I don't get why this is such an issue. Leave newbies alone for a couple of months until they've found their feet and decided what they want. Don't target anyone who doesn't match what you're also looking for. Use a bit of common sense. Don't search when you're horny - recipe for disaster... I've never ever yet met a 'fake' but I do have an extremely sensitive bullshit sensor! |
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"I don't get why this is such an issue. Leave newbies alone for a couple of months until they've found their feet and decided what they want. Don't target anyone who doesn't match what you're also looking for. Use a bit of common sense. Don't search when you're horny - recipe for disaster... I've never ever yet met a 'fake' but I do have an extremely sensitive bullshit sensor! "
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"they all meeting and till the 12th hour they change there mind.. tell u what u want hear ... swap pictures ... "
It's not being a fake to decide you don't want to meet someone, that's the whole point of chatting. Fake is if they are not who they say they are, for example they say they are a woman but they are a man x |
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"they all meeting and till the 12th hour they change there mind.. tell u what u want hear ... swap pictures ...
That's not fakes that's not wanting to meet you. "
Yeah that's not fake. |
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"they all meeting and till the 12th hour they change there mind.. tell u what u want hear ... swap pictures ... "
That doesn't mean they're fake, just time wasters! I've come across 3 in past 5 weeks ........ they're genuine in how they describe themselves etc as I've seen them on cam or spoke on phone but when it comes to crunch just haven't got it in them to meet or they have gone off the idea of meeting me  |
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I hear so much about fakes on the forums, I'm wondering when we're going to join the club and find a fake for ourselves. Feeling we're missing out lol 
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"I hear so much about fakes on the forums, I'm wondering when we're going to join the club and find a fake for ourselves. Feeling we're missing out lol
Mrs"
We've never found any either. Its almost like some people are going looking for them.... |
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If they agree to meet and then don't turn up you never meet them. So how do you know if they are "fake" or simply discerning individuals who decided, on reflection and exercising their human rights, they did not wish, at this time, to engage in social or sexual interaction with you? (Aka damned timewasters!!!)  |
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"I hear so much about fakes on the forums, I'm wondering when we're going to join the club and find a fake for ourselves. Feeling we're missing out lol
Mrs
We've never found any either. Its almost like some people are going looking for them...."
lucky you then let's hope u dont come across any |
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no thanks does not mean fake
taking things at a slow pace does not mean fake
pulling out of a meet does not mean fake
but yes there are some fakes on here and to be honest they are so easy to spot and avoid  |
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"no thanks does not mean fake
taking things at a slow pace does not mean fake
pulling out of a meet does not mean fake
but yes there are some fakes on here and to be honest they are so easy to spot and avoid "
Exactly this. Fab gives you all the tools you need to help out fakes with filters etc, the rest is up to your own common sense. |
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"I hear so much about fakes on the forums, I'm wondering when we're going to join the club and find a fake for ourselves. Feeling we're missing out lol
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We've never found any either. Its almost like some people are going looking for them.... lucky you then let's hope u dont come across any"
I daresay we will get let down or stood up at some point, and under the law of averages that is to be expected occasionally. But with good filtering and common sense we can minimize that.
But some people seem to be getting that treatment all the time then coming on here and blaming fab. So the differences in our experiences here can only be down to their own bad choices and decisions. Nothing to do with the site. |
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"they all meeting and till the 12th hour they change there mind.. tell u what u want hear ... swap pictures ... "
What sort of chat and pictures? Is it explicit chat and pictures, or just general chat and face pics? Most women don't usually engage in the former.
A way to wheedle out some fakes is to Google image search the pictures to see if they appear anywhere else, such as on porn sites. Ask to chat on the phone, though some genuine people don't like doing this. Don't get too embedded into explicit chat.
If people decide to change their mind for any reason and let you know beforehand, this doesn't necessarily mean they are fakes. Annoying and frustrating it is, people do have the right to change their mind. |
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"they all meeting and till the 12th hour they change there mind.. tell u what u want hear ... swap pictures ... "
That's where you're going wrong. If you don't get into sex talk and pic swap you will find that the fakes will fuck off very quickly. You're making it too easy for them. |
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I think sometimes fakes or so called time wasters are called this by some when they don't meet what they want from a sexual meet they begin talking then realise there not for them! Then they are accused of being fake |
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"I hear so much about fakes on the forums, I'm wondering when we're going to join the club and find a fake for ourselves. Feeling we're missing out lol
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We've never found any either. Its almost like some people are going looking for them.... lucky you then let's hope u dont come across any"
I don't think it's luck at all. We probably stumble across fakes all the time without realising. We just don't notice these profiles.
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