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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield

Is it wrong to pamper your fab friends or do you ladies love it?x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it wrong to pamper your fab friends or do you ladies love it?x"
id run a mile

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield

Not even a nice massage. Lol.x

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

What do you mean by pamper?

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield

Massage

Wine

Chocolate

Bubble bath. X

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Massage

Wine

Chocolate

Bubble bath. X"

That seems ok to me. It doesn't cross the line from no strings to dating...it's close though.

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By *rwolfMan  over a year ago

bristol

I guess it comes down to the dynamics of the friendship/relationship... Is it much different from having a movie night and cuddles?

Sometimes its not about sex but human contact but again even that comes down to how both feel about the lines of the friendship/intimacy ect ect

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield

Ok.x

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield

So true.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Ok.x"

If you press reply+quote at the bottom of the post we will know who you're replying to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Mostly id hate it. Aside from with one friend so i guess it depends on the dynamics x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Massage

Wine

Chocolate

Bubble bath. X"

noooooooo they are things for a partner to do with me not a meet. I will on occassion allow a foot massage.

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"Ok.x

If you press reply+quote at the bottom of the post we will know who you're replying to "

thanks.x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Massage

Wine

Chocolate

Bubble bath. X

That seems ok to me. It doesn't cross the line from no strings to dating...it's close though. "

see for me that screamed date. Lol

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"Mostly id hate it. Aside from with one friend so i guess it depends on the dynamics x "
so not for the liking of everyone.x

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"Massage

Wine

Chocolate

Bubble bath. X noooooooo they are things for a partner to do with me not a meet. I will on occassion allow a foot massage."

foot massage for you then.lol.x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" id run a mile"

this

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


" id run a mile

this "

got the trainers ready for you.lol.x

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Depends if it's someone I've known for a while. If he was a newish guy I'd think it was wierd!!

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"Depends if it's someone I've known for a while. If he was a newish guy I'd think it was wierd!!"
that's understandable, but I like to do it for regular friends.x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it wrong to pamper your fab friends or do you ladies love it?x"
Pampering i think should only be done by partners but then again guess it does depend on the closeness of the friends.. having wine together and a massage if playing together is part of a build up to fun so dont see the harm in it x ... Female replying xx

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"Is it wrong to pamper your fab friends or do you ladies love it?x Pampering i think should only be done by partners but then again guess it does depend on the closeness of the friends.. having wine together and a massage if playing together is part of a build up to fun so dont see the harm in it x ... Female replying xx"
I'll not leave no goodies on my bar for you then next time "M" lol.x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

I used to bath, wash and dry and then massage one of my gentlemen friend until he started to expect it all the while so i stopped

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"I used to bath, wash and dry and then massage one of my gentlemen friend until he started to expect it all the while so i stopped "
you should never expect anything, then everything is a bonus.x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it wrong to pamper your fab friends or do you ladies love it?x Pampering i think should only be done by partners but then again guess it does depend on the closeness of the friends.. having wine together and a massage if playing together is part of a build up to fun so dont see the harm in it x ... Female replying xxI'll not leave no goodies on my bar for you then next time "M" lol.x"
lol dont be mean xx M

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"Is it wrong to pamper your fab friends or do you ladies love it?x Pampering i think should only be done by partners but then again guess it does depend on the closeness of the friends.. having wine together and a massage if playing together is part of a build up to fun so dont see the harm in it x ... Female replying xxI'll not leave no goodies on my bar for you then next time "M" lol.xlol dont be mean xx M"
And I'll hide all the extra drinks.lol.x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it wrong to pamper your fab friends or do you ladies love it?x Pampering i think should only be done by partners but then again guess it does depend on the closeness of the friends.. having wine together and a massage if playing together is part of a build up to fun so dont see the harm in it x ... Female replying xxI'll not leave no goodies on my bar for you then next time "M" lol.xlol dont be mean xx MAnd I'll hide all the extra drinks.lol.x"
I will find it lol xx

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"Is it wrong to pamper your fab friends or do you ladies love it?x Pampering i think should only be done by partners but then again guess it does depend on the closeness of the friends.. having wine together and a massage if playing together is part of a build up to fun so dont see the harm in it x ... Female replying xxI'll not leave no goodies on my bar for you then next time "M" lol.xlol dont be mean xx MAnd I'll hide all the extra drinks.lol.xI will find it lol xx "
not when your tied to my swing.lol.x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes please... would love to be spoilt and pampered x

Never one to refuse someone's kindness

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

To put it bluntly I'm here for a fuck, what you describe is relationship territory.

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To put it bluntly I'm here for a fuck, what you describe is relationship territory.

Ginger"

Personally I like the boyfriend experince but not the hangover of a relationship!

Being treated like just a fuck would not make me feel good about myself.

As a single I also appreciate affection as im not getting from a partner.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To put it bluntly I'm here for a fuck, what you describe is relationship territory.

Ginger

Personally I like the boyfriend experince but not the hangover of a relationship!

Being treated like just a fuck would not make me feel good about myself.

As a single I also appreciate affection as im not getting from a partner.

"

I should have added that a couples perspective would most likely differ from that of a single person. As a married woman any kind of intimacy like the OP suggested would turn me off, but then Fred often tells me I'm not romantic enough so perhaps its just me??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Will I still get fucked up the arse though?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" id run a mile

this "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To put it bluntly I'm here for a fuck, what you describe is relationship territory.

Ginger

Personally I like the boyfriend experince but not the hangover of a relationship!

Being treated like just a fuck would not make me feel good about myself.

As a single I also appreciate affection as im not getting from a partner.

"

Boyfriend experience? He comes in at 1am pissed and stinky wanting a quick half soft shag before he rolls over, farts and falls asleep.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"To put it bluntly I'm here for a fuck, what you describe is relationship territory.

Ginger

Personally I like the boyfriend experince but not the hangover of a relationship!

Being treated like just a fuck would not make me feel good about myself.

As a single I also appreciate affection as im not getting from a partner.

Boyfriend experience? He comes in at 1am pissed and stinky wanting a quick half soft shag before he rolls over, farts and falls asleep. "

did we once date the same guy?

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Oh I'm all up for a good pampering, why not, bring it on!!

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"Yes please... would love to be spoilt and pampered x

Never one to refuse someone's kindness "

Get yourself over here then.lol.x

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"To put it bluntly I'm here for a fuck, what you describe is relationship territory.

Ginger"

I could do that just to please you.x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For me FAB is a little down time, so when I do entertain a lady it's usually I am pampering myself and they are welcome to join me...

I seem to have a weakness for nice hotels with Spas and excellent room service....

Oh and good sheets!

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"Will I still get fucked up the arse though? "
lol. Unfortunately not by me.

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"To put it bluntly I'm here for a fuck, what you describe is relationship territory.

Ginger

Personally I like the boyfriend experince but not the hangover of a relationship!

Being treated like just a fuck would not make me feel good about myself.

As a single I also appreciate affection as im not getting from a partner.

Boyfriend experience? He comes in at 1am pissed and stinky wanting a quick half soft shag before he rolls over, farts and falls asleep. "

very nice. Not. lol. X

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"Oh I'm all up for a good pampering, why not, bring it on!! "
shame about the distance then.x

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"For me FAB is a little down time, so when I do entertain a lady it's usually I am pampering myself and they are welcome to join me...

I seem to have a weakness for nice hotels with Spas and excellent room service....

Oh and good sheets!"

don't we all.

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Oh I'm all up for a good pampering, why not, bring it on!! shame about the distance then.x"

Always a pain. ...

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"Oh I'm all up for a good pampering, why not, bring it on!! shame about the distance then.x

Always a pain. ..."

yes it is.x

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By *rzambiqueMan  over a year ago

Edmonton

I always love giving a nice relaxing massage to my fab friends don't go past that tho don't wanna cross boundary

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By *rzambiqueMan  over a year ago

Edmonton


"Oh I'm all up for a good pampering, why not, bring it on!! shame about the distance then.x

Always a pain. ..."

Would love to massage you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To put it bluntly I'm here for a fuck, what you describe is relationship territory.

Ginger

Personally I like the boyfriend experince but not the hangover of a relationship!

Being treated like just a fuck would not make me feel good about myself.

As a single I also appreciate affection as im not getting from a partner.

Boyfriend experience? He comes in at 1am pissed and stinky wanting a quick half soft shag before he rolls over, farts and falls asleep.

did we once date the same guy? "

We must have. There's no way 2 men would be like that.

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"To put it bluntly I'm here for a fuck, what you describe is relationship territory.

Ginger

Personally I like the boyfriend experince but not the hangover of a relationship!

Being treated like just a fuck would not make me feel good about myself.

As a single I also appreciate affection as im not getting from a partner.

Boyfriend experience? He comes in at 1am pissed and stinky wanting a quick half soft shag before he rolls over, farts and falls asleep.

did we once date the same guy?

We must have. There's no way 2 men would be like that. "

well I wouldn't. X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To put it bluntly I'm here for a fuck, what you describe is relationship territory.

Ginger

Personally I like the boyfriend experince but not the hangover of a relationship!

Being treated like just a fuck would not make me feel good about myself.

As a single I also appreciate affection as im not getting from a partner.

Boyfriend experience? He comes in at 1am pissed and stinky wanting a quick half soft shag before he rolls over, farts and falls asleep. "

Lol... I hope and dream with my rose coloured spectacles on for hot, hung and charming

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never been pampered .think most men just want no strings sex .

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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i'd love to be pampered, i am a queen after all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never been pampered .think most men just want no strings sex ."

Not all of us,

Some of us enjoy the chemistry, flirting, seduction and company of a lady

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To put it bluntly I'm here for a fuck, what you describe is relationship territory.

Ginger

Personally I like the boyfriend experince but not the hangover of a relationship!

Being treated like just a fuck would not make me feel good about myself.

As a single I also appreciate affection as im not getting from a partner.

"

Totally agree with this. I have had wine bought for me and I bought a guy a cake as it was his birthday when we met up but I never thought of it as dating. Just being nice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *rs slut n himCouple  over a year ago

dartford

Never had it .... but wouldn't mind it.... bit of new underwear be nice lol x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never been pampered .think most men just want no strings sex .

Not all of us,

Some of us enjoy the chemistry, flirting, seduction and company of a lady"

Alot wouldn't want to show feelings and keep it no strings .But nice for the small minority that does .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never been pampered .think most men just want no strings sex .

Not all of us,

Some of us enjoy the chemistry, flirting, seduction and company of a lady

Alot wouldn't want to show feelings and keep it no strings .But nice for the small minority that does . "

That's why you take your time, converse and try not to think with your cock....try being the operative word.

It's a swinging site, it's obvious what you seek..no harm adding a little class to it, rather than just satisfying carnal desires and shouting next please!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Will I still get fucked up the arse though? lol. Unfortunately not by me. "

Oh don't put yourself down; I'm a right slapper. I'd let you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This thread is abit of an eye opener for me. I would have thought most women would have liked a little gift now again, more of a genltemanly gesture than a declaration if love type of thing.

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"Never been pampered .think most men just want no strings sex ."
not me. x

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"Never been pampered .think most men just want no strings sex .

Not all of us,

Some of us enjoy the chemistry, flirting, seduction and company of a lady"

yes some of us do.

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By *miler6969696969 OP   Man  over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield


"Never been pampered .think most men just want no strings sex .

Not all of us,

Some of us enjoy the chemistry, flirting, seduction and company of a lady

Alot wouldn't want to show feelings and keep it no strings .But nice for the small minority that does . "

everyone is different. X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never been pampered .think most men just want no strings sex .

Not all of us,

Some of us enjoy the chemistry, flirting, seduction and company of a lady

Alot wouldn't want to show feelings and keep it no strings .But nice for the small minority that does . everyone is different. X"

Probably good that everyone is different.

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