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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's becoming more of a wife sharing site than a place for couples as time goes on. We have had some great mmf meets and ffm meets but couples just never seem to come into fruition |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've found all groups (couples, females and males) fall at the last hurdle. When it comes to the crunch.....the meet.....silence.
Just noticed last night, the guy arranged for 17th July, his account now deleted.
Many are bizzare. |
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Swinging is a broad spectrum of things and wide sharing is swinging
It's not just restricted to couple swap. I have been through all the scenarios as a single and with partners
You are right tho that it's hard to find good meets on here but that's mainly down to so many fakes , talkers and wasters and people that really don't know what the hell they want
Definition of swinging ...
Swinging, sometimes called wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.[1]
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By (user no longer on site)
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My swinging partner in crime and I really struggle to meet couples, there's always lots of good chat at the beginning but then when it comes to agreeing the time and place they nearly always flake off.
I think we've probably spoken to about 50 couples who have all really been up for it, or so the conversation would have you believe but then nothing.
Couples I think are harder to meet for sure, bizarrely even more so as a couple then a single guy, it's crazy |
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"It's becoming more of a wife sharing site than a place for couples as time goes on. We have had some great mmf meets and ffm meets but couples just never seem to come into fruition"
I've met couples. There are loads of them. The more tighter your wants, the less people there are who meet them. |
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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago
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Also a different dynamic with two couples - you need to be well matched and compatible and happy to see your partner while they see you with someone else without having to take one for the team.
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"Also a different dynamic with two couples - you need to be well matched and compatible and happy to see your partner while they see you with someone else without having to take one for the team.
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That's about it.
It's very difficult to find a couple where the mutual attraction exists. Its fairly obvious when one of the other couple is indifferent and if either one of us isn't sure we wouldn't insult anyone by going ahead. It must be even more difficult if all four are bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never had a problem finding people we are both attracted to and vice versa, a bit of patience and effort goes a long way, as a couple if you are motivated to meet & play you shouldn't have a problem.... |
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By *ipsxxCouple
over a year ago
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So far we never had a problem with meeting couples both privately and at clubs.. but we do prefer club visits as obviously there's more of a choice and there's no pressure to play if none takes your fancy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My swinging partner in crime and I really struggle to meet couples, there's always lots of good chat at the beginning but then when it comes to agreeing the time and place they nearly always flake off.
I think we've probably spoken to about 50 couples who have all really been up for it, or so the conversation would have you believe but then nothing.
Couples I think are harder to meet for sure, bizarrely even more so as a couple then a single guy, it's crazy"
Exact same experience here.
The site on the forum should have a thread where you're allowed to name and shame such people. Until then, we shall continue to suffer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a great fan of the concept of a partner swap. As swingers we enjoy sexual friendships with others, but prefer to have the freedom to choose who we have sex with as opposed to be confined to a particular couple.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging is a broad spectrum of things and wide sharing is swinging
It's not just restricted to couple swap. I have been through all the scenarios as a single and with partners
You are right tho that it's hard to find good meets on here but that's mainly down to so many fakes , talkers and wasters and people that really don't know what the hell they want
Definition of swinging ...
Swinging, sometimes called wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.[1]
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of couples with agendas we think.
Have found this on a couple of occasions.
The guy can't perform so the fem is on a man hunt.
Sorry that's not swinging."
Swinging is whatever people want it to be!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We end up meeting more guys than couples because we find it so difficult to meet couples. Having a wife with no bi-curiosity limits the couples who want to play and the pool of couples is quite small anyway. |
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"It's becoming more of a wife sharing site than a place for couples as time goes on. We have had some great mmf meets and ffm meets but couples just never seem to come into fruition"
Seems to be ok for us  |
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We seem to be on this site like people blindfolded feeling a small part of an elephant and arguing with each other about what an elephant is! Some holding the tail ,others the ears, and yet others the legs. |
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"I always get the impression that couples on here are all shagging with other couples. "
We aren't exclusively shagging other couples , single males ( bi or straight ) , single bi females , CDs , TVs , tg , mm couples , ff couples are equally as much fun  |
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"We seem to be on this site like people blindfolded feeling a small part of an elephant and arguing with each other about what an elephant is! Some holding the tail ,others the ears, and yet others the legs. "
We may even try that  |
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"We seem to be on this site like people blindfolded feeling a small part of an elephant and arguing with each other about what an elephant is! Some holding the tail ,others the ears, and yet others the legs.
We may even try that "
I think it's already been done! Big blindfold fight! Very messy! |
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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago
Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and |
"Lots of couples with agendas we think.
Have found this on a couple of occasions.
The guy can't perform so the fem is on a man hunt.
Sorry that's not swinging."
Oooh yes weve had this a lot of times too, i get the right hump when shes fucking my man and im left with a limp cock it almost put us off swining.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've found all groups (couples, females and males) fall at the last hurdle. When it comes to the crunch.....the meet.....silence.
Just noticed last night, the guy arranged for 17th July, his account now deleted.
Many are bizzare."
Shame.. How about 17th Aug, I am free...
Just to warn you I will be deleting my profile tomorrow..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People sometimes forget that most couples profiles here are either single men or women disguised as couple... They may have been couple 6 years ago but now they are single....wasting everyone's time. |
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Just hit 200 veries, so I think we can confidently say we are swingers lol!
We play mostly after organised socials, or at parties or clubs, as we find there is less chance of being let down.
Often it is very hard to match diaries with genuine people, and life (family, jobs, accidents/incidents) can throw a spanner in the works.
At least at a social/party/club you can sort out something else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My swinging partner in crime and I really struggle to meet couples, there's always lots of good chat at the beginning but then when it comes to agreeing the time and place they nearly always flake off.
I think we've probably spoken to about 50 couples who have all really been up for it, or so the conversation would have you believe but then nothing.
Couples I think are harder to meet for sure, bizarrely even more so as a couple then a single guy, it's crazy
Exact same experience here.
The site on the forum should have a thread where you're allowed to name and shame such people. Until then, we shall continue to suffer."
Never had a problem meeting couples and never had a no show apart from you!.......
See that's how easy it is to name & shame! If you get no shows look at how you arrange meets, your technique, your pics and profile, take responsibility...... |
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