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Is 18 too young?
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since most folk here have kids in the same age range to some it would be like shagging their son or daughters friend.and i have to say at 18 you know very little about anything let alone sex and swinging. you might not like what has been said but thats life |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Id love the feedback as most people seem to think 18-year-olds are in-experience or not mature"
For me, 18 is too young. Not for the site, but for me personally.
I'd assume that we'd have very little in common or have much to talk about.
I/we have got a child, not far off your age and I just wouldn't feel comfortable, silly I know, but it's how I feel.
But, I wish you good luck with finding those who like the younger male.  |
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Since I don't have any children at all I would go with yes.
Each to there own as much as some people like them younger...some young people like the older people I knew a 20 something guy who liked ladies over 60 |
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As an 18 year old you think you are mature and know everything, I certainly did. However as a middle aged person I realise that I was far from mature and knew very little about sex, relationships, swinging and life in general.
I choose not to play with anyone much younger than myself. On the few occasions I have played with twenty-something's it hasn't been a great experience for me so I stick to older these days.
Don't let these replies discourage you too much though OP. There is a place for everyone on fab and there are some people who do meet younger guys, you just may find it a little harder to meet than someone older. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id love the feedback as most people seem to think 18-year-olds are in-experience or not mature"
Yes I think most people do think 18 year olds are inexperienced and not mature. I would imagine that view come from how 18 year olds tend to behave (maybe their own children) and also from their own cringable memories of being that age. One thing I remember about being that age is that we all thought we were mature and knew it all, especially about sex. And I find todays generation of late teens are just the same.
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Id love the feedback as most people seem to think 18-year-olds are in-experience or not mature"
Not all 18 year olds are inexperienced or not mature, I would think, but we have an 18year old grandson, so being with someone that age would make me feel uncomfortable, but good luck in your search.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id love the feedback as most people seem to think 18-year-olds are in-experience or not mature"
i dont think they are immature but they would lack experience due to age.. and anyone under 30 doesn't really feel right for me. X
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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18 isn't too young to swing, why would it be when a person can go to war and get killed at that age. You just have to fish in the right age group pool, members in their 20,s may be interested. Remember forum members are only a small part of Fab members. It would be too young for me though as I,m 53 xxx |
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It depends on the individual. Some 18 year olds are far too immature for many things let alone this kind of life style but some 18 year olds are more mature than some much older people I've met or known.
As for lack of experience how does anyone expect them to have experience if no one will give them a chance? I quite like the idea of taking an 18 year old under my wing to encourage and guide them. |
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"Id love the feedback as most people seem to think 18-year-olds are in-experience or not mature"
Yes, we agree.
Lots of 18 year olds think they are experienced and mature, however in reality they aren't.
You did ask! |
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"Id love the feedback as most people seem to think 18-year-olds are in-experience or not mature
Yes, we agree.
Lots of 18 year olds think they are experienced and mature, however in reality they aren't.
You did ask!"
ha ha in the garage we had a sign up
"always employ a teenager while they still know every thing "  |
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Here's the thing at 18 you're supposed to be immature it goes with the territory. I think it's a bit sad when you come across a very mature younger person, I feel they've missed out on some of the fun that goes with the freedom from the responsibility that maturity brings. Too much experience isn't always a great thing at that age either.
So I would say op enjoy your youth, don't rush to be mature and experienced but savour everything you experience that gets you there. Some people will want to meet you, some won't, some will patronize as if they were never 18 themselves. One thing's certain you will definitely be der one day.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My initial reaction to someone your age would be a no for many of the reasons stated above, connecting on a level other than sex is required. I also remember thinking I knew everything and thinking I was a proper mature grown up at 18, now I look back and cringe.
However I have met some men close to age as you and I've got on with them far better than some people closer to my own age, I think if you are serious about this then you do need to get out to socials and clubs where possible so you can show your personality and let people get to know you. |
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"I was just been told that I am not old enough for an 40ish couple. I am 27!"
I'm not surprised, I would turn you down for being too young for me too.
Every time I've played with guys in their 20's it hasn't been a great experience for various reasons, ranging from being over far too quickly to a guy finger blasting me so hard he made me bleed.
I know not all younger guys are like this but I've had enough bad experiences for it to put me off meeting them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fucked an 18 teen yr old once and it was 20 years ago when I was 18 ,I still have 18 on my search as I think that there is people out there that need guidance ,I met a troubled girl off here once and I'm proud to say put her off seeing an older guy and have fun with her age group as she was to young at 18 and was vunrable to say the least . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I fucked an 18 teen yr old once and it was 20 years ago when I was 18 ,I still have 18 on my search as I think that there is people out there that need guidance ,I met a troubled girl off here once and I'm proud to say put her off seeing an older guy and have fun with her age group as she was to young at 18 and was vunrable to say the least ."
i also met a 20 year old that taught me loads of things  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was just been told that I am not old enough for an 40ish couple. I am 27!"
Absolutely. We find it normally doesn't work with guys under the age of 30.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"since most folk here have kids in the same age range to some it would be like shagging their son or daughters friend.and i have to say at 18 you know very little about anything let alone sex and swinging. you might not like what has been said but thats life "
I understand what you are saying but I started swinging at 18. I would say I was very experienced and mature for my age. So you can't label everyone the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plenty of cougar hunters on here that would love an inexperienced youngster, a few pop up on our local posts.
On this site there really is something for everyone it's just finding them and being patient |
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By *s_4_uCouple
over a year ago
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No it's a 18 plus site. We have been on here 8+ years. We used to have some horrible comments that were too young and we should find sex in night clubs etc. Why should we. ??? Wot difference is it to 18 or 38 ? All here for fun.
If it's not someone's preference then fine. Just a no Thankyou. Not a lecture your too young. Because my kid is. And..... like saying not shagging her same age as my cousin lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id love the feedback as most people seem to think 18-year-olds are in-experience or not mature"
It would be way too young for me....I would feel like a sex offender....but that's more due to my age  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks like the best thing to do is just to wait a few years and come back later as not many folks are into younger lads like myself and OP, interesting thread by the way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks like the best thing to do is just to wait a few years and come back later as not many folks are into younger lads like myself and OP, interesting thread by the way "
stick with it, just because people in the forum may all not like your age there will be plenty who do on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looks like the best thing to do is just to wait a few years and come back later as not many folks are into younger lads like myself and OP, interesting thread by the way stick with it, just because people in the forum may all not like your age there will be plenty who do on fab
At the end of the day it just comes down to the person's preference I guess "
Don't think age is just the forum preference. There are so many threads like this from very young guys who have been unable to get any meets. Nearly all the male profiles from this age group that I see remain unverified by meets. The impression I get is that Fab is not the best website for young guy's to get NSA sex. With regards to the OP, he predominantly just wants a FWB. I would imagine for an 18 year old that should be easier to find through other avenues - it certainly was quite easy when I was that age!
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Way to young for me,I get physically turned on more by the older man. A fresh faced teenager doesn't have that appeal for me as a 49 year old,I just think my daughter would fancy you!
It look's like most men wouldn't have an issue with seeing an 18 year girl. I don't even refer to an 18 year old as being a man or woman just yet,that's one of the issues for me as well as feeling like someone's mother.
Enjoy your youth op,one day you'll look back and wonder where the stuff all those year's went
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't meet an 18 year old baring in mind I'm in my 30's. However, when I was 18 I was having threesomes and all sorts of group sex so why can't they?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely not too young to be on the site as I was 18 when we started this.
Personally wouldn't meet someone that age though. Not because I assume they are inexperienced or anything but just because it's not my thing. I prefer to meet folk older than me.
I know I was plenty experienced at 18.
It's all preference really. Some will meet you, some won't just keep trying
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By (user no longer on site)
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"since most folk here have kids in the same age range to some it would be like shagging their son or daughters friend.and i have to say at 18 you know very little about anything let alone sex and swinging. you might not like what has been said but thats life "
My parents don't have kids in this age range and neither do I. I'd have to say. You know very little about what you are talking about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think it's a very personnel question
Putting aside the kids age etc
It's down too the older person to chat and see if the younger persons outlook is that of someone who is experienced and understands what swinging is about ?
I know that at 18 I wasn't sexually mature enough ( male ) but I knew plenty of girls who were ?
So think it's all a case by case decision ? |
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When we were 18, sex was not that strong on the agenda it was more of social fun dancing kissing and having fun in general, so when we see a couple on here that age, we ask ourselves what the hell they doing here |
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