agree with this completely...
Cal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It puts me off meeting people when they have "won't meet smokers" on their profile but message me anyway. When I point it out, suddenly smoking isn't such a problem for them anymore "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No wouldn't meet a smoker. No matter how much gum, breath spray etc you can always smell and taste it. Especially when they cum. Vehemently opposed."
It could well depend on the person ?
My last two playmates who I've played with for years are both non drinkers and non smokers .....
And being at a stage were we talk open and frank with each other. ....
Neither have ever said I smell or taste like cigarette and neither shy away from tasting my cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey guys this coming from what puts you off post .. im a non smoker and when i look at profiles and says smoking it does make me think twice about messaging... iv been with lots of people who do smoke and always asked then to come with a fresh breath or do there teeth before anything happens .. but want know what you lot think?"
Personally its a no for me
As smoking can tait a cock and cum too
I prefer non smokers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am an ex smoker myself but I will meet considerate smokers as long as they don’t light up anywhere near me"
Same here.......also reluctant to meet at their place as you can come away stinking of it if the smoke in their house or even by the back door but I wouldn't say no to someone just on the basis they smoked......just would need to chat about it before meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would probably still meet a smoker so long as they agreed not to smoke around me and not reek of it when I turned up... so actually they probably wouldn't meet me 
And I can't risk meeting a "420 friendly" person or couple because I get drug tested for work  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would probably still meet a smoker so long as they agreed not to smoke around me and not reek of it when I turned up... so actually they probably wouldn't meet me
And I can't risk meeting a "420 friendly" person or couple because I get drug tested for work "
The deadly sexually transmitted cannabis |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would probably still meet a smoker so long as they agreed not to smoke around me and not reek of it when I turned up... so actually they probably wouldn't meet me
And I can't risk meeting a "420 friendly" person or couple because I get drug tested for work
The deadly sexually transmitted cannabis "
 I'd rather not lose my career on the off chance someone else smoking next to me shows up on a test |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't risk meeting a "420 friendly" person or couple because I get drug tested for work
The deadly sexually transmitted cannabis "
One reason for me and passive smoking |
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I think by my photos its clear im a smoker, does it affect my meets?in short no.
Both dax and i are considerate smokers and by that if we are meeting someone who doesnt smoke we make sure we dont smell (perfume, frebreeze, brushing teeth and gum)
But it is odd how many non smokers enjoy the cigar pics 
Boo |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey guys this coming from what puts you off post .. im a non smoker and when i look at profiles and says smoking it does make me think twice about messaging... iv been with lots of people who do smoke and always asked then to come with a fresh breath or do there teeth before anything happens .. but want know what you lot think?"
I'm a smoker and have met a few men who say they're non smokers. People lie you know! |
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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago
atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke FREE ENTRANCE ALL WEEKEND |
Stanton Glantz, director of the Center for Tobacco Control Research and Education at the University of California, San Francisco. "The level of toxicity in after effect cigarette smoke is just astronomical when compared to other environmental toxins [such as particles found in automobile exhaust],"
And is just as carcinogenic as it would be if it was smoked in front of you.
Couldn't say it any clearer really. I do believe in each to their own - but then I wouldn't jump out of and aeroplane with half a parachute either lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I won't meet smokers or ex smokers. Had bad experiences when trying to kiss..foul taste on their breath when kissing.
You wouldn't believe how many guys lie about smoking. They think they can fool you by brushing their teeth but stained teeth is a giveaway. |
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"We much prefer to meet smokers .
They are generally way less judgemental and have a much more appealing personality .
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Since when did personal choice become "judgemental"? And a more appealing personality? Is that your way of saying you prefer smokers because they don't turn you down? |
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"We much prefer to meet smokers .
They are generally way less judgemental and have a much more appealing personality .
Since when did personal choice become "judgemental"? And a more appealing personality? Is that your way of saying you prefer smokers because they don't turn you down?"
Ha ha !!
I didn't say that personal choice was judgemental . I said smokers are generally less judgemental . The subjects they are less judgemental of are various , and not exclusive to smoking .
As for your suggestion that we prefer smokers because they don't turn us down , I've never really thought about that one . After a quick look at our veris , I note that half of them come from non smokers . And a fair few state they won't meet smokers . Funny that isn't it ?
At least you got us to read a few profiles , which is a new thing for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I being a bit thick here?
What's a 420 ? "
420 is a code for .
Loads of various myths about why joined really sure the common one is a bunch of college students used to smoke at 4:20pm each day.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ha ha ha ha ha, he he he he he...........that's all I have to say. Well apart from, fancy a shag? Yea please. Never been asked if I smoke or not. Get a grip people, it's not like you're gonna spend your life with the dreaded smokers. This site never fails to amuse me. |
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It generally doesn't bother me as long as they don't do it in my house or car, and don't want to snog me within about 10 minutes of having one.
Though I did recently meet a guy, presumably a heavy smoker, whose precum tasted of stale tobacco when I was giving him a BJ. That was pretty disgusting, and to be honest, is making me think twice about meeting smokers in the future. If it happens again, then I may review my standards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If only there was an option to automatically block messages from smokers, vapers and 420 users - and a search filter for non smokers who will only meet other none smokers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If only there was an option to automatically block messages from smokers, vapers and 420 users - and a search filter for non smokers who will only meet other none smokers "
That won't work. Some men lie. I know because I met them and when I kissed them I found out. They say that they didn't think I would notice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If only there was an option to automatically block messages from smokers, vapers and 420 users - and a search filter for non smokers who will only meet other none smokers
That won't work. Some men lie. I know because I met them and when I kissed them I found out. They say that they didn't think I would notice."
Yes some men lie - and that's when the nose is a good filter to kick them out. However, that doesn't mean the option to have the functionality is not relevant. It gives some chance to those who are likeminded. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Smokers are a no for me.
My personal thing that I look for is sexual attraction and some smokers can have smokers breath.Some not all its affects there teeth and I like nice teeth.Nicotine stained fingers yuk there not touching me.Then there's the cigarette smell on them it's just nasty.
A lot of my friends smoke and when we go out they smell lovely and then they pop out for a cigarette and come back I'm smelling like a ash tray lol
Being a non smoker you can smell it really strong and then there's the thing where your half way through chatting and they have to disappear to get a cigerette.Smoking isn't a major crime to me lol but it's not the most attractive of things is it? x |
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"I smoke, it's on my profile.
Always amused when get messages, asking to meet, then check their profile & it says 'won't meet smokers' "
I get this all the time, it's amazing how many claim it's on there as a mistake when I point it out.
Completely get it, even as a smoker I hate the smell/taste and will happily move to a vape for a meet - far nicer for everyone. |
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"It puts me off meeting people when they have "won't meet smokers" on their profile but message me anyway. When I point it out, suddenly smoking isn't such a problem for them anymore "
Happens lots of times...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We smoke but if a couple we were meeting didn't like it then we wouldn't, having said that every couple we've met have said none smokers only, only to turn out to actually be smokers"
Met loads of non smoking smokers and played with people at clubs then read their profile afterwards and it states they won't meet smokers.
However never message people who state they won't meet smokers and always point out that I am a smoker to those who message enquiring for a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That reminds me, we haven't been smokers for about 6 months now but never updated our profile!
Doesn't bother us if people smoke but I can certainly understand why non smokers wouldn't want to meet. It's not the horniest aroma for those who don't like the smell and is rather strong. |
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"Hey guys this coming from what puts you off post .. im a non smoker and when i look at profiles and says smoking it does make me think twice about messaging... iv been with lots of people who do smoke and always asked then to come with a fresh breath or do there teeth before anything happens .. but want know what you lot think?"
As a rule I don't meet smokers!
It's not just the ashtray breath for many hours after the last cigarette - smoking massively affects fitness/lungs - and I've met young smokers who look fit but are knackered after a few minutes of energetic sex!
I also just don't get how someone could do that to themselves! |
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"We smoke but if a couple we were meeting didn't like it then we wouldn't, having said that every couple we've met have said none smokers only, only to turn out to actually be smokers"
Yeah I've known a few on here who claim to be non smokers but actually smoke - often heavily!
Bit pointless really! |
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"It puts me off meeting people when they have "won't meet smokers" on their profile but message me anyway. When I point it out, suddenly smoking isn't such a problem for them anymore "
Agree with you there,it happens so many times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey guys this coming from what puts you off post .. im a non smoker and when i look at profiles and says smoking it does make me think twice about messaging... iv been with lots of people who do smoke and always asked then to come with a fresh breath or do there teeth before anything happens .. but want know what you lot think?
As a rule I don't meet smokers!
It's not just the ashtray breath for many hours after the last cigarette - smoking massively affects fitness/lungs - and I've met young smokers who look fit but are knackered after a few minutes of energetic sex!
I also just don't get how someone could do that to themselves! "
Its the wheezing that is offputting too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey guys this coming from what puts you off post .. im a non smoker and when i look at profiles and says smoking it does make me think twice about messaging... iv been with lots of people who do smoke and always asked then to come with a fresh breath or do there teeth before anything happens .. but want know what you lot think?"
Yes I hate the taste of human ashtrays! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a smoker I will tolerate non smokers as long as they are considerate.
Don't meet anyone who drugs ever or people who are d*unk
I've got to say some of the best areas for meeting people at clubs is the smoking area "
Got to say your last quote is spot on as a non smoker myself we have still met some great people here too |
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"It puts me off meeting people when they have "won't meet smokers" on their profile but message me anyway. When I point it out, suddenly smoking isn't such a problem for them anymore "
this. I don't meet right before a meet and have mint but I am a smoker, simple as. |
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