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over a year ago
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There are lots of older women who prefer younger men, the trick is to treat them as real people rather than a fetish, or something to tick off a "to do" list |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are lots of older women who prefer younger men, the trick is to treat them as real people rather than a fetish, or something to tick off a "to do" list"
Agree.
I had a guy two days ago that he wants to fulfil his fantasy. I said Im on here to fulfil mine not yours. He deleted his account yesterday lol
Please treat older women with respect and if you say anything like, its always been my fantasy, expect to get little interest. |
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I always go for r more mature ladies X
The younger girls look good with there tight firm bodies but just haven't got the years of experience older ladies have ..
Plus we all know what happens to a womans sex drive in her late thirties and forties .. through the roof lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of older women don't like to be targeted purely based on age. It can be a huge turn off. If someone was pursuing me because of that, I would not be interested. Obviously I can't speak for all woman. That's just my personal take on it. |
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"A lot of older women don't like to be targeted purely based on age. It can be a huge turn off. If someone was pursuing me because of that, I would not be interested. Obviously I can't speak for all woman. That's just my personal take on it. "
I wouldn't pursue you because of your age, but because I think you're gorgeous, with a very sexy mouth...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of older women don't like to be targeted purely based on age. It can be a huge turn off. If someone was pursuing me because of that, I would not be interested. Obviously I can't speak for all woman. That's just my personal take on it.
I wouldn't pursue you because of your age, but because I think you're gorgeous, with a very sexy mouth... "
Why thank you. That is sweet of you to say  |
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"A lot of older women don't like to be targeted purely based on age. It can be a huge turn off. If someone was pursuing me because of that, I would not be interested. Obviously I can't speak for all woman. That's just my personal take on it.
I wouldn't pursue you because of your age, but because I think you're gorgeous, with a very sexy mouth...
Why thank you. That is sweet of you to say "
No need for thanks, just being honest... xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are young men so attracked to older women ?? What is the bug deal ???  "
For me, I had a hot cougar practically force herself on me when I was 18 and it was brilliant, so it stemmed from that.
Young men these days tend to like young women less too, mainly due to how young women behave (masculine/angry/confrontational) - feminism is creating a generation of men who move toward either homosexuality or much older women. |
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"Why are young men so attracked to older women ?? What is the bug deal ??? "
There are quite a few reasons mostly generalised. Older women know what they want, they're less needy, they can teach you a thing or two etc etc. |
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"I would hope there was a mutual attraction rather than be intimate with someone because you think they are gagging for it. (As an old fart myself lol)"
I do think some younger men think an older woman will be grateful. I think they underestimate the skill, patience and experience of older men and think we might be desperate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was really surprised at the interest I received from younger males when I joined. A LOT of young guys seem to want an older lady. I also don't mind being viewed as a "fetish". I think it's quite hot. I've yet to experience the younger male yet....Im keeping my eyes peeled though  |
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"I was really surprised at the interest I received from younger males when I joined. A LOT of young guys seem to want an older lady. I also don't mind being viewed as a "fetish". I think it's quite hot. I've yet to experience the younger male yet....Im keeping my eyes peeled though "
Hiya fellow cestrian x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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hate the terms milf cougar even older woman it is off putting if a guy wants to fuck me then be it on the ground of he wants to fuck me not how old I am or young they are
the worse ones are the ones that say teach me ?? I just answer back with right this is a cooker its used for cooking this is how you turn it on .....this it a toilet this is bleach ...... this is a iron .... they soon stop with the teach me messages lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally that doesn't offend me in the slightest. It's a fantasy. A fetish. Something that does it for someone. We all have that something.
If I was with a guy that had a thing for hairy pussy .... he is of course being intimate with me partly because I have a hairy pussy. And the fact that he loves that is a huge turn on for me. Of course there's a person attached to that pussy ...but it makes up part of the whole picture which has seduced his mind. Just as the older woman thing has seduced the mind of the younger guy.
Doesn't mean they don't respect the person that's part of the fantasy. Just means you've got that extra something that makes their head spin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always go for r more mature ladies X
The younger girls look good with there tight firm bodies but just haven't got the years of experience older ladies have ..
Plus we all know what happens to a womans sex drive in her late thirties and forties .. through the roof lol"
Plenty of older women have tight firm bodies too you know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always go for r more mature ladies X
The younger girls look good with there tight firm bodies but just haven't got the years of experience older ladies have ..
Plus we all know what happens to a womans sex drive in her late thirties and forties .. through the roof lol
Plenty of older women have tight firm bodies too you know! "
Here here!!!!
My body happens to be in pretty good nic! In fact it hasn't changed that much from when I was in my 20's.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are young men so attracked to older women ?? What is the bug deal ???
For me, I had a hot cougar practically force herself on me when I was 18 and it was brilliant, so it stemmed from that.
Young men these days tend to like young women less too, mainly due to how young women behave (masculine/angry/confrontational) - feminism is creating a generation of men who move toward either homosexuality or much older women."
I don't think you can just blame feminism - many other factors at work here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally feel I can be more relaxed around a elder lady, and assume her to be more experienced too (which personally turns me on).
There is a element of less shyness for me with elder And I find them sexier especially in pantyhose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate the term mature and older really does not mean more experienced either. I think older ladies tend to have less hang ups and are more secure in themselves..but not all of them for sure! I prefer younger guys because they tend to look good and more like the age I feel...plus they are more likely to be able to keep up, but there always exceptions to the rules. Getting a message titled "young for old" is a bit off putting though it has to be said  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Move down south
I'm not too far from Yeovil!
It's not that close !!!
Lol! An hour on the motorbike down the 303! 
have you been on google maps ?? "
Yep, I have a fast bike!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always go for r more mature ladies X
The younger girls look good with there tight firm bodies but just haven't got the years of experience older ladies have ..
Plus we all know what happens to a womans sex drive in her late thirties and forties .. through the roof lol"
Not necessarily. I think i was in my prime in my 30's. Not to say I dont get horny now.
Years of what kind of experience ??
Be interested what you mean by this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hate the terms milf cougar even older woman it is off putting if a guy wants to fuck me then be it on the ground of he wants to fuck me not how old I am or young they are
the worse ones are the ones that say teach me ?? I just answer back with right this is a cooker its used for cooking this is how you turn it on .....this it a toilet this is bleach ...... this is a iron .... they soon stop with the teach me messages lol "
Hahah i hear ya.
I get lots of messages saying same thing.
I dont meet much younger guys now. In my experience the majority if not all of the younger guys I have met in their 20s were just looking for someone to take control and dominate them rather than mutual fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always go for r more mature ladies X
The younger girls look good with there tight firm bodies but just haven't got the years of experience older ladies have ..
Plus we all know what happens to a womans sex drive in her late thirties and forties .. through the roof lol"
Erm so what happens to all the ladies over 40 ?sweeping generalisations me thinks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hate the terms milf cougar even older woman it is off putting if a guy wants to fuck me then be it on the ground of he wants to fuck me not how old I am or young they are
the worse ones are the ones that say teach me ?? I just answer back with right this is a cooker its used for cooking this is how you turn it on .....this it a toilet this is bleach ...... this is a iron .... they soon stop with the teach me messages lol "
Yeap I tend to delete these types of messages, 'teach me', 'show me the ropes', 'show me a trick' - bore off, I'm
not a performing seal you muppet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hate the terms milf cougar even older woman it is off putting if a guy wants to fuck me then be it on the ground of he wants to fuck me not how old I am or young they are
the worse ones are the ones that say teach me ?? I just answer back with right this is a cooker its used for cooking this is how you turn it on .....this it a toilet this is bleach ...... this is a iron .... they soon stop with the teach me messages lol
Hahah i hear ya.
I get lots of messages saying same thing.
I dont meet much younger guys now. In my experience the majority if not all of the younger guys I have met in their 20s were just looking for someone to take control and dominate them rather than mutual fun. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are lots of older women who prefer younger men, the trick is to treat them as real people rather than a fetish, or something to tick off a "to do" list
Agree.
I had a guy two days ago that he wants to fulfil his fantasy. I said Im on here to fulfil mine not yours. He deleted his account yesterday lol
Please treat older women with respect and if you say anything like, its always been my fantasy, expect to get little interest."
Haha I love using this line myself...then seeing the UNLOS |
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"Move down south
I'm not too far from Yeovil!
It's not that close !!!
Lol! An hour on the motorbike down the 303!
have you been on google maps ??
Got an answer for everything too ??
Yep, I have a fast bike! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Did someone on this thread actually suggest that not only do men choose to be gay but that feminism drove them there? "
Nah I don't think he meant that at all. He's saying that men have had enough of some of the younger aggressive sort which makes them turn to TVs and older women, who don't give them any shit basically,
I know what he means because my tranny friends say the same all the time and I have to agree. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I do look for younger men (but no less than 30), because a lot of men my age look at least 10 years older! However, if I think some guy is trying to woo me into bed because he has a tick box of bedding an older woman, then he can fuck right off to be honest and we can tell trust me!
I will be nobodies fetish tick in a box |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Did someone on this thread actually suggest that not only do men choose to be gay but that feminism drove them there?
Nah I don't think he meant that at all. He's saying that men have had enough of some of the younger aggressive sort which makes them turn to TVs and older women, who don't give them any shit basically,
I know what he means because my tranny friends say the same all the time and I have to agree. "
Exactly, femininity is very rare these days. Aggression and rage are generally perceived as masculine qualities and a higher number of women than ever before (particularly under 30) possess these traits. Hence, in the present day, a TV or camp homosexual behaves in a more feminine way than your average woman, so gives a better social/emotional 'man & woman' experience than a huge amount of actual women.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Did someone on this thread actually suggest that not only do men choose to be gay but that feminism drove them there?
Nah I don't think he meant that at all. He's saying that men have had enough of some of the younger aggressive sort which makes them turn to TVs and older women, who don't give them any shit basically,
I know what he means because my tranny friends say the same all the time and I have to agree.
Exactly, femininity is very rare these days. Aggression and rage are generally perceived as masculine qualities and a higher number of women than ever before (particularly under 30) possess these traits. Hence, in the present day, a TV or camp homosexual behaves in a more feminine way than your average woman, so gives a better social/emotional 'man & woman' experience than a huge amount of actual women.
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I don't think you can say TVs or gay buys behave in a more feminine way than women. It might be true, it might not. The problem is the sheer shit men get from trying to please women (original women) that they give up and think something else is better/easier/fulfilling.
I can't really blame them at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As soon as anything to do with age is mentioned it's a turn off and shows just how immature they are... I'm a woman who wants to be found attractive by adults plain and simple. |
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"I always go for r more mature ladies X
The younger girls look good with there tight firm bodies but just haven't got the years of experience older ladies have ..
Plus we all know what happens to a womans sex drive in her late thirties and forties .. through the roof lol"
Well now I feel practically prehistoric...You know you are really old when youngsters in their thirties and forties are considered older women  You also know you are really old when a toyboy is in his forties!!
Yet in my head I still feel like I did when I was a 21 year old young woman . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are lots of older women who prefer younger men, the trick is to treat them as real people rather than a fetish, or something to tick off a "to do" list"
Definitely this. |
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I've always fancied women 20 years or more older than myself - now I'm 45 but still fancy women 20 years older. I'm sure there's something deeply psychological going on there, but... who cares? Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I see a guy on here whose quite a few years younger, he has asked if I'd date him in real life...
Nice guy and i do like him but I cant get my head around a young guy, never married, no kids being attracted to a divorced, mature woman with grown up kids.
Do you guys not see the wrinkles, stretch marks, sagging skin ECT ???
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see a guy on here whose quite a few years younger, he has asked if I'd date him in real life...
Nice guy and i do like him but I cant get my head around a young guy, never married, no kids being attracted to a divorced, mature woman with grown up kids.
Do you guys not see the wrinkles, stretch marks, sagging skin ECT ???
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Sounds like heaven to me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see a guy on here whose quite a few years younger, he has asked if I'd date him in real life...
Nice guy and i do like him but I cant get my head around a young guy, never married, no kids being attracted to a divorced, mature woman with grown up kids.
Do you guys not see the wrinkles, stretch marks, sagging skin ECT ???
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nice if they see the person beyond the skin |
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"I have always had a thing for more mature ladies. Not " older " , mature ladies know how to play. "
I'm not keen on the 'mature' description. 'Experienced' or 'Older' sounds better..
Milf - not all ladies are mothers....
Cougar - makes us sound like we are predatory.. some maybe but not all....
I love playing with younger guys! |
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"I have always had a thing for more mature ladies. Not " older " , mature ladies know how to play.
I'm not keen on the 'mature' description. 'Experienced' or 'Older' sounds better..
Milf - not all ladies are mothers....
Cougar - makes us sound like we are predatory.. some maybe but not all....
I love playing with younger guys! "
I like to say 'in our prime' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see a guy on here whose quite a few years younger, he has asked if I'd date him in real life...
Nice guy and i do like him but I cant get my head around a young guy, never married, no kids being attracted to a divorced, mature woman with grown up kids.
Do you guys not see the wrinkles, stretch marks, sagging skin ECT ???
nice if they see the person beyond the skin"
Saggy stretched mature skin, tight taut young skin..
I know which Id prefer to have  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm hardly young myself at 39 but have always loved playing with older women. Always always the best experiences are with older women... wouldn't swap them for younger any day x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are young men so attracked to older women ?? What is the bug deal ??? "
Personally I just find women 40+ way more sexier than younger women.
I think some young guys think older women = lots of experience at sex and thus will be very good at sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think if I was mature women I would want to try a young guy. Young guys have more stamina, can reover quicker and can get another hard on quicker.
In my youth I could cum a lot and get hard again very quickly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think if I was mature women I would want to try a young guy. Young guys have more stamina, can reover quicker and can get another hard on quicker.
In my youth I could cum a lot and get hard again very quickly. "
But they can also be inexperienced, clumsy, childish, talk utter drival, cant accommodate, and look like your child  then as they get experienced they usually become arrogant fucktards till they mature a bit ... early 30's is usually a good leveling out age |
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