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Just turned 41 and the blocks have started
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.
I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.
Kinda sucks 
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"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.
I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.
Kinda sucks
Pete xx"
Well if your face looks anywhere near as good as your body Pete - I have to say they're missing out! Xx |
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"I thought that if you'd previously messaged a profile, that filters didn't apply.
Maybe, that's just the single male one.
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If they replied - the filters don't apply! If they didn't - they do!
Without being mean - it's one very good reason not to send a 'no thank you!' Response - as it renders any filters/future filters useless! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I turned 40 the other week and had the same bad feeling! But it's just a number and people certainly age differently to others.
Give them a wink instead and see if they start a conversation! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I turned 40 the other week and had the same bad feeling! But it's just a number and people certainly age differently to others.
Give them a wink instead and see if they start a conversation!"
Winks get blocked too if age limits have been set. Oh well! Shit happens to the best of us lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.
I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.
Kinda sucks
Pete xx"
so someone has specifically blocked you because you turned 41? sounds a bit odd |
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"I thought that if you'd previously messaged a profile, that filters didn't apply.
Maybe, that's just the single male one.
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I thought that too, I get messages from people I spoke to before I put an age limit on !! |
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"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.
I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.
Kinda sucks
Pete xx"
From now on it's an exponentially declining number of potential meets!!!Best get used to it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.
I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.
Kinda sucks
Pete xx
so someone has specifically blocked you because you turned 41? sounds a bit odd"
Yes that's what it sounds like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.
I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.
Kinda sucks
Pete xx"
are you sure you don't mean filters?
obviously if people have age filters on then yes, you will be blocked from messaging them but if you have previously messaged them then it should still let you do so
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I turned 40 the other week and had the same bad feeling! But it's just a number and people certainly age differently to others.
Give them a wink instead and see if they start a conversation!
Winks get blocked too if age limits have been set. Oh well! Shit happens to the best of us lol"
Oh fuck - well there's no hope then!
Their loss anyway if they don't want us anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.
I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.
Kinda sucks
Pete xx
are you sure you don't mean filters?
obviously if people have age filters on then yes, you will be blocked from messaging them but if you have previously messaged them then it should still let you do so
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Filters!!! Thats the thing i was looking for. Yes sorry for the confusion. Being blocked is one thing and being filtered out is another. Same result at the end of the day though lol.
Ive definitely been filtered out from profiles i have contacted before. Im certain of it otherwise this post has been pointless and made me look like a proper dick  LOL! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.
I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.
Kinda sucks
Pete xx
are you sure you don't mean filters?
obviously if people have age filters on then yes, you will be blocked from messaging them but if you have previously messaged them then it should still let you do so
Filters!!! Thats the thing i was looking for. Yes sorry for the confusion. Being blocked is one thing and being filtered out is another. Same result at the end of the day though lol.
Ive definitely been filtered out from profiles i have contacted before. Im certain of it otherwise this post has been pointless and made me look like a proper dick LOL!"
I change my filters all the time (just to confuse people ) but I can assure you that people who contacted me and I responded to can still contact me now, even though my age filter states 50-51...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.
I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.
Kinda sucks
Pete xx"
That's how I've started on here, most of the ladies I like stop at age 45 and I'm 46. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought that if you'd previously messaged a profile, that filters didn't apply.
Maybe, that's just the single male one.
If they replied - the filters don't apply! If they didn't - they do!
Without being mean - it's one very good reason not to send a 'no thank you!' Response - as it renders any filters/future filters useless! Xx"
If I get a reply "no thanks" I block so as not to waste both our time in future. If I get no reply, I am not sure where I stand. Instant delete also equals instant block. Age filters are irritating now and again but I guess serve a useful purpose |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Wait till you hit 45!"
Wait til you hit 50!
Anyway, why message people you've messaged before if they haven't replied. they're not likely to change their minds after a few months. |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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No difference for me. I'm getting to know some pretty hot guys in the 45+ age bracket. I like people my own age or thereabouts and there seems to be plenty here. And as long as they aren't all seeking younger women it's good for me 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.
I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.
Kinda sucks
Pete xx
Well if your face looks anywhere near as good as your body Pete - I have to say they're missing out! Xx"
 well said! x |
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"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.
I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.
Kinda sucks
Pete xx"
I wouldn't worry about it.
We were already over 40 when we started swinging and have had no problems
There's plenty looking for those that are not so young any more.
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its funny what 1 day can do to ones profile.
I just turned 41 and im automatically blocked from sending messages to people ive already messaged in the past due to my age.
Kinda sucks
Pete xx
Well if your face looks anywhere near as good as your body Pete - I have to say they're missing out! Xx"
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