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Should I stay or should I go?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I last bought something off ebay in january, I still have my account there.
I think it was last year since I used amazon, again still have an account.
Difference is theres no forum to get folks attention on those sites though |
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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago
Castleford |
Sadly not, we attended a party in may but didnt play though as there was nobody for us.
We've had probably 6-7 meets (not all play) in going on for 2 years mate so your time on here isnt that bad at all!
Chin up and press on, its notably harder for single guys as it is |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sadly not, we attended a party in may but didnt play though as there was nobody for us.
We've had probably 6-7 meets (not all play) in going on for 2 years mate so your time on here isnt that bad at all!
Chin up and press on, its notably harder for single guys as it is"
you are telling me its hard for us guys!!! |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
Title reminds me of that song by The Clash......
Anyway back to the question...only you can decide if you stay or go!
Nearly everyone has quiet periods at one point or another, case of keeping your chin up and keep trying.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if its not working for you right now just take a break from here, no need to delete your account tho, perhaps try another site
I wouldnt consider leaving, am to busy inter_iewing for a new fb, lol |
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youve had meets which is more then alot of single guys on here who arent married , so you are way ahead of the curve ! being honest you being married will automatically rule you out off alot of ppls radar but still hasnt held you back .as i say lot of single guys still to have their first meet after months of being on here so you havent got anything to whine about .
as for weather you should go or stay , are you exspecting a whole flood of messages begging you to stay?or suddenly an inbox full of mail from fems begging to meet as they cant bear the thought of the site with out you ? if so sorry but youll be disapointed . weather you go or stay the site and the people on it will go on regardless ,people leave and join all the time and none of it makes one jot of difference to majority of folks on here .its up to you what you want to do no one else .if you were actually serious about leaving and not wanting to get attention you would of just left already .i would say though there are far more posative ways of getting noticed on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"youve had meets which is more then alot of single guys on here who arent married , so you are way ahead of the curve ! being honest you being married will automatically rule you out off alot of ppls radar but still hasnt held you back .as i say lot of single guys still to have their first meet after months of being on here so you havent got anything to whine about .
as for weather you should go or stay , are you exspecting a whole flood of messages begging you to stay?or suddenly an inbox full of mail from fems begging to meet as they cant bear the thought of the site with out you ? if so sorry but youll be disapointed . weather you go or stay the site and the people on it will go on regardless ,people leave and join all the time and none of it makes one jot of difference to majority of folks on here .its up to you what you want to do no one else .if you were actually serious about leaving and not wanting to get attention you would of just left already .i would say though there are far more posative ways of getting noticed on here. "
Ha ha thanks for your advice.
I'm not trying to get noticed and I'm not that stupid to think people will be upset if I leave I'm mearly thinking out loud and as this is a forum then why not open my thoughts to the floor but thank you anyway.
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well as its your profile and only you can decide if you are getting from the site what you want, nothing people can say but up to you !
of course anyone can post what they wish on forum .you see it as "thinking out loud " to some others its in less favourable light on you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"well as its your profile and only you can decide if you are getting from the site what you want, nothing people can say but up to you !
of course anyone can post what they wish on forum .you see it as "thinking out loud " to some others its in less favourable light on you "
As with any forum you take the rough with the smooth  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"youve had meets which is more then alot of single guys on here who arent married , so you are way ahead of the curve ! being honest you being married will automatically rule you out off alot of ppls radar but still hasnt held you back .as i say lot of single guys still to have their first meet after months of being on here so you havent got anything to whine about .
as for weather you should go or stay , are you exspecting a whole flood of messages begging you to stay?or suddenly an inbox full of mail from fems begging to meet as they cant bear the thought of the site with out you ? if so sorry but youll be disapointed . weather you go or stay the site and the people on it will go on regardless ,people leave and join all the time and none of it makes one jot of difference to majority of folks on here .its up to you what you want to do no one else .if you were actually serious about leaving and not wanting to get attention you would of just left already .i would say though there are far more posative ways of getting noticed on here. "
Sorry OP: when I read your post all the above sprang to mind!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh please stay.You're wonderful please stay. It wont be the same without you here.
You'll get plenty of meets, it's a bump in the road, plenty more fish in the sea, pebbles on the beach and all that.
Stay...with...me (doo doo doo do)
Stay-ay-hayaaah with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Comtemplating leaving the site once and for all as it seems I have come to a dry spell as not met anyone for ages off here."
Only you can decide, the name of this game is fun (in whichever form that comes), if I grow impatient and it is no longer fun then I would very possibly try to find some sort of fun elsewhere.
to me, fun isn't just the bite but the chase, the laughs on the forum, the messages with friends/friendly people through the forum, etc etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same advice as always,dont ask for advice from strangers off the interweb when it comes to making a decision."
Good advice, but I'm not sure I should take it, lol |
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"Same advice as always,dont ask for advice from strangers off the interweb when it comes to making a decision.
Good advice, but I'm not sure I should take it, lol"
Only on a thursday when there is an r in the month |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been a member here for less than a month and had 3 meets 
What's your secret"
I've been lucky I guess, but I don't worry if I get turned down.
Some will, some won't, so what. That's my motto lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would stay because sods law would be the second you go... an asian single fem will be asking to meet...
whatever you decide, enjoy and be happy"
Ha ha the elusive asian fem that will be day |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
Rushden |
I also believe this is a "look at me" post! Since when has "thinking aloud" involved sitting down at a PC, turning it on, signing into a web site and pressing the link for "Post a New Topic"?
5 Months and two meets? Know of guys on here who would be glad of that record! This is not your PPS! (personal pussy stash) everyone has the right to meet who they want and not just meet you because you are after the sympathy vote!
WE both think that you are a chancer and as such, you should go!  Try the pub/club on a saturday night, you should have much more luck... 
(Harsh but fair! IMHO) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been a member here for less than a month and had 3 meets
No one likes a show off! 
Wasn't showing off honest, I think these things come in peaks and troughs  "
I know: hence the smiley's |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"why am i not surprised lol! oh i know why the simalar threads youve posted regularly before ....
look forward to the next time you think out loud ...lol!"
Yeah, went away for a week and came back, saw this and got deja vu! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been a member here for less than a month and had 3 meets
No one likes a show off!
Wasn't showing off honest, I think these things come in peaks and troughs
I know: hence the smiley's "
Thick Yorkshireman here  |
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"I've been a member here for less than a month and had 3 meets
No one likes a show off!
Wasn't showing off honest, I think these things come in peaks and troughs
I know: hence the smiley's
Thick Yorkshireman here "
thick huh mmmm!! you boasting again hun?? wink ! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"youve had meets which is more then alot of single guys on here who arent married , so you are way ahead of the curve ! being honest you being married will automatically rule you out off alot of ppls radar but still hasnt held you back .as i say lot of single guys still to have their first meet after months of being on here so you havent got anything to whine about .
as for weather you should go or stay , are you exspecting a whole flood of messages begging you to stay?or suddenly an inbox full of mail from fems begging to meet as they cant bear the thought of the site with out you ? if so sorry but youll be disapointed . weather you go or stay the site and the people on it will go on regardless ,people leave and join all the time and none of it makes one jot of difference to majority of folks on here .its up to you what you want to do no one else .if you were actually serious about leaving and not wanting to get attention you would of just left already .i would say though there are far more posative ways of getting noticed on here.
Ha ha thanks for your advice.
I'm not trying to get noticed and I'm not that stupid to think people will be upset if I leave I'm mearly thinking out loud and as this is a forum then why not open my thoughts to the floor but thank you anyway.
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PMSL!!!
Something's just been chucked out of yer pram... oh sorry, here...is this your dummy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been a member here for less than a month and had 3 meets
No one likes a show off!
Wasn't showing off honest, I think these things come in peaks and troughs
I know: hence the smiley's
Thick Yorkshireman here
thick huh mmmm!! you boasting again hun?? wink ! x"
Haha err no, I'm thick as in stupid although you'd have to see the other to judge for yourself xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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whats a dry spell i cant be that lucky surely that i dont get them. im fussy as well will only meet a certain type of guy.
stick with it change your profile a little |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"whats a dry spell i cant be that lucky surely that i dont get them. im fussy as well will only meet a certain type of guy.
stick with it change your profile a little"
How do you suggest I change my profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"whats a dry spell i cant be that lucky surely that i dont get them. im fussy as well will only meet a certain type of guy.
stick with it change your profile a little
How do you suggest I change my profile"
change wording a little. try doing updates. ask naughty questions in the forum getting us women interested |
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