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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep. I do the same. I used to find that some guys would keep messaging or some would get on the defensive and start being rude. So I politely say thanks but no Thanks, wish them well and then block them. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Guys who you politely say to "sorry your not my type" as they keep messaging
Why would you do this?? In case I suddenly change my mind wtf "
You would get one reply from me. I would simply thank you for your reply. Obviously im aware of the volume of messages you get so i couldnt just leave it without thanking you. Im aware it would get me nowhere but its just the way i am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep. I do the same. I used to find that some guys would keep messaging or some would get on the defensive and start being rude. So I politely say thanks but no Thanks, wish them well and then block them. "
Had that yesterday.lad kept messaging.told him no sorry.so he said you're an ugly old slut anyway  |
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I don't tend to block people who are polite but if they get too persistent and pushy I do.
I had a guy send me the same copy and paste message 4 times in 2 days earlier in the week. I sent him a message advising they never work and it might help if he kept track of who he has already sent it too. Then I blocked him so he didn't waste any more of my (or his) time. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"My favourites are the ones who start their messages 'I know I don't fit what you're looking for but...'
Why message me then?!!"
at least that's the first thing they put so you don't need to bother opening the mail.  |
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Copy and paste messages drive me nuts. One guy keeps asking if my pussy is hairy.
She is...and she has a little bell too.
Block button is yr best friend and should be stroked and cared for..
Like my other pussy that does'nt have a bell or hair.. |
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"Copy and paste messages drive me nuts. One guy keeps asking if my pussy is hairy.
She is...and she has a little bell too.
Block button is yr best friend and should be stroked and cared for..
Like my other pussy that does'nt have a bell or hair.."
Since the introduction of direct message photos I've sent plenty of pics of my cat to guys who ask to see my pussy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I send one msg you either reply or you don't I don't see any reason to be nasty or immature some people just can't deal with rejection I can imagine its a lot worse for woman but I don't get the odd gay guy pestering me wish it was bloody ladies that did the pestering just my luck  |
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hahaha I get the same. I don't know why they do this. Maybe they're sadist so like to be rejected constantly. Or I get " I know you said I'm not your type but I would've sucked you dry or do anything you want to me" or "if you change your mind i'll put you on my friends list" lol if you don't find someone attractive once why would you find them attractive a few weeks later? it's all very odd psychology. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"I send one msg you either reply or you don't I don't see any reason to be nasty or immature some people just can't deal with rejection I can imagine its a lot worse for woman but I don't get the odd gay guy pestering me wish it was bloody ladies that did the pestering just my luck "
dunno why you're not getting pestered.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I send one msg you either reply or you don't I don't see any reason to be nasty or immature some people just can't deal with rejection I can imagine its a lot worse for woman but I don't get the odd gay guy pestering me wish it was bloody ladies that did the pestering just my luck
dunno why you're not getting pestered. "
Well I understand I ain't everyone's cup of tea so I'm cool with that I'm happy enough in my own skin to not let it get to me plus I see it as your loss not mine
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"Guys who you politely say to "sorry your not my type" as they keep messaging
Why would you do this?? In case I suddenly change my mind wtf "
A short sharp "NO THANKS" if they come back block!! Simple |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"I send one msg you either reply or you don't I don't see any reason to be nasty or immature some people just can't deal with rejection I can imagine its a lot worse for woman but I don't get the odd gay guy pestering me wish it was bloody ladies that did the pestering just my luck
dunno why you're not getting pestered.
Well I understand I ain't everyone's cup of tea so I'm cool with that I'm happy enough in my own skin to not let it get to me plus I see it as your loss not mine
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women don't pester really, that's all. was just hinting i think you're hot. |
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I've given up sending a polite 'no thank you' reply - as I say on my profile, this is usually seen as an opener to a conversation.
I just delete the message and block if I get another. Sounds harsh and rude, but who has time to engage in endless messages? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I quite often block now too, it saves them replying with stuff like 'I would just love to chat then, even if I am not your type', I see no point in that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys who you politely say to "sorry your not my type" as they keep messaging
Why would you do this?? In case I suddenly change my mind wtf "
It does make it easy so you don't need to go though their profile in the future to find out they are just pests |
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"I send one msg you either reply or you don't I don't see any reason to be nasty or immature some people just can't deal with rejection I can imagine its a lot worse for woman but I don't get the odd gay guy pestering me wish it was bloody ladies that did the pestering just my luck "
I'll pester you if you like   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mainly use the block button if they get abusive. I ignore the ones who message back after I've said no thank you. In my eyes, I've already replied and told them politely that I'm not interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just look at their profile to see if we've mailed before. If we have then I know it was a no thanks. I select my generic "no thank you" copy & paste reply and everyone is happy. Zero angst.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Otherwise they just message in a week or so and you have to go through it all again
Not all do this. I don't waste my time or someone elses chasing someone that doesn't want me. "
This. |
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"Guys who you politely say to "sorry your not my type" as they keep messaging
Why would you do this?? In case I suddenly change my mind wtf "
My first message includes the
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If you're not interested please block me thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys who you politely say to "sorry your not my type" as they keep messaging
Why would you do this?? In case I suddenly change my mind wtf "
You could argue it's a woman's prerogative to change her mind |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"Guys who you politely say to "sorry your not my type" as they keep messaging
Why would you do this?? In case I suddenly change my mind wtf
You could argue it's a woman's prerogative to change her mind "
lol, yeah we're playing hard to get.  |
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